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My name is Stephen, I'm 27 years old and live in the state of Michigan. I joined advice nators to give/receive advice and make some new friends. I suffer from the autism spectrum disorder. It has it's effects when it comes to socializing with people at times and other issues. You can always e-mail/IM me if you want to talk more about it. I also suffer from scoliosis and had back surgery in 1999. Since then, I may have a few days throughout the year when I am in back pain and have to take drugs to help relieve the pain. I have been working in the fast food industry for over 9 years, and as of right now, I'm looking to start a home based business in internet marketing. If you need advice or just want to talk and be friends, feel free to e-mail me or add me to yahoo messenger which is pcdoctor554 or add me on facebook which is http://www.facebook.com/pcdoctor2

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about 3 months ago, i was diagnosed with leaukemia=[. the doctor told me that i am gonna die after my 8th month. is he allowed to tell me this? he just flat out said... " in about 8 months your gonna die ", he made me my mom my dad and my brother cry. so anyways.... can he tell me this... and can i like sue him for it?



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Hey do you have an e-mail or IM's I can talk to you on?

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well..im 14,and im losin ma BEST FRIEND!!!!!well..hes a guy...hes 18..a lot older than i am but we really loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove each other!!well..he couldnt find a real gf and so...and Gosh...hes sooo kind and everything...but he was sick of bein so kind 2 people n people arent 2 him!!so ...there are these three gurls he knows...he used 2 like em as jss friends and sis...u know...and 2 break his kindness 2 ppl and jss be like all of the guyz around him ...hell tell a gal of em 2 be his gf ...the 3 of em want him 2 b their bf...so he was like let me try how it feels and do as all the other guyz do and let me pick one of em and play with her and stuff...jss not 2feel bored..and he told me and stuff..and we had this huge fight and i told him if you are gonna b this guy i dont want you ...then I LOST HIM!!!!!!!!how can i return him back and how can i stop him think this way????plz answer me guyz!!thxx ya all

This is a hard question for me to answer, but I will do my best. I understand how he feels when he's nice to people and then gets all the disrespect. Truth be told, if those people aren't going to be kind to him, then they shouldn't be the type of people he hangs out with. But your whole question seems confusing to me and there really isn't anything much I can do to help because I haven't been in a situation like this.

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This might be kinda long and in depth i apreaciate it if you read all of it.

First of all im 19/f and my boyfriend is also 19. We'll call him J. Ok, so J and I have been together for 3 years, four next july. He treats me better than I could ever ask, and does things for me. We planned on getting married and probably having children together. The thing is over the past 2 years I've gotten really sick. I spend alot of time at hospitals and in doctors offices. Ever since six months ago, I've been on treatment for cervical cancer. It's working but the side affects are making me sicker than ever. Some days it's even hard for me to get out of bed. So what I'm getting at.. I always feel so guilty and upset about hurting him because of my sicknesses. I don't feel like a good girlfriend because I can't do some of the things he does for me. He tells me not to worry about it and it'll be worth the wait, but it isn't that simple for me. I feel like he deserves better, someone that can do things for him and make him happy. I know he isn't. I know how bad he wants kids, and now I might not be able to give him that. We don't get to do alot together and we LIVE together. It sucks so bad I don't even know what to do anymore. Any advice would mean alot to me.

Thanks

I'm sorry to hear that your sick. You should also be really happy that you have a nice loving boyfriend as well. As long as he understands what you are going through and he is helping you the best, then everything should be going according to plan. If you want to, please e-mail me at pcdoc2@gmail.com I would like to talk to you more.

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I was goin to bed downstairs with my parents room being upstairs, when i finally was in bed i heard a scream, so i got up wondering what was wrong then i heard all these sex noises moans and such, i was freaked out, wouldn't you be? so i called my 19 year old sister and she came home to comfort me. I couldn't sleep even after they had stopped, it was stuck in my head.
The next morning i was discusted, but still decided to talk about them about it, all they said was "we are in love you should be happy that we are still together in so in love" i go "i'm not...it's discusting to me!" they just said "you should get over it" now i can't get the noises out of my mind and i keep picturing them doing it i know they are in love but i still think it is really discusting i mean blowjobs, kissing, naked! that is what is stuck...please help me to be relived of that!

