Okay, since I've been with my boyfriend, his ex has been harassing me.
Threatening to kill me, late phone calls, prank calls, throwing harsh sentences as she goes down the hall.
We took it to the principal, more than once, he never done a thing.
I had to spend the last three days of my sisters senior year at the house while she still went to school.
This summer she's even egged my boyfriends house, four times.
My mom went to file charges with the CDW.
My boyfriend ex is phycho, seriously. She'll never stop.
We've even called it truths, not once, not twice, but THREE TIMES!
And she just wont stop.
She's now accusing me of harassing her, saying i called her, then she asks for my number, she's just wanting an excuse.
Its gotten so bad, that mom and dad are threatening to change schools if I don't do something about it.
I would fight her, but the truth is, I'm afraid of the embarassment of getting whooped.
Please help...if you need more info I'll be happy to give.
Honestly it sounds like it's getting pretty serious. When she calls just don't answer. I think it's elevated to the level where you can take it to the police. Verbal harassment is one thing, but the amount of times she's egged the house can be considered a physical act. I'd suggest you and your boyfriend go to the police and, if necessary, have a restraining order put on her.
She sounds pretty crazy, and it's only a matter of time until she starts getting dangerous.
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14/f
lots of people have been telling me the my bf wants to take it to the next level..but i keep denying it to them....hes really sweet and really hot...when my friends and i got done with weights we asked if we could get a ride home from him and he said ok so we waited till he was done with weights in the car. It was 10 min to wear i texted him"hurry up plz" and i found out is phone was in his middle department thingy or whatever(the thing between the driver and passenger seat...so i open it and see a condom in there right next to his cellphone!!!what do i do?hes 16
I would say it's only a problem if he's been forcing you, pressuring you, or if there's been definite suspicions (oxymoronic as that sounds) of him cheating.
If not, it's not too much to worry about. You could ask him why that's there if you want, but if you trust him and he's not badgering you to have sex, then you might want to avoid that possibly awkward situation. Truth is, most guys just carry condoms around on a regular basis. Doesn't mean they're getting any, or are planning to, it's just almost like a carrying card that says "I'm a man!" for them.
So in short, that's probably just been there for quite sometime. However, if he shows signs of wanting sex and force, then there's a problem that needs to be confronted.
And just out of curiousity, why are your friends so sure that he wants to have sex with you? Is it because he said something or they heard something? Or is it just becuase he's a little bit older?
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I really dont know what masterbate is can u please tell me!
Thx
Umm it's sexually pleasuring yourself.
I'm not going to tell you how it's done or anything like that, I'll let you figure that out on your own.
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Okay so my boyfriend recently broke up with me because I refused to have sex with him. My best friend has a class with him and he is constantly flirting with her.The bad thing about is that she has a boyfriend and the though of my ex trying to get her to cheat makes us mad.I feel giving him a peace of my m ind,but I don't want to be rude yet I have no idea how to tell it in a nice way.What should I do?
Well you have a right to be mad. And he's lucky that you're decent enough to actually want to remain civil despite what he did. You could just tell him up front that you (as well as your friend) do not appreciate him flirting with her. And if he reacts harshly - then just give him a piece of your mind no matter how rude it sounds. He deserves it for being such a shallow jerk anyway.
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I had sex without a condom and shes on the pill I didnot cum inside her. However, she missed a pill this mouth will she get pregnant.
No one can say if she definitley will or will not, but yea it's a possibility. If you miss even just one month of not being on the pill it could happen, regardless if you didn't "cum" inside her, because there still is such a thing as "precum" which can cause her to get pregnant.
Not being on her pill can also mess up her cycle and make it difficult for her to even know when she's supposed to get her period.
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In the movie Happy Gilmore what's the song that plays when the movie first starts and when the movie ends like where they all get out of the car to celebrate. Thanks! (There's no singing in the song)
Lovee that movie! I know which song your talking about, but idk the name or anything. But you could check this out and see if any of these are it:
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0116483/soundtrack
Hope this helps! =)
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i was wondering do u anyplaces where they would hire a 13 year old to work or something or no?or would i just have to baby sit or something
need help
and your advice
most places usually don't hire unless the person's 14 or older, but that doesn't mean you won't be able to find something. baby sitting would be one of your best options, or doing odd jobs around your neighborhood. you could also try working at certain stores and such, even though you're young that doesn't mean they won't hire you. sometimes they prefer to so they won't have to pay as much. as long as you have your working papers it shouldn't be a problem, just see first if any of the places have an age limit.
