Hi all :) I'll make this as short and simple as I can to conserve your time and patience.
I have never had sex and don't intend to engage in doing so for a good while. In the meantime, my boyfriend has fingered me many many times, not to be rude or anything. By this time, my hymen is already broken, no big deal. Yet I still bleed, kind of excessively. And it's really annoying.
Now I'm not sure, and I apologize if I sound ignorant, but I think I might have a hunch at why this is happening? I thought perhaps because the uterine lining is built with blood to nest a baby or shed during menstruation, that's he's possibly irratating the lining and causing a large amount of blood from the lining to end up on his fingers and in my underwear? Not too sure.
If you know anything about why I keep bleeding, please inform me.
P.S.: even if his nails are short, this keeps happening and I can't think of anything else of why this would keep occurring.
Additional info, added Saturday July 17 2010, 8:16 pm: I meant to add this but I must've forgotten:
I'm never in pain, so it's not painful at all. If anything, it's pleasure.
And also, I have only been with one other partner and we never had sex and I was his first girlfriend. The same thing follows with my current boyfriend. . Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? BeePeeTee answered Wednesday July 21 2010, 7:12 pm: I'm not sure why you are bleeding exactly, but I can tell you that it is not him irritating the uterine lining. The uterine lining is furthur in your body. See, there is the area where the penis (or finger, in your case)is inserted, then at the very end there is a tiny opening. Inside there is where the lining is and the egg preparing to be fertilized. I will do some research, but for now atleast you can cross that off your list.
Okay, so I've done some research. How long has it been since he broke your hymen? Because the bleeding can continue for 1-7 days (even more in some cases). It all depends on the person's body. As for it happening during the act, your vagina secretes a thicker whitish liquid ( its supposed to help when it comes to lubrication for things to be inserted more easily). I'm guessing that when your body start to let that out, some blood from the same area is coming with it. Hope this helps! [ BeePeeTee's advice column | Ask BeePeeTee A Question ]
Jackieee answered Saturday July 17 2010, 12:25 am:
MAK answered Friday July 16 2010, 8:57 pm: First of all, the uterine lining is way past your vagina and where his fingers would be. There is a sphincter called the cervix (shaped like a tightly clenched fist) separating the vaginal canal from the uterus.
I'm not a doctor, but here are some possibilities of what could be happening. You could possibly have an inflamed cervix, and his fingers are hitting/rubbing against it causing the bleeding.
Or... and this goes hand in hand with the inflamed cervix, it is quite possible you could have an STD or an infection. A common symptom of Chlamydia, for example, is vaginal bleeding after something's been up there.
I would go to the doctor and get this checked out. The majority of people with STD's have no idea they have them because they show no symptoms. (So you could have unknowingly got it from your boyfriend or a previous partner, and didn't suspect a thing because everything looked "normal.") Just a not, you don't have to be having intercourse to get an STD.
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