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me and my girlfriend have been seeing each other for a while i dont want to find a new girlfriend but the one i have doesnt want to have sex but u am always horny so i was wondering if there was anything around the house i could use as a fake vagina because i do not want to go bug one or anything the are expensive? (link)
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You didn't specify how old you were, but I'm assuming you're in your low-mid teens.
By how you phrased your question, it genuinely sounds like all you want from a girlfriend is sex. I should hope you haven't used past girlfriends for sex, because that is so disrespectful and disgusting.
So you're horny. So what? You're just like every other typical, teenage boy. That doesn't mean you should go out and use every girl on the street for your selfish desires.
If you want to have sex, jerk off by yourself. That'll solve your problems. Don't just use your girlfriends to have sex with them, that's rude and most of all disrespectful.
I hope I helped
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17/f
im fairly thick down there, and Im planning on being intimate with my boyfriend....what should i do so that its more smooth? i cant get a wax but how should i go about shaving so that theres no razor burn, etc.? (link)
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I don't know if you know or if this is what you were referring to, you can use an at-home waxing method that can be bought at any drugstore. They range from cremes to pre-waxed strips, which can be $5 to $19, however high you're willing to go.
Like Faith42 said, if you've never shaved before, I also would cut the length of the hair, leaving as little as you feel comfortable left before shaving. For example, if the length of your hair is an 2 inches, cut it until it's .5 inches, that way shaving it easier and doesn't clog the drain (oh no!).
Once you're in the shower, you can use a soap or a shaving cream on the desired shaved area. Both work the same for me, so I go by either one. Then use your razor to go WITH the hair. Not against. I.E., if the general direction of your hair is down, shave down! Not up! I think the most common mistake for girls who shave is they shave in the wrong direction, making little nicks in their skin and they're more likely to have razor burn. Knowing that, that's really the trick to shaving. Follow the same method until all the hair is gone.
I hope I helped!!
Jackieee
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17/f
so i have some hair just around/bellow my belly button and ive shaved it before but it came in thicker....so now im wondering what I should do so that you can't see it but i dont want to keep shaving for fear that it will just get worse? thanks! (link)
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I have a similar problem. Although not all of it is dark, but the 4 or 5 hairs that are, just get plucked. I use your typical pair of Tweezers and the hair will grow back every week and a half-two weeks so it works for me.
If this is too much work for you, I know drugstores have waxing products. Like I know Sally Hansen has a waxing "kit", and I know of someone who was telling me how she uses an at-home waxing kit for her eyebrows, instead of going to the nail place. You should try something like that if you're not too into the plucking idea.
I hope I helped!
Jackieee
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My boyfriend and have been having a lot of sex and he said it'd be easier if we used some lube to get things started at first because I don't get really, really wet. I have some lotion (unscented and scented varieties) here and I was wondering if that works okay as lube for sex or not? We're both kind of young and we're both embarrassed to go to the the store for sex lube lol So, does lotion work well? (link)
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Don't use any household product as lube! And that goes for everyone reading this.
Like WittyUserName, I too hope you're using protection. And seeing as one of you can buy a box of condoms, you might as well buy the lubricant too. If you can't muster buying a box of condoms and a bottle of lube, I really wouldn't recommend having sex. If you're having sex, be proud about it, and be proud that you're being safe too...with that, if you want to prove to yourself AND your partner that you're practicing safe sex, you should be more than comfortable to buy what you need.
Also, if you go to your local drugstore to buy condoms, lube, or any kind of necesity, you should go to the pharmacy counter if that makes you feel any better or less embarrassed. Sexual health care should not be embarrassing, so buy these items with pride.
I hope I helped :)
Jackieee
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i'm 18 and still a virgin. i'm definetly not ashamed of it, actually i'm kinda proud. its not like i'm ugly, actually alot of people are surprised or don't believe me that i'm still a virgin i just refuse to give my virginity to someone who doesn't deserve it and i haven't met anyone worth giving it to yet (i know i'm old fashioned but whatever). i've had a few boyfriends and definetly many opportunities but i just didn't want to. but i feel like everyone my age and even a little younger has had sex. when i hang out with certain friends thats all they talk about. i mean somethings i can contribute because i've done everything else except actual intercourse. but i just feel like i'm alone. is there anyone out there my age virgins? (link)
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Me! I'm also 18, a virgin and proud! I've been dating my boyfriend for 11 months and we are completely content with our relationship. Like you, we've had many opportunities to have sex but, right now, it's something we're not really in a rush to get to.