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okay so first things first, don't preach to me about how i shouldn't be doing bad things blahh blahh, just answer the question. so about a month ago i got caught with a lighter, and a shot glass, kcool. everything was back to normal with my family in a matter of hours. then, like a week after my mom found my pipe and rolling papers, everything was back to normal and i was allowed to go out again that weekend. but, the day i went out, i got brought home by the police at like 4am. my family's acting normal again like nothing happened, but i'm afraid to ask to go out anymore, do you think they'll let me do stuff anytime soon?
Are they usually leniant with you about things like that, or is this something new? Because if it seems like out of nowhere they're not caring about what you do then they might just be letting you make your own mistakes letting you learn on your own. You've already been in trouble with the police -- what more could they do or say? Maybe they're hoping that if you get in serious enough trouble with the law then you'll learn your lesson.
I know you said not to "preach" about how you shouldn't be doing bad things, but if you're concerned about being "afraid" to ask to go out then maybe you should clean your act up. What you're doing is probably hurting them, even if you don't realize it.
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Ok, i have a paul mitchell straightner and it works good but my hair is really thick and it gets it straightned but sometimes it still leaves it poofy. Well my friend got a new straightner from walmart and used it on my hair and it works really good! My hair was so flat and straight. The paul mitchell straightner was kind of expensive and the one from walmart was cheap and it worked bettter. Why is this? Also, is there any straigtners you know of that are between 20-50 dollars that work well? thanks!
It might have been the way she used it. I had this wet-to-dry straightener I used on my hair and it barely got my hair straight, even when it wasn't that wet. Then one day my friend did it for me (when it was completely wet) and she got it to come out pin straight. I always have problems straightening my own hair, so that could be a possible cause.
I'd also suggest buying some products to use while you straighten your hair. Paul Mitchell probably has a straightening spray you can use while you use the straightener, which really does help a lot. Then when you're done there are sprays and such that "hold" the hair and make it stay straight so it won't puff up throughout the day or because of humidity and such.
Lastly, I have a straightener that works fairly well and it's just a little Conair one. I think it only cost me about $30, or maybe even less. I got it at Harmon or Duane Reade or someplace like that. (Also if you're interested the wet-to-dry straightener was by Remington and cost about the same.)
Hope this helps! :)
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15/f
Right now i am "talking" to this really cute popular guy that goes to my school. I'm really excited and everything but there are some problems i don't know what to do about.
Problem 1- He has a lot of girls that are his best friends and he talks to them about us and sometimes the conversations we exchange. I mean, i don't care if he has a lot of friends that are girls but sometimes i don't want the stuff we say or do for them to know. Also, the first time we started "talking" he called his friends and told them only 5 minutes after we did and they all called me and were like "aww, you guys are talking now?" I can't tell him about this because i am just now getting to know him and i really do like him and i don't want to scare him away.
Problem 2- I haven't ever been kissed before and he found that out and he was talking to one of his friends (leads back to problem one) and she called me and she was like "you don't care if he kisses you right?" I really don't care but i have never found a guy that i want to kiss. I am very unexpierienced and let's just say he is very expierienced. I don't care but his friend which is one of my friends to kind of said that if we date, we will be doing a lot of kissing.
Problem 3- I don't know how to make out and i really do like this guy and we will probably make out if we start dating.
Problem 4- Even though there are some problems so far i still like him and i don't feel like i am giving him emough clues that i like him. He dosen't call me everyday and that's okay but i think he thinks i don't like him that much so i want to give him hints or clues so he knows. Can you give me any clues on how to do this?
I'm really sorry about how long this is but i really need your help. Please help me on each problem. Thanks so much!
Well for the first problem, if anything I think you should feel flattered that he's willing to talk about you to other people -- esp. girls. It's almost as if he's letting them know that's he's ready to get "off the market" and with you. But if there's anything "private" that you don't feel comfortable about him telling people, you could just let him know that. Maybe bring it up like "so and so said...blah blah and it's really nice that you talk about me, but I'd feel more comfortable if you kept some things between us..."
Problem 2 - I keep seeing this all over the place about someone being unexperienced and wants to kiss a guy who is, basically just DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT. If he goes in for the kiss, just go with the flow! If anything his top lip will touch your bottom lip and vice versa so just keep that in mind and GO WITH IT. Since he already knows you won't have to worry about him "finding out" when he kisses you (which guys usually don't anyway) and plus that hasn't detered him from wanting to kiss you, so there's really no cause for concern!
