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Im His Cheater


Question Posted Monday August 16 2004, 9:42 pm

Theres this one inparticular guy (16) that i REALLY like a lot. Ive known him for 2 years and we've been great friends and more. ne wayz, he has problems stayin commited and keeping to one girl. Every time we make out i find out from someone else that he has a girlfriend and I feel like Im helping him cheat. my sister says forget about him, but its not that easy. what do i do?

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Babyzee answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 6:16 pm:
if u really like this guy and want it 2 work. then confront him that u know about the other gurls and since u have been friends for so long he should understand and mayb even tell him u don't wanna make out unless he finds out which gurl he wants and u don't wanna lose him as a friend so just tell him and tell him u don't wanna catch nething and hopefully he will understand and will still b friends hope i helped and i am more then glad 2 answer ne other question u have so just ask *STEPHANIE*

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hailebop answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 4:49 pm:
This guy definitely isn't worth your time if he's done this repeatedly. It's hard to do, but you need to pull yourself away from this guy, or you'll just get burnt in the future when he does it again (or, just as hurtfully, cheats on you). It'll be hard to do, as you have a relationship, history and rapport with this guy, but you need to distance yourself from him and avoid situations when you are likely to end up making out with him or be alone with him until you are sufficiently over him to be able to turn him down even when you are tempted, because you deserve better than a guy like this. Good luck.

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exquizitehoney answered Monday August 16 2004, 11:19 pm:
i had this same problem however i was dating him prior and then we broke up and he dated this other chick while the two of us were still messing around. do not feel the shame you are doing nothing wrong. it is not your falut hes cheating on them! if you are happy with him then enjoy yourslef while you can! no harm done...hes the one who is doing wrong and if he admits to that then continue what you have with him!

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Luscious_Kisses15 answered Monday August 16 2004, 10:21 pm:
well, if he's really a good friend then you should be able to talk about things. I'm assuming you consider your relationship with him not only friends, but friends with benefits right? well be like, i really appreciate your friendship, but i feel bad for your girlfriends every time we make out. Next time, just tell me if you're single or not. and let him know that you deserve some respect!

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HIMlovemetal325 answered Monday August 16 2004, 10:20 pm:
Well yeah the best thing to do would be to forget about him, it won't be easy. But yeah. And plus a guy thats not loyal to his girlfriend right now won't be loyal to you if you're ever with him in the future... just remember that. Hes not worth your time. You can get someone better than that I'm sure.
- LIVEY

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vlucky40 answered Monday August 16 2004, 10:09 pm:
Your sister is right, you need to leave him alone because everytime he is out cheating he is not thinking about you.

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