I wouldn't think of myself as "old-fashioned", more like self-respectful. I definitely live by my own morals, and not everyone else's around me.
And in all honesty, I don't want to give up my virginity for just anyone, or to fit in with society. It's not me. And it might be you too. And that's perfectly normal and respected upon.
Don't be anyone else, be you :)
Hope I helped!
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Hey! :) So I have to say.. love your advice! And i'm hoping you'll be able to help me out. This may be a bit long but I will appreciate if you can help.
So i'm 20F. Currently don't have a boyfriend. Ok, please don't judge what I want to do I am just asking you to please suggest what I should do to make this happen!
Me and this guy have a great connection. He's sooo cute, and I know he absolutely thinks me and my body are hot haha which is good to know. Well I met him awhile ago and he knew my friend..kinda..and so he told my friend to have me text him because he thought i was just the hottest thing, and had a good feeling about me so i texted him saying hey :) and we talked for a little but he was drinking. well then i find out he forgot to save my number because he was drinking. so anyway this past week or two he was texting my friend and was always asking if she was going to be with me. so last friday, i saw him. long story kinda short :we were in the hot tub, things got steamy we ended up making out and he fingered me. i didn't do anything to him, because i wanted to go back and join the party i think he was kind of mad. later that night i offered to take out the whipped cream even to have fun and he didn't want to!
well he can't text me because he doesn't have my number so I havent really talked to him since that night. it's killing me..i keep thinking about what we did and how he turned me on and i want to do it again!! my parents are leaving in two weeks and i think it'd be fun to have him over but i don't really know how to come about asking him. i don't even know what he thinks about me now?? did he even enjoy the night as much as i did? what if he thinks i'm not willing to please him because i didn't that night? i just think he keeps thinking bad things about me..but thats just me because i'm an insecure person.
don't tell me not to just have a friends with benefits, please. i just don't know what to do?? and i feel weird texting him since he doesn't have my number now! what would i say? i want him to know i want to do more with him and willing, and want him to come over when my parents are gone. Any suggestions?? (link)
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Well you'll never know how he feels about you until you talk to him!
Don't fear texting him. If you want to talk to him, just do it! If hw felt a good connection with you that night at the party, I'm sure he'll be more than happy to talk to you.
There's a solid chance that you'll be able to tell if he wants to talk to you just by his responses. And if he IS into you, he'll save your number and text you on a daily basis.
If you want him to come over, it's just as simple to ask him. Just be like, "so my parents are vacationing in 2 weeks and I think it'd be fun if you came over :)".
You can't put negative thoughts in your head because you'll always be sidetracked by them. If he accepts your invitation to come over when your parents are away or any time before/after that, then just do what you want to him--it's up to you what you do to him.
My main advice here is to be careful, safe and don't do anything you don't want :)
I hope I helped!
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Im like afraid to even touch a guy down there ...like it grosses me out so how do i get used to it?? (link)
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Ahh! Don't be afraid! Honestly, it's definitely not as bad as it initially seems. It does seem gross but it's really not. In fact, the penis has less bacteria than the human mouth.
If you have a boyfriend or something of the sort, then I'll give you a hint or two. Seeing my boyfriend comepletely undressed and walking around like no big deal realllllly made me feel more comfortable with my boyfriend's entire body. It just seems so natural and free. Once you get comfortable with a guy's body visually, you'll feel more relaxed when you touch it. Seriously. And then before you know it, you'll be doing things you always thought you were reluctant to do and you may end up loving it.
There was definitely a time where I thought penises in general were just flat-out gross (sorry, guys!) but now I have no problem at all with them. And I know that might sound weird but hey. I'm so comfortable around my boyfriend dressed or undressed and you can definitely be the same!
There is no reason to be afraid, just get accustomed to his "below the waist" (:
Hope I helped!
