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Hi it is me amy again. i am really still sad. i really hope you guys will help me out. Well this is my problem. my best frienmd chose her Boy friend over me i am really getting sad. i wishi knew what to do. so if you can help me send me an email at amyBelle101@AOL. com or just answer it here. thanks a million. amy

Talk to her tell her how u feel even though i really dont understand what the problem was in the first place why cant she have a boyfriend and still be friends with u any ways if talking doesent work just find a new b/f but i still thinks thats wrong foor her to have chosen a guy over a friend no guy is worth fighting for dont worry about it she'll come around

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hi

im a 14 yr old female. ive got a boyfriend and hes recently aske me 2 give him a blowjob. im scared my parents will find out

wat shud i do???

wow 14 is young to be doing that kind of stuff maybe ur just not ready for that kind of thing yet mentaly i mean tell him and see what happends

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I'm a 17 Female

There's this guy who goes to my friends church. His name is Collin. Anyway, I've thought Collin was cute for a while and I noticed him looking at me a few times during church and stuff. Well I told my guy friend, Aaron (who's friends with him) about it. Well last Sunday night Aaron went up to Collin and asked him what he thought about me (I didn't know what he was doing at the time. All I saw was Aaron talking to him and Collin smiling a lot.) Well Aaron told me that Collin smiled and nodded and said "Nice" (like he thought I looked good or something). Aaron told me I'd have to start talking to him because he's shy or w/e. Well when I got home he was online and my friend Crystal (whom he barely knows by the way) IMed him.. and asked him what he thought about me, again. And he told HER that he wasn't my type or something like that.. Could someone tell me what he means by this? I mean.. I know he's saying he doesn't think He's my type but.. why did he act like he was interested when my friend Aaron asked him but completely turn the tables when Crystal asked him.. Could it be that he doesn't know Crystal and didn't really want to tell her, or what? If anyone could help me, I'd greatly appreciate it! :)

it could just be a guy thing why would he tell another girl what he thinks about you i think u should stick to what Aaron said and kick crystal out of the picture she'll just mess things up why dont u just talk to him ask Aaron to introduce you to then see what happens

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I like this guy and I really have no idea why.. We have never talked in person but I think he's cute and we've talked on the internet before. Do you think I should take a chance and go up to him and start talking or what ? Im confused...

yes definitly the next time u talk to him on the internet tell him you'd really like to talk to him in person then set up a place to meet and start from there i hope everything works out

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I like a 6th grader and I'm pretty sure he knows but there is no way I can talk to him without barely being able to speak how do I deal?

If u have any classes with himfind an excuss to talk to him like needing heip with class work or write him a note telling u think he's really cool and would like to become friends it's ok he wont bite u just be yourself guys like that later -danni

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i've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 2 months now and we're both too shy to kiss, we both said we wanted to but neither of us has the guts to make the first move. I don't know how to make a move on him and i'm scared that it'll all go wrong but i'm sick of my friends calling me a fridge. what do i do? :(

The next time you 2 go out when he drops u off give him a hug and just as ur about to pull away stop like right by his cheek then stare him straightin the eyes look away look back and slowly move ur face close to his keep eye contact eventully he'll start moveing in and the next thing u know you'll be kissing. Maybe he's just one of those guys who likes the girl to make the first move. I hope it works out email me back at AskDanni@aol.com to tell me how it turned out later-Danielle

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i have this friend and we used t be really close but she acts so dumb and shes really annoying so i told her that shes annoying sometimes but she was like ya so what do i do to get her to stop? we are close but it gets on my nerves and stresses me

tell her how u feel and that dont mean to her feelings but she really is annoying and ur just tired of it if she still doesent stop tell her u need to go on a break maybe then she'll relize she really is annoying u and better cooldown if she wants to continue being friends

