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If i were to babysit, where could i like help? I only have my 2 little cuzins, and i dont want to ask for money right up-front. And i dont have anyone around my neighborhood to do this. where should i go? what should i do?
Ask your mother if she has any friends that need baby sitters. You can also help out at the local daycare center.
Well heres the thing..
Sex..
im completely ready but im scared that the condom will break and ill end up pregnant!
any advice on the subject??
thanks
i rate 5's
If you're so ready..then why are you scared? Just check the condom before putting it on your partner.
my freind has 2 holes in each ear, and she wanted another one. has been buggin her mom for like half a year. a few days ago, she peirced it. she told me that it hurt...so she only stuck the needle halfway through. now there is a reddish purple bump over where the hole should be. it is soo noticable is it infected or something?
Yes it is infected and if she does not seek medical treatment then she's in big trouble.
im goin into highschool next year and im kinda scared... can anyone thats been or has been a freshman help me? i am so afraid of the work... and i dont wanna go just yet. some one help me get over my fears please...! BWLNG FR SP FAN
Freshmen have the easiest time in High School it's not until you get to 10th grade that it might start getting hetic depending on your classes/teachers. And since your going to be a freshmen..don't giggle, it's annoying especially if your a girl. Freshmen girls tend to giggle alot. But if your a guy, don't act like an ass yelling stupid stuff across the hall. Don't stop in the middle of the hall or else you have everyone else yelling "MOVE!" Don't try to be some bad ass. Make sure you don't make stupid random remarks, be mature around the upperclassmen but not like robot mature. Also be very very friendly.
my friend (let's call him Fred) told me that my other friend (let's call him jake) was pissed at me because i did something. so i said "okay?!" i asked jake if he was mad at me and he wasn't. so i think my friend is tryin to start a fight anc cause drama. what should i do?? i already told fred that he needs to knock off the drama with jake and me. i also told him that i think he's jealous of me hanging out with jake.
...I think you just answered your own question. But anyway, just what in the hell happened? We can't help if you just said "okay?!". Well just try talking to the two boys.
I really like this guy at my school. He showed signs of liking me, kinda, and I found out he has a girlfriend! I found out in his away message, and I know his girlfriend too. She's really nice, and she's 14. He's a year younger then her, and I'm younger then him. I don't know if this is about our age difference or what, but I started crying when I found out that she was his girlfriend. I don't know how I should deal with this, because I think I still like him. Any suggestions?
I highly doubt it's about age difference. I think you should stop thinking about him so much since he is not avaliable.
guy #1: we've been good friends since the begining of this school year. everyone says we like each other and for a while i just denied it. he's funny and has amazing eyes. i can be myself around him so i'm pretty comfortable around him. he's always been there for me and he's really nice. he looks out for me. i like flirting with him more than guy #2. we're a lot alike. we like working out together at the gym. he's so funny. all my other ex boyfriends thought i liked him instead of them. my parents like him, my parents know his family and like them. if i do break up with my bf because of this guy, it won't be gauranteed that we'll be going out... i think hes a little scared to ask me out. this other guy said that this guy would go out with me if i asked him out but who knows if he was telling the truth. so many people say he likes me though! and when we were dancing he pulled me in reallllly close.
guy #2: we've started dated a few days ago. this is guy #1's friend. we've only liked each other for a week or two. i don't know him as well as guy #1 and i'm not THAT comfortable around him. but he is funny but not as cute as guy #1 and he's shorter than me. he's pretty nice. i used to like him more when we were NOT going out but now were going out and i don't like him as much. he's really sweet though and smart. my mom thinks he's really nice and he is. he's open and not afraid to ask me if we're 'going too fast' or anything, i like that.
Wow lucky! You have two amazing guys that really care for you! But you're unhappy and if your current boyfriend cares about you, maybe it's time to let go. If you want to try to maintain the relationship, spend some time apart to get your mind straighten out. Just remember not to feel bad for guy #2 if you do decide to go out with guy #1.