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My boyfriend is also pleasing me. I feel bad 'cuz i dont' please him as much as he pleases me. What are some ideas on how i can please him. What are some kinky ways to spice up a love life? lol (link)
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Honestly, your best bet is to ask him what he'd like.
However, last week or so I found an old blindfold I got as a gift. I had my boyfriend lay in my bed and put the blindfold on. I told him that no matter what, he was not allowed to remove the blindfold and he pleasantly agreed. From there, everything is up to your imagination to go wild; from kissing, sucking and licking, he's all yours. He'll love it, I'm sure. My boyfriend admitted I was "driving him crazy", in a good way of course (;
Best of luck! Hope I helped!
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Some friends from school told me that having sex will make your boobs grow. I have really small boobs and I hate it so I thought I would give it a try. I'm not sure I'm doing it right though. I just dunno but I want my boobs to be pretty big.
I had sex with 7 boys from my grade at school but nothing really changed for me and my boobs were still small. I was talking to my dad's friend on Facebook and he said he thought sex made breasts grow only if the girl had sex with a guy older than her. So, we ended up having sex, obv.
It just seems like this is taking foreverrr and I just want my barely A cups to go to like a DD. I know that's a big leap but it's what I WANT. After having sex w/my dad's friend I think they seem to be a little more full but not much.
I went on and posted some match ads online and there is 4 guys who say they want to do it with me so my boobs will grow. My first thinking is that if I do it with them all at once then my boobs will grow faster all at once. They're all up for it but I want to know if it will still work that way. I don't want to like have sex with them all together and then my boobs don't grow at all. Does anyone know if you have sex with more than 1 guy at a time if your boobs will still grow? They're all a lot older than me so that shouldn't be a prob.
((And before you start answering don't worry about me getting pregnant. I know the guy has to cum in you for this to work but I haven't started my period yet so I can't get pregnant anyways.)) (link)
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Ok, I usually don't answer questions, and I am not a mean person at all but your ignorance is absurd and what I'm about to tell you is going to make it seem like I'm cruel. However, clearly, uneducated people need to hear the truth, no matter how brutal it is.
13 year olds know nothing about sex. Just letting you know. If you believed your friends when they told you your breasts would grow if you had sex, you're just as gullible as they are when they believed whoever told them.
You had sex with 7 guys? Good, I hope you're gonna take pride when people start calling you a whore as you age, if you don't get called so already.
You also had sex with your dad's friend? Are you aware that if he's 18 or older, which he more than likely is, that it's illegal? You probably didn't, since you believed something as rediculous as you having sex with older guys to make your breasts grow.
You're gonna have a sad reputation. And when your breats remain the same size, you're going to feel like a fool. Because that's exactly what happened to you, you got fooled. Big time.
Have fun living your life in regret.
Best wishes to you, God knows you need them.
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Hi all :) I'll make this as short and simple as I can to conserve your time and patience.
I have never had sex and don't intend to engage in doing so for a good while. In the meantime, my boyfriend has fingered me many many times, not to be rude or anything. By this time, my hymen is already broken, no big deal. Yet I still bleed, kind of excessively. And it's really annoying.
Now I'm not sure, and I apologize if I sound ignorant, but I think I might have a hunch at why this is happening? I thought perhaps because the uterine lining is built with blood to nest a baby or shed during menstruation, that's he's possibly irratating the lining and causing a large amount of blood from the lining to end up on his fingers and in my underwear? Not too sure.
If you know anything about why I keep bleeding, please inform me.
P.S.: even if his nails are short, this keeps happening and I can't think of anything else of why this would keep occurring.
Thank you so much (link)
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im 14 yrs old and i have never had a girlfriend out even got my first kiss. I was wondering what is rong with me?? al my friends have and i havent i feel like such a geek (link)
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Nahh, you're completely normal (: I'm a girl, but first had my first boyfriend and kiss at 16 and I'm your typical normal teenager. You don't have anything to worry about. Just because your friends had girlfriends and first kisses and didn't wait for someone right doesn't mean YOU shouldn't wait for the right girl to come along :)
Hope I helped!
