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are psycics real? are they FOR real? or do they make up stuff for the money and if any of you out there know any real psycis that are easy to reach to can ya send me their site or something

Phsychics ARE real, but they ARE of the devil.You do not want to get into that kind of stuff =/ It really is bad...and it may seem "just for fun" but that really is not good.

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what are some really good poets that have many poems that i could find online? i need to find 3 poems to 'connect' with by one poet, um if youre wondering if ill connnect with who you pick then heres some about me-

-i dont love love poems but im not a cynic
-ive been through a lot of bad in my life
-i have many emotions but im am not 'emo', if youre someone who labels people
-i like peace, but dont call me a hippie
-singers that have lyrics i love=john lennon, alanis morissette


pleae give me some poets even if youre not sure!

thank you

I dont have the answer for what you're looking for, but I do know someone who can help you out thru tough times, who will always be there for you, no matter what happens! Im sure you've heard this before, but Jesus loves you and He'll listen to you!

why dont you believe in Jesus?

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alright, first off i should tell you about my self. i am a 14 year old female, and i have never believed in god, or any of that stuff. ever. my whole family is majorly relgious, and im not. in most cases i am completely different from my family, so it didnt supprise me when i really didnt believe in god.

i dont believe in him, at all, what so ever. and my parents FORCE me too. like i HAVE to go to classes and church every week. i have tried to calmyly tell them, i dont believe in it.. i have tried uncalmly. nothing works.
i believe that religion is a thing that you should choose, it shouldnt be force.
so i need ya'lls help.

how can i really get them to see that i do not believe in this stuff?

i want to come across mature.

thanks for all that is going to help.

Well, I dont know your parents, but from what it sounds like, they're not trying to force it on you. They love and know what's best for you.Im a Christian, and to us, God is the most important thing in our life. Why don't you give it a try? Just listen and actually think about it. Why do you not believe in God? (im not against you im just asking!)

He didnt have "powers" but he did have the ability to create miracles.Hes the son of God..

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would you consider someone who

*tap, jazz, and hip-hop dances
*used to listen to britney spears, went to 2 of her concerts, owns her autorgrpah and danced to her songs on his porch
*loves pretty woman & thats so raven
*and gets excited when going to the mall or shopping

gay? do all of those things add up to gay also he gets overly excited about gossip. . . do you think hes gay? he denies it but it seems like he is, i want to believe him since hes my friend but theres so many signs!! aghh

well, he could be and he couldn't be!Not to be rude but why do you need to know so bad?!Personally, im against being homosexual, but that dosen't mean you have to judge the person or think of them any different!

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Okay welll... 13/f and i am getting a white discharge in my underwear and it does not smell good at all. I have started my period so its nothing like that i mean it might involve it but its not warning me or anything. Never have been sexually active either so i dont know how to clean better down there and have tht stuff stop coming out. also. how are you and what are u supposed to be cleaning with down in tht region?Does it help to shave?

I dont have an answer, but I have been seeing people telling you you have BV or whatever, you might but I don't think you do. I have the same problem and I just wear a light pad.Thats pretty much all you can do!Its normal,I've heard my friends talking about it too, so I dont think you should worry. If you are worried than you should talk to your mom :]

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There's this huge show next month at school, and I volunteered to sing Carrie Underwood's "Jesus Take the Wheel". I know I can do it, I'm already halfway there perfecting it, but I need some tips. Can anyone who knows much about this subject give me great tips? Mostly including tone, airflow, and lots of vibrato? Thanks in advance.

Practice makes perfect :]
Its not much, but its all I got!
Good luck!!

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What is a Godmother/Godfather?
Example: When your friend has a baby and wants you to be the Godmother.
Thanks in advance!

Um its a catholic thing is pretty much what I know.My mom is one and she's just the person that would take care of her best friend's child if anything happened to the parents.

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I have a curious question. I know that there are different ways to get an abortion but i would like to know if anyway causes risks to future pregnancies and if so, which method of abortion causes the least risk.???

Im not going to answer your question (sorry I dont know) but is it okay if I tell you my opioion? Abortion is cruel, its murder to an innocent baby, and if you dont want the baby or can't take care of it you can always put him/her up for adoption.Its alot less painful, and its giving the child a chance to live.Please e-mail me: hottpink2010@aim.com

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15, almost 16, female.
Little brother is 12 almost13.

we fight all the time. I try so hard to be nice. and most of the time I am nice. I am always sharing, and even if I getsomething new, I always share it, and I am tollerent of our different taste in music. He likes heavy rap and metal, and those are the two I despise. Although I enjoy love songs, they are not my favorite, he despises them tho.

