To get down to it, I'm a 15 year old girl and a 22 year old guy likes me. I've known this guy for a few months and have become really good friends with him. I didn't know he actually had a crush on me till a few weeks ago. This guy is really nice, very sweet, he always cares about me. He always wants to know how I feel and how he can make it any better. He calls me practically every night. He trusts me and I trust him. We've talked about our feelings for eachother... I used to not think of him as anything more than a friend, but now I think I am starting to like him more. We see eachother at least once a week, usually with groups of other friends but I have been alone with him a couple times, once to his house. He has never tried to pull anything on me... he respects my boundaries, yet he shows he still cares. My parents don't like that I even talk to a 22 year old guy on the phone. If they ever knew I wanted to go out with him, they'd freak. I'd like to give him a chance, but I don't know if it's worth hiding from my parents and the fact that he's so much older than me makes the possibility chances of it working slimmer. Any advice on what I should do?
Yea he is a little old for you. And even if you did start a relationship with him, it would be very stressful because you would always be trying to hide it from your parents. This guy is much more experienced than you are and may expect more than you are willing to give. But if you really care about this guy, I would suggest you wait until you are 18 years old. That way, it wouldn't be illegal to "do anything." And since you will be 18 and he will be 25, and the age gap won't seem so big anymore. And people wouldn't look down to you for being in an unusual relationship. And it's only 3 years, you can tough it out! For now, just stick to being really good friends with him. Keep your relationship strong. Good luck! :-)
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i go to a private school and play bball but i may go to a public school next year. if i go to a public school i will play football. it is my choice what should i do
Like you said, it is your choice, and no one else's. Which would you rather do.. stay at your private school and play bball? Or switch to a public school and play football? Which sport are you better at? Which sport could you possibly get a scholarship for? Which sport do you enjoy the most? Answer these questions and then make the decision on your own.
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MY DOG is 12 years old and is suffering from arthritist.and last year he started to eat charcoal and vomiting it out.Do u think this is normal?does your dog do this?
Um.. he eats charcoal? And you're worried because he's throwing up? Okay, if he eats charcoal, it's a GOOD thing he's throwing it up, because that means he is getting it out of his body (CHARCOAL IS BAD FOR DOGS). And yes it is normal for a 12 year old dog to have arthritis. 12 is pretty old for a dog.. it's like 84 in human years. And trust me, plenty of 84 year old men have athritis and it's totally normal.
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Hey guys. Sherry here. My little sister (10) got like white stuff on her underwear like a few weeks ago and yeah I knew it was normal but she told me just today that she got a really small red spot on her underwear...I never got these spots before my period or anything so do you think she'll get her period soon? She's really young though so idk! thanks:) I'll rate!
yes. she might get it in a few days or it could be a month.
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What are some good excersises to getting a six pack? (im a girl)
There's this really good exercise i learned in karate, but you have to have a friend/family member help you.. You lay on ur back and hold onto their ankles (they are standing up) and put ur feet straight up in the air and then they throw your feet down and you can't let them touch the ground. Then you raise your feet back up and they throw them down again. Keep repeating that. And have them throw your feet to the sides too, it's even harder and works your abs really well.
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I'm overweight... I participate in a lot of sports and i think i get enough excercise... i could be doing more... but my big problem is sweets... its like an addiction... i just cant seem to stop eating them!!!!!! does anyone have any ideas on how to help me eat more healthy?
If you don't eat sweets for about 2 weeks, you just stop having cravings for them. Try that! If it doesn't work then just trying eating tasty foods that don't have a lot of fat. Like fruit and low-fat ice cream, i donno. Good luck!
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does braces hurt when they tighten them and o yeah what are some good colors for them 2 and well not being racsit but i need some people who wear braces to tell but if anybody elese wants to answer feel free.
I just got braces a month ago but i've never had them tightened (not yet) and I don't know if you've already gotten them on or not but when you first get them on they hurt a few hours afterwards and then the next day is when they hurt the most. You can't really chew anything. But the pain goes away after like a week. And as for colors, I got hot pink. But I don't really like it now so I wouldn't recommend getting it. lol. I would get a soft pink or blue. Just DON'T get green or brown or yellow or white or black or red. Hope I helped! Good luck!