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Hi, My name is Ashleigh, I really hope some one can help me and not critize me when they give me there advice. I am envoloved with this guy named Mark, weve been together for 4 years..so, here's the problem.. Right here recently, I have started to have strong feelings for his friend {there not best friends or anything}. This guy, Jayson, has told me that he feels the same way. Both of us really like each other, and want to hookup! I love my boyfriend, but am not attracted to him as much as I am Jayson and I just love being around him. But the only time I can be around him is when he comes to my house. {me and my boyfriend live together} so it's like we dont have alot of time to do the things we both want to do. Can someone please give me some advice on what to do? Should I just stay with my boyfriend.....or go for all out happiness with this other guy? There also is one more problem...there is a 5 year age gap between us...me being the older one.

all i can say is follow ur heart and that in love age means nothing

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You know what woman have every month . Well mine is late . I'm a virgin, but I am so worried . My dad won't stop sweatin me , and he knows I be at home or at school . I don't get out much . What should I do ? I can't stand this . He's (my father) has nagged me until now it's starting to bother me . I know I shouldn't worry if I haven't done anything wrong, but has anyone ever went through anything like this before .

yes im ereguler my self which means u dont get urs every month but every other month it's ok dont stress ur fine

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i dont know what to do!!!!!!! im so scared everynight that im going to get kidnapped or something!!!! how do i get over that fear so i can sleep at night??

i dont mean to get relgiouse but pray before u go to sleep what i do is i leave my bible open by my bed i like to think it protects me always pray for the lord to give u a peaceful night sleep

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I have been beging for an earing for about 3 years now. im 14 and in 8th grade i reall really want it but there is just no way that i can convince my parents i dont know what to do please someone help me in ways to convince them ive tried school grades are good chores for free and even going shopping for them once in awhile i dont know what to do anymore.....

beg just keep beging they'll eventulygive in

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I was hot one night.... 3 nights. So I turned the air temerature down and then my mom realized and she said that costs money! my family doesnt have alot of that to spend on something like this! what should i do? i dont want them to be mad at me!

help!

apoligize to ur parents and tell them u just get really hot and to please buy u a little fan the most ten dollars at the dollar store hope u cool down later-Danielle

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I want to get a thong. I am almost 12 and my mom says I am too young! Whenever I ask her she said "Hell no Jennifer! How many fuc*ing times do I have to tell you?!" How can I convince her to let my buy one without her getting mad and yelling at me..... AGAIN!!!

I dont know 12 seems a little young to want get a thong there so uncomfortable but thats ur thing, if she's absoulutly not going to let u get one my best advise is for u to buy one with out telling her or for ur next birthday or holiday that comes up ask get a little box the size of a shoe box buy some lipbalm a small teddy bear a picture of u and a friend the thong u want put it all in the box and wrap it up as a gift and give it to ur friend and tell her to give itto u in front of ur mom it helps if she gets u a card that says 'one gift i know you'v been wanting for awhile so i got it for u i hope u like it' (that meaning the thong) read the card aloud so ur mom can hear that way you'll have the thong and ur mom will know about it and wont take it away because ur friend got it for u trust me works every time hope it works send me some feedback to let me know how it went later-Danielle

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i have liked this guy(lets call him *B*) for about 8 months. he has changed my life completely around. i like him so much, i can talk to him about anything. and he makes me feel like a princess. he is like the ideal guy. except he has changed me and not for the best. before i used to be the sweetest girl who wouldn't make-out with guys a lot. but now all my friends are like to me "god you spend all your time with him now" and their all like "its not my fault.. cuz *B* is kinda controling" Now last nite my bestfriend told me that eventually i am gonna have to choose between haveing *ALL* my good friends or the GUY!.. but i like him soo much!!!!What should i do?? PLEASE HELP ME!

