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Did your first time hurt?
I have been dating my boyfriend for awhile and we are really close to having sex so i just wanted to know about everyone elses experiences, (girls only of course).
Did your first time hurt? and what could i do differently to reduce the pain if it did?
Thanks
Kaaitlyn
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Yes it did.
When i first had sex i was painful but its a pain that you can deal with. there isn't a way of reducing it. Make sure u foreplay first so your vagina is stretched so it wont hurt as much when he enters. Use a condom and have fun. Good Luck! :)
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My first time did hurt.
It makes sense, since nothing that large has been in your vagina before.
It hurt like a burning/almost tearing sensation. It helped that my boyfriend went slow and after a little bit the pain went away and I could enjoy the sex.
It hurts after the first time too. We aren't able to have sex that often (since we both live with our parents) so the more often you have sex the less it hurts and then you really start to enjoy it.
What might help reduce the pain is doing fingering or even using a vibrator/dildo if you are willing. You can use condoms with lubricant on it to make it a bit easier.
Other then that, there isn't much you can do. The pain is bearable and if you are close to your boyfriend, the sex will be enjoyable physically and emotionally and worth it.
Good luck and be safe,
-Abby
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