Problem 3 - Pretty much the same as number 2, JUST GO WITH THE FLOW. It won't be bad at all. The more you kiss him the more you get used to it, and then making out will just come naturally.
Problem 4 - Just be you and let him know that you're happy to be talking to him. If he seems to be flirting, don't be shy and flirt back. Any time he hints at liking you just give it right back to him. And don't worry about him not calling you everyday - that's not a problem. Since you guys aren't dating yet you can't expect that from him (heck some guys you can't even expect that from if you are dating them, lol). And maybe let those girls that talk to you know that you're interested as well, and hopefully they'll put in a good word for you :).
Hope this helps, and I hope everything works out between the two of you! =)
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Okay, this is really long but I'm in desperate need of help so please take 5 min to help me.
I'm 16/f and I screwed up big time and it took me too long to realize what I've done. Long story short, I've really hurt my family by lying to them, deceiving them, and hiding things from them since 8th grade (and right now is the summer after 10th grade). I realized that I need to get myself together and stop doing whatever I want to do without thinking that there won't be any consequences. I told my mom I was sorry over a million times. I wrote her a front and back 3 page note telling her the things I realized & the way things are going to be and that I'll change not just for the family but for myself as well. But I've done that in the past without really meaning it and my mom completely ignored the note and is still really mad at me. And to make things worse, she and my dad are fighting because of me, well not the root cause but the triggering factor is me.
I don't know what else I can do to make up to her. A sorry and doing household chores isn't working. I am going to cut off all connections from people who haven't been the best influences in my life and people that I snuck out with resulting in me hurting my parents.
Also, my mom strongly believes (which means that no matter what, I won't be able to convince her otherwise) that I am taking ballet and became a vegetarian because of a girl (who she despises) made me do so. As silly as that sounds, this whole big fight is mainly over that one girl. But the problem is that I've wanted to take ballet for 5 years now and the only reason I didn't was because of money problems. And I wanted to be a vegetarian since 8th grade because of the animal cruelty and the fact that I don't and never really liked meat in the first place. And this is all before I met that girl. But I can't convince my mom of that so I was planning to tell her that if it hurts her so much and causes her so much troubles, I'll give up ballet and take ballroom dance with a guy that my mom adores and wishes I'd go out with or take jazz classes instead (I need some kind of dancing for school) & I was going to give up my vegetarianism (as much as the thought of me eating meat makes me nauseous) which means that I'll eat whatever she cooks even if it has meat or animal broth in it but does not mean that I'll be eating meat/chicken/fish chunks out of the dishes (which I'm afraid to add on because she might think that I really don't mean giving up my vegetarianism).
This is how serious I am about wanting to fix all the problems I made. I really am passionate about ballet and vegetarianism. I know that I can't fix it in one day or anything but what else can I do?
I really am sorry, perhaps more sorry than anyone can ever be. I want to change and become a better person and stop causing my family so much problems but it's getting harder and harder. I miss my mom's voice and her laugh and her hugs and I just want things to go back to better times. I don't know what to do.
I'm really sorry that you're going through this, but at the same time I think your parents need to relent just a bit. You've been really mature in doing all you can to change, and I think one of the best things you did was write your mom that note. I'm not sure what happened in the past that has hurt your family, but I think showing this much maturity when you're only 16 is a big step. Most of the people I know didn't start acting rebellious until that age.
If you want my honest opinion, I really don't think you should give up ballet or being a vegetarian. You're passionate about both and giving them up will just depress you. And what if that still doesn't change your parents minds? Then they'll be upset as well as you. You can tell her that you'd be willing to give them up if need be, but I think that if that still doesn't convince her you shouldn't even bother. Try to make them happy in other ways (maybe by befriending that boy you mentioned) and doing other things she might have mentioned in passing, but don't give up on what you believe in or are passionate about. And in reference to the ballet, maybe also try stressing how it's not only something you like but also fulfills a requirement you need.
If only they could see how willing you are to make them happy like we can, maybe they'd understand. I just think that they're being too stubborn about this. You've been doing all you can, I think it's time for them to be mature and realize that.
