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RIOT for over 6 months now, how will it ever stop?????
Okay, since I've been with my boyfriend, his ex has been harassing me.
Threatening to kill me, late phone calls, prank calls, throwing harsh sentences as she goes down the hall.
We took it to the principal, more than once, he never done a thing.
I had to spend the last three days of my sisters senior year at the house while she still went to school.
This summer she's even egged my boyfriends house, four times.
My mom went to file charges with the CDW.
My boyfriend ex is phycho, seriously. She'll never stop.
We've even called it truths, not once, not twice, but THREE TIMES!
And she just wont stop.
She's now accusing me of harassing her, saying i called her, then she asks for my number, she's just wanting an excuse.
Its gotten so bad, that mom and dad are threatening to change schools if I don't do something about it.
I would fight her, but the truth is, I'm afraid of the embarassment of getting whooped.
Please help...if you need more info I'll be happy to give.
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Honestly, I've been and am going through kind of what you are. The only difference is it is with one of my ex best friends. She would call my house leaving threatening voice mails. Call my house at 2:00 in the morning when my dad has to leave for work at 4:00 a.m. She would post things about me MEAN things at that, on her myspace. She would go to my work tearing everything up out of spite & call my boyfriends house telling him to tell me to watch my back. At school, she would say things to me in the hallways & to all her friends. The sad part is, I let it get to me. I wasn't "scared" of her. But I guess the things she said just kinda hurt me. I didn't go to school for 3 months because of it. I would have turned her in to the police, but I felt as if that would just make it worse. So now, I've learned to just ignore her because I know I'm a good person & don't deserve all of that. I shouldn't be miserable because she wants me to be. So my advice to you, is just really ignore it. Eventually it will all pass over. I wouldn't normally give the advice to just ignore someone, but considering I've been in the same situation, it really does work. When she sees that she isn't getting to you or your boyfriend, she'll learn that she doesn't make a impact in your life at all. If ignoring her doesn't work after a month or two, then take it to the next level. Don't fight her, that will only make it worse. Because considering teenagers now days, whether you fight her or not your still going to be considered a wimp. If you lost the fight, she'd tell everyone she whooped you butt. If you won, she'd still tell everyone she whooped your butt. So you really can't win. The only thing you could really do is get a restraining order if things got way out of hand. If she came near you, she could be arrested. I hope everything works out & I'm always here if you need to talk about it more. GOOD LUCK! (:
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you should record the phone calls and bring them to the police. I would hate for you to have to leave a school because of her you know. It's not your fault she is doing this and you shouldn't have to be punished for it.
You need something to be solved and that is the only way for it to stop. you and your bf should do this. Do not threaten her...don't call her...let her call you...then she won't have any evidence that you were doing it to her.
hope I helped
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Don't need more info, you're really dealing with a phycho person or a mean demonic evel person, seem's to me like the best thing to do at this time and in the bad condictions things are is for you to move away to a place where she don't know where you are at, seem's she is the kind of person that would fallow you to where ever you go, the only thing that would help you if you move shoe's that you are trying to avoid a confrentation which might end up in serious trouble, or who knows how far she might go as fighting you, normally this kind of person's don't fight clean, she could use a weapon or something, i would move and try to avoid getting in trouble and having this bad record fallow you the rest of you're life, You do have a serious problem and you should try as hard as you can to keep away from a person like thisone. Go to the DA's office and speak to a agent and get advice from him on what to do, file charges if he recomends it, you are in danger, i guess you know that better then anyone else. Good Luck.
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Honestly it sounds like it's getting pretty serious. When she calls just don't answer. I think it's elevated to the level where you can take it to the police. Verbal harassment is one thing, but the amount of times she's egged the house can be considered a physical act. I'd suggest you and your boyfriend go to the police and, if necessary, have a restraining order put on her.
She sounds pretty crazy, and it's only a matter of time until she starts getting dangerous.
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