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Hi, I'm 13 and female of course. This may sound weird but when I put a tampon in in my bedroom, I squat and put one leg off to the side. Then, when I put the tampon in and actually push it in, I feel like it is pushing against something inside my vagina. I don't know if its my uterus/cervix or something but it feels weird just for a few minutes after it is in. Is there something wrong with that? P.S. I am well experienced with tampons and use them very often. Please help me if you know why this is!
Are you still a virgin? If so this could be what wrong.Did it hurt? If so this all points to you were pushing that thin skin in the wall of your vagina. you might want to call a doc because if you are using tampon on the reg why are you having trouble now? Hope I helped.
About 4 years ago I cheated on a guy I know, it was wrong of me but ever since then I've been labled as a 'playa', and I have a boyfriend now for 2 years and people keep telling him I'm gonna cheat on him and just wait and see he'll get his heart broken, but that's the furthest thing from the truth I love him and would never want to hurt him, but what hurts me is that he never defends me, when people say these things he just laughs and takes it and when we fight he says 'yeah I should have listened to those people' is it wrong that he never defends me?
I'm 19 and he's 21
Hi,
I''m 15 and NOT a child but here's my two cents.
Everybody has already said what needs to be said but they seem to have forgot this: you stay with him And then he breaks up with you? that might look really bad.
you might put those people in there place. Don't worry so what you did it once? But you know you were wrong. The only way you can become a true player(or playa)is if you do it over and over...
But what you do is what you do.
What I mean is they should not be able to just go and put there little two cents in. I now see why My mom hates Facebook.
Me and my boyfriend has been dating for about 3 years. His behavior has changed alot and lm confused because I don't kno whether to stay or leave. He used to be open to me and communicate with as well as always be there for me. But now its like he doesnt even care at all about this relationship. We haven't seen each other in almost 3 months as well as have sex with each other in 3 months and we live about 15 minutes away from eachother. Everytime I ask him questions about the relationship he always says "idk" or gets mad I even try to tell him how I feel but I don't think he care about that either. I know he loves me and but his actions shows something else. What should I do? Should I move on or try to work something out?
Time to move on bab. the other guy said it all.
Hi, I'm 19/f
my whole life, I have been to maybe 5 different churches, and for some reason, I just feel as if church isn't for me. I find it very boring.
I believe in God to the fullest, but sometimes I have my questions, and of course, everyone's answers are going to be different depending on their beliefs.
But within the 5 churches I have been too, I have got many different answers regarding the following question:
DO YOU HAVE TO BE BAPTISED TO GO TO HEAVEN?
I have heard, Yes, you do; and I have heard no you don't, as long as you believe you have a right into God's Kingdom.
Personally, I believe that IF God is as mightly and loving as others make him out to be, than shouldn't he know who believes in him, and who doesn't? Why does baptism give you the pass to Heaven? Why can't believing just be enough??
I have never been baptised, but I have been saved. I pray to God; not just when I want something, but to let him know that I appreciate the things he has given me, and letting me live another day.
Everyone tells me to 'read the bible' but personally, I don't want too. How did God write the bible when he didn't have anything to use? Idk where it came from, who really wrote it, or even if it is true.
Is it wrong for me to have all these questions and these doubts? Does that make me a non believer?
My father told me to talk to a priest, but honestly, I won't get a solid answer, and I feel as if I'll be wasting my time. No one knows the REAL truth about any of it.
Sometimes I question if there is a Heaven or a Hell. How do we really know if they are real; has anyone died and came back and said, 'Man, Heaven is amazing; or Hell is hot as fire!"
I feel so guilty questioning this- but I'm just curious.
SOrry for the length.
No you don't HAVE to be a Baptised. Believing is enough. As long as you are saved.And have doubts does not make you a non- believer.Being a non- believer. Being a non- believer means you don't believe. yes there is a heaven and hell. if you read your bible some has went to heaven and came back. don't ask who. it been a long time since i heard that story. no you don't have to go to church
im 17/f. i meet this guy a few days ago, he is amazing. seriously everything ive been waiting for and more, the best thing is he feels the same way. He is very religious but, not that ,that's a bad thing so am i. but last night he told me it would be unwise to date me cause im not catholic. he isnt a virgin and either am i, yet he wants to wait till marriage for sex. im not against that, i actually like it. but he thinks because i dont have the same religious views as him that he couldnt date me, cause i dont have the same views on marriage ( he dates people he intends to marry ) i really like him, and i dont want to be discharged because of my beliefs... what do i do?
Um HELLO??! This guy wants to dump because your not a catholic??! And you want to hold on to him? My Mom is a christian and I think I might be one my self. But I would still date a catholic. But don't feel bad I have meet a few catholic. I'm not saying ALL are like that but some think that it's there way or no way. And that if your not a catholic they think that they should not even talk to you. I should know.... I know a very bitchy catholic family that lives down the street from me.To bad that there big jerks because one of there son it really cute :)
Any way if he does not want you don't feel bad. You can do better. But if he says sorry and want to give it a other shot that fine if you want to. Good Luck
P.S.
