Aloha, guys. I am here to help anybody that needs some help, lol. My name's Caydee. It's prounounced like Katie. My cousin thought of the spelling. I hope I can help you guys out and if you wanna know some stuff about me, read on!
Favorites:
Color: Purple
Show(s): That 70's show, Full House, Saturday Night Live
Movie(s): 50 first dates, Ferris Bueller's Day Off
Store: Maurices
Game: Guess Who and SORRY!
Computer Game: The Sims
Musical: Les Miserables, West Side Story, Little Shop Of Horrors
Band: Rainy Day Ollie
Book: Any Princess Diaries book
Author: Joan Bauer and Meg Cabot
Okay, well now that you know some stuff about me, ask away because I am here to help everyone out.
E-mail: stars_n_bars17@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Wisconsin
Occupation: Student
Age: 13
AIM: Save Ferris7717
Member Since: January 2, 2005
Answers: 82
Last Update: June 20, 2005
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My 9 year old cousin is coming up tommorrow. Any ideas on how to amuse her for a few hours? I was thinking maybe giving her a little makeover, or something. (link)
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Hey, the makeover sounds like a fun idea. You guys could make up a story, one of those where you write one sentence and she writes the next. Then staple it together and make illustrations. You could also play fun games like Guess Who and Sorry. You could make bracelets too and picture frames. Cool things like that. You could also watch movies and T.V. together. Maybe even play sports like basketball and softball or something.
Just try to remember the stuff you did when you were nine. Maybe that will help you think of some fun ideas too. Hope I helped!
-Caydee
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Well I have a party on Friday and it is a pool party.. but I am also just starting my period... I know I can use a tampon.. but I am afraid it will leak.. will it? and should I use it? (link)
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Pool parties are fun! :) Anyways, just use a tampon. It will be fine. I've heard that water can help slow the flow too, but I don't know if thats true or not. It really shouldn't leak though, but defintely use it! It's the best thing to do for the pool party.Have fun (at the party, i mean)!
-Caydee
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Do yOU find anything wrong with A white girl and a Black guy being in-love dating, and wanting to get married?
please, share your oppinion, and support it!
I am open to hear both sides!
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I think nothing is wrong with that! It doesn't matter about skin color, age, hair color, whatever! It matters on how much you care for the person and how YOU really love them. That is what is most important.
-Caydee
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I've been trying to be a good singer lately. I went for lessons but they did absolutely nothing. I've been singing everyday after school for the past 3-4 years. It's the only time I can because I get embarassed. We had a school musical and when I had to sing to tryout, I choked. But before that, I sang for this girl that wanted to hear me and we both agreed I did good. So bottom line: How can I become a better singer and get over being afraid. (link)
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How long did you go for lessons? I've been taking them for almost 3 years now. At first I didn't realize how much my voice had improved, but then I really noticed that it did, so you shouldn't give up! It's okay that you choked, I get nervous too. I once screwed up for solo and ensamble once, but I still got a good rating. You should try listening to yourself on tape or in front of stuffed animals. I know it sounds stupid, but It has helped me. Also, drink plenty of water before singing and don't eat a lot because otherwise your voice could get screwed up when you sing around that time or whatever. Hope I helped you out. I'm a singer too and these tips help me out too.
-Caydee
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hey my lips are always dry and i dont know why. i have to lick them all the time to keep them wet. they arent chapt so i dont need chap stick, but what should i do? i rate high (link)
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This could be a sign that you need to drink more water, so I reccomend that you start drinking more because thats what I think is bothering your lips. You could also try chapstick, but I'm not very sure. Plus it'd be safe to just go with it, right? So pick up some carmex or something and start drinking because I am pretty sure that that is the problem because I get that dry lip stuff too sometimes. Hope I helped!
-Caydee
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my friend's mom has cancer and she really needs someone to relate to...if you have a myspace and have a mom suffering from cancer or a mom who you lost from cancer please give me the link to your site so i can have her talk to you.
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Well my mom didn't or ever have cancer, but when I was about 6 she got really sick. She has a problem with her arms called R.S.D. and her nerves are pretty much tangled together. She can't do a ton with them. It was pretty difficult for our family because we all had to grow up fast and help and do more things around the house. Sometimes my mom still gets sick and has to go the hospital but she's a lot better now. I don't have myspace or anything but she can contact me on advicenators (Jazzy) or on AIM: Save Ferris7717. Hope I can give her some help.
-Caydee
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Okay.. I will admit.. i'm a stoner.. I like drugs.. I'm just starting to wonder what these drugs will actually do to me in the long run. If you can get me any sites or information on the drugs listed .. Please tell me... I rate high
1. Cigarettes
2. Marijuana
3. Crack/ coke
4. Acid
5. Meth
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Cigarettes are GROSS. We learned about them in health. You could get hairy tongue, yellow teeth, blackened lungs, emphazema, wrinkles, bags (under you're eyes, I mean), & they will really change your physical appearance. You'll be shorter of breath and you're at risk for more heart attacks.