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I hate reading. We have to accumulate so many points per quarter.Like we read a book then we take a test on it and you get points for the book depending on how many questions you got right on the test. But i hate reading. I don't like any kind of books and i think ive already read all the books in the library! Maybe not..but still..i hate reading! Does any one have any tips on how to like reading? Or any good books to suggest? and our quarter 2 cut-off date is jan 7th..i have no points!! i need to get 13..any tips on how to get my reading done?
OMG!!! Are you talking about AR?!?! (Accelerated Reader) If you are.. I used to have to do that!! It sucks lol. Anyway just read like a bunch of short, little, easy books. Like 3rd grader books. The kind that take like less than an hour to read. Just read a bunch of those and then you'll get 100% on every test and you'll be able to get all your points. (leave me feedback, let me know if its AR that you are talking about!!)
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hey ok it's been a while since I had to do AR but some really good, entertaining, easy-to-read books that are probably the right level are Judy Bloom Books.. like "Fudge" and the books in that series.. do you know what I'm talking about? Also Harry Potter books get you A LOT of points, like I think the first book is atleast 10 or 15 points. So that right there is enough to earn all your points. Anyway hope I helped! Good luck! And don't worry, NO MORE AR IN HIGH SCHOOL! :-) (atleast not where I live..)
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has anyone tried those crest whitestrips? i was wondering when you put the whitestrip on top of your teeth, how does the bleach stay on w/o your tongue getting it off? and PLEASE tell me the truth: are they really effective? how much do they whiten?
Yes, they work REALLY well. I used to have the yellowest teeth and then I used them and now people tell me all the time that I have the WHITEST teeth! And I used them like almost a year ago and my teeth are STILL white! The first few times you use them you might be drooling a lot or something but you just have to remember it's OK to slurp up that drool! lol. And don't worry about licking the bleach stuff.. it actually tastes kinda sweet! lol. After the first few times you use them it will get a lot easier and when you have them on you like don't even notice, you kind of forget that they're there. Infact many times I accidently left t hem on for like 2 hours cuz I forgot I had them on lol. And I wouldn't suggest wearing both top and bottom at the same time. That might be kinda hard. Just put one on and leave it there for 30 min then take it off and immediately brush your teeth. Do that twice a day. I used Crest White Strips Premium so it only took a week for my teeth to get white. Good luck! :-D
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My parents keep the house so so so so so cold...I'm always freezing and it's the middle of the winter...it's always like 60 in here, and I've told my parents so many times that I'm SO cold when its that cold, but they don't care. They say that they are comfortable that way, and that if they turn it up they will be too warm. I'm not the only one who thinks its too cold...friends or relatives who come over say its so cold! But, they don't have to live here!!! I DO!! What do I do???
Pretend like you're getting really sick lol.. or that you're getting a cold. Walk around sneezing and sniffing and coughing all the time. And complain that you're cold a lot. Then maybe if your parents care then they will turn up the heat b/c they don't want you to get even more sick.
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i just got a new cell phone for christmas its a camera phone by verizon wireless and it says on the box i can download ringtones and stuff....but on all the ringtone sites it doesnt have verizon on it...why is that??
If your phone has a web browser (which it probably does) then you can download ring tones right from your phone. Go to the web browser and then go to Downloads and then Ringtones or something like that.
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I have this friend(a guy)who i really like...yesterday he came over to hang out wth me and my other friend...me and him wrestled for like an hour and he kept hugging me...he also held my hand but we were playin around so after a second of owkward silence he pushed me and we started playin mercy...im not sure if he likes me or not...Please Help!
sounds like he likes you... cuz he's flirting with you a lot.. either that or he's just teasing you
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if you can't get out of the house what are some really good cardio exercises you can do for 30 minutes? is investing in an exercise video a good idea? if soo..which ones?
Running up and down the stairs is really good and not only is it cardio but it makes your legs stronger too. Jump rope is also really good cardio. If you do something like jump rope or jumping jacks in front of the TV then its a lot easier cuz it takes uyor mind off of what you're doing.
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i heard that if u stop eating u will acctually gain weight. is that true?