My name is "Katheine" and I am 17 years old (about to turn 18 in November). I have a ..friend?.. a friend named "Jeff". We dated almost three and a half years ago. We only dated for a few months.. but I fell in love. I know it might sound stupid to you, like "Oh, how cute, she thinks she's in love." Two words: Bite me. :)In all honesty, "Jeff" was and still is (whether I will admit it or not) is my love. We've been through a lot over these three years, in our own personal lives and what we've put each other through. We've also grown up. But the fact is, He loves me. He honestly loves me. We've been friends and a little bit more for the past three and a half years. Recently (as in the past 5 months) he has bluntly thrown in my face and said to me, "I love you,Katherine." I want to date him again. I want to try this for real, he's matured greatly (which was needed for me to ever date him again). There is just one problem, He's joined the Navy.
He joined in early March. He told me of course, but I kept my mouth shut on the subject. Hes being deployed in October. He now has about 5 to 6 months left to stay here.
The problem is, should I start dating him? I know it will take a lot of effort on my part. But whether I am dating him or not, when he leaves for the Navy I will miss him just as badly. He's one of my best friends, and hell, I love him. Letting him go won't be the hard part, trying to hide my longing and worry for him will. What can I say? I will miss him! And I won't know how long it might be before I see him again. This question has been on my mind for about a month now, and I don't know what to do. I'm scared to make the wrong move, especially when I don't even have all the facts (I mean about service in the Navy).
If anyone could please give me some helpful adivce, I would be very thankful. If anyone who has a boyfriend or girlfriend in the military could write me back, that would be even more helpful. Thank you.
I think you should tell him how you feel but don't stop him from doing something he wants. The best thing is to love him for all he is and support him along the way, that's what love is right? Sure the distance will make you sad but it makes the heart grow fonder. If you love him then you should definately date him.
I am a 23yr old female, just starting out my career in nyc, just graduated from top university- ranked No. 16 in the country and I think I have a bright future. However, one thing really bothers me. My serious boyfriend five years my senior, although he is loving, talented, ambitious, sensitive etc. shows no evidence of financial responsibility. He lives at home and struggles to pay his car payments and car insurance every month, often making them late. He has no health insurance, and he is in debt $15,000 because of a misused Discover card he foolishily ran up during his college years and some student loans he never payed back. I don't want you to get the wrong idea, he works hard at his dancing career, and understands that he messed up. He intends to pay it all back, but it's impossible now because he is what you would call a "starving artist". His debt began many years before I met him last year, but what really bothers me is for the past few years he has completely ignored his debt while it is accruing interest at a high rate, he is not even in contact with Discover or his student loan company. He claims he is waiting for the "big break", a coveted position to be a waiter and a five star restaurant in NYC before attempting to pay back his debt. I have doubts about this "plan". I personally have no debt, and had the priviledge of having my school tuition payed for by my parents, who also had the foresight to teach me financial responsibility. (it helped that I didn't come from a poor family) So, knowing nothing about debt, how to get out of it, and how its affects you beyond your credit (his is shot to hell), should I be concerned since we often talk about having a future together? I hope to achieve financial stability by the time I am 30 and would like to have children some time too. Please let me know if it is a mistake to think he can overcome this problem, since it read it was very common amoung people in their twenties. Every time I try to talk to him about his problem he gets upset and defensive and claims he's got everything figured out. Thank you for taking the time to read this your repsonses would be greatly appreciated!
Many starving artist keep talking about this "Big Break" that will make them the next Bill Gates or something. It's all BS to me personally. I think you should sit him down and tell me straight out of your concern for his fianical problems and. If he can't get through his thick skull that he is in trouble, why are you wasting your time on him? I understand that you love him and all but, do you honestly want to be with a guy who has get rich quick schemes and is going to be dependent on you for all the fianical management? Waiting for the "Big One". Your man does not have everything figured out if he has 15,000 in debt and doesn't plan to pay it back until he hits it big. Try to support him as much as you can and by that I do not mean by giving him money.
Im a fifteen-year-old female and I use the finishing touch on my mustache, but it doesnt cut the hair close enough,and it grows back really fast the next day, i dont wanna shave and im allergic to nair and other depilatories. I was wondering..would getting it waxed be almost the same thing? Will it grow back like my mustache does now or will it be all nasty n stuff? And if i do get it waxed does it have to be real long, cuz if it does that will be real nasty! Thanks in advance!!
-DeZ
Waxing is the way to go even if it's a little painful..okay alot painful. But I'm a guy and I get waxes all the time!
