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MY BOYFRIEND IS SEX ADDICT!
okay, here's the deal:
I am a twelve yr. old VIRGIN catholic. I have been goin out with this guy, bob, for bout 3 months. I have known bob since I was 7. Me and bob have made out countless times and I REALLY LIKE HIM! Sounds so nice right? Well, the last few weeks, have been weird. Last week, I was leaning against him and he started touching my boobs and butt and even the other place. I guess I was okay with it, but he has been really hitting on me and talking bout sex and condoms and yesturday, on our date, I saw a condom fall out of his pocket. He has been humping me a little and getting erections on me. Today, he was askin me all these sex questions like do u like it hard? Do u want to be on top or bottom? I mean, this is the guy I truly love and i am not a total prude, but, I don't want to be risk pregnancy at age 12!
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Dont worry. He probably hasent even hit puberty yet. No worries. Go right ahead.
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I don't mean to sound really mean when I say this but YOU ARE 12! You do not comprehend what "Love" is, you're just a kid. I don't think you should be going out with him, he seems like the type of guy who will just dump you cuz you didn't want to have sex. You deserve someone better than that! You've only been going out for three months, that's an extremly small amount of time. If he cannot understand your feelings on this then I think you should just dump him, but that's just me.
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i think that he either: honestly loves you and doesn't know any other way to tell you that he wants to have sex w/ you, other than the kind of 'jerky-guy' way that hes doing it now...OR...he just wants to have sex with you because hes a horny bastard.
((thats MY opinion...))..now i asked my guy friend his opinion...and this is wat he sed...
"i think that he has been goin out w/ her for sooo long and it is seriously time for them to take another step cuz u dont kno how hard it is for a dude to not do sumthin like that, but at least he is bein considerate and carrying condoms and he wants to be protected...so it is perfectly fine...she should tell him whether or not she wants to...instead of takin hints"
thats exactly what he said...and i would say that i agree somewhat.
so there you go, hope i helped.
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First of all, you're 12 for God's sake. Why the hell would you OR him even concider having sex at <b>12</b>? Besides the fact you shouldn't be on this site because you need to be 13, you're <b>12!!</b> I didn't have a real boyfriend until I was 13! My first kiss which was just a peck on the lips didn't happen until I was 13! Why in the hell would a 12 year old boy be talking about sex with his girlfriend? You've been together for 3 freaking months and I highly doubt that he loves you if he's already talking about having sex with you. He probably hasn't even hit puberty! I must say you have one horny boyfriend. Have you even had your period before? If you haven't and you didn't know you could only get pregnant if you've had your period before, you can't be having sex. The condom's probably too big for him anyway! I don't mean to sound so rude, but for the love of God you're 12 freaking years old! You need to at the very least talk to him about it and tell him that you don't want to do it.
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