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reoccurring dreams
I keep having dreams of me cheating on my boyfriend, a guy that I love with my whole heart and would never cheat on for anything. I think its the lowest thing you could do to someone.
My first dream is of my ex showing up at my door and begging me to take him back and then he kisses me and starts taking off my shirt and I slapped him and started yelling at him. I woke up and thought it was real and I almost started crying but then I realized it was a dream.
The second one was with my friend from college who reminds me of my best friend from home (a girl), personality wise. We were in a conference room meeting with one of our professors with a few other students, then everyone leaves except for me and my friend and he closes the door and we're making small talk and he keeps getting closer. Then he smiles and puts a hand on my cheek and kisses me and I start crying because I feel awful its even happening and I try to pull away but he's holding my head and then he finally stops for a minute but then he tries to push me on the table and have sex with me. I woke up and cried. This time I knew it was a dream but I felt soo bad because these dreams keep happening and I don't know why. I love this man more than anyone before and I don't know what I would do if I lost him. This has to stop.
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its not a big deal. know why? because even in your dreams, you're still committed. you never give in, you never let them do what they want. you say no. this means that you know that later in life, there will be temptations. but you wont give in because you're an awesome person to be with.
take care!
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Lucky for you, you are not the only one. A dream is just a dream no matter how you look at it.
I browsed wikipedia for you and got some rather interesting information that may be to your use:
There are many common themes in dreams that many people (like you) have, for instance falling in love with random people, situations relating to school (adolescents), being chased or attacked, running slowly in place, falling, arriving too late, and many many more.
It is said that a dream is an interaction between the unconscious and the conscious.
Dreams allow the repressed parts of the mind to be satisfied through fantasy while keeping the conscious mind from thoughts that would suddenly cause one to awaken from shock.
Ferenczi proposed that the dream, when told, may communicate something that is not being said outright.
I personally don't believe dreams mean anything. It's just your brain being imaginative and unconcious. However, many people believe that dreams try and send a message to the dreamer. It may be true, maybe not.
I highly doubt you're going to dream these dreams much longer.
You should definitely try to educate yourself on dreams, it's very interesting and it may help you understand what going in your brain at night. I tried to help as best I could, but I'm not too sure what you were asking, so I took my best shot. I hope I helped!
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