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ok so i have had my period for almost three years now and the first two were regular. But i had surgery in the begining of july and i had my period at the end of july. But after that i havent had it, its been 5 months and i know tis sounds crazy but i want it. It sso annoying not noing wen ur gonna get it. Is this normal after having surgery? if it is then y did i get it in july and not after? (link)
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I'm not shure if it's normal but my advice is to go to ur doctor immediatly..juss in case
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i heard that if u stop eating u will acctually gain weight. is that true?
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Probly...but why would u stop eating??? Food is soo yummy!
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I want to do more than just make out with my boyfriend, but we've just been goin to the movies so it's kinda hard to do anythin else when so many people are around. So any ideas on what we could do or what i could say that would turn him on? (link)
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Hang out with just you and him...like watch movies at one of your houses and things will unfold from there. Just make shure your ready to go to the next step and you trust ur bf enuff. Trust is the most immportant key ina relationship. As for turnig him on, diffrent things turn on diffrent guys....so I dunno wat to tell ya! sorry lol happy holidays
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This guy asked me out like two years ago and I said no but now he and I are sort of friends. And I think he might still like me. So if I hinted around and flirted and stuff do you think he would ask me out again? Or do you think I already missed my only chance? (link)
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If you flirt enuff and drop those signs that you want to be more than friends, he probly will start liking you again. Try talking to him about it too. But member...Actions speak louder than words so FLIRT GURL! Good luck happy holidays!
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ok, i really want bangs. i have long blonde hair and i think it would wrap the look up. people say i should but then there is someone called my MOM who says i cant! it pisses me off because she doesnt let me do anything to my hair! how can i convice her? (link)
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Tell her that it's your hair and not yours and your the one who has to deal with it everymorning. Soon enuff that she will understand that your old enuff to decide wat you want or dont want to do with your own hair. Good luck happy holidays!
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i feel so ashamed of my self
i let my cousin finger me !!!!!!
we never see each other that was the first time we have ever met... is it okay that i feel guilty?!!? (link)
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You should feel guilty. How did u ever let your cuzin finger you? I'm sorry but I hafta say it...GRODY!!!!! It's really hard to give advice to this..but here goes. You can never take bak wat you did but the past is the past but NEVER let that happen again...especially with your cuzin
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Theres this guy at school.This will be an average story but anyways,He waits for me by my locker and he will hold my hand and flirt with me.He just makes me feel really special.We're not going out but sometimes i feel like we are.We've known eachother since we were 5.We are now teenagers.Can someone tell me if he might like me??im a female.
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Crushed (link)
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It sounds like he definitly has feelings for you. Talk to him bout it and if you like him then talk to him bout taking your friendship to the next level
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well i like this boy right and he's spanish and i have no problem with that b/c he''s really sweet and cute. but all my friends do b/c im like white and we're totally diff and some of my friends are sort of racist. i don't know what to do b/c i rlly like this boy...what should i do
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You shuldnt care wat your friends think. If their racist...thats so dum. If you like the guy, go after him! If they have a problem with the race he is, that's their own problem not yours. Try to talk to them bout not being racist and explain that race is juss a color. If they still have a problem with this, then find new friends that wont judge people by the color of their skin.
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This is really long, but I need help! Last year I befriended three girls in my class. They became my really good friends, but one of them was my best friend. One of the other girls isn't very nice to me this year, since her and my best friend used to be best friends. I think that she's jealous. So my best friend and I haven't been hanging around the other two that much just because they're not very nice to us and some other incidents have happened. We've started to hang out with another group. They seemed really mean last year, but this one girl left and now they're all nice. So all of us are really good friends and we all get along great. We've all become closer through church, sports, and school, so I see them all the time. She my best friend and I just leave our two 'ex' best friends alone? They seem to be happy, but I do feel sort of bad. I'd rather hang out with my newer friends though. Help!! (link)
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It sounds like your 'ex' best friends are fine. You don't need to be hanging around with people that are gonna be mean. You have good friends now so dont ruin that. You can still be nice to your ex best friends and still stay somewat friends juss dont leave the group you are in now to go bak to them. Chances are they will treat you nasty again. Don't worry bout feeling bad...if they really wanted to be good friends with you again they would treat you right. It's their loss
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ok well im 13/m and i have feelings for my friend. The problem is that she has been going out with her boyfriend for a long time (year and like a month) andso i've been trying to be there for her and be her friend but now her and her bf are going through some rough times and she doesn't think he likes her anymore. I want to make a move but think that might be taking advantage of her and her situation. Should i go for it? Is it taking advantage of her current situatuion? (link)
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I don't think you should go after her....juss yet. I mean it sounds like she is in a serious relationship with her bf. A year and a month is a long time to be with someone. Juss be there for her like you've always been. That's wat she really needs at this point. Wait it out and if her and her bf break up...wait about a month for things to settle down then maybe make the move. Right now you juss need to be there for her and comfort her cuz thats wat she needs the most.
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i have these pimples around my nose, like everywhere on the sides of my nose, so it make my nose look really red and all that and the pimples WONT go away! i have tried sooo much stuff and it DOESNT work! its really pissing me off and they have been there for like ever! i cant even remember my nose being pimple free! do you know any good pimple creams or something that will help me! PLEASE! (link)
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Proactive works really well!! I use it and its really improved my skin. It's a little more expensive than most acne cleaners but it is soo worth it! Give it a try!
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ok.i have this friend and there was a party one weekend.of course,I partied it up. But there were guys that i did stuff with. I didnt tell anyone BUT my friend. I requested that she not tell anyone about it.Then she told me the guys and 1 of my friends hated me because of a cake fight.I later found out that none of them said that. I got mad at her so she decided to tell EVERYONE about me night. When I first confronted her,she denied it. But when I asked her again she took the blame.She told me she did it because i was mad at her.I dont think I should forgive her.Can anyone help me?
