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I am a 17 year old boy, the only son in family. I have four sisters, three are elder and one is younger. My all family members love me a lot as I am the only brother. I also love them. But I don’t know why I have dirty feelings about my sisters. My mind always filled with dirty feelings about them. My mind always work on dirty schemes.But they all think me a innocent boy.I share a room with me eldest sister she is about 24 years old. She has a fat body. She snores during sleep. When she is in deep sleep I touch and caress her body and feels the softness and smells her private parts, specially her hips. I also try to hear the sound from washroom when she use it. Many times I have shown my male organ to her as I come out after taking bath in towel. I like to see her impressions when I (posing that I am unaware) give her view. Twice I have also shown to my youngest sister (she is 13 year old).
My sisters are friendly in nature, I have habit of slap and pinch their hips. Some time we fake fight with each other and during that I touch their private parts posing my self innocent. They believe this brotherly love but I have dirty thinking. I try to see them using washroom or taking bath from the backyard and when ever I succeed many days spend in dreaming about that
In spite of all this I have no sex thoughts about my sisters, I never thought about that. I just like to do the above mentioned things & enjoys.
Please give me an advise, how should I control my self to avoid such things. IS I am sick?
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Simply stop. Don't let yourself think about them like that..self control,dont let yourself touch them. Theyre your sisters.. Don't entertain dirty thoughts in your mind. You can control it. And dont show them you naked.. thats gross. Move out of that room and have a room of your own, i suggest. talk to an adult about it, or better, God. God can take away those thoughts from you.
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Ok I thought I understood the question, until you said you had no sexual thoughts about you sisters. It sounds to me like that's exactly what you're thinking. If you have no sexual thoughts, then why are you touching their "private parts"? I'm not quite sure I get that aspect. But, what you need is girlfriend. It's simply not healthy to fantasize about your sisters in this manner. If you feel like you're horny, beat off. Then look at your sister afterwards. You may just be uncontrollably horny and you'll think clearer after you unload. If not, you may need professional help here.
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Ok, you're growing up. What you're experiencing is quite normal. Many teenage boys, and even young men into their twenties and older, have such feelings. They have no desire for sex - simply for the view and touch. This is why the pornography field is so vastly large and thriving. It's hormones that originally start to make you feel like you want to touch a woman's hips or breasts or private areas, but when you get into the habit of seeing, touching and fantasizing about a woman, it becomes hard to stop.
Resist. In the English dictionary, this means : 1. To strive to fend off or offset the actions, effects, or force of.
2. To remain firm against the actions, effects, or force of; withstand: a bacterium that resisted the antibiotic.
3. To keep from giving in to or enjoying.
I'm talking about the last one, specifically.
It will be incredibly difficult. But you must stop. Your poor sisters are completely unaware and , if they knew, would be terribly disappointed in you.
Imagine if that happened to you. Wouldn't you be a little... creeped out?
Yes, I think it's fairly sick.
To control yourself, think about how your sisters DNA is only SLIGHTLY different than your own. Imagine marrying your sister. Imagine having children with her. Of course, your children would be terribly disfigured and have some sort of awful disease because of the recessive genes which you and your sisters share.
Imagine having to tell your future wife about how you fantasized about your sisters. She would be devistated.
What you are doing is not good.
I would suggest telling a friend. A close friend. But... not a male friend. A female friend. Girls will be able to help you more because they really do understand better. And a guy might simply egg you on, which is the opposite effect of what is needed.
If your sisters ever found out... you could be put in jail for sexual harassment. This is the truth.
This website tells you what is sexual harassment : [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
Instead of posing unaware and showing yourself to your sisters, get dressed in the washroom. Instead of trying to view your sisters bathing, force yourself to concentrate on something else - homework, a book, TV, internet etc.
Go to bed before your sister does so you're already asleep when she goes in to a deep sleep. Should you wake up, resist the urge to get out of bed.
Imagine how this will haunt you in thirty years.
Resist.
If you feel you cannot, confide in someone. A pastor will help. S/he will not judge you.
If nothing else helps, see a psycologist, if your parents will allow.
-FunnyCide
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