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Q: Well for the past 5 years my dog and I have been exclusively seeing eachother, but lately he has been acting strange. He barely notices me, and lastnight i was spying on him and saw him sneaking out the doggie door. do you think he is cheating on me, or has decided to leave me for one of his own kind?

OMG u need some serious help what r u thinking that is sick y would u even put that on this page that is stupid *STEPHANIE*

Q: I'm looking for a guy that woud fit me well but each time i go out with the guys i fing something i hate about them right away...what should i do?

well when u find something bad about them try and find 2 good things about them 2 kinda like cancel the bad one out u know what i mean cuz everyone has a bad thing about them just give a guy i chance and try and look for the good things not the bad one * i am glad 2 answer ne other questions u have *Stephanie* *x*o*x*o*

Q: okay so when me and mah gurls get togetha they always invite their boy-friends but ya c im single and so when we go to a movie or sumthing they all tell me to invite a guy i like. so i say to my self 'i knoe that their all gonna b making out and i don't wanna be the only one not make-out' so i try to think of some guys that would make out with me at the movies and the onle one i can think of are the mayjor playas! and so then we go togetha and i start getting feeling twords him and then like usual the kick ya ta the curb after that day... i like when we make out at the theater but how can i find a guy who still likes to make out but is still genuin and sincere?

just bcuz ur friends r makin out and stuff doesn't mean u have 2 and i know u will feel odd and left out but u won't find a good guy if u make out the first time u go out but if u end up makin out cuz it is the right time or something but just don't try and get a guy for makin out cuz ur friends do cuz then u won't find one that is geniun and sincere *i am glad 2 answer ne other question u have * * STEPHANIE* *X*O*X*O*

Q: ok i have this sister who is always bisy...always at photo shoots and tours and stuff and i NEVER get to c her! i love her soo much but i see her more in magazines and oon tv then i do in real life...i know she has a carear but i miss her? how do i deal, and what do i do?

just support her all the way and mayb one day u and her can plan a day 2 do everythin 2gether and have a gurls day and tell her how u feel just b open wit her and have fun on that day wit her if it works *i am glad 2 answer ne other question u have* *STEPHANIE* *X*O*X*O*

Q: hi,
i recently figured out that my papa(uncle) has cancer and i am extremely close to him i live with him, and he was supposed to be fine until he had surgey and they found cancer in his liver stomach esophagus. and i just can't seem to get over it and i feel HORRIBLE i havent gone to school in 2 weeks(my parents dont know) and i act like im leaving for school they go to work and i just go back inside. Well What Should i do (hes gonna die anytime) sign,
ihatecancer01

awwww i kinda know how u feel bcuz i have a history of cancer in my family and my mom resently had surgery for cancer and she is fine now. but u need 2 spend as much time wit him as u can and tell ur parents that u don't feel comfortable wit goin 2 school and tell them and hopefully they will understand cuz it is hard 2 go 2 school and act like nothin happened when something really has and i hope everything works out wit u and ur uncle *i am more then glad 2 answer ne other questions u have * *STEPHANIE* *X*O*X*O*

Q: Whats a good place to get supplies for your dog?

PETSMART is the best of all cuz they have everything lol *STEPHANIE*

Q: ok well about a week ago ii got braces and on my bottom lip inside i have like this sore from them and the dentist sed i would for a few days but it hurts REALLY bad wen my braces hit it or i smile and i dont know what to do help!!!!

get some wax for ur braces from either the doctore or the drugstore cuz it is just from them rubbing but the wax will help alot *STEPHANIE*

Q: Theres this one inparticular guy (16) that i REALLY like a lot. Ive known him for 2 years and we've been great friends and more. ne wayz, he has problems stayin commited and keeping to one girl. Every time we make out i find out from someone else that he has a girlfriend and I feel like Im helping him cheat. my sister says forget about him, but its not that easy. what do i do?

if u really like this guy and want it 2 work. then confront him that u know about the other gurls and since u have been friends for so long he should understand and mayb even tell him u don't wanna make out unless he finds out which gurl he wants and u don't wanna lose him as a friend so just tell him and tell him u don't wanna catch nething and hopefully he will understand and will still b friends hope i helped and i am more then glad 2 answer ne other question u have so just ask *STEPHANIE*