I would like to talk to you privately. Have you got any instant messengers that I can talk to you through?

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i took a ept pregnancy test and it came out positve could the test be wrong

How long ago was it that you had sex? It is best to take a pregnancy test within 10-14 days after sex. What you should do is do a few more pregnancy tests within the time range I gave you. If they all come out positive, then yes you could be pregnant. How old are you? Have you had unprotected sex? Hopefully all goes well for you.

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Well she has been this way since they have been together. We have been worried about KC for so long and it even got to the point where he wasn't eating and lost alot of weight. There is another weight to this problem, her father happens to be the police chief of our town and uses his position not only between them but with others in the community. How can we approach KC without him feeling that we are attacking him or putting him in difficult position with her father?

It is going to be a difficult question to me to try and answer, but I do however have one more question that I must ask. If he is going out with this woman who treating him bad, why dosen't he use his head and break up with her? Because I think it is at the point to where he should leave her if she is this bad. I'm sorry if it has to be this way.

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Hey my name is michelle and iam 36 years old and my son who is autistic is always spending the night at my mom's house and he never wants to come home and i miss him what should I do?

Is there a reason as to why he dosen't want to come home, but rather stay at your mom's house?

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My nephew KC is marrying Kendra and they have 1 child together who is 2 years old. This will be the 3rd date set for marriage. KC is not himself when she is around. He is extremely quiet and uninvolved with the family when she is around. But, when she leaves he smiles and laughs and has alot of fun. Kendra uses their daughter to get what she wants. She has told KC that he will not get to see their daughter when things are not going well between them. She has threatened to leave and he will never see her again. She has said the same thing to KC's mother and even went to their house and took all of their granddaughters photos from their home. She has called his cousins and told them that she hates our entire family. Their wedding is in a few weeks and we are not sure if it will happen but now she has contacted the flower girl's mother and told her that she is not needed in the wedding because of budget issues. She also sent an email to the best man's (KC's only brother) girlfriend and told her she is not invited to the wedding and that if anyone does not support their marriage then they should not be there. Please help with any advice.

From what's going on here, they better work out issues before they even get married. Why all of a sudden is she being quite mean to your nephew? What kind of lady is this person? Is you nephew doing stuff wrong that she dosen't like? Well hopefully all goes well.

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my butt holes stuck together its causing nothing to come down,i try to force it to come out but nothing happens.
Im kinda embarrased to say this and I know your disgusted by it but its a real problem I dont know what to do about it.

You better see a doctor ASAP.

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in your opinion, is "pissed" a curse word? i am 15/f and my friends and teachers say it, and i was just curious. for example, "that really pissed me off."

Some say yes, some say no. You are however not allowed to say it at a place of employment. I nearly got nailed for saying it at work.

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hi 14/f
im 5,5 and 125 pounds
is that fat normal
please help me
if i am fat
how do i get skinny?

Well, there really isn't an honest answer to that one. At your age, I weighed about 113 and I thought that was a little below normal for me. I would like to know if you are a big eater? Also, you should maybe do some working out like walking and running, and even lifting weights. Hope this helps.

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I like going to school but i'm really really really SUPER extra nervous for high school. In our school we have ALOT of people who THINK theyre better than everyone else. They push others around in the hallway, look at you funny, always act retarded to get attention and teachers love 'em they get away with everyone. Theyre just annoying! I HATTTTTTTTE it. Is there anything i can do to stop it?

Unfortunately, it's something that you have to deal with in life. It even happens in high school as well. All I could tell you is to try and ignore there jerks, but it is tough.

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Since summer started, ive been at my dads a lot and stopped communicating with a lot of other people. I feel like everyone else is making connections with others and i only hang out with people that don't go to my school because therye not away or "busy" i don;t understand i feel so uneeded like in the way, am i really annoying? or are people just plain busy?

A lot of people during the summer either go on vacation, or find other things to do pretty much all summer long. I do believe that once the school year starts back up, you maybe able to see those friends again.