I think im in love with my best friend. I have been since 7th grade (im in 8th grade now)and I thought I was over him. But then, everytime I see him I fall in love all over again. DO you think I should tell him how I feel? I am 5'6 and he is about 5'1. Im probably 40 pouds heavier...It is possible for a guy to like a girl that is bigger than them? PlEaSe HelP me out!! I RaTe FiVeS!! ~*~mAdDiE~*~
age 15
Not all guys are conceited and if he has been your best friend for a long time, I think it was your personality that he liked not your body. And many men are attracted to heavier women. It doesn't hurt to tell him, first love is always an experience wheather(sorry if I misspelled that) good or bad.Best of luck!
Ok, I'm 15/f and I was with this guy for 2 months. Well he starting trying to pressure me to have sex with him. And I know this probably sounds stupid but I really wasn't ready to go that far. I know that a lot of other girls have had sex but I just wasn't ready for it yet. So anyway one night we were hanging out and he started to ask me to have sex with him again. I said no and I tried to explain why and make him understand. Well he seemed to understand and I thought that everything was ok. He brought me a drink of water and then I started to feel weird. The next thing I know I'm waking up next to him and now I'm pregnant. My friend said that he probably gave me a drug or something so I would have sex with him. I really don't know and I don't know what to do now. Did he rape me? And what should I do about the pregnancy?
Yes dammit! He fucking raped you! What a low life! It's called a date rape. Call the police on him, he shouldn't be allowed to take advantages of othe innocents girls. ALso, inform your parents and his too. If he says that you wanted to have sex with him just keep saying "No I did not!" As far as the pregnancy goes, you should consult with your family. I would press charges against him. What a bum...grr Makes me so angry. I hope it works out well for you.
i have this reallllly good guy friend and he likes me a lot. i feel bad denying him everytime he asks me to go on a date or anything but it just would feel wierd for me. he says im leading him on because i flirt too much but thats the way i am with all guys. i kinda cant help it. do i give him a chance or stick with the no? how can i stop flirting with him when i dont want him?
If you go out with him, I would think that he would think it was out of pity. Just becuz you flirt doesn't mean that you show any real attraction to him, that's just how you are. If you want to set him straight just tell him that you have no feelings as far as to be in a relationship with him. Don't let your guilt make you do something you don't want to.
I met up again with a boy I had been talking to online for a while an hadn't seen in a bit. He was totally ecstatic to see me! He gave me the best hug of my life and all. But ever since, our conversations have been duller and there are more gaps. He told me before we met that he was starting to really have a serious crush on me, and I felt so happy because I had liked him for a while. But I can't tell if I did anything wrong or anything. Is he losing interest in me? How can I tell if his crush is growing, shrinking, or not progressing?
I don't believe in internet relationships. Long distance relationships become harder to handle since you two don't have the same friends or even live near eachother. It's probably becuz you two have nothing to really talk about.
ok well, theres this girl that like hates me and i didnt do anything to her! can anyone think of a reason why she hates me so much? shes really annoying, like shes pissed off at me because my best friend((whos a guy)) like loves me and he calls her a bitch all the time. Also another reason why i think she hates me is because me and her best friend have become really close, and shes mad. what can i do so i dont KILL her?
and also, i feel really bad because the best friend i was talking about earlier, he is sooooo good to me, he always sticks up for me and no matter how mad i think im making him he never gets mad at me, and when i told him i liked him a little while ago he still wanted to be around me. how can i get over it?
Maybe, just maybe cuz your friend calls her a "bitch" all the time. Now I don't know about you, but that kinda provokes a negative feedback. And maybe she feels she is threatened by you since you and her best friend are becoming really close and she fears she will be forgotten. Just ignore the girl if she bugs you so much, tho how you two met is something of a different matter..
My male friend (he has a girlfriend, i dont date) and i were really close for quite some time and then he told me that he liked me (for some time now) and then a few weeks later that he loved his girlfriend, the entire situation was aweful and i tried to stay away from it best i could, but now we arent as colse...actually now we are more of aquaintences than friends and im starting to doubt what our friendship was. what do i do? how do i know we werent just close because he like me?