I'm going to give you a red warning sign. Talking about sex and marriage only a few days after meeting needs a red warning sign.
is it necessary to have sex before wedding??? does it help in maintaining strong bond between two???
No! If you want to wait till after the wedding to have sex that's fine. If you want to do it before that fine also. Just make sure that he\she is not pushing you into it. When it happen it should be enjoy able to both of you. Not one doing because the other says so or they think it will help maintain a strong bone. If you feel that your not ready and the other person it so unhappy it to the place where he\she is ready to leave you there not right for you.
i went on a date with a really cute and older guy.
we got drinks- the first one he paid for and the second he culdnt afford and had to awkwardly ask me to pay for it myself.
he didnt mean anything by it it was a honest he couldnt afford to buy mea drink! hes a waiter and doesnt have a lot of money at moment, so its understandable- however i am still turned off.
OTHER than that we had an AWSOME time but i cant get over how he couldnt afford to pay for my 8$ drink.
i told him it was werid and he owes me.
am i weird for thinking this is such a red flag? i really like him but im insulted by how he asked me to pay!
I don't mean to be rude but you both are over doing it. Okay he could not buy you a 8$ drink. Is this the first time? If so you should leave it be. Now if he does this again THEN that when you should start talking. And a 3 time. Stated looking for some one else. But for a first time he did that I think you are over doing it. Only because he's a waiter I'm a saying that. If he had a better paying job then I would be saying you tell him off girl!And if you most say something let it be something like: I like men who plain there money. I did not like what you did with your money the last time. I hope you plain better this time because I did not come with plains to pay. For ANYTHING!
Waiter do not get much. Most of then only get payed what there tip. Some might get 10$ a week or something like that. So when you said you under stand I don't think you did. I'm not saying you don't have the right to be turn off(a little)I'm just saying..if this is the first time this is not a "red flag" .
my girlfriend is a virgin and she scared to have sex with me because shes scared her parents find out and shes still 15 , tell me some ways to convince her into having sex with me please
What in the hell is wrong with you. No means no jerk!
Okay, well when I was about 10 my brother started playing with me. I mean in my vajaja. Well, as I got older it started to give me more and more pleasure. Well, he told me to get on the floor with him one night and he 69 it. Meaning I had to give him a blow job and he started liking and tounging my vajaja. I think its wrong but don't want my parents to find out and I have to get birthcontrol pills and the doctor looks down there! Please HELP!!!
This is soooo Wrong!Were is this world coming to?!!!
I take it that you are not 18. That the age to have sex. Not 10 not however old you are now if your under 18. So like everyone said that is against the law. If I were you I would tell. But you don't want you mom and dad to know right? So I just tell him that you were going to tell IF he did not stop.I think that he's sick somewhere in his mind. If you told he could get help. But yes he would go to jail. I think that deep down you want this to stop, that your not enjoying it that much.Or why would have you ask for help? So now it is up to you honey. Don't let this get you down. june
Okay, well I am a 13 year old who is really developed. So I went to a water park and me this guy named Jordan. Well, I didn't even know him before today. So a couple hours after I met him, we started to hold hands. But, Jordan wanted more than holding hands. He wanted to kiss me. Well, he kept trying to talk me into it. He tried touching my boobs to get me to do it. Well, I ended up doing it. He was a good kisser....................... But I want to know if it sounds like he just likes me for my boobs and butt. Or if he really likes me. Please help me figure it out! Thanks a lot! (:
he is more in to your boobs/butt then you. If you see him again I would not talk to him.I think that every one who answer this question think that he was moving WAY to fast for the first day.Boobs touching should not start till the 6th to 8th mouth. You need to get to know whoever your with at the time a little better. This boy was to get to know your body not you a little better. And always remember: No mean's no. Not a boy you want to be with if he try's to go on after you have said NO.
Hey everyone, I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and 3 months and I know you hear people say this all the time, but I really do love him. A while ago we got into a political discussion about electric fences around the perimeter of countries to keep out immigrants. I disagree with this idea and made this known to him. He however, said he thought it was a good idea. When I asked him if it was right for a child to innocently attempt to get into the country, get shocked and die, he responded 'you have to crack some shells to make an omelette'. This really shocked and upset me.
He has quite a dominating father and two brothers which he's always had to compete with. He is also a little insecure from some childhood difficulties. These reasons are why I think he might be saying things like this as part of his tough guy act.
However, I have an obsessive personality and I just want to feel better about this because the topic is very central to my personal beliefs, and although I love him unconditionally, it would tear me up to think he believed in such atrocities.
