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There is this guy I'm going out with, and theres also this girl that is kind of my friend, though I find her annoying sometimes. Anyways, before we were going out, my friends all dared me to go hug the guy, because everyone knew he liked me. Hugging is no big deal to me, so I did. The other girl went up to me and told me never to hug him again. I asked her why, and she said, "Just don't." So I just shrugged and went away. Some time after that, he asked me out, and the day after we went to a museum on a field trip. My boyfriend bought me a necklace and it was very pretty. I didn't want to make him think I didn't like him, so I pretty much wore it every day. After a week, the girl told me never to wear the necklace again. I asked her why, and she said "Because it bothers me." I got kind of pissed but stayed under control and kept wearing the necklace. The girl obviously likes my man, or she's just jealous that she doesn't have one. How can I tell her that I don't want her butting in all the time? I don't want to cause any fights.
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In situations like this...theres probably going to be a fight of some sort...Even if its tiny but no matter what you do someones feelings are going to get hurt. You have to tell her that hes your bf and she has to deal with the fact that you two are going out and that you really like each other. She just has to deal
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You can be like, "Um, yeah, I don't know what your deal is, but you will not tell me what to do, or what not to do. If you have something to say, say it to me!" ...something along those lines. The only thing to do really is ask her in your own way why she suggests those things instead of you just walking away when she does. Get some answers. Try to understand her as a friend (even though she's annoying) and then go from there!!:) But you ARE right to continue on with your man despite her demands.
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Let Juliet spread the love (*'../'*). Ok this gurl needs some love. It seams like she has been admiring this guy for a long time. Maybe you her and your boy should sit and talk. Maybe you can take her on some of your dates. Make her feel comfortable just trying not to get tooo comfortable. E-mail me or im me if you need more help.
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I agree. Its not your fault you recieved gifts and given him a hug. You do have every right to do what you did. He's your boyfriend not hers, she should respect that and not tell you what to do with your boyfriend. If she has a problem with it, Confront her and tell her "Hey, He's my boyfriend and its not polite telling me what to do with my boyfriend, Im sure you wouldnt want someone telling you what to do with your boyfriend". Hey, If she's smart, she'll understand. =)
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Hun, sounds like she has a MAJOR crush on your man... you can't be nice to her because she won't get it... Trust me on this! Just like blow her off and embarass her in like infront of everybody then she might leave you a lone... I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
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it sounds to me like she likes the guy you're going out with. be nice to her, just ignore all the weird stuff she says. it's none of her buisiness, anyway. but be gentle, it's hard to see the one you like going out with someone else.
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You need to just plain out tell her. Just say its your boyfriend, and you can do what you want with him and stuff. And if she doesnt listen, and still continues to stay stuff to you..you should start getting mad or yelling. because i hate when people dont get the message the first time, so yelling is all you can do..and hopefully she'll get it through her head. but tell her ur still her friend but she needs to shut up
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