my name is allie jones. People call me allie cat! I know that there are alot of people out there that need help and im ready to help you!
Member Since: August 15, 2005
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Last Update: August 20, 2005
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okay heres my problem..one of my best friends is going out with this guy two years older than her... and he has a REALLY bad rep like everyone knows him for having sex and using all these girls... but ive talked to her and him many times and hes changed a lot over the year, and he really likes my friend and he wont let her do anything too bad because he doesnt want her to think hes using her, but were going into highschool and i really am scared for her beacuse she will start to get the bad rep and no one understands there relationship and will think hes just using her.. what should i do and what should she do should she break up with him and wait till later in the year or what?
thanks
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yall dont need to worry about wut ppl think its not a big deal! Rumors spread and rumors go away! I do know that if he does somthing bad such as hit her call the cops immdiatly! and do ur best to keep her safe let her and her family stay with u! Its just a percaution!
~Allie Cat~
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I have this friend. We are like best of friends and we chill every other day or talk on the fone.
okay and she used to be friends with J. J and her used to be like how we are now. Js kind of a whore like meeting internet ppl, making out with strangers, flashing ppl and dressing like one. So we both hate J and my friend hangs out with her everytime shes pissed at me or just to get her to stop calling her. Now shes been with her for 3 damn days in a row. So I called her and she wont answer and its making me mad.
Should I trust that she doesnt talk crap about me like we do J or what should I do? Is there a way to be in touch w/o her knowing its me and getting her to answer? (link)
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call from HER friends house she will answer and yall can talk! if she hangs go to her house and talk it out!
~Allie Cat~
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 2 years now and i love him soo much. Well we got into a REALLY REALLY big fight, and he said really mean things to me so I broke up with him and when he came to my house the next day we talked and he told me that he thinks alot different of me now and he made it pretty clear that he didn't want to get back together with me at all. I didn't mean to break up with him and I want him back, the problem is, he doesn't want me back. My heart is broken and I'm really lonely. He was my life, I was with him EVERY SINGLE DAY. I feel lonely and I don't have anyone I can really talk to about it. What should I do? How can I get him to want me back as much as I want him back? (link)
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if he really meant the things he said that were bad about you1 then its not worth it! Remember this... the only one who is worth ur tears is the only one that will never make you cry!
~Allie Cat~
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Long story semi-short. I like 2 guys, one asked me out before the other so I agreed. Now I have a boyfriend but the other guy is mad and isn't talking to me. I atleast want him as a friend, but I don't want to ruin the relationship I have now. What should I do? (link)
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talk to the guy who is mad! If the other guy gets mad that u r talking to him he aint worth it!
~Allie Cat~
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This might sound weird but i am 15 and turning 16 in May 06'. One thing that i'm concerned about is that i haven't gotten my period yet:-/! is that not normal? is it bad that i haven't gotten it yet? I mean im going to be a sophmore and i still haven't gotten it...please helpp! (link)
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there is a website u could vist! It is www.Gurl.com! I hope this helps you!
~Allie Cat~
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Sorry it's so long, but I desparately need help. This is an easy 5 because there's so many things I need help with. Alright, I've asked a bunch of questions on how to get my crush to like me, and it looks like I just need to ask her out! I need some help doing that, though. First: I want a nice special way to deliver it, like they did at the end of Bye Bye Birdie. Can someone help me there? Also, someone suggested writing a poem for her, I suck at poetry, can someone give me tips? Besides, her name doesn't have any rhymes.... Then there's my parents. They've been betting on whether I'm gonna get a crush before my best friends (we're all nerds) and obviously don't know about me and my crush. How can I tell them? Note: I'm a shy person. Come to think of it, where's a good place to ask her out to? I don't really see any worthwile movies out apart from the Aristocrats, which I can't see until I'm 17. So what's a good place? Dinner? Bowling?
