Q: im a freshman in highschool and i cant really say that up until now life has been great cause it hasnt... but thats not the problem..the problem is i think im fat.... im 100 pounds and i wanna be 80.... i used to think i was skinny but i dont anymore.... people call me fat at school like there just kidden but theres always truth behind a just kidding.... i tried not eating but i cant do that it just makes me sick and tired.... ive been doing 100 sit ups everynight and its not doing anything... please tell me what i can do... or tell why i feel so ugly :/ thanxx

Q: well for as long as i can remeber i havent gotten along with my mother... and i know she hates me.... she causes me to cut myself a lot too.. right now i have a a broken knee cap and 2 broken ribs becuase i got beat up by a bunch random people becuase i had to walk home at 1130 at night through the projects cause my mom made me get out of the car... she always told me that her life would have been better if i wasnt born... she left me outside when it was 40 degrees outside and i only had a t shirt and shorts on for 3 hours..... i dont nkow what to do... how can i make things better

Love always
Kryysti

Q: Ok my best friend since 1st grade said i was a slut and she doesnt want to hang out with me because of that. I am still a virgin tho so i dont know why she said this. i just date a lot of guys because if i like them and they like me why do i need to get the name of a slut if i go out with them. she really hurt me and now we're not talking and i miss her a lot she knows THE BIGGEST secret of mine and shes going to throw our friendship away over she doesnt want to hang out with me cuz im a "slut" well i was always there for her and now shes not here for me i really need help on what to say to her to get my best friend back!! HELP PLEASE! i'll rate 5's!!


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Q: okay, i really need some help. One of my best friends is dating a 24 year old!!! and she is ONLY 16. They only talk on the phone though and see eachother maybe once a month at most. It's totally unhealthy.. I'm really scared for her because every time they do see eachother, theyve gone further and further, sexually. They've only made out, hes sucked her boobs, hes fingered her, and theyve had "dry sex" or w/e.. This has been goin on for about 4 monts now.. Ive tried several times talking to her about it, but I just dont know what to do anymore.. please help

Q: am 19 and my bf is 24, he hasnt called me in 5 days,we only been going out for a week but in the first two days we really hit it off, but i dont know why he is not calling me,he would call me faithfully but then it just stop,please help me what should i do.

Q: im 16/f
my parents offerd to by me a car. whats a good 1?

Q: ok, my ex boyfriend was at my house last week hanging out with my brother, he stayed the night and in the morning im like "Hey, wanna sign my jeans" cuz i was having everyone sign them. he said sure...and he signed them saying "luv you always, Gary" then 2 nights ago he told me that he wanted my best friend back (he was her first bf and he really liked her but she broke up with him) but yea, then he made a crying face and said "Bryanna!!!!" and did another crying face (this was on a messenger) and he has no idea how much it hurt and confused me. I mean, he writes luv you always on my pants then he says he wants them. He confuses the hell outta me and I don't know what to do about it. when i ask him how he feels he just says he doesnt know. Theres obviously no point in asking him how he feels anymore. So how can I find out? I have seen him look at me a couple times but I guess it didnt mean anything. plz help. thanks 4 reading this, its kinda long lol

Q: ok i have been going out with a girl for quite a while now. we love each other both very much and we know what "love" is...but we have been thinking...about sex. we have already did a couple of things with each other already but other than that we are both still virgins but we are thinking about sex and we are going to go ahead and try it soon possibly even tomorrow or within this week...is this moving too fast...since we know each other and talked it through? and what should i do about this since its our both first time having sex? (we are using protection by the way) thanks for listening

Q: i was with my bf.. and i farted he hasnt really talking to me sense. whats he thinkin bout?

Q: OK, there are 2 parts to this. There is this guy at my school that I really like and I know he likes me back!! But I don't know how to tell him!! I had a crush on him since last year and people say I should ask him out. But you see, I have NEVER been on a date and I'm 13 years old!! Everytime I think about him I feel like I want to kiss him so badly. He just got a haircut and now he looks even cuter, that it's driving me crazy!! OK, the 2nd part is that ever since these 2 girls found out that we liked each other they have been teasing like "So, how's your boyfriend?" He has been acting weird like we used to flirt a lot and he would always smile at me and do nice things to me now he doesn't do that anymore!! Do you think he dosn't like me no more!!?? PLEASE TELL ME!! Sorry it's so long!!

Q: theres a girl that i like but she has a boyfriend, is there anything i can do or do i just have to wait?

Q: okay so .. i broke up with this guy a little while ago. But when i see him i still think about him. My friends say i should go back out with him .. but i dont want to .. i dont think im the type of girl to have a boyfriend but i also like having one too. I dont know what i should do. I dont even know if he still likes me. I think i just still have left over feelings for him but i dont think i could go back out with him. I kinda want to .. but then again im talking to another boy .. so i dont know what to do ..

Q: I have an older sister who's absolutely gorgeous . and even though she's quite horrible to me , she always acts nice in front of everyone else . especially guys . recently , i realised that i liked this guy friend of mine , A LOT . more than friends . even though i'm quite cute and stuff , my sister always gets WAY more attention than me . especially with this guy . it hurts me when i see them sitting together , talking , my sister in her seductive voice , and him smiling .it hurts a LOT . WHAT SHOULD I DO ?

Q: Hello guys, long time reader but first time writer here. I really need some advice.

I've had this best friend for about ten years now (ever since the second grade) and he knows all my secrets. He has been the friend I've been able to go to for all my problems for over half my life. He's always been a great guy, but lately he seems a little different.

He came up to me the other day and told me that he needed to talk to me after school, and of course I told him it was no big deal. Well, when I got to his house after school he called me back to his room. When I got back there he was completely naked and said that if I didn't suck him off then he would tell everyone about my issuses with my sexuality that I had confided in him. I didn't have any other choice, I can't let everyone now that I have impure thoughts about other men since I'm in a private Christian school, but I'm not attracted to him at all. He's really overweight and he has hair everywhere.

Now he's saying that I have to give him head everyday or he will tell everone about my secret desires, even my parents. I don't know what to do, he tastes horrible. I can't keep doing this.

Q: What should I do to remove my leg hair?

Q: there's this guy in my school who seems to dislike me . maybe i'm just being sensitive , but sometimes he repeats what i say in a funny/mocking way .he teases everyone , but i have this feeling he doesn't like me . maybe i'm too sensitive , cuz i don't like it when people tease me or make fun of me . how should i respond to such things ? ( ps : i don't know him that well )

Q: I got my lip periced last year and that hurt like woah. Does getting your tounge peirced hurt worse

Q: This is a bit embarrassing im 14 and i have a very small penis just over 3 inches long its a bit worrying does it matter to girls? Will it get bigger?

Q: during any type of sexual activities, how long is it supposed to take before a guy has an "orgasm"? i think i have a problem, because in less than a minute i already bust. whats wrong?

Q: ok well im going to lucnh with a boy today idont kno wut to talk to him about plz give me alotta ideas i dont wanna bore him!! hes sweet cute and popular!! plz help ill rate a 5!

signed- confused

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