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i met this guy at orientation for work and we hitit off from the start aftr a lil bit of talkin he asked me out and after that everything seemed so perfect i loved spending time with him and talkin to him everything about him was perfect to me( i know there is no such thing) Out of nowhere he broke up with me today... i didnt see it coming at all... i thought he was happy...i dont know what to do i have been cryin since he dumped me...

A few questions I have. Is this your first relationship? If so, I could probabily see why you are so heartbroken. Also how old are you? It's very possible that your heartbroken as well because of your age. Teenage relationships usually do not last long. You are very lucky if you can get one to last you a year long. They are more likely to last longer once you are in your 20's. It also could have been possible that he was cheating on you as well. If your interested in chatting, you can AIM me at pcdoctor554, add me to MSN at pcdoctor2@cashette.com or add me to yahoo at weatherman554 You can also e-mail me at pcdoc2@gmail.com as well. I'm willing to talk to you if you want.

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Yesterday; I had a really bad stomach ache; then at like midnight I threw up. This morning I felt fine and now i feel sick again. What can I do to get better?

It maybe possible that you could have the stomach flu. See a doctor if conditions get worse or don't go away.

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this is for everyone to answer.

what age did you have your first boyfriend? and what age did you have you first kiss?


i just wanna get some ideas. thanks.

I also am a guy and I didn't have my first girlfriend until I was 18. That's when I had my first kiss as well.

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heyy. i was wondering if you could have babies on the sims 2 for ps2 and if you could have kids-like when you create the family. Thanks

It maybe possible, but I personally like Sims 2 for PC. You can definately have babies on that, you can go places, there's aging, and a lot more. If you gave me your computer specs, then I could probabily tell you whether it would work or not.

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my boyfriend wants to fight with a relative of mine who has a crush on me....REAL CRUSH ON ME..they said that they will have a "till death" fight and i dont know how to stop them...my boyfriend and that guy are really stubbonrn...they may REALLY get one another KILLED...i just need a way to stop them...i am almost 15 and my realtive is 15 and half and my boyfriend is turning 17,thank you

This seems like a hard one to try and help you on, but I'll give it my best shot. From what this looks like, your current boyfriend seems like a type of guy who want to be the murderer type of person. If they are talking about a til death fight, this is telling me that he isn't a good guy. No boy would ever get that physical if someone tried to go after you. Who do you like more? You need to talk to your boyfriend about this and if he dosen't want to work with you on this matter, then I don't the guy you are going out with is the right guy for you.

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All of my clothes I buy stretch so easily. It's because they're all made of like thin fabric. It's not like I need a bigger size it's just that if I'm wearing it for a long time my shirts seem to get baggy and stretch out. Is there a certain detergent(?) I can use to help them go back to there normal tight fitting size? I'll try anything. Thanks!

Clothes are usually supposed to shrink a little bit in the washer, but yes it maybe possible that they can stretch as well.

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I have to cousins and their parents are seperated. Both of their parents are alcoholics. They live with their mother, who treats them unkindly. One of my cousins, Rachel, she's always upset and crying because of my aunt. My other cousin, Matt, he will argue with my aunt unlike rachel but he ends up angry and upset also. They refuse to admit that my aunt has a problem. Rachel and Matt do EVERYTHING! They washes the dishes, does the laundry, cooks every meal, cleans the windows, vacuums, dusts, and many other things while my aunt, she just sits there drunk, while screaming at them and making fun of them! Rachel is too scared to argue with my aunt about doing these things. Matt argues every now and then but not a lot. He also has always been very pale and thin because he is so upset all the time. They won't talk to anyone about this. They are scared of their own mother! I don't know what I can say to them to help them through this. Does anyone have any ideas of what I can do or say?

I think the reason why your cousins refuse to admit to someone that their has a problem is due to the fact that they maybe scared of what could happen to them next. I would like to know if your cousins live with their aunt? Do both the mom and aunt live together? Also, where's the father? Rachel is scared to argue because she thinks that she may get hurt physically and emotionally. If they are that scared, then you should see if they could go and get some counseling. This maybe a very hard task, but must be done. These kids can't live there being afraid of their mother and aunt all the time. It is unhealthy for both of your cousins. Hopefully all works out. If you have any instant messengers, please let me know as well. e-mail me at pcdoc2@gmail.com

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