Q: (I'm 14) I've been going out with my bf for awhile, and I always knew that he USED to smoke pot, and stopped like 6 months ago,and sometimes drinks a lot because of family problems...Well about 3 weeks ago he left a voice message saying he wouldn't be able to call because he got grounded because he "got caught doing something...very bad" and wouldn't tell me what it was, well his parents disconnected his phone and I found out yesterday from his friend justin (i had to practically beat it out of him...because he was afraid i'd go off killing my bf or something...) that his parents caught him smoking (which explains why he cant run 2 miles anymore) and that he used to have a big stash of cigs in his room, but that he quit after his parents caught him...then he asked if i was gonna break up with him, i said "i have no idea" And i haven't talked to him because he's grounded, and as selfish as it is, it pisses me off..

I dunno what to do, should I break up with him or not? I know all my friends will say I should, because I'm in the "good" group of friends, a lot of them go to church and have very strong beliefs and have never done any of that stuff,(we live in a small town in farmersville u.s.a so that stuff is a big deal) I'm in with them...but barely (my family is screwed up) it's like i'm teetering on the edge of good and bad...and i always fall for the messed up guys, and I know my bf is messed up..but i love him, and I don't know...he's never pressured me or ANYTHING, he's not like that, but I know dating someone with that many problems isn't good and will lead to problems, because drugs and alcoholism run in MY family too..but no matter what he does i can't hate him

Any advice would be lovely, and I rate =)

if he lied 2 u about still smokin then u should break up wit him cuz he might or may b liein about something else. or if u really feel something strong for him give him one more chance and talk 2 him and tell him if u find out he is still doin it again that u would break up wit him bcuz if he is still gona b doin even after being caught then he isn't worth it. and some how try and get his friends 2 talk 2 him about it 2 bcuz the more that talk 2 him about it the more he will think that it really isn't a good idea and he might stop finally. but some ppl really have problems wit addictions so just b there for him so he has someone 2 talk 2 about it and will know he doesn't have 2 resort 2 smokin 2 make him feel better he could talk 2 u or one of his other friends. hope i helped i am more then glad 2 answer ne other questions u have *STEPHANIE*

Q: my friend whose a girl and 14 told me a few days ago that she cutts. i was devistated wen i heard this. i asked her wat in the world wud make u so miserable as 2 kill urself? and she sed that her family was messed up and that shes ben feeling really depressed. i told her 2 think bout wat life will bring her in the future. youll have kids a husband a job and a happy life. i dont think it convinced her. wat should i do?

awww that is terrible. u just need 2 tell her that it isn't worth and look up clinics or support groups for teen in ur area that she can go 2 and mayb u could somehow get her 2 go and even tho u don't cut mayb u could go wit her just for the support and tell her u r there 2 talk 2 about ne problems and if she needs nething that u would b there for her. *STEPHANIE*

Q: the only way i can get a cell phone is if i pay for it, and i was just wondering how many ppl felt that it would be worth it?

yea, i think it is worth it cuz if u have ppl that would call u alot then u don't have 2 worry about parent/family always on the line or listenin in on the conv lol *STEPHANIE* *X*O*X*O*

Q: the guy i am interested in told me that the only way he would consider going out with me is if i have sex with him 1st. i like this guy but i am a virgin i just dont know if it is worth it. what shoul i do? :(

it isn't worth it don't do he will probably just use u for sex then leave u sry but i gotta b honest cuz what guy would say that we would go out wit u only if u had sex wit him first he is soooo usin u sry *STEPHANIE*

Q: I have been in a relationship for a long time. I recently discovered that my girlfriend wants to bring another woman into our sex life...what should i do??? I realy care about my girlfriend i wonder if it would ruin what we have???

well it was her suggestion not urs so i would just say go for it unless u r not in 2 that kinda stuff but i don't c what guy isn't and i dont think it would hurt nething cuz u aren't forcin her in2 something she doesn't wanna do *STEPHANIE* :)

Q: ok, I have always heard that the air conditioner uses more gas when turned on. Is this true? Does the heater also use more gas? I turned my heater on one morning last week (yeah, middle of summer and i need the heater... maine sucks ass) and I noticed the rpm meter move up a bit when I did, and went down a bit when i turned it back off. This was all while I was still parked in my driveway.

