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I think I like my ex =/
Ok so from November-March I dated this guy named Brendan, he was my first boyfriend ever and he is really sweet and funny and a gentleman and so nice and cute and he is practically like the total package. I broke up with him in March and decided I just wanted to be friends. A week later, this guy named Ryan asked me out and I said yes because Im nice and I dont want to reject people because I know what it feels like to be rejected so I didnt wanna make him feel bad. He was kind of the player-ish type and all my friends hate him, and told me that he would only hurt me. I didnt believe my friends when I should've. I broke up with him after he started flirting and cheating on me with other girls. He thinks we're still friends like me and Brendan though =/ Brendan and I reccently started talking more and I think I might like him again, I broke his heart though and I dont want to fall for him and have him break mine. Im scared to talk to him now... =/ I already created a bad reputation by dating Ryan... Help? I want to be his friend but I think Im falling for him again.
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well first off when someone asks you out i wouldnt just say yes to say yes because you might get a repuation of being desperate and all your doing is making him think you like him, when your just doing it because you feel bad.
and with your ex situation, i wouldn't start anything if i were you, but if he wants to i would totally go for it. don't text him, have him text or call you and ask to hang out. and don't be flirty unless he is to you then be flirty but a little less than him. you don't want to show him your starting to like him again because he may not want to have anything to do with you at the moment.
when you guys are talking laugh and smile, and do cute half smiles and if he teases you or something and says "i know you like me" or something like that, make it into a joke and say something like "how did you know" and smile and shake your head and role your eyes cutely or something.
don't be to straight forward and let him make the first move because you broke his heart! let him come to you now.
and if he texts you dont be like "omg hey whats up
? what you doing? why arent you answering me? okay cool ignore me, thats fine" beaucse your going to annoy him, if he texts you (dont text him have him text you ) and in the middle of the convo he doesnt answer DONT send another text message beacuse that will show you care to much, and if you really want him to answer say something jokingly like "did you forget about me :( " or something like that aha
well i hope i helped! good luck, if you have any more questions just message me! :)
melissa
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If you like Brendan, then don't fight it, just let it happen. But talk to him, of course, and see where you all stand, and make sure it's really what you want before you get back with him. I would say that he is scared of having his heart broke again, but I'm sure you all can work it out. As for Ryan, I would let him know that you prefer not to be friends with him, because the way he done you. I hope this helps & things work out for you! (:
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You never should have broke in the first place with Brendan(I hope that's not his real name and if it is never put a real name online.)I think that you need to talk. Tell this Ryan were you feel you friendships is. And from how your talking I take it that you don't want to have a friendship at all so tell him that. And don't tell him in around about way.... you want to make this clear so he can let you be. Tell it nice but truthfully. If he still does not stop tell your Mom Dad or whoever you have in your life that can put him in his place. As for Brendan ask if you two can go back to girl friend boy friend.And if he ask about Ryan tell him you just did not want to make him fell rejected(by the way never go out on a date just so you well not make a guy fell rejected.You can't worry so much about other people. Just don't be rude about it.)He might want to stay just friends. A break up hurts and well take time to make it better. Just like Ryan and you if Brendan does not want to be gf bf again back off. When he want to he well make the moves... he might still be hurt by you. Hope I helped.
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