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what should i get my boyfriend for his birthday? we've only been dating 2 months so i don't want to do something too big but he's a really sweet guy and i like him alot. he's into skateboarding and sports and stuff and he's 17. thankss! (link)
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My suggestion would be maybe a DVD or a sweatshirt to a store he likes...gift certificates work also, like the person below me said. But I got my ex-boyfriend a DVD and a sweatshirt for his birthday after going out for 2 months.
Hope I helped (:
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My boyfriend broke up with me ..2 and a half days ago.The only communication we had was a text he sent me the next morning and i responded and he responded one more time and I didn't write back.He's away on a mini vacation right now but I'm playing my cards right and not texting him and giving him space because that's his reason for breaking up with me.I miss him like crazy and I've never been so depressed ever.He told two of my friends(separately) that he's sad and misses me too.I wrote him a two page letter but I don't know when the right time to give it to him is. I don't know if he plans on talking to me when he gets back and I won't see him until school starts again (in like a week) unless we hangout ..which is doubtful.The letter isn't begging him to take me back..it's actually a letter thanking him for all the fun times we had and saying that I miss him and stuff like that.He has some of his stuff at my house and in my locker at school,so should I slip it in there? or wait for him to talk to me first? How should I do the letter? (link)
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When my (now ex) boyfriend and I broke up, I was miserable, to say the least. Throughout our relationship, I would always write him little notes because he liked them and I loved writing them. So once we broke up, I wrote him a 4 page letter that was really very nice. I wasn't begging for him to take me back, but more so of how I appreciated him and loved him. It wasn't cheesy or lame at all.
However, (yes, there is a downside, sadly) the letter did me no justice. I had hoped maybe after he read my hard work of a letter, he would see what he really meant to me and our relationship would come together, and I was wrong. He appreciated my note, but it didn't help me at all like I thought it would.
You mentioned that he's said he misses you to your friends and that is perfectly fine. I don't want you to get your hopes up and think that once he reads the letter, he will come running back, because there are no guarantees. But you should do what you think is right for you. If that means giving him the letter, than so be it. But I just want to assure you that it's not set in stone that he will be adored immediately by the note.
I would either write in the note that he has some belongings at your house or I would tell him in person.
I really hope I helped, good luck :)
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ok this is what happening
my parents are out with family friends, and they'll be back any minute so I need your help
heres some background
i volunteer on my cousins softball team (im 17, the girls are 15)
and whatever yea i met this girl, her name is Allison, and we're going out for a while. We have a lot in common, sometimes i help her with her homework. I helped her on an english essay and she still got a C. This is because her teacher is a prick... anywayz
So she came over like an hour ago, and i really want to lose my virginity, so I ask her to have sex
"no i cant its not right" she said but i told her "dont worry i know what im doing, ill be done in like 10 seconds, plus ill give you 2 n64 games if you say yes"
So I gave her diddy kong racing and ken griffey jr baseball, and then she goes to my room. shes a bit confused and scared.
Then i think to myself - yo I need lube right? Cuz I hear you guys on TW saying you need to lube up her clit otherwise it wont fit in properly.
Ok so I have no lube, but i really want to lose my virginity - so i grab some butter from the fridge, but its cold, it wont melt - so i microwaved it for 8 minutes, and then i put it in a glass and poured it on her cooter, now shes saying i burned it.
I don't know what to do, my parents are going to be back any minute and shes crying in the bathroom plz help you guys are really smrat and please help me.
Any idea how to shut her up? Should i give her another n64 game? (link)
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Wow! I don't even know where to begin. I give everyone respect on this website, but what you did to this poor girl is so messed up in every way imaginable. You told this girl you'd give her 2 video games if she has sex with you? And you think that's ok? And then you burn her with got butter because you have no lube?
Guys like you should probably have their balls cut off, really. You have no respect for girls whatsoever and why she even wants to talk to you is such a mystery to me, because let me tell you, if I was her, I'd cut your nuts off myself. Grow up.
Haven't your parents taught you anything about respecting girls? People like you really put guys to shame. What you did was so sick and ridiculous, I don't know how you can sleep at night knowing what you did. You owe this girl a thousand apologies.
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I keep having dreams of me cheating on my boyfriend, a guy that I love with my whole heart and would never cheat on for anything. I think its the lowest thing you could do to someone.