I was also wondering if Cruise control uses less, more, or just the same amount of gas if it's turned on or off.

Is there anything else that uses slightly more gas turned on when I'm driving?

using the a/c will use more gas mileage but the heater shouldn't. And the rpm goin up and down is most likely the car iddilng and i would think that cruise control would use less bcuz the car is goin at a steady speed and i don't think there is nething else that will use more gas. hope i helped *STEPHANIE* *X*O*X*O*

Q: ok my best friend and i are friends with benefits and for a while it's been working out but now i'm hugely late on my period and i don't know if it's stress or not. if i am pregnant i can't get am abortion because my best friend will never talk to me again, but i'm not sure that i'm ready to be a mother. what should i do??

it may b stress but just get a pregnancy test 2 make sure and i hope things work out wit u and i don't think abortions r right so i would say don't get one hehe i hope i helped u can ask me ne ? netime u need *STEPHANIE* :)

Q: I'm a 15 year old girl and I've never gotten anywhere past mildly aroused. I've tried mastrabating and it's never worked for me. I doubt I'll be finding a guy any time soon, and I really want to find a way to get myself off. Does anyone have any tricks or tips? I've never had a orgasim and all my friends have.

watch porn, get a vibrator or dildo and thing of arousing things *STEPHANIE* :)

Q: ok now i wear thongs and i am kinda the one in skool that no one reallys notices. this is my last year of junor high and i want to be noticed. i want to sit down and have my thong hang out but then i have second thoughts bout it and chicken out. wheat can i do and is it ok if i do this?? plz help me

*~I RATE REALLY GOOD~*

if u wanna b notice let it hang out and u can do it in a few classes that u r comfortable wit and if u feel stupid or something then u don't have 2 do it nemore or if someone says something just don't do that nemore *STEPHANIE* :)

Q: uhh yeah.. i have another question...how can u tell if your best friend really wants to hang out with you or talk to you? Lately, my friend has been kinda acting like i don't matter to her at all. She doesn't really talk to me, and she always puts stuff in her away message like.."jenn, nathin, and alli in a chat room, what could be better?" and it gets me mad...it seems like she doesn't wanna talk to me anymore or sumthin....i... i need help.. im confused

I know how u feel. u should just talk 2 her about it one day and just put it right out there " it seems like u don't really wanna talk 2 me or hang out wit me that much nemore whats the deal?" and c what she says and keep askin her question like that but not 2 many cuz she may get mad. hope i helped *STEPHANIE* :)

Q: Me and this girl are good friends when she first cam to my school she told us but she was pregnant and i was like ok but then all the other kids stoped beliving her because lets face it she didnt look or act pregnant and I stuck up for her and all but it did seem kinda suspicious when she had the baby while we were all taking our regents then she was back to take the next regents the next day ? how quickly can a 15 year old bounce back from something like that? . its not that i dont want to belive her because shes a sweet girl and aLL i think she just wants attention but thats a little extreme. now i feel bad because no one bleived her and shes kinda isolated im still nice to her but no one will listen to me and just forgive her. what should i do??

it normally takes like 3 or 4 days 2 start feelin good after givin birth and expectally at that age i won't believe her either but i would still b friends wit her and did she keep the baby cuz that way u would b able 2 c it and if not then she may b liein but i hope things work out wit u and her but i honestly don't think she would have had the strength 2 go 2 school or whatever it was the next day! *STEPHANIE* :)

Q: Hi well i need ur advice!!! I just wanted to become friends with this guy I just met and when I went to talk to him , he just looked at me and then looked at his friends then looked at me again and started to cuse me ou t like heck , Please help me , it hurts bad!!!

well i won't even waste my time on him if he is gona b like that u can find better guys then that cuz he wouldn't b a true friend. as much as u wanna b friends wit him i think it would b better not 2 cuz he seems like he would b really rude if he does that when ever u try and talk 2 him *STEPHANIE*:)

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hey everyone even tho i am only 17 I have been and gone through alot so I might be able to relate to your problems or atleast i can try my hardest to help you. So feel free to ask me any questions you might have or IM me if u want thanks *STEPHANIE* *x*o*x*o*