Marijuana, Crack, and Cocaine are really bad. You can get brain damage, you won't be able to speak as fast or think as fast, you'll look really bad and you'll totally regret it if you ever quit. They will dull your senses too.
As for Acid and Meth, I'm going to check up on them.
When using meth, you could start suffering from hallucinations and paranoia.
When using Acid, you will also suffer from hallucinations and until the drug is done with you (which can take up to 12 hours), you could suffer from panic attacks, confusion, depression, and weird delusions.
I hope I helped you out. PLEASE get off the drugs. They are gross and you don't want to look 50 when you're like 20 or something. Good luck and please get help with this stuff.
-Caydee
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hey my friends going through suthing right now to get over a guy what are some songs that just mean "basically im over you and dont need you" because im really proud of her and i want to make her a cd of songs wtih this point
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Hey, I am going to try to help you out as best as i can!
-Songs by Dashboard Confessional
-Songs my My Chemical Romance
-Since U Been Gone- Kelly Clarkson
-My Immortal- Evanesence(I'm not so sure, but you could try)
-Waterfalls-TLC
-Disconnected-Kelly Osbourne
-On your own-Kelly Osbourne
Well, I hope I gave you a few ideas!
-Caydee
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i have a really really bad sore throat. what can i do to make it go away? (link)
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Hi! Well you should suck on Halls Cherry cough drops, sleep, drink tea, and drink a TON of water. Once I had a really bad sore throat and I drank water from 5 PM to 11 PM. Just keep drinking and refill your glas a lot. When I did this, the next day my sore throat was almost gone so I did it again and then it went away for good! I hope I helped!
-Caydee
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if your are really athletic, are you less likely to get you period? or is it the exact opposite? (link)
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Hey, in a book I read it said that athletic girls won't get their period as soon as girls are aren't totally athletic. It'll be just the same as an unathletic girl getting her period, it'll just take a little longer. But who knows? You may get it earlier than you think!
-Caydee
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omg my birthday is right after yours...and um here is my question how can you overcome your fear of asking a guy to dance? (link)
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Hey thats cool! About the birthday thing. Anyways, to answer your question, I'm not too sure. You could just go for it because hey! Whats the worst that could happen? Right? So he may reject you, but guys will come and go and you'll plenty of opportunities to ask guys to dance. I say just go for it! And if you really get kinda freaked out about it, you could ask a friend to ask the guy for you. I hope I helped you out and I'm sorry if I didn't. Good luck!
-Caydee
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So im making a bet with a friend, and if i win i get to make her do soemthing completely non sexual (and i do mean completely) and im at a loss, cant come up with anything. while your answering feel free to make suggestions for her as well, shes having trouble too. (link)
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~Go Skinny Dipping
~Run outside barefoot and ding-dong-ditch someone
~Run outside at midnight and scream at the top of her or your lungs: THE BRITISH ARE COMING!
~Moon somebody
~Eat a pie or pudding or something REALLY messy with your hands tied behind your back
~Call the school "nerd" (a boy of course) and say, "I like you". Then quick hang up!
~Wear a really ugly outfit to school and paint your nails orange and purple and keep the outfit on ALL DAY
Hope I gave you some fun ideas to do. Good luck and Have fun!
-Caydee
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ok well im a 13 yr old female and i had my FIRST period on the 7th and now i am having it again on the 28 and i dont no if this is normal please help me and i am a virgin so i no im not pregnat
thx 4 ur help i ll hate 5's to EVERY1! (link)
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Thats totally normal. At first, your period may be really irregular. For some girls, it's almost always irregular. You've got nothing to worry about, so thats it. Hope I helped!
-Caydee
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Me and my best friend Ashlee are REALLY close but lately shes been really into guys. I mean, I am just not the way she is ..I mean were 13 but I guess Im kind of prude. Well, one night Ashlee got invited to a party with my other 2 friends Lindsay and Courtney. A few other people in my circle of friends (And I) didnt get invited. But, I didnt think much of it and I didnt care at all. Then, the other day, I was on the phone with my friend Alex (Shes one person who didnt get invited either) and Alex told me that Courtney, who was at the party, told her that the party wasnt really a party. It was just a few guys and Ashlee, Lindsay, and Courtney. Courtney said they played spin the Bottle and Ashlee (Who had never kissed anyone before) made out with 4 guys at the party! The worst part was that she didnt even tell me. I dont know what to do! I told Alex (Swore on my life, basically) NOT to say anything about what Ashlee did (especially to Ashlee) because she would know Courtney told Alex and Alex told me! Im so depressed! what do i do? (link)
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It's pretty normal for girls to get WAY into guys at age 13. It'll pass and she won't be so into them in a year or so.