And finally, there's rejection. What happens if she says no? I'm a shy person, and I really don't want to have her say no... I mean, she said she liked me as a friend when I told her I liked her, and instead of getting over her, as time passed, I thought about her more. I've been devastated since, and this is the only way. Please help!!!!!! (link)
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I think i may be able to help!!! I think it is great that you have a crush! Ask her if she will go bowling with you! Then when yall are siting down doing whatever yall are doing talk to her tell her that you like her!If you r in love explain how you feel this isnt somthing that just happens! If she rejects you she really isnt worth it remember.. the only one who is worth your tears is the only one who will never make you cry!
~Allie Cat~
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hey im 13 and my girlfriend is 19 and we do everything together..go to the movies, mall, make out, and more! the only problem is that i think she might be seeing someone else...whenever she picks me up to go somewhere shes always late..what should i do?
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just ask her sitdown and talk to her! Tell her you love her! my dad cheated on my mom she felt like he was cheating on her it took him a while to admit it but h did! P.S. How late? If you feel so strongley about it tell her!
~Allie Cat~
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Hey. I hugged another guy. I have a boyfriend (of over a year a 6months) and my boyfriend who I love soo much got mad, and he doesnt trust me.
what should I do? we are still together, but things are shaky. I know he still loves me coz he told me he did, when he came over to my house to hear the whole story. So that has to mean something.
What are some sweet things I can do?
BTW i have no idea why I hugged the other guy! I wouldn't ever date him! crazy! When I hugged him, I got the worst feeling in the world, it didnt feel good. I got a stumach ache, and wanted to run away. And I felt like I was gonna puke. It was @ work. and after I hugged him, because I felt so bad I ran out of there!
-thanks a million!
I'll rate and leave feedback!
-Kelsee-
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ok kelsee, Maybe you hugged the other guy cuz u were being nice! Or maybe you felt bad for him for some reason! If I were you I would explain to my bf how much i loved him and how i would never in a million years cheat on him settup a date or sumthing and you pay! And then ask him sumtime on the date if he still trusts you!tell me if it works out!
~Allie Cat~
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well me and my friend is like getting really mad at me and my other friend cuz we're spendin more time then im tryin to tell my friend that me and my friend lizzy are really srry but she ignores me and crap.wat am i going to do she's one of my best friends! (link)
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Talk to her! Explain what is going on or if she is the problem ask her what she has the problem abaout! It worked with my cousin! HAHA! I hope i help and if i did im glad i could!
~Allie Cat~
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well i recently met this guy at a party this summer and weve became really close but the thing is hes 19 and im 14...but i really like him and hes going off to college this fall and im scared that i wont see him that much and eventualy we are going to drift apart? and i havent really told him how i feel...should I?? (link)
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Hell Yea! You dont want to tell him in a way that seems to foward! you should try to start a conversation then you guys will get to talking and eventually you will work up the nerve to tell him =! I hope i helped and if i did im glad i could!
~Allie Cat~
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i went out with this guy like 5 months ago, but we broke up after 1 day because this girl from my school started a rumor that i was using him even though i wasn't, but then 2 months ago, he asked me out again and i said yes, and now we're still going out, but i don't really like him anymore because i got to know him a lot better and now i know how he really is. i was going to brake up with him yesterday, but before i did, he gave me all these presents and said that he was so glad that we were going out again, and that he hopes it lasts really long. and he still sort of doesn't know if i used him or not, and if i just brake up with him right after he gives me all this stuff, then he's gona think i just used him again, so what should i do? should i wait for like a month or something so that it's not right after he gave me all the presents and he doesn't think that i used him, or should i just go ahead and just brake up with him? i don't want to wait because i don't like him, but if i don't wait he'll think i just used him, and it'll also hurt his feelings because he's liked me for 2 years now and he's been trying to get me to go out with him ever since.
please help, i rate high for peeps with good answers!!! (link)
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i am not sure how you feel but i think I can help! I think that maybe you should break up with him now! No matter how much you like the presents you should try to give them back! That way he wont think you used him! But make sure you let him down easy cuz then if you dont then his feelings would be hurt double! Maybe if you try to give the presents back then he MIGHT just let you keep some of them! I cant garuntee anything tho! I hope i helped!