My first dream is of my ex showing up at my door and begging me to take him back and then he kisses me and starts taking off my shirt and I slapped him and started yelling at him. I woke up and thought it was real and I almost started crying but then I realized it was a dream.
The second one was with my friend from college who reminds me of my best friend from home (a girl), personality wise. We were in a conference room meeting with one of our professors with a few other students, then everyone leaves except for me and my friend and he closes the door and we're making small talk and he keeps getting closer. Then he smiles and puts a hand on my cheek and kisses me and I start crying because I feel awful its even happening and I try to pull away but he's holding my head and then he finally stops for a minute but then he tries to push me on the table and have sex with me. I woke up and cried. This time I knew it was a dream but I felt soo bad because these dreams keep happening and I don't know why. I love this man more than anyone before and I don't know what I would do if I lost him. This has to stop. (link)
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Lucky for you, you are not the only one. A dream is just a dream no matter how you look at it.
I browsed wikipedia for you and got some rather interesting information that may be to your use:
There are many common themes in dreams that many people (like you) have, for instance falling in love with random people, situations relating to school (adolescents), being chased or attacked, running slowly in place, falling, arriving too late, and many many more.
It is said that a dream is an interaction between the unconscious and the conscious.
Dreams allow the repressed parts of the mind to be satisfied through fantasy while keeping the conscious mind from thoughts that would suddenly cause one to awaken from shock.
Ferenczi proposed that the dream, when told, may communicate something that is not being said outright.
I personally don't believe dreams mean anything. It's just your brain being imaginative and unconcious. However, many people believe that dreams try and send a message to the dreamer. It may be true, maybe not.
I highly doubt you're going to dream these dreams much longer.
You should definitely try to educate yourself on dreams, it's very interesting and it may help you understand what going in your brain at night. I tried to help as best I could, but I'm not too sure what you were asking, so I took my best shot. I hope I helped!
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Alright, so I've been dating this guy for almost a month now. By the way..i'm fifteen. But yeah I go over to his house and like I'm really starting to like him because he's hilarious and fun to talk to and stuff. So anyways, whenever I go over to his house he always starts taking off my pants and I have to go "I don't want to have sex yet.." and he like groans and says okay...thats okay. But then the next time we hang he does the same exact thing! And it's like this EVERY FREAKING TIME. And it's just like cool your jets, man. I'll let you know when I'm ready. But I still tell him this and he's still trying all the time. That little horndog him. But I keeping thinking...does this give off that he's only trying to get sex? Like common, honestly if I were a guy and I was dating a girl, I wouldn't try having sex with her all the time, every single time, when we're fifteen? Like I know people want to get out of that "virgin" category but commmmon. Most guys atleast ASK! But this just gives off that he only wants sex, should I break up with him?
thanksss guyss. (link)
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Considering it's been 1 month and you're young AND you've even said to him multiple times you're not ready, it seems to me he's just using you. And I'm glad that you're not just giving in and letting him get what he wants...it's girls like you who make me proud to say I'm a girl, you know what I mean? There are way too many girls who give in because they're tired of being a virgin and just do it to "get it over with" AND because they're pressured. I'm glad you aren't one of those girls.
Break up with this guy. I don't know who he thinks he is continuously trying to get in your pants after you've made it clear you're not ready. Dump him. He's definitely not worthy of you.
I hope I helped :]
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There is this guy I started talking to like a couple weeks ago. I knew who he was before but then out of no where he started talking to me. He is one of my friends but I don't like him like that. He's cool to talk to but when he starts flirting with me or something its really awkward. The most he does is just turn around and talk to me during class and will want to arm wrestle or something that has to do with our hands. So he asked me to put my number in my phone but I never did. I didn't like totally reject it in front of his face but my friend took it and was looking at it. So I felt better about that.
I just don't like him like that and even if he was trying to get to me I wouldn't want him to do it so fast. My friend told me she thinks he likes me and it does seem like he's moving fast. I thought he was too. What am I supposed to do about it? Just let it pass by and ignore it? Or talk to him? I wouldn't really want to do that since it's hard enough for me to talk to him in the first place and that I don't want me telling him something when he really doesn't like me. Or should I just wait around and see if I ever end up having feelings for him? Ehh...I don't know... (link)
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It's a touchy subject. I don't think you should completely ignore him, just continue to be nice. I don't think you should be mean, because he may end up resenting you, and other people could hear about it and think you're mean because you completely let him down, ignoring him and such.
