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need advice: We haven't seen each other in almost 3 months, and whenever I try to talk with him about things...
Me and my boyfriend has been dating for about 3 years. His behavior has changed alot and lm confused because I don't kno whether to stay or leave. He used to be open to me and communicate with as well as always be there for me. But now its like he doesnt even care at all about this relationship. We haven't seen each other in almost 3 months as well as have sex with each other in 3 months and we live about 15 minutes away from eachother. Everytime I ask him questions about the relationship he always says "idk" or gets mad I even try to tell him how I feel but I don't think he care about that either. I know he loves me and but his actions shows something else. What should I do? Should I move on or try to work something out?
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I would just run up and hug him and tell him you love him and miss him
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Have you tried asking him what's wrong ? Maybe deep inside , he's fightint an inner battle and looks to me as if he doesn't mean what he says . If he really loves you , then you should be appreciated buddy , not the other way around . If he really doesn't care about you or the choices you made anymore , then move on . Tell yourself that you do not deserve to be treated in such a way because everyone has a heart , you know that . To me , it's time for you to be independent and move on , stand up alone . Actions are the evidences to the words of love but unfortunately , i can't even see it . Real love doesn't hurt , it instead comforts your soul and brings you along the hardship and enjoyment of life . The ones that hurt are truth and lies . It might be hard at the beginning , but move on . Time'll pass and everything happens for a reason in this life .
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Time to move on bab. the other guy said it all.
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This isn't a relationship It's non-functional and you are
In limbo. Look, if someone lives 15 minutes away
And supposedly loves you but hasn't spoken to you in
3 months it's long been over.
He's being an A-hole for dragging this out and not telling you why he's being this way. Something isn't right and it's clear you need to tell him that and move on. The current situation isn't fair to you. He knows bloody well why the shitty treatment of you so his idk what's wrong assertion is bs. As much as you love him you don't need the aggravation and deserve better.
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