~Allie Cat~
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Hey i was wondering if any of you know a all around really good shampoo and conditioner.. i use brilliant brunette right now but i was wondering if theres like a better one maybe pantene the brunette expressions or garnier fructice or what... my hair is wavy i can curl or straighten it so yeah thanks! im looking for one to make it shiny and healthy and makes it just look good! 15 f (link)
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i think that you should Treseme that is what i use! i am blonde but my hair stays shiny 24/7! I hope this helps! thx for writing1
~Allie cat~
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At Cheerleading practice we have to run like a mile and a half without stopping and if we stop every1 has to run another lap around the football field (4 laps=1mile) I get so exhausted and i cant run that much i get to the point where i cant feel my legs and i cant breathe..i dont know y though i am a skinny person and im short and very atheletic ..i just cant run for a long time!...i need help on ways to make me run better/ longer..thanks!...I rate!!!!!! (link)
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first off. I dont think you should be running that much! Maybe you could find a way to talk to your coach about not haveing to run as much! tell him/her about how this effects you! Maybe he/she will understand. If they dont understand you could take a bottle of gatorade with you while you r running! I hope this helps you. I feel for you i used to cheer! thx for writing!
~Allie Cat~
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i know there has been a lot of questions like this so... i hope i'm not getting on your nerves! okay my birthday is in october and i'm turning 14, i have no idea what to do for my party b/c i can't have everyone over to my house or anything and what would we do anyway? i was thinking maybe w/all girls head to a spa or something, but i have a TON of guy friends. so please help! GOOD answers get 5's i'll report you if i have to! (link)
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Hi,
During my last party i had this problem! haha! I think that you should ask your friends what they would like to do! then take a vote! It may sound lame but that is a great way to decide what to do and not to mention what your friends would think is fun! I hope this helps! Thx for writing!
~Allie Cat~
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ok heres the situation..my parents said i can only get a cat if i can find a place for the litter box so my puppy wont get into it when nobodys home. i cant think of anyplace to put it, any suggestions? (link)
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Put it on a shelf or whil you r gone you can put it in and the kitty in a big room and close the door that way the dog will not be able to get to it! I hope this works out!
~Allie Cat~
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omg I axcendently stepped on my ferret and now its just like laying there and its still breathing but real heavy i dont know what to do becuz i cant like take him to a vet or nething cuz they arn't open now..i dont know if its like gonna die or what! help what should i do?
I LL RATE HHIGH!
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That stinks. Dont panic! I believe that your pet ferret know's that you love him. I think that you should call someone. a parent or a friend. Ask them to come help. hold him. Even tho he cant talk back talk to him tell him every thing will be okay. try to feed him! then at the at time the vet opens call tell them its an emergency and go straight there. dont let him out of your sight keep him with you! i love animals if i were you this is what i would do! I hope this works out for you!
-Allie Cat-
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Any ideas or things i could do to meet new people? (link)
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If you see some one you think would be cool to hang out with them just go up to them and say something like, Hey my name is ...! If they dont tell u their name then they are not worth trying to get to know. Thx I hope this works out for you!
~Alexandria
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Is it weird for an African-American girl to say things like "Dude", "Narley", "Hot", etc.? (link)
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No!!! Why would that be weird? Any one can say that. If you said it to me I wouldnt think it was weird at all. If any one thinks you are weird then they are not true friends. I hope this works out! Thx!
~Alexandria
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hey, well see there is this guy...and he's really sweet to me on IM. then my friend tried to set us up. like she told him to get to know me, is what i really mean. and then he told her that i sound cool, but he wouldn't talk to me. i still wanna get to know this guy but how can i do that if he won't talk to me?
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If he wont talk to you, You should talk to him first. Start a conversation ask him what kind of music he listens to! Then you guys will start talking! Thats how I started talking to the guy I really wanted to get to know! I hope it works out for you. thx
~Alexandria
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