I really hope everything works out for you =)
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I have recently been hired at a grocery deli, at first i fit in pretty good because of my extensive experience. Throughout the last 6 weeks I have been noticing disturbing food handling habbits of my coworkers. Neglecting to wash their hands after taking money,not cooking foods to propper doneness, not keeping hot foods hot and cold foods cold. In fact whole refrigerator units were down and still shelved with perishables, some of which had been outdated for MONTHS!!!!!
i mentioned the things i noticed to my deli manager dicreatly and respectfully, reminding her of the dangers of food bourne illness. She blew me off repeatedly telling me our units were on defrost, that all stores have missed dates.
i wasnt sure what to do! Then one day I saw my boss herself and a coworker preparing catering trays. When thay were finished they stored these catering trays on top of juicy boxes of raw poultry items in our walk in cooler. shortly after this, I myself pulled a cart load of out dated food expired for 2 whole weeks and still on the sale floor. I made suggestions, only to be made fun of by my boss and others in the department. I was so upset about the food hanling issues in our department i expressed them to the department second who told me if I was that upset about it to talk to the store manager. I did just as she suggested. The store manager was irritated with my presence and didn't believe me. So I photgraphed what I could that day.Word got out I was keeping records of poor food handling habbits and customer complaints about expired food, and raw deli product that had left the store with our customers. The store manager took my camera and said he was going to have the photo's I took developed as a store expense. It has been two whole weeks, I have been made fun of, isolated and patronized as a result of my concern for the general publics health, and my Boss has yet to say a word about the evidence I compiled as proof of my testimony. Nothing is changing behind the scenes, In fact i just pulled another cart full of expired food from a coworkers assigned table, some of which was dated dated to be pulled in june of 2008, and this is the end of july 2008. My question here is, what can I do from here? I need this job, i cant quit and as a moral issue, I cant exacly allow it to continue.
Obviously it's going to be difficult to regain credibility for one main reason: you're actually a decent person who cares about public health and the general well being. You sound like you're the most responsible person in that place and if anything you should be the manager. And because of your extensive background in the field you obviously know what you're talking about. If I were you I'd start looking for a new job now, just as a fallback option. By no means should you stop doing what you're doing, because it's the public's right to have their food handled properly. I honestly can't believe your manager is so stupid (to put it bluntly) as to not listen to you when what you're doing is, essentially, trying to save their asses. If word got out what was going on they could risk losing their jobs or getting fined. You're just trying to help them and you don't deserve to be treated that way. Keep watching what's happening and keeping track of it while searching for a new job. If they don't relent, then hopefully you can find a new place to work and leave them behind. Then, if you really want to go out with a bang, tell the Board of Health what goes on there. I'm sure they'd love to know, and then maybe your manager won't be so quick to blow off someone's concerns.
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My friend and I are trying to remember a song from about 2-4 years ago. It's an emo song where it's a guy lead singer, but we can't seem to remember the group.
The guy in the video is dead and walking around as a ghost, or is still alive and walking beside his girlfriend. We think that in the video, they were involved in a car accident or something. Part of the chorus is shouted, and there's a part more towards the end of the song where the singer says "I miss you" and repeats it about 2-3 times.
It's a dark video, I think one of them (the guy or the girl) is in an ambulance at one point, and the guy is singing the song to the girl. I can't seem to remember which one was alive or dead, cuz I didn't pay much attention to the song back then. Please help, it's racking our brains!
I know it's not Dashboard Confessional or Taking Back Sunday or anything like that. I think Coheed and Cambria kind of sound like the guys from this song, but it's not them. Any help would be great! Thanks!!!
I'm almost positive it's The Quiet Things That No One Knows by Brand New.
Is this the video?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aMJIc9USE2U
=)
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I would go to speak in spanish, but I dont know maybe no person speak spanish here, but I am searching for good pop spanish songs, with the good melody. Songs I like are like Coleccionista de canciones por Camila, enrique iglesias, reik, and good pop bands like similar above. Ok, thankyou.
Anything by Adventura or Ivy Queen is good.
And a lesser known artist who I've just heard and like is Malverde.
I'd suggest checking out anything by them =)
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okay so you guys know the song by medic droid, i forgot what it was called.
but at the beginning it talks about jeffree star but just at the very beginning
and it goes JKJKJK LOLOLOL i heart your effing makeup oh my god i love your hair
i could look it up in a second
but where do you get it? i dont go on limewire and the song wasnt on itunes
and i dont want to be illegal so yehhh :D
I think it might be on Myspace, they're pretty big myspace stars, or their official website.
FER SURE MAYBE FER SURE NOT FER SURE EH FER SURE BOMB!!!!