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That is so messed up that she would do that..even if you were mad at her she had no right to go and tell your secret to everyone. But maybe this will teach u a lesson to be careful at parties. I think that maybe you should forgive her but still tell her why you are mad and make her promise to not do it again. If she can't do this then shes not a true friend that can keep secrets. Just dont tell her any secrets again. Try to forgive and forget
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ok...
im in love with this dude lets just call him perfect!! n he was supposed to ask me out yesterday after school but now he wont because i told ppl that he was gunna ask me out When I DID'no!!!! this is so bad !! n his friend lets just call his friend liar and he lied to me about perfect liking me and now i look like a idiot.. please help me i dont know what to do!!!!
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Dont sweat it! Are you for shure that this guy "perfect" doesnt like you? Maybe "liar" is juss lying about that too. If "perfect" really doesnt like you then move on. You don't need a guy giving you mixed signals all the time.
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ok this guy at my skool has a gurlfriend..hes beeen with her for 9months...but he TOTALLY flirts me with me...i flirt back because i really like him...we sat next to eachother in english and we recently moved seats...he sits like 2 rows away from me and when he walks in he always comes over to my desk and plays with my hand or something...he always gives me candy and stuff and he just does little stuff like that and today i gave him a hug after class bc i wont se him for 2 weeks and he like kept his hand on my waist for soo long....he tells me im pretty and stuff to....he does more stuff but yea...what do i do about it?? (link)
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It sounds like this guy likes you. The problem is his gf. If it looks like he really likes his gf, then bak off. But if you don't think their relationship will last much longer, you shuld probly wait for him. Maybe even tell him that you have some feelings for him but don't let his gf know. That's how enemies are formed! Just wait it out a lil bit and try to start liking other guys if you can. Good luck!
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I have a rat and my brother gave me another one and put them in the same cage and they started fighting and one of them has cuts under his chin so I was wondering if I should just let them heal or do something about it.Thanks (link)
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You should definitly put the rats in separate cages. My brother had 2 rats one time that did the exact same thing and 1 of the rats ate the other 1. Yah its crazy. So get 2 separate cages for the rats and maybe take the rat into a vet to get those cuts checked out.
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whenever i am around my guy friends they laugh at me cuz im funny sometimes lol and ya but they cant see me as going out with them cuz all my other girl friends have bfs but the guys just see me as a funny friend. what should i do? (link)
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Start by flirting with a paticular guy friend a lil more. Treat the guy friend diffrently than you do the others and see what his response is. If you start building up strong feelings for him or another tell him. Maybe he will change his mind about you and maybe even like you bak. My advice is to just flirt flirt flirt! Theres noharm in that!
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is it bad to be white and have a crush on someone who's black or darker skinned than you? im not racist but ive always wondered! thanks in advance! (link)
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Of course its not bad!!!!!!!!!!!! Whatever gave you that idea???????
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Sorry if this is long!
Ok, I liked this guy and my friend knew so she "hooked me up". The boy lives in my friend's hood. So, my friend said we were going out but we never once went on a date. So, one day he emails me and says, I can't go out with you now sorry." So it was kinda no big deal, but I was going to the movies w/ my friend and this guy. Anyway, I saw him and there was another girl (we are in diff. grades). So, this weekend my friend invited me over and I said yes. My so called "ex" will prob. be there. How can I act like I have moved on and I don't care bout him and I love my life w/o him? Please help, I really need it! (link)
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Well you said that it was "kinda no big deal" when he said that he couldnt go out with you anymore. If you have that attitude now, juss use the same attitude when you all are hanging out. Who knows...maybe you guys can still end up being freinds.
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okay. im still a virgin. but i think im ready to lose my virginity to my boyfriend of a year and 2 months. we have done nothing BUT kissing. and im so happy hes patient with me and doesnt push me to do anything i choose not too. but now i am ready BUT i want to go on birth conrol and use a condom just to be on the safe side. the thing is im not on the pill so what would be the best way to ask my parents to put me on the pill without them thinking imma have sex.? cuz they know im still a virgin and think imma stay one till marriage. which i was planning on doing, but i think im ready to lose it..and i've found that special one to lose it to (link)
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Just make sure that you are ready to lose it and dont rush yourself into it. Make shure that before you tell your parents that you need birth control, that they wont be dissapointed in you for wanting to lose it before marriage. In my beleif, I am waiting until marriage. If you don't think you can do the same, get on birth control right away. You don't want to end up getting pregnant. Just make shure this is a decision that you will not regret because you can never take it bak.
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Ok, there's this guy at my school (i live in Vermont) who everyone thinks is gay. Even though the rumors are most likely not true, no one wants to be his friend because of rumors, and neither do my friends. I really think it's terrible how people treat him, and I want to be his friend; I don't believe sexual orientation should affect friendship. How should I be his friend without making my friends mad, or making him feel uncomfortable when my friends want to hang out with me? (link)
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Don't care what your friends or any other people think. If you want to be his friend go right ahead. It sounds to me that he needs more friends as it is. It's so stupid how people are all against racism and segregation and separtion and everything but yet they still rule out the gays and lesbians. So wat if they are gay?? They are still human beings with feelings and emotions. They are no diffrent from anyone else. If your friends cant respect taht you want to be freinds with this guy then they arent your true freinds. Just because you are freinds with this guy doesnt mean they have to be. But they should at least have the decency to respect that you want to be nice to him.
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