sn- InvincibleOnce2
Member Since: November 3, 2004
Answers: 61
Last Update: November 12, 2004
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okay..im a wee bit embarrased to ask about this...butt...i have never had a period before,and today when i went to wipe, there was a LOT of blood on the TP. so then i put on a pad, thinking i knew what was going on. then about an hour later, i went potty and there was no blood in the pad. then, i wiped again, and blood on the tp. so then i decided to put in a tampon, and about 1.5 hours later, i took it out, and there was brown stuff and blood all over it, then i put in a pad again. and i waited, and there still was no blood.
is anything wrong with me..
btw..13/f (link)
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No nothings wrong, thats normal. But if its your first time getting your period, you should use a pad, its easier.
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Ok. my friend and I have a rather odd relationship. We're good friends, and we talk all the time online, but we feel like we can't talk when we see each other because his other friends are there, and 3 out of the 4 of them that are there really don't like me for reasons I don't know. They don't like it that he even callls me a friend and I know, that sounds really stupid. I personally am not terribly worried about peer pressure, I'm pretty cool under it, but he's not. He lets things get to him. We're both kind of sick of hiding that we're friends, but telling the other guys to get over it won't help. The other guys think that's it terrible that he's friends with my best friend, (they don't like her much either) and both he and I know that they'd REALLY hate it if they knew that he was friends with me.
Any ideas of how to be able to admit we're friends, and not have anyone get hurt at all? (link)
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Maybe if you started talking to his friends...let them kno that your not as bad of a person as they think. That maybe if they got to kno you that theyd like you just as much as he does. But i dont them so i dont know how theyd react to it. I hope things work out
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There is this guy I'm going out with, and theres also this girl that is kind of my friend, though I find her annoying sometimes. Anyways, before we were going out, my friends all dared me to go hug the guy, because everyone knew he liked me. Hugging is no big deal to me, so I did. The other girl went up to me and told me never to hug him again. I asked her why, and she said, "Just don't." So I just shrugged and went away. Some time after that, he asked me out, and the day after we went to a museum on a field trip. My boyfriend bought me a necklace and it was very pretty. I didn't want to make him think I didn't like him, so I pretty much wore it every day. After a week, the girl told me never to wear the necklace again. I asked her why, and she said "Because it bothers me." I got kind of pissed but stayed under control and kept wearing the necklace. The girl obviously likes my man, or she's just jealous that she doesn't have one. How can I tell her that I don't want her butting in all the time? I don't want to cause any fights.
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In situations like this...theres probably going to be a fight of some sort...Even if its tiny but no matter what you do someones feelings are going to get hurt. You have to tell her that hes your bf and she has to deal with the fact that you two are going out and that you really like each other. She just has to deal
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There's this guy that I'm going out with, and he likes me alot, and I like him too. However, I know this girl who is not really my friend but sits at our table at lunch, and she isn't very pretty. Anyways, this girl and my boyfriend have a class together, and my friend told me later that the girl was flirting with my boy! She would ask him in a fakishly sweet voice if she could borrow something or other, etc. She also says hi to him whenever she sees him. My boyfriend doesn't like her at all and always ignores her whenever he can. What can I do to stop her from flirting with my guy? (link)
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She just has a crush on him. Don't worry about it though. She'll get over it soon, and besides, it seems like your the only one he likes.
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hey wow well i really like this guy but im really not sure if he likes me cuz i mean he always ims me even while im away and we'll talk online and stuff but i just dont kno if he's interested and im kinda used to not gettin guys so how should i somewhat show him that i like him without having to actually tell him... should i flirt more and how?
*muCh (link)
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Yea...Kid around with him basically. Do stupid little cute things and do little jokes here and there.