He said he "LIKED" you. And he said he "LOVES" his girlfriend. Now like and love are two totally different meanings. Why don't you still be close to him as just a friend and forget this whole thing. Maybe he LIKES you as a really good friend. But LOVES his girlfriend like well a girlfriend. Don't over analyze things so much.
There's this guy named Jeff and sometimes, he is soo nice and funny to me..but other times, he always tells me that I'm ugly..he says it in a "just kidding" voice but idk if he is being serious or if he really is just kidding. It hurts my feelings. What can I do?
Boys are so immature. I guess it's the whole "you hurt the ones you love" shit.
For those of you who have Xanga, do any of you know where I can get the code for the thing at the top of your site where your vistor can pick the song they want to listen from from some choices? Any help is appreciated!
windowsmedia.com also altavista.com
okay, here's the deal:
I am a twelve yr. old VIRGIN catholic. I have been goin out with this guy, bob, for bout 3 months. I have known bob since I was 7. Me and bob have made out countless times and I REALLY LIKE HIM! Sounds so nice right? Well, the last few weeks, have been weird. Last week, I was leaning against him and he started touching my boobs and butt and even the other place. I guess I was okay with it, but he has been really hitting on me and talking bout sex and condoms and yesturday, on our date, I saw a condom fall out of his pocket. He has been humping me a little and getting erections on me. Today, he was askin me all these sex questions like do u like it hard? Do u want to be on top or bottom? I mean, this is the guy I truly love and i am not a total prude, but, I don't want to be risk pregnancy at age 12!
I don't mean to sound really mean when I say this but YOU ARE 12! You do not comprehend what "Love" is, you're just a kid. I don't think you should be going out with him, he seems like the type of guy who will just dump you cuz you didn't want to have sex. You deserve someone better than that! You've only been going out for three months, that's an extremly small amount of time. If he cannot understand your feelings on this then I think you should just dump him, but that's just me.
well earlier i got in a fight with somone.they didnt like me beccuz im somewhat an uncool person. and i was in their seat becuz i was hanging out with that persons friends. well he took it real personal and sed he owuld beat me up if i didnt move.i didnt like that and i told him go away. but he didnt.
they then slapped me across the face but i did nothing.mainly becuz i know many martial art forms.and am a black belt in 3 of them.
i tried to avoid the fight and i moved cussing him out while doing it.but he hit me again and threw his hands around my neck choking me.i quickly got out of it and flipped him flat on his ass.
he went to throw another puch at me and i grabbed his arm twisting it and throwing him to the ground and putting him in a submission. i told him to please back down i did not want to hurt him( i only flipped him doing minor damage.i didnt want to hurt him).
he refused to be made a tool. i lauged at his arrogance and began toying with him. he went throw a punch at me and i flipped him again straight onto the gournd but he wouldnt take the hint he oculdnt get me.
he quickly grabbed a chair(the only reason the fight wasnt stoppped is because the teacher was leaving to pick up her sick son and calling in a sub who would ocme shortly).
he trhew the chair at me which i didnt block due to the force of it and it hit my leg. i got mad and when he came to me. i dropped my guard to see the damage he did to my leg. he grabbed my arm and put it behind my bak and pushedup really ahrd. so i elbowed him and made his nose bleed.i was very made now, so when he threw the punch.this time i didnt throw him to the ground, i twisted his arm upwards and then broke it and flipped him to the groudn.
he got back up and started screaming.he went kick me nearly hitting me..i grabbed his leg and moved into his stomach and punched him right in the stomahc, knocking him to the ground again and knocking the wind out of him.i then again asked him to please give up.
he got a pen and trid using it like a knife against me. when he went to hit me with his good arm(the right one.the only one functional now) i quickly inverted it and broke that too.
now im in deep trouble and might get sued. im also probably going to get taken out of school and i severely regret disabling this kid.
did i do something wrong by hurting him so, when he was a threat to my life at certain pionts? hes arragant because he 'supposedly' according to all the talk right before as they were telling me to move said 'he never lost a fight' and he frequently gets in them from what ive seen. he also tried chocking me, breaking my leg, throwing a chair at me, and tried to give me a deep wound with a pen.
i feel sorry for waht i did to him and ifeel by disabling him, i make a wrong choice.
please help
Say it was for self-defense, what this guy did to you could have been letal. Don't let your guilt get you into trouble.