Don't feel pressured to like him and don't feel guilty about not liking him either. You shouldn't force yourself to like him, because then you will think you like him but it's not genuine at all. And if you end up in a relationshop of some sort, it will not last long at all.
Like I said, just be nice. If he ever says anything to you about liking you or anything, just say something like "I'm really sorry, but I think we're better just as friends". You know how that speech goes, I'm sure lol.
I really hope I helped! If you have any questions, just drop one in my inbox.
Good luck!
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i have always had this problem but it never really bothered me since nobody ever pointed it out, but my boyfriend pointed it out to me a several months ago.. every time i shave my legs.. it looks like the tip of the hair is still there so it makes it look like little black dots on my legs.. I've tried diffrent razors, diffrent shaving creams.. and nothing is working how do i get rid of these, im becoming really self concious about it and i wont wear shorts or anything because im afraid everyone is looking at them.. i have kinda pale skin if that helps... what can i do???? please help! (link)
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Recently, one of my friends told me how men's razors work really well and her legs were incredibly smooth. So I bought a package of 8 men's razors (disposable, Gillette) and they seem to work even better than the Venus that I previously used. It's just a closer shave. However, I don't know how often you change your razor, but once it starts to feel dull and kinda scratchy, just toss it and use a new one.
If you haven't aleady tried a Nair-like product, you may want to try it because it works well for me.
Hope I helped!
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Hey,I think i have a real problem with dudes..or do I? It never fails,I just cant never seem to keep a dude.Either they cheat,about to cheat,or lie.Is it me?Do i have a problem?Boys really know how to hurt a girl.There was this boy that "so-called" had a crush on me.I was a junior back then and he was a star player on the basketball team so i was soooo happy because he was an athelete.But his friend and my friend hooked us up.We exchanged numbers and all was good until....the ex girlfriend came back around.Ugh!! I was so mad.Everytime i turned around it seemed like she was always following him.She was also a cheerleader so they always saw each other at the games.I guess she decided she wanted him back because sooner or later i found out through the school gossip that they were a couple again.I was crushed.He never really broke-up with me or anything..just left me hanging.I will never forgive him for that.And there were also many realation-ships just like that one in my life.I'm always gettin left for someone of a more,lets just say,"higher standard".Now iam single and i refuse to ever date again..I just cant do it.Do you guys ever think I will find true love because i dont.I just cant trust dudes and I dont wanna take my chances.Somebody please give me advice because i'am so lonely but i just dont wanna be held by the wrong hands...Thanks for listening. (link)
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I agree with Matt. You can't date somebody because of where they stand socially. Would you like someone doing that to you? That's hurtful and offensive. You need to be accepting, not particular. I mean, the way you make him sound seems like the typical jock who's popular and rude. Why would you like him anyway? Because he's athletic? And that's it?
He didn't stay with you long until his ex came back into his life. And you've said all the guys you've dated have cheated or were about to cheat. Well, if they're anything like the guy we're talking about now, why does this surprise you!?
You're a huuuuge part of the problem! You make it seem like you only date SOME guys; only the guys who LOOK GOOD NEXT TO YOU! You can't do that, because I can guarentee that you will never find the perfect guy, someone who won't cheat, be disrespectful in any way, and so on.
You can fix this problem by yourself, you need to be genuine and accepting of people. If you're going to be one of those girls who thinks their boyfriend has to be some perfect, athetic, handsome and popular guy, you will never find someone.
I'm sorry if this isn't what you wanted, but I'd want the honest truth if this was my problem.
Good luck, and I hope I helped.
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i love it when boys compliment my boobs, i enjoy boys playing with my boobs and i always get my tits out for the boys. does this make me slutty ? (link)
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Even the way you tell us about this sounds slutty. Like one of the Advicenators said, you will get a bad reputation. And chances are, you will be used if you become a slut. When girls do things slutty and say things like you, it's the reason girls have a bad reputation. I don't want that to sound mean, just honest.
Hope I helped.
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