You should talk to Ashlee about your feelings or else you're never goin to feel any better. Maybe Ashlee thought that you wouldn't be interested to hear about her experience at the so-called-party. Just talk to her about her actions and the way you feel about them. I know you feel like you can't let your friends down, but you really should talk to Ashlee and tell your friends that you're going to. Just tell them your story and ask them to try to understand. I hope things will get better for you.
-Caydee
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A senior girl in my first period's mom passed away on Friday. She wont be coming to school for the rest of the week because of the tragic situation. My teacher was to get a "sympathy card" and get my whole class to sign it saying how sorry they are and all that. I, along with a few other people in the class, don't think it'll be a good idea. WE said so in class today and our teacher just responded with, "Lauren need to know we care about her."
We don't think it's a good idea because she would be just coming back from a whole week at home with her family grieving and she doesn't need all this pity from us. When our teacher told us what happened, all you could hear around the class room was "Oh that sucks, I can't believe she's finishing her senior year without her mom, Prom is going to suck for her, etc." I know those kind of things are going to end up in the card.
At the end of class, we just decide that we weren't going to sign the card but do y'all think there's a way to stop the whole thing?
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I understand what you are saying, but it would make her feel better if she knew that your class was being sympathetic and trying to make her feel better. I would just sign the card and drop it. Maybe you could ask your teacher to remind people not to say things like "It's sad your not finishing your senior year with your mom; Prom will suck for you" or whatever. Your classmate will feel better knowing she has an entire class that has her back. Good luck and I hope I gave you a new way to look at things.
-Caydee
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Ok, I'm a little over weight. Does anyone have any ideas on what to do? I try doing sit-ups and push-ups every day but sometimes I don't get to. I've tried eating healthy but it doesn't work!! help (link)
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Well, what kind of things are you eating? Are you also exercising while you eat healthy? Those things will help you lose weight too. You could also give up sweets for a month and then reward yourself with a treat like a candy bar or new pair of shoes or something like that.
You could also try doing Yoga, Tae Bo, or other exercise video things or something.
I hope I helped you out a bit! Good luck!
-Caydee
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I really want a boyfriend.All the boys say how ugly I am and that they'd never go out with me! I have brown hair and blonde highlights, brown eyes, a few light freckles, I guess you could say I'm thin, why don't boys like me?? there are girls at my school who look just like what I described and the boys go NUTS for them. It's because they're cheerleaders. I don't want to be a cheerleader, but i want a bf. Should I become a cheerleader?? Can anyone tell me why boys hate me???? I'm not mean to them at all!!!
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No, don't become a cheerleader. You said you didn't want to, and you shouldn't! I don't know what age you are but having a boyfriend really isn't what it's cracked up to be. I'm sure boys don't hate you. They sound really dumb to me and you don't deserve those boys at your school if thats the way they treat you, but if you REALLY want a boyfriend, you can try doing new things like different make up things (if you wear makeup), new hairstyles, even try new outfits. You could try glueing rhinestones to your jeans or something. Be creative. I hope things get better for you and you sound like you are really nice and deserve somebody special.
-Caydee
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Ok what I want to know is each side of the story. I want to know why people like pro-choice and why others like pro-life. Give me feedback and I will rate high. (link)
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I am VERY against abortions no matter what! I do not know why anyone would want to kill a baby because they didn't want it. It's horrible. I mean, imagine if our parents killed us because they didn't want a baby. The parents should at least have the baby and put it up for adoption. And I do not agree with the person who said that they would have an abortion if the baby had Downs Syndrome. I work with children who have Downs and they're are so great. You'd really be surprised at how smart people with Downs are or people who are Mentally Retarded. It's great. Anyways, I am totally against abortions and all that kinda stuff. I hope I helped you out!
-Caydee
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i have these jeans that i want to put rinestones on. what kind of glue should i use??? (link)
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Hey, your jeans will awesome! Anyways I say you use fabric glue or a hot glue gun. I'm sure you can find them at a craft store like Hobby Lobby or something.
-Caydee
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can the foods you eat affect your skin(acne)? does eating chocolate or greasy foods make you break out? and does makeup make you break out? i heard these were a myth but i think this is true.. well in my case.
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Chocolate or greasy foods shouldn't make you break out. Maybe they do for you, but they really shouldn't for most people. It could be the facewash that you're using now. That has happened to me. I reccomend washing your face with Noxema at least twice a day and then at night putting clearasil on it too. I also use Cetaphil face lotion at night too because I tend to get really dry skin during Winter. I hope I helped you out a bit!
-Caydee
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