I want to be a good big sister. I want him to come to me when he has a girlfriend, or when he has girl trouble, or something good to tell me. I want him to be able to come to me. Now when he needs to be driven to a friends house or somewhere with a friend, he despises when I drive, ( I have my permit) but, I know I need the practice so I can get my liscense, and My parents, of course, are with me, and they are okay with me driving my brother and his friends. But I will be getting my liscence in 5months, and I want him to want me to drive him. I want him to look up to me, and like it when I drive him or pick him up from places. I do try to set a good example too!!

Any tips? Is he just going through a stage? How can I be more tollerent when he is bad??

thank you so much in advance!!

-Kelsey-
k2204

Well, my sister and I are 10 years apart..this is the worst what you're going thru right now.We used to fight really bad, like everyday.But its totally different now,shes 23 and im 13.Were like best friends.Although, im not sure if it will be the same for you, because hes a guy, and wants to be cool (like every other guy is),and hes only 12 and youre alot older, almost 16, more mature, and out of the stage hes going through. Give it some time, when he's older I bet you guys will be friends because you sound like a great sister.I hope it all works out! ♥

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theres this kid that ive seen at these hockey games..from my cousins school ((our schools are rivals)) haha but yeah ive seen him a couple times and he is soooooo hott! i wanna like talk to him..and my little cousin even told him that i thought he was hott..yeaaaaaa embarassing but now he thinks im like weird..since he doesnt know me but then i think he is hott? he told me to go up and talk to him next time i see him..but what would i say..i dont think im gonna do it because it would be akward.but he is very good with the ladies if you know what i mean and i get sooo jealous when is talking to some very pretty girl because i know they have enough courgae to talk to him but i dont..it doesnt help that i havent talked to him once ..i dont even think he knows i exist!! how can i get him to notice me..and if i see him somewhere..i cant just be like HEY im Chelsie! because come on who does that? if someone did that to me i would be like okayyy who are you? ahh any suggestions! i want to get him to notice me..it doesnt help that im REALLY SHY and QUIET. =( please help me! i will rate 5 for an answer!!

The most important thing is to be yourself. Dont change who you are to impress a boy. Step out of your comfort zone, and have some friends meet him first and then introduse you two maybe? The only way you'll get over being shy, is if you give off a first impression that youre outoging and friendly. The more you do it, the easier and better it is for you! ♥

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what color goes best with pink?
what color goes best with blue?
what color goes best with gray?

Pink and grey

blue and orange

gray goes with pretty much anything:green,pink,orange,teal,purple ect.

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I am thinking about trying out for fastpitch (softball). I'm really good at fielding. I was on the slowpitch team. But, I absolutely cannot hit fastpitch!! Can anyone give me tips on how to help hitting? By the way, I play basketball that's why I have to try-out so late. By the way, if you could, try not to suggest go to a batting cage. Because I live in Mississippi, the part affected by Katrina, and I'm not sure of many batting cages that are open.

Um, ive played softball for 7 years now,and whats helped my batting is this thing I think its called 'hit away'? You hook it up to a pole in ur basement and just throw it and on the third time you hit it. It makes you quicker. Also, it could be that you're holding the bat wrong. Make sure your left elbow is up and your bat is back, and make sure you shift your weight from your right leg to your left before swinging.(you could get help from an adult or a softball clinic) Another thing is building up your muscels in your arms. Lift some weights or do some push-ups, but dont over-do it. Make sure you stretch before batting =) I hope I helped ♥

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I have kind of an odd question. My friend told me that if you listen to Stairway to Heaven backwards, its satanic messages. I was skeptical and my parents told me it wasnt true. I had so many nightmares that night, thinking about what it sounded like, that when I woke up this morning, I turned on my computer and tried to find any and every piece of info I could about "backmasking" or listening to songs in reverse to hear satanic messages. I was really scared, but interested. It was all I thought about the WHOLE day, and Im not even kidding. Im afraid because I cant get the song Stairway to Heaven backwards which is "Oh My sweet Satan" and things like that out of my head! what do i do?! And also, is it REAL? Please somebody give me more information about backmasking. Ive looked up every google site on it. But, I want someone to give it to me in their own words. I will give everyone a 5 who has a good answer!

Don't get into that.. it really is bad =/

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why does everyone look at a teen having a baby like the end of the world for them. i mean i know its hard but I've seen tons of people work through it,and live successful lives. so its a challenge. but worse can happen. i mean if the person can be a good monther and somehow support herself and her child isnt that enough?