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I needs some new good rap/hip-hop songs...
not the ones that are on itunes top 100 please.
i have all the new ones like
lolli lolli (pop that body)
disturbia
a milli
dangerous..
i have all the "big songs"
i want new ones that not a lot of people have heard of please =) thanks
a few that I like...
Top Back - T.I.
Swing - Savage
Move, Shake Drop - Flo Rida w. Sean Kingston and Pitbull (it's a remix)
In the Ayer - Flo Rida feat. Will-I-Am.
Robo Tech - Hyper Crush
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does anyone know where i can find a yellow backpack. I want one like a jansport but I am pretty sure that jansport doesnt make a yellow one. if anyone knows of any websites or stores that for sure sell them i would really appreciate it.
thanks in advance :)
There's www.jansport.com, but I didn't see any yellow ones there.
I found this one on amazon though: http://www.amazon.com/Jansport-Superbreak-Yellow-Lavender-Backpack/dp/B001CEE342
http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/42114599/c/165186.html?zv=201'
While it's not completely yellow, it's still pretty friggin awesome and I'm kinda wantin it myself, lol.
I also found a few more solid yellow ones:
http://shopping.yahoo.com/s:Shopping:140637-Image%20Color=Yellow:4168-Brand=Jansport
and there should be some here as well: http://www.ebags.com/jansport/book_bags/category_search/index.cfm?N=4001%202008126&Nao=24
I hope this helps =)
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I'm going to be 16 in September. I'm having irregularty in my period but I thought after a couple of years it will become more regular. Last year it was pretty much on the dot but this summer it hasn't. I've had my period since I was almost 12.
On May 18 I got my period and it was my normal 30ish days between each period. However my recent one was only 24 days after on June 16. Now it's July 27...much longer than a month and I still haven't recieved it. Last week I've recieved some blood and I'm still getting it. Any suggestions?
It does take quite some time before your period eventually regulates itself. Mine took a few years too. And so far it isn't too badly off, so that's also not bad. If anything I'd say it's just a result of your body still changing and developing and your period just trying to regulate itself. I would only get really concerned if the periods become more erratic and unregulated. As of now they are still within a decent time span of each other. But if it becomes a major problem then maybe have a gynocologist check it out to see if there's a bigger problem at hand.
EDIT: A heavy period is completely normal. Everyone gets those from time to time. It always varies.
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ok so im kind of confused
i had a cist on my ovaries...which ruptured from havinq sex..well i had a pee test done when i went to the hospital && they said i wasnt preqnant...that was about 10 days aqo
well ive had sex since then and im about 4 days late on my period,
i fiqured maybe i qot preqnant afterward, or maybe i wasnt far enouqh alonq for the preqnancy to show up on the test
But i dont know and i need advice and please only people who really know what they're talking about.
I just want to know if i could be pregnant, or if you think having the cist could have thrown my monthly cycle off balance?
I'm not entirely certain on this topic, so don't go by my word alone but I'll try to help as best as I can.
My friend has polycistic ovaries and she needed to go on birth control to regulate her periods - that said, it is possible that could have thrown your cycle off. It is also possible that it might have been too soon to tell at the time if you were pregnant or not. I think your best bet would be to take another pregnancy test, or visit the hospital again. Also, be careful with the cist. Are you currently on any medication for it? Because if not it might be best to be. And if you don't currently have a gynocologist you should DEFINITLEY see one, because that would be the best person to check you out and help you out in this situation.
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i have 4 brothers 1 of them is 18 and a total asshole he blames me on everything and is an idiot to my parents he is deaf and thinks he is special for that he tells my parents there stupid and horrible i dont know what im suppose to do to keep my parents from just becoming emotional any advice?
I can't really say why he acts that way, but I'm guessing that he feels that they're the cause of his problem. Was he born deaf? Or did he just develop it? It's a shame that he has that, but that doesn't in anyway justify him acting that way and treating you and your parents like that. He's 18, he's an adult, there's no reason for him to act like a child and blame things on you. How is he around your other brothers - and how old are they? If they are older maybe they can try to reason with him or set an example of how to act- though he is older and shouldn't need that now.
Obviously that must hurt your parents a lot and it's nice that you care about them. I suppose the best thing you can do is show them how much you care and love them and let them know that he doesn't mean it. Is it just because of his deafness that he feels that way, or are there other things bothering him in his life?
I hope he realizes that your parents are doing what they can for him and stops acting that way. And I hope the best for you and your family.
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