So to start off my name is Amber. I am a sophmore in highschool and I love my friends. I have been told many times that I give good advice so I have decided to make one of these. I have helped out alot of my close friends in life and have succeeded in doing so. So I have decided I shall help everyone. And with this you can be an anonymous person so I dont have to know who you are. I believe that this site is a good idea. Maybe you all will think so too! If you have anything that you need advice on please ask! I will definitly try my best and give you the best advice possible. Have a good day and remember ; Life's too short to be anything but happy!
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Amber,
I really dont know what to do right now everytime i leave his house he gets right on the phone with someone for like an hour and i even tryed an emergencey break trough and he wont except it and he lies when i ask who he was talkin to sayin his fone was off the hook! but then i sit and think about it ... when would he have time for another girl bc if im not over there 24 7 hes at my house! so please let me know how to deal with this! (link)
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if i was you... i wouldnt deal with him... hes trying to be a player and oviously its not working... he thinks your blind but your not!! talk to him about it and if just continues to lie to you about it then i say let him go... there are guys out there that wont treat you like dirt... but if hes over at your house or yall are always together maybe hes not cheating on you... cause how would he see the girl if he was with you all the time? but who knows with guys these days... people and cheating just keep getting worse and worse!
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Amber,
My boyfriend of about two months has a best friend that is a girl. I've never really talked to her and up until about a week ago I knew that I could trust her around him. But recently she broke up with her boyfriend and has started gettin extremely touchy with mine. I don't know how to make it stop. She does it right in front of my sometimes and acts like I don't even exist. I've talked to my boyfriend about it and told him that it makes me uncomfortable but he never does anything to stop it. Even other people see it and think that she is totally crossing the line. What should i do? (link)
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I think you should talk to her about it... maybe shes just looking for attention from him because she is his best friend but crossing the line while doing it... hes your boyfriend and he should stop... he needs to realize what is going on... its not worth throwing away a two month relationship for a new one... try talking about it more to him and hopefully he will understand... let him know how you feel about it
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There is this guy at my school and I like him A LOT and have for about 7 months...well we never went out but we got really close and we did stuff like you know hold hands, make out those kinds of things. Well he is still talking to his x-g/f and they made out recently like last thursday...and well he acts like he likes me but he likes her too and i dont want him to ask her out cause i want to go out with him and i dont know how to get to him first or if he even likes me as much as this other girl...I NEED HELP!!!! THANX A LOT
ps: i know you dont know me but my name is terri i got you off of a friends buddy list and she said you give good advice (link)
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why dont you try talking to him? dont give him too much attention though... guys dont like too much of it... it seems like to me that he does like you but maybe he wants to give his ex a chance... you should talk to him and tell him how you feel about him and what you think about the whole situation and just maybe he will give you a chance instead of her... just dont tell him you dont want him to go out with her because you want him to go out with you... itll just make you sound selfish... just let him know how you feel and everything! good luck
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Hey Amber,
Well i seem to have a problem which is obvious or else i wouldnt be asking for advise huh lol well there is two girls that i love to death and i have had a crush on them for sometime now and both told me they liked me 2 and wanted to give me a chance but then both of um got a b/f and now one cant talk 2 me b/c her b/f hatesmy guts and wants t fight me and the other i feel totaly slipping away is there anyway to save what i am losing please help and i have tried everything said everything i could and did everything i could in y power to make them happy and smile please give me some advise on how to save this and no im not trying to play both of them i would never cheat on ne 1 EVER!!!!! (link)
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okay for starters you need to find the one that interests you the most and the one you would rather be with... if the girl whos bf hates your guts is going to let him interfere with yalls friendship then shes letting him control her and she seems to be more into him then she is you... otherwise she would be with you instead of him... also you have to give it time... i understand that you seem to like these girls alot but maybe its just not your time to be with them yet... wait it out and see what will be given to you... rather it be one of the two girls or another girl that is alot better for you... dont be depressed over it and dont stress about it... letting things like this get to you will only hurt you more... stay strong and no matter what happens just remember whats meant to be will find a way
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hi well theres a guy i like but he's with someone else that really doesn't deserve him in my eyes but he doesn't realize that i mean everyone says she doesn't deserve him and i mean there are times that in my eyes he might like me but other times it seems like he might not how can i tell if a guy is flirting or just being dumm........
signed *BeMyShiningStar (link)
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maybe she doesnt deserve but he doesnt want to see it... theres times when people just like someone so much they dont want to see the real them... but in the end they will...
most guys flirt alot with girls... its just how guys are rather they mean it or not... give hints to him that you like him and treat him really good as a friend and just maybe he really does like you but you just dont see it all the time because he hides it... give him a lil bit of a hint and watch hints from him too... hell finally see that you deserve him way more then she does
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ok so theres this guy that i met recentkly and hes a friend of a friend and my friend says he liks me but i dont believe them and idk if its true or not and i think i like him but im not sure soo what should i do? (link)
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I think that you should just wait it out and see how things go. You never can really read people anymore.
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Well I'm a 17 year old girl.
The thing is that I really really like this one guy named Anthony at school and I talk to him about 3 out of 5 days at school. He's really cute and I kind see kindness in his eyes and his smile but a friend has told me that he's gay. I have no proof of this. He has no guy friends that I know of but I know that doesn't necessarily mean anything. Anthony smiles at me in the hall, waves to me in the lunch room, and says hi whenever I pass him. I really want to ask him to prom but he is really shy and I have no clue about if this rumor is true. I'm usually not one to even think that rumors might be true but this one does affect me some. Should I ask him anyways? If so then how? I'm not good at verbally asking things like this and I know that guys hate receiving notes. (link)
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I think you should ask him. Just casually talk to him about prom and ask him if he has a date yet? And if not just be like well why not? and if he says he doesnt know then just be like well why dont you go with me?
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There is this new boy he from a spanish country and i really like him but then there is my friend i like were really close and im afraid if i ask him out and he says no that he won't trust me or he'll act all weird please help i really don't know what to do. (link)
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I think you should kind of hint it to him that you like him but dont ask him out until you know he likes you and maybe hell ask you out before you do ;)
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