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ok here is the thing...im in 9th grade and so are my 2 friends..i know one of my friends since 7th grade and one since last year (8th) and well they went out from like 01/06/04 to yesterday (11/04/04)...she broke up w/ him bc he wasnt a boyfriend type person who didnt do much..they basically acted like friends who kissed (pecked) nothing else...anyways she broke up w/ him in front of me, my friend kevin and becky outside @ dismal...and after this happened becky was trying to get them back together..and it didnt work and he walked off w/ our other friend matt and she started crying as the 4 of us (me, her..becky and kevin) were walking to the busses..and we took turns holding her and all..then i was talking to her on-line and all last night and she said how she was still crying and i said well you made a good point and all about dumping him..dont keep saying to your self "why did i do that" ...and all..today she came into english crying, and my friend and i were just holding her and all....and we stood there for like 5 minutes and all..she showed me a note he wrote to her and inside was a poem of goodbye and all..and the teacher sent her and my friend to the time out room *basically guidence but all they do is listen to ur problems and thats basically all* and they came back after like 5 mins and she was all calm and etc..then 6th period lunch i was talking to my friend about what was gonna happen 9th period bc we all have study hall etc...it came to 9th period..we didnt even sit at the table...we sat on the floor in the corner of the caf..and after the others decided to ask to get a table open they sat at the table and i remained on the floor w/ her..and at one point i got up and went over to him and asked if he was mad at her bc she wanted to know..so i asked and he said "yeahh bc there was no good reason for why we broke up" and i came back and i told her and she says "yeah there is he didnt act like a bf!" and i said "yeah i knoww i agreeee" then i went back and i asked him why he didnt want to be friends w/ her anymore and he said " i didnt say that! im just steamed i need time to cool off" and i said "then?" he said "then we may become friends again" and i asked "like a month?" and he said " i just need time to cool off" and i went back to her and told her..and she told me to tell him something i dont remember what and that she stilled loves him and i went and told him..and he like "i dont caree" and i went back and i told her..and she was holding a braclet in her hand that she always wears and i know she wasnt trying to cry and i could see it her eyes that she wanted to but she didnt want to do it in front of him..and im not quite sureee...
any advice anyways ways of helpin her??? thx (link)
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Yea that is a tough situation. Well...all she really can do is give it time. SHe can still like him but she really hurt him. After a while, they'll become friends again and who knows, maybe they'll even go back out. But you cant rush things. It wont work out if they try and become friends right away
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quelquefois?
If it is...then im sure u know who this is.
if not...im reaallly sorry and just ignore this (link)
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haha heyy risa
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ok i been with my boyfriend for a while n we have alot of ups and downs...i really love him...and i no i do...but he is confusing me with this whole "i love u thing" i really wanna say ti to him soooo bad! and he sed it to me first....but it was n my voicemail...he left a mssg for me and he was like i love u..bye and like when we talk on the fone he wont say it....only on mssgs! and in person he dont say it either....its really confusing me! what can i do? do i say it first? helllpp wat does this mean (link)
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Maybe he's just shy. Give it time, he'll come around. BUt dont say it first. I mean if your fine with that kind of stuff, but if i were put in the position to say it first, i would feel really akward.
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I have a problem...i like this guy justin. I have liked him for like 3 years and recently my REALLY good friend Shilah started liking him and he liked her too...they went out for like 1 week and she thinks she loves him but i like him alot and recently we started "talking" like b/f g/f... and i told my friend about it and now she is mad at me... but i liked him first what do i do? Do i go for him and say forget her or do i forget him?
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Amanda (link)
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talk to her...let her know how much you really like him and that what shes doing isnt really fair to you. maybe she'll stop liking him or they'll grow apart and things will turn out alright. But you cant forget him...and you cant forget her. Either way you go, someones going to end upset, so try to do it in the way you think will leave the fewest broken hearted.
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I have this Bad habit.
I like all my best friends~Tara's~ boyfriends.
Last year,she liked this boy named Davon.Then one day my friend Ilirida asks me if I like Davon. I said he's ok.If he likes mee as a girlfriend, I'll like him as a boyfriend. But Ilirida told him I said that so he said he liked me and tara now.Me and tara spent aboput 2 months fighting over him. Our friendship got really torn up cuz of a guy. Then, Davon stoppped liking tara and only liked me. That caused BIG problems. So Taraz mad. Reallly MAD. Me and davon wer like bf-gf 4 liike 3 months wen tara started likin him agen.He dumped me. I got REALLY mad at Tara.But wen he stoppped liking both of us, we X'd him oout of our lives. but now everything is happpening alll over again. What am I suppo (link)
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If your friendship means that much to you, you wont let a guy get in the way again. They dont you hang out with more than just the crowd your hanging out with, that way, theres a less chance you you two liking the same guy.