--troubled

If this guy really liked he would understand u need friend time tellhim no one controls u but u and u miss ur friends and would like to spend more time with them if he gets mad then he's not worth ur time i know it's hard giveing up a guy u really like but there are alot of other guy's out there dont lose ur friends over a guy but do what u feel is right follow ur heart email me at AskDanni@aol.com to letmeknow how all goes later -Danielle

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I really like this one guy, but the bad part about him is that he's a flirt. He is currently single, but he's constantly flirting with girls and he even has a little black book with dozens of girls' phone numbers in it. He's got a very perverted sense of humor and always asks me if I could do perverted things for him involving taking off my clothes. He's just kidding of course, but is this kind of guy worth my time?

if ur not in to that kind of stuff by that i mean kidding around about preverd things then no he is not worth ur time there are alot of other guys out there i know what it's like to like a guy who's abig flirt u feel like if u went out with him u know u cant trust him my advise to u find someone else worth ur time who is'nt so perverted and is interested in the same things u are

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My friend lets call her "trish" and I both like the same guy!! I told her I liked him first and now she likes him!! I cant believe her!!

maybe she really does like him it may seem unfair because u liked him first but maybe when u told her u liked him she took a good look at him for the first time and relized she really does like him if shes ur friend im sure she's not doing it to be mean remember no boy is worth fighting for if one of u get with him the other should be happy for the other when u need a shoulder to lean on a boy wont be there but a friend will always be there for u i hope all goes well emailme to tell me how all goes at AskDanni@aol.com Later-Danni

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my parents don't let me do anything they treat me like a child altho im 13 and almost 14 how am I suppoed to let them let me do stuff????

Your at the age were your parents are thinking about is 4 more years and your all grown up dont get angery the are only tring to protect you. But tsit them down and tell u know its hard let go but ur not a baby anymore but that what u feel like ask them to atleast give u a chance show them ur responsible and talk to them like an adult dont whine just be honest and show them ur not a baby but a mature teen i would love to know how things went please email me back at AskDanni@aol.com and tellme if it worker out later-Danielle

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I've been really good friends with this one girl for nearly my entire life (I'm a girl too btw) and I've always considered her my best friend; however, she's never been very nice to me. She's not a very nice person at all actually. We may have had laughs and great memories together, but as long as I've known her she's always done incredibly bitchy things to me. She would give me something for my birthday and then take it back and give it to her bf. She's stolen the guy I liked right infront of me (and whenever I'm around she calls him on her cell just to make me jealous), she invites all of my best friends to her parties so they won't come to mine telling them that if they go to mine instead of hers that she won't be friends with them anymore... she constantly complains about how stupid I am... and other things like that too. I know that she's not a good friend, and I admit that I don't like her at all anymore! but she thinks that I'm her best friend... and it makes me sad to look back at all the things that we've gone through together. I can't just stop being friends with her can I? We've been "best friends" for over 11 years now! I don't know what I should do. If I told her that I don't like the way she acts I have the feeling that she'll punch me in the face because she's done that before... what should I do?

there are your good times and your bad times thats what you have to remember people change over time maybe there was a time when you to got a long but people change over time and go in different directions and it sounds like she took bitch road. 11 years is a long time youto have a history talk to her remind her of all the good times and your crush talk to her tell her it really hurts you for her just to be all over him in front u. if in ur heart u know that ur friend ship wont last then do the right thing and break it off with her there alot of other people looking for a friend like u i know its hard because you'v known her so long it hurts i know but in the end she'll be left with all the memories and relize what a good friend you really were she'll get her turn when all her friends ditch her she'll need a friend to lean on she'll think of u and relize she lost u to because she is what i like to call a super Bitch. I hope it goes well email me at AskDanni@aol.com to tell me how it went later-Danielle

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My friend started dating my crush and i dont know how to tell her i've liked him for like 3 years. what do i do?

Tell her it will make u feel much better i know it's hard but she has to know if she's a true friend she'll understand no guy is worth fighting for. tell her ur happy for her and that ur sorry u like him but u cant help ur feelings and that it doesent change anything and u hope u all can still be good friends. i hope it goes well for u email me back to let me know how it went at AskDanni@aol.com

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