Teenagers aren't supposed to have babies. Why can't they wait until theyre an adult?I dont think its fair to the child because teenagers can't give their babies what adults can.its not that far away it can wait.. its alot of money to support yourself (a teenager) and a baby.its tough.. buying diapers and formula every month, clothes, food for you, car payment, house payments, and not to mention all your time.its stressful, and hard work.

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okay well i have something really big to tell my parents and im not sure how to tell them. well i really want to tell them that i want to have a baby (16/f) everyone says i should but i really dont get along with my parents.. well its not that we dont get along its just that we arent that close. should i tell them now or should i wait till have a bf that i have been dating for a while because i am currently single. i know eitehr way they are going to flip but i dont want to screw things up. so how do i tell them and when?

You're too young..besides you don't have enough money to support the baby.Trust me its ALOT harder and more expensive than you think. My 23 year old cousin has a hard enough time..just wait

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well first i wanna apoligize for this being so long!!!!

i sometimes feel depressed and like the world doesnt want me not all the time but most of the time!!!i have fun with my family sometimes but we argue all the time! then sometimes find myself faking injures so i can get medication but when my mom tells me to go get it from the cabinet i take more than im supposed to so it can make me go to sleep so i can hear anymore arguing! Then i find myself ctting constantly over stupid things! Then ill write sucide poems i keep them all in a box and later on when im fine i read them it makes me more depressed. I started smoking b/c i heard somewhere that it calms you down. sometimes i get frunk just so i cant remember what happened last night. i fell like im the worst person ever and i really want to die! does anybody have any advice? plz help


-lost hope

Overdose of medicine is very unsafe!Smoking and drinking at a young age is also unhealthy.You shouldn't write suicide poems anymore,I would take that box out to the curb.God can help you.He's the only answer.Just talk to Him, and He'll listen.He can help you with everything you're going through

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ok the other day my g/f and i were making out and i dont know what got into me but i stuck my hand down her pants and she didnt like it. she was ok that i put it down there but not too far and one time i think i got a little too far cuz after that she seemed depressed. now i feel like a jerk. afterward she said she sortof liked it but im not sure. wut got into me and how can i make it up to her? by the way im 14.

whoa buddy youre 14 years old.. slow down. All you can do is apologize, which you've done already. Give her some flowers and candy =]

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i was just wondering how old do u have to be to be able tolike get your own apartment? because i dont wanna live at home anymore and like could i go on welfare or something??

14/f

You can't until your 18. Why don't you want to live at home anymore? Just give it a little while you'll get over whatever is bothering you.

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I am a 17 year old boy, the only son in family. I have four sisters, three are elder and one is younger. My all family members love me a lot as I am the only brother. I also love them. But I don’t know why I have dirty feelings about my sisters. My mind always filled with dirty feelings about them. My mind always work on dirty schemes.But they all think me a innocent boy.I share a room with me eldest sister she is about 24 years old. She has a fat body. She snores during sleep. When she is in deep sleep I touch and caress her body and feels the softness and smells her private parts, specially her hips. I also try to hear the sound from washroom when she use it. Many times I have shown my male organ to her as I come out after taking bath in towel. I like to see her impressions when I (posing that I am unaware) give her view. Twice I have also shown to my youngest sister (she is 13 year old).
My sisters are friendly in nature, I have habit of slap and pinch their hips. Some time we fake fight with each other and during that I touch their private parts posing my self innocent. They believe this brotherly love but I have dirty thinking. I try to see them using washroom or taking bath from the backyard and when ever I succeed many days spend in dreaming about that

In spite of all this I have no sex thoughts about my sisters, I never thought about that. I just like to do the above mentioned things & enjoys.

Please give me an advise, how should I control my self to avoid such things. IS I am sick?

Simply stop. Don't let yourself think about them like that..self control,dont let yourself touch them. Theyre your sisters.. Don't entertain dirty thoughts in your mind. You can control it. And dont show them you naked.. thats gross. Move out of that room and have a room of your own, i suggest. talk to an adult about it, or better, God. God can take away those thoughts from you.

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so. this was my first year in high school and in public school. i was "shy" and quiet in class. I did make soem friends though. It just feels like in school all the girls look the same and than u have me who has my own style and stuff. People are saying im "weird" and making up rumors just because i stick out. I have brown hair and green eyes and people just think im weird because im not afraid to be myself. Am i doing the right thing?

Of course you're doing the right thing..People are probably just jealous that they don't have the guts to be who they want to be and not who people want them to be. Don't listen to what they say it dosen't matter anyway. Forget their lies.. Be you!

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