He's a loving boyfriend and wonderful person and has always been there for me. What are your thoughts on the situation and what should I do?
Like she said you might just want to let this be. If I was in your shoes I'd be upset to. But this is just what he thinks right? He not in over seeing this(meaning he can't really do what he think)right?As long as he can't do any of this or hurt any one just leave him be. However if this is his "tough guy act" you need to make him drop it. He should not have to act tough guy around you..let him know that. I believe in being real with one an other. I'd like to know what he really thinks when he not putting on an act. You know him better then I do so you should try to see if it an act or not.If it is you know what I think. If not leave it be.If I have something to say I'm going to say it, I don't know about you but I some time like to go out of my way so we don't fight.
Hope I help,
June
my cousin is 10/f
she has 2 flippin' bfs!!!
i told her that she is to young to date and that she should break up with at least ONE bf. but she said she and her friend are sharing both of them and that she loves them both!
i dont know what to even say to her now,she young and she thinks that if i have a bf,am 14 btw, than it is ok to for her to have one.but she is very competitive! so now she has two!!!
any advise will be very greatful as soon as you can!
thanks!!
Like the other guy said..if she learns now and get hurt now when she your age and face with bigger things(like sex) she think back now and will be more likely to wait in till she ready.(and at 10 she not ready)However you don't want to get her too hurt because what we are when were kids help makes as up as we get older. So there for maybe just one boy friend for her to learn?(make sure that is the boy friend not just friend) Tell one of the boys about the other boy. Boy's like to be the one and the ONLY one. No matter if he;s 10 11 12 or so on.So with out saying one of the boys will make her take her pick. Try to set with the boy that you think would be more likely to fall.(try so it does not come out that you did this..I think you know why) This my sound mean but would you have her hurt by two boys or one? If this does not work that mean the boys are fine with thing now and you can not do anything(I don't thing that you she tell her Mom or Dad. This can be a learning thing)You most likely want to slap me. Put when you cool of I hope I help.
am 12 he 13. he wants sex, but i told him i was scared, he respects my response,but he keeps saying that he 'wants to fuck me bad.' the more he says it i want to, but am 12 dont know what to do.some advise???
If you said no then that what you mean.Tell him that if he doe not stop you will break up with him. If you were really ready for sex you would not be asking us. Wait instill you 18. maybe you be ready then. But only you know when you really ready. That's not now.
ok so.. im 14 , girl with light brown hair, light blue eyes, average weight, i wear glasses, people say i have a beautiful smile....i smile alot... i like this guy (14) .we have been friends for 2 years or so now we just see eachother in school. nothing has happened between us. i have started to like him A LOT but the problem is he is a total man whore and loves sluts,he also smokes. i dont really know if he likes me, but i always see him looking at me while we are in class and he is always teasing me in a fun way, my friends say he likes me but i dont know. i dont think he would ever like a girl with glasses..... does he like me too, and if so should i go out with him even though he likes sluts and smokes?
Here a nice little warning:DON'T DATE HIM!!!!!!!
Like the other person said you heading down the wrong path. I have seen first place the same thing happens and both bad and good relationships. You will start picking things up from him with out thinking. That's why you can't be friends with the wrong people.He has bad thing that would not be good to stat doing. Stop talking to him. stop joking with him just stop! I don't mean be rude to him. But he the wrong gut to date. Start looking at other guys.
P.S.
It sad to think that for a sec you would even think about dating a guy like him. You should go for more then him.
Ok so from November-March I dated this guy named Brendan, he was my first boyfriend ever and he is really sweet and funny and a gentleman and so nice and cute and he is practically like the total package. I broke up with him in March and decided I just wanted to be friends. A week later, this guy named Ryan asked me out and I said yes because Im nice and I dont want to reject people because I know what it feels like to be rejected so I didnt wanna make him feel bad. He was kind of the player-ish type and all my friends hate him, and told me that he would only hurt me. I didnt believe my friends when I should've. I broke up with him after he started flirting and cheating on me with other girls. He thinks we're still friends like me and Brendan though =/ Brendan and I reccently started talking more and I think I might like him again, I broke his heart though and I dont want to fall for him and have him break mine. Im scared to talk to him now... =/ I already created a bad reputation by dating Ryan... Help? I want to be his friend but I think Im falling for him again.
You never should have broke in the first place with Brendan(I hope that's not his real name and if it is never put a real name online.)I think that you need to talk. Tell this Ryan were you feel you friendships is. And from how your talking I take it that you don't want to have a friendship at all so tell him that. And don't tell him in around about way.... you want to make this clear so he can let you be. Tell it nice but truthfully. If he still does not stop tell your Mom Dad or whoever you have in your life that can put him in his place. As for Brendan ask if you two can go back to girl friend boy friend.And if he ask about Ryan tell him you just did not want to make him fell rejected(by the way never go out on a date just so you well not make a guy fell rejected.You can't worry so much about other people. Just don't be rude about it.)He might want to stay just friends. A break up hurts and well take time to make it better. Just like Ryan and you if Brendan does not want to be gf bf again back off. When he want to he well make the moves... he might still be hurt by you. Hope I helped.
