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i dont want to find a new girlfriend but this one doesnt want to have sex
me and my girlfriend have been seeing each other for a while i dont want to find a new girlfriend but the one i have doesnt want to have sex but u am always horny so i was wondering if there was anything around the house i could use as a fake vagina because i do not want to go bug one or anything the are expensive?
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Using a girl solely for sex is wrong. Girls are not your sex toys, and you shouldn't treat them as such. If you are horny, masturbate. Stick your dick in a pie if you have to, but don't use some innocent girl for your own selfish pleasure and then dump her after you've gotten what you wanted.
You should be happy you've found a girl who respects herself. She's the one to keep around. If you pick a girl who's a whore just to have sex with you, she'll probably have a number of diseases. But, if you're the type of guy who uses girls for sex, then you probably deserve to catch something.
Masturbate though, dude. Your girls not gonna give it up, and you can't possibly make her.
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You're probably not old enough to buy sex toys, sadly. If you ever do, keep it to yourself, there's a strong (and stupid) stigma associated with guys who buy sex toys for themselves. There are plenty of websites which sell effective toys for men out there when you're old enough to buy them.
That said, you need to learn to deal with it on your own for now. There aren't many girls who can keep up with a teenaged male libido. It'll calm down once you've fully exited puberty to some degree, be easier to manage when you are ravenous.
Right now, not having sex isn't something you should be focusing on. The below poster is right, and wrong, about that. Relationships are supposed to teach you how to interact with and compromise with a person.
That said, when I was in high school I did not date girls who didn't want to have sex. I've always been responsible, used protection, but there comes a point where two people want two different things sexually and as individuals that can make you incompatible. If she wants to wait until marriage, move on, as you obviously don't. If she's a virgin and not ready or something, or just wants to keep waiting for now because she's not ready to have sex with you, be patient and figure out how to handle yourself.
You don't sound old enough to judge whether there's sexual compatibility between you, or that you're dating girls old enough to make prepared adult decisions about sex and who have experience.
In your 20s, if a girl doesn't want to sleep with you there's a point where you just want different things, that you'll hopefully have the awareness and wisdom to see and figure out for yourself. Right now, I'm betting you're in the midst of teenaged hormones which you need to learn to manage yourself.
In the absence of sex toys, you can still buy lube. Astroglide isn't too expensive and will help you be less rough on yourself if you need to relieve yourself a few times a day.
Its understandably driving you nuts, but if you can't control yourself well enough to stay in a relationship you like you don't need to be seeking out another one which will let you get laid. Not now, when the point of a relationship is learning how to be in a relationship, as opposed to later when you know how to be in a relationship and are seeking someone compatible with you who you can start to share a life with.
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You didn't specify how old you were, but I'm assuming you're in your low-mid teens.
By how you phrased your question, it genuinely sounds like all you want from a girlfriend is sex. I should hope you haven't used past girlfriends for sex, because that is so disrespectful and disgusting.
So you're horny. So what? You're just like every other typical, teenage boy. That doesn't mean you should go out and use every girl on the street for your selfish desires.
If you want to have sex, jerk off by yourself. That'll solve your problems. Don't just use your girlfriends to have sex with them, that's rude and most of all disrespectful.
I hope I helped
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