Yes and no.. if you stop eating for a while, what your body does is it starts trying really really hard to store all of its fat and your metabolism slows down. So not eating just makes it even harder to lose weight.
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Okay this may sound really dumb or something but it really needs to be answerd cause i really need the help.My friend had wanted to kill herself and then her mom had put her into a center to get the help that she needs(good for her!!).But the problem is that she is on drugs and she drinks a lot and she is only 12 or 13 years old.Well i tries to kill myself a few weeks ago and now i'm fine but my question is that should i be her friend still and hang out with her even though that she wanted to do something that i tried?Cause my fear is that she will want me to think of doing that again?Plzz help.
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You should still be her friend. Right now, she NEEDS a good friend, someone she can talk to. And since you were going through a similar problem, she can probably feel comfortable talking to you. As for being a bad influence on you, hopefully after she gets out of this center, she won't be suicidal anymore. And even if she is, I REALLY don't think she would try to make YOU commit suicide. Why would she want that?? Good luck, I hope everything works out for the best.
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my friend is beinng really rude & saying mean stuff about me what should i do?
Forget about her, don't be friends with her anymore. If you ignore her, she will stop.
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my boyfriend of 7 months and i just broke up a couple of a days ago, and i broke up with him because he was rude, we fight all the time its just like were abusive to eachother, but i love him so much and we both want eachother back but we said we will take a break, but i am dieng without him you have no idea i miss him so much, i wanna kiss a diffrent guy (ive had him in mind for a while) but im so scared if my ex finds out and never wants to get back with me what should i do i love my ex but im lonely and want someone for now so i wanna kiss the diffrent guy should i?
You say you love your ex.. yet at the same time you are dying to kiss some other guy? I say, you're not REALLY attatched to your ex.. let him go, move on, in time, you will get over him. So go ahead, kiss this other guy, and forget about getting back with your ex.. it may be hard now, but you can do it.
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Ok me and my boyfriend have been having some trouble lately and we haven't been talking that much. Well the other day this boy pranked my friend and he got her number off our friend and they called me on 3 way and I started talkin to this boy. I talk to him like every day now and I am falling for him! He's so great. But i dont even know what he looks like but i don't think it would matter to me because he's just the greatest person in the world to talk to. But theres just one thing I HAVE A BOY FRIEND. I don't know what to do I like both of them so much! What should I do??
HELP
Start talking to this boy on AIM. And ask him for a pic so you can see what he looks like and you can decide if you like him or not. Maybe hang out with him in person..with a group of friends so your bf doesnt get jealous. Then decide who you like better.
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well, there was this girl i was going out with, and we recently broke up and i miss her alot! but now shes going out with another guy, and she just likes me "as a rli rli good friend" wat do i do, please, i miss this girl so bad!!!
Sry, but you can't change someone else's feelings. I know it will be tough at first, but you have to get over this girl. Look for another girl (one who you see often) and set your mind on her. That way, you will be thinking about her, and not so much about your ex. But remain being good friends with your ex.. show her that you care about her.. and who knows? Maybe sooner or later she will realize how good you are to her and she will take you back. Anyway I know this isn't what you wanted to hear.. but time heals all wounds. ;-)
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ok this may be long.
theres the boy hes in 12th grade. Im in 10th and i knew him since 9th grade. well this year he found out that i kind of liked him. and he didnt stop talking to me or acting different. untill he knew for sure i liked him. and now that ive had people go up to him and see if he has a girlfriend and stuff, when he sees me he smiles so big. and he used to hide it and now he lets it show. he always talks to me and messes with me and when i dont say hi to him he askes me why and stuff and he thinks sometimes im mad at him and when i tell him im not he goes oh good because i wouldn't want you mad at me. and he talks to me no matter whose around. and it doesnt matter who hes talking to he'll always say hi to me or something. with a smile. and i jus want to know if he likes me or what? and i had my friend that ask if he had a girlfriend and he said no then she asked him "well do u like amanda? would u ever go with her?" she said he just got the biggest smile on his face. he didnt say nothing but just smiled really big. would you people say he likes me? and what should i do?
thanks.
yea it sounds like he likes u :-)
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