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I think my best friend might be in an abusive relationship. Sorry if this is long, but I really need some advice... Its really important
Last year around this time, my friend met a guy. She had been in other realtionshops before, but this one was "different". She actually told me she loved him, and she lost her virginity to him also. They spent absolutley every minute together, and he would go with us everywhere...even when the girls went out for my birthday...he HAD to come. He showed up, on my birthday, at my house, with a rose. I thought you know, how nice of him...to bring me a rose in my birthday. But he gave me a dirty look, and told me "no, its for meg". He's not really social, and honestly, doesn't have any friends. All winter was like this. total obsession, sickening. So around the beginning of june, me and the girls took her out...and we got a little drunk. She kissed a guy, but only a peck. She felt guilty and immedatley told "him", who in return, flipped out completley. Dispite my harsh feelings for this guy, me and my friend would talk to him online and treat him as if he were our friends, even if it meant telling him how meg was decieving him...because, after all, she was cheating on him. So during the summer, she had a party. They had broken up for the summer, of course another meg thing to do, break it off so she could do whatever she wanted all summer. This night, though, was different. She was still telling him she loved him, and that they would get togheter, and the night before, they went to a concert togheter and he claimed it was the greatest day they had shared. Meg threw a party at her house, and her old boyfriend showed up. Jon found out and walked 2 miles to her house, knocked on her door and he answered. He flipped out, and punched him. He also punched a wall and shattered his knuckle. The first person he called was me, because i,at this time, did feel bad. He came in my house, around 1am...and i bandaged up his hand, which was completley out of line. I didn't want to attend this party because I didnt want to be involved with the concequences, but actually i was at the bitter end. Meg got drunk and had sex with her ex. Me and my friend dana didn't know what to do, at this time we were both good friends with jon, and we hated to see him hurt. So, we told him, adh he swore to secrecy he wouldnt tell. And he didn't, he lied that he found out another way. But they got back togheter, after all this, i can't even explain. Now that school started again, he doenst even talk to me, he igonres me and my friend totaly. He leaves her 10 messages on her voicemail a day. They are always together...still...despite all this. He throws chairs and gets mad and yells at her and they are still together. At first we thought it was cute, now its just turned in to this obsession. I dont even think he cares about her ..he just needs to feel secure. So this is where we stand. Our health class teacher told us these are all signs of an abusive relationship...but she won't listen. I need to do something...but what? Ive tried everything...please help me and thank you SO MUCH for reading this.
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If she is in an abusive relationship, try and get her out of it right away. Shes a good friend of yours and you dont want to see her get hurt. So what if hes mad at you...sure its going to bother you for a while but from the sounds of it it seems like you should stay away from this guy.
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ok, i have been going out with this guy for maybe 2 and a half weeks. then i keep seeing him talking to this other girl that already has a bf. so i didn't think about it but now he is writing stuff on his hand saing stuff like i love then someones name but he won't let me or my friends c. then his friend said he wrote i love then then the girls name who he was talking 2, but he said he wrote my name....who do i believe and how do i know if i am going to get dumped? HELP ASAP! (link)
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Talk to him about it. It's clearly tearing you apart inside. If she has a bf...dont get too worried...but if they break up maybe you should take a little more action.
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I have a few questions about getting shiney hair.
1. Does icy cold water really help make your hair shiney?
2. Are there any other techniques that help make your hair shiney?
3. What are some good products?
Thanks..I rate high! (link)
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1. I'm not sure. All i heard was that it makes it stronger.
