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Brittany, I feel like I can't tell my bst friend any secrets without her telling the whole school. Am I supposed to feel like this or not?

ok well it really depends if he/she has lied to you in the past you need to tell that person until you can prove yourself to me im just not going to beleive what you tell me but if its just an exageration then you should sit that person down and tell them that they don't have to lie to you to impress you that all they need to do is be themself.......sometimes you should feel that if you have been lied to a lot from that person or you might just have some trust issuses

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Hey Brittany. I feel like I can't tell one of my friends any secrets. Am I suppose to feel like this or should I be able to tell my friends secrets?

ok well it really depends if he/she has lied to you in the past you need to tell that person until you can prove yourself to me im just not going to beleive what you tell me but if its just an exageration then you should sit that person down and tell them that they don't have to lie to you to impress you that all they need to do is be themself.......

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As a seventeen year old female who is oober tired of stupid highschool guys and would like to move on to more mature ones... how old is too old for me?

for one thing honey im only 14 and i have already realized that guys never mature and 19 is to old for you

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One of my best guy friends who calls me all the time (like literally every 2 minutes) well my best friend told me that he likes me but i didnt believe her and then he told me he did and i just thought of him as my friend so i was like no and then he got a girl friend and it hurt me and i think i'm just in denial cuz i do have feelings for him. Do y'all think I have feelings for him?

well yea finding that out just hit you so hard at first you said no its not like that between us and then when you figure it out that he likes you that you might want to be with him so i say yes you have feelings for him but the fact that he has a girl means he didn't have really strong feeings for you not to be mean.....................

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I just found out that this girl i know is about to die because of cancer. I dont know how to handle it. someone please help me!!

ok the best thing you can do for someone that is about to pass is be with them hang out with them do stuff bring her stuff be a friend............that way you know you were in their heart when they passed

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Me and this guy use to go out. He broke up with me and I didnt see him for a long time. I was in love with him, we started talking again and we hug and flirt and talk but theres this other girl he does some of that stuff with too. I still have feelings for him, everytime I see him I always think god he's hot, and think about how much I care for him. But wut do I do? I need him back, he's like all I ever think about.

ok i had this same problem ok first of all you need to find a guy that you can make him jealous with ok and be like all over him and then he will notice your taking and guys love things they can't have ok so he will start noticing things about like you perfume you cloths etc. then when he wants you back just tell the other guy its not working out and then get him hooked up with one of you friends..................works out for everyone

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how do get rumors to go away....i just had a huge ass rumor started about me...but the thing is its true...just not ne more...i don't want my entire scool to think shitty about me over a mistake a made a while back...wat do i do??i rate high

ok i had the same thing happen between me and this girl and i was experimenting and everything and a couple of things happened and then she went and told everyone and it started off as it was me who told everyone and not her and then everytone came to realize that she was a liar.....but ne wayz the only thing you can do is let the rumor run its course and eventually the person who started comes out.........

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ok well i have this ex b/f i will call him z and i went out with im on and off for almost a year i alos got quite heavy with him. i still like him and have done since we broke up. he has mooved on and been with loads of other girls so why cant i move on???

ok most of the time the girl has the hardest time moving on he is only going out with girls probably to get you mad and always after a break up most guys think they have to get right back out there so what i would say is just get someone that you think you would have a time with and make a date and aventually you will get it where all you think about is the new guy...........

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ok me and my boyfriend hve been together a while. and we hve done most everything but, sex. alot of my friends hve already had sex. i know some people might say im too young but me and my boyfriend love each other and i know we are both physically and emotionally ready. well he comes over often but everytime im on my period [ kinda wierd? ] but we both hve tlked about this.. and sometimes i want to and others im jus like idk.. but i think i am ready but im so scared i might get pregnant but most people i know of hve had sex and used a condom and hve not got pregnant. seriously what are the chances. do you think im ready? and how would i let him know while we are together that i want to..? PLEASE DONT SAY IM NASTY OR NETHING IM REALLY NOT! please answer asap

ok this is how i feel about this don't always follow your friends but if your ready do it about like 2 weeks after your off your period and use condoms and if you brave enought ask you mom if you can get birth control just tell her its to regulate you period or something...........

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Okay, well I am in 6th grade. Me and my best friend have been soo close through elementary school and are families are so close and we even own a beach house togehter. Well, see Through out this month we have started to grow apart. She is trying to be like her older sister (preppiesh) and like that but before she started wanting to be like her older sister she hated the way preps were and that they were retarted and stuff. Well, now she has become a prep and is being someone she isn't. She used to hate this one prep and now she is like trying to be her closet friend. I hate the way she is being. I am hopeing it is just a phase but if it isn't I think we will be spilt up and stuff. I wish I could tell her this but since we are growing apart I don't know what to do. I used do everything to be her best friend because she wanted to end the friendship but now it's different I don't know if I would really care to not be her best friend. I have a boyfriend and since this one night I haven't told her really much about him. I don't know why I want to but then there is something stopping me. I need help. She thinks I don't trust her anymore but I don't know if that is true or not?? Please help!

ok this is what i would do i would straight up tell her that if she is going to be a poser that its just not going to work with yall anymore and then if she says whatever she wasn't ever a really ever a good friend in the first place

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theres this guy i like and he likes me too... but i dont think my mom would approve of him because he smokes. everytime i want to hang out with him i have to lie to my mom, which i feel bad about. i've tried talking to her but she doesnt listen. any ideas?

ok well here we go my dad doesn't approve of my bf cuz we've gone out so much and w/ but ne ways you shouldn't care what you mom thinks if you really like the guy you go for him and if she like ever wants to meet him or anything just tell him to buy some new cloths that don't smell like smoke and tell him to brush his teeth real good and chew gum the whole night just to be one the safe side............

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k, i recently had sex with my ex bf.. and it was for 2 mins and nothing happened. i haven't gotten my period yet - it was suppsoed to come on tuesday, but i haven't gotten it yet. although, i have been very stressed lately (breakup with my boyfriend, dad lost a job, friend almost commited suicide, etc) and i am also very underweight for being my height. could those be reasons for missing my period or could i be pg? please write back!

ok first of all if you use a condom you shouldn't be pg and most of the signs your probably noticing is prolly from have sex thats all alot of young girls.....but if you don't have you period for i really long time i would go get a pregnacy test.....

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ok i got this friend and i thought he rly liked me and or so he says and then like so i would you kno kiss him and things like that and we were supposed to have sex this weekend i was supposed to lose my virginity to him but now this moring i found out at the high school hes sayin all kinda of rumors about me and how he can get anything from me.. so my question is how do i ask him about this?

ok what i think you need to do is first confront him about it but in front of alot of ppl so you have witnesses who can say he said or whatever just be like why are you saying this crap about me ans then dump his ass but first have a guy that wants to be with you waiting for you so you can make the other guy super jealous..........

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