Hey! I'm 13/female.
Last fall I dated this boy who we'll call J.(male/15), I knew him for four years before we dated,we broke up in December and got back together in January,broke up a week later. Last friday he asked me if I still liked him,I said I did,he told me he still likes me also but the next day he was talking to my bestfriend and said he thinks i'm too inmature and I saw him that night and it did NOT look like he was interested in me,(i'm just about in love with him btw) i've been talking to his bestfriend who we'll call O.(male/15 also),and it turns out his bestfriend likes me,O. asked me out and bad thing is that I've always been attracted to O.,I said yes and I think I messed up, O. say's J. still likes me. Here's the bad part, O. and J. are bestfriends,they both like me,I both like them, I dated J. and am now dating O.(not even 24 hours since he asked me out), O. is afraid of J. getting mad and thing is I like J. more, if I break up with O. though he could have hard feelings towards me and persuade J. to get over me, if I don't J. may never talk to me again though :P do you have any advice?! ALL IS APPRECIATED! Thanks for reading! -T.
For one thing stop use things like O,T and J. It makes it herd to understand. Just make up fake name like billy or something. I really think that you should try and go for J.Two reasons. One you like him more. Two you don't want a guy who would try to make j break up with you over his own jealous. So yes I would go for j. No one like a green guy. Good luck.
Well me and my really close friends have been close for a couple months and we hang out a lot i've slept over her house and she has an older brother who is in high school with us and he is really cute but I never really knew they were related till I slept over well this past time I slept over she fell asleep and I asked her what should I do she just said do whatever so I went to his (her brother) room and we were chilling and playing xbox and then things went a little far I ended up giving him oral sex and being half naked in his bed he dry humped me and fingered me am I a bad friend for doing this.? Should I tell her.?
People get a little mad when it come's to fam. and she was the one who said do whatever. But still I think it's best NOT to tell her. If she ask tell her the truth. Don't lie. And let this be the only time you really hide something from her.
P.S. if you think that he might tell her it's best to tell her before he tells her. it will look better.
My boyfriend is flirting with this girl that i really hate .. What do i do? he's doing it infront of me and crap and im pissed but not showing it.. Its awkward and weird and ugh! What shoudl i do?!?!?!?? Grrrr...
I think you should dump him because flirting to the beginning of cheating.No girl(or guy) should put up with that. And if you talk to him about it and he stop's then that might just been a way to get you mad. Maybe ( I would not but it up to you) give him an other time. That's IF he stop's. Just adding my two cent's. The other are right so you don't really need me.
Hey, I'm 20, my boyfriend is 19. We've been dating for a year. When I first met him I knew he was no good. I knew he was doing a lot of drugs but he told me that was his "past" and that he was ready to stop and move on. Our relationship was OK, I hadn't had a boyfriend in 4 years since my last boyfriend had been emotionally & physically abusive. My current boyfriend had a friend named Maria. I never liked her. She was always about the drugs, sex, and raves. I knew they were best friends but she was always trying to convince him to do drugs and I really needed him to stop. So I told him to choose. Either he picked a future with me or drugs with her. He said he picked me. Throughout the 2011 year I learned he was occasionally still doing drugs and talking to her. I flipped out & we'd break up. But only for a few days. The 2012 year had been going amazing for us though. He seemed as though he had changed and he was treating me so kindly. Then Maria contacts me and tells me she had sex with my boyfriend in 2011, we had broken up for 3 days, and he had sex with her. This tore my world up. I knew something was up and every time I asked him he would deny it. A few days ago he finally admitted to it. He told me he had been on drugs and wasn't thinking straight and he was "heartbroken" so he went looking for her and it happened. Then he said after wards he was so disgusted with himself that he didn't want to see her ever again. But he did. Like 3 more times. These 3 months have been great. But last year tore me apart. So now, I don't know what to do. Do I stay because I love him or do I leave because he never respected me to begin with. Oh yeah, he got syphilis from her & gave it to me.
He's hook on drug's and her. You made him pick. He pick you but has not been true to you. So why stay(other then the fact that you love him) if you stay I'm 99.9 sure that he's going to hurt you again. How muck can your heart take? Leave now so you will not have to know how far you can go.
So I rarely masterbate but I have never orgasmed because whenever I get close I starts to feel weird. I get past the peeing feeling but it almost hurts in a way. It's uncomfortable and not very good feeling. This is why i dont masterbate a lot too. Why is this? Thanks! :)
Are you a virgin? If you are it's going to hurt.