2. Some hair straighteners shine hair, depending on which one you buy.
3. My hair i guess it kinda shiney...and i use white rain or you can get some sprays for your hair
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I have an exboyfriend that I don't like-like but I do like him as a friend. I want to be his friend but every time I get around him I don't want to talk becuz the last time we did he said why did you break up with me. I ran off so I couldn't answer but I broke up w/ him bcuz I think that i was using him. i haven't had a boyfriend in a while so i wanted one real bad so i went out with him. we hugged but didn't kiss and it still didn't feel right. How do I talk to him without hurting his feelings or making him mad? (sorry its so long) (link)
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Even though the truth hurts, honesty is the best policy. Its going to be hard to tell him and you shouldnt let it all on him at once, but if you want to be friends with him, you have to tell him whats going on.
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alright well I think my friend is going anerxic but I'm not sure..like shes eating alil bit but not as much as before..does anyone know like some signs of it? or like anything she might be eating instead of her regular food..? like she would never make herself throw up because she has braces and an expander and when she threw up when she was sick she thought it was the nastiest thing because it was all like stuck up in it..so if you know anything about it like signs or symptons please help! (link)
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If you look online, you'll find tons of things. They tell you symptoms, effects, and treatments. If your not sure if she really is...maybe you should talk to her about it first. Its not good jumping to conclusions.
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Um...there's this guy at me school who I like. He's really popular, but he's SOO nice. Everybody likes him, I think. Anyway, I can really see us together, and I can really see us falling in love, you know? But the thing is I know he likes this other girl (which I'm fine with, despite a small twinge of jealousy) and I'm afraid he wouldn't like me because I'm not really in his group. I'm kind of a loner, but all my friends are his friends too (heck, everybody is his friend lol) and I was just wondering...how do I make him notice me? Not that he doesn't now...but, you know, I want him to get to know me. Know who I am. How should I go by this, without truly flirting? I don't want to make him uncomfortable.
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Just start talking to him if your not too shy...It can't hurt. And maybe over time he'll realize that your a nice person and start to like you. Just try talking to him...kidding around with him but not too much, you dont want to put yourself out there. And maybe things will work out for you.
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Okay, this is kind of weird for me, but I want/need help...I'm in this after school women's ensemble, and we're singing this piece, Unchained Melody. I love the song. It's pretty, it's fun to sing, and it has meaning - but that's the problem. For some reason, it really strikes a chord, and I've never been able to sing through it without crying. Obviously you can't sing when you cry because your throat tightens up. I do have the option of telling our director that I can't sing the piece, but I don't want to do that because I like it. I can't just sing it flatly without emotion because that's just...bad. Anyone have any ideas as to how to fix this, or help me in any way? (link)
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after singing it for a little while longer maybe you'll get used to it and not cry when it gets to that certain point. If if still doesn't work...maybe you can find a way around it. If you still need more help just let me know
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ok i really need help!
alright there is this guy...and ive liked him for a LONG time and we went out but he moved so we broke up but we're still really good friends and i talk to him every day and i love him alot still!! well i know i should move on and everything and theres this other boy that im starting to like alot and i wanna like him but i feel really guilty because i told the other guy id always love him and no one else and thats the truth that i will always love him but it seems wrong! can someone please help me ill rate high! (link)
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You can't wait around forever even though you want to. If you really really see you guys going out, fine thats awesome i hope you do. But if not, go for that new guy you've had your eye on.
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14/m there is this girl who i kinda like. the problem is that she is out of my league. she is in all honors classes and im only in honors math and we're not in the same class. there is also this other guy that likes her (a friend of mine) and he has a better chance at going out with her than me cuz they are closer than she is with me. how can i get close to girls, so i'll have a better chance with them than other guys? (link)
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Slowly start hanging out with them, that way they really cant suspect anything. Then start talking to her more and let her get to know you. But dont be someone your not...cuz its just really not worth it in the end.
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I'm going out w/ the greatest guy ever, but unfortunately he lives like, 45 mins. away. so anyway, there's this kid, matt, at school who's always kinda had this crush on me. well 2day in school, i hugged him like usual, cuz we're such good friends, and he gave me a kiss on the cheek. i just wanna know if this is ok, cuz i would never wanna cheat on my bf.
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Its ok. As long as it was like a friendly kiss its not that bad. But just think...if someone kissed your bf on the cheek, would you get mad? Just let your friend know you guys cant be anything but friends for now.
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