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Afraid
Im like afraid to even touch a guy down there ...like it grosses me out so how do i get used to it??
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you shouldn't have to get used to it.
if you're not ready, you're not ready.
don't feel like you need to, do it because you want to. and seeing as you don't want to, then don't do it. very simple solution.
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just play with it.. lol have fun.. its actually kinda funny looking and flops around when its not hard, so it kinda makes me laugh. and there really sensitive so a smack or flick here and there is pretty funny.
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i used to be just like you. i didn't want to look down there, feel down there, i just wanted to be without all of it. but eventually i tried and realized its actually not that bad. in all reality, the vagina is a lot grosser. you don't have to immediately jump into oral or full on hand jobs, just maybe some stroking outside the clothing, and move from there. thats what i did. i'm pretty used to it now.
take care :)
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Ahh! Don't be afraid! Honestly, it's definitely not as bad as it initially seems. It does seem gross but it's really not. In fact, the penis has less bacteria than the human mouth.
If you have a boyfriend or something of the sort, then I'll give you a hint or two. Seeing my boyfriend comepletely undressed and walking around like no big deal realllllly made me feel more comfortable with my boyfriend's entire body. It just seems so natural and free. Once you get comfortable with a guy's body visually, you'll feel more relaxed when you touch it. Seriously. And then before you know it, you'll be doing things you always thought you were reluctant to do and you may end up loving it.
There was definitely a time where I thought penises in general were just flat-out gross (sorry, guys!) but now I have no problem at all with them. And I know that might sound weird but hey. I'm so comfortable around my boyfriend dressed or undressed and you can definitely be the same!
There is no reason to be afraid, just get accustomed to his "below the waist" (:
Hope I helped!
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