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hey wow well i really like this guy but im really not sure if he likes me cuz i mean he always ims me even while im away and we'll talk online and stuff but i just dont kno if he's interested and im kinda used to not gettin guys so how should i somewhat show him that i like him without having to actually tell him... should i flirt more and how?
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Yea...Kid around with him basically. Do stupid little cute things and do little jokes here and there. ]
(to figure out if he likes you): first off.. figure otu what kind of person he is.. you kinda gotta group them.. if he's one that kinda is flirtacious with alot of people and is social.. then is he different when he's around you? like with me.. i give everyone hugs and talk to anyone and everything no matter who/wat they are.. so if i did that to a guy then i'm not really sending out a signal.. BUT if i like hung out with a specific guy more than any other and always talked about them and hugged them the most and stuff.. then yeah maybe i'm al il interested in them.. same thing with this guy.. but if he's kinda well kept to himself and always more like the if you talk to them then il'l talk guy.. then does he open up to you more than others? the problem is most girls and guys.. dont stop to think about this and think.. oh yeah they're sending out a signal.. well most of the time the people are just.. being themselves.. so make sure you really think abou this.. does he act different to YOU from everyone else?.... second off.. if he is.. then drop little hints.. like with one of my frineds right now.. this guy thinks he's "so ugly" and of course my frined is like.. aww no you're not. you're cute.. haha that's kinda a big hint... also if you want.. then you can just be blunt and be like.. hey ___.. i we've been hanging out alot lately and i think i'm starting to like you.. do you like me? sometimes being blunt works.. hope i helped. ]
maybe you should try and flirt a little bit more or maybe you SHOULD TELL HIM even though you dont really want to.... ]
just talk to him, act interested in the things he says. if he really likes you he'll be putting out tiny hints to see how you respond. be on the lookout for these hints and respond to them favorably. as he gains more confidence the hints will become bigger and more frequent, and if you reassure him enough he'll probably ask you right out. it might take awhile though. of course if you don't want to wait around for all of this, and you're a bold type of person then you could always just ask him! but i'd wait and make sure i had enough evidence where i could be reasonably sure he liked me. ]
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