The thing is that I really really like this one guy named Anthony at school and I talk to him about 3 out of 5 days at school. He's really cute and I kind see kindness in his eyes and his smile but a friend has told me that he's gay. I have no proof of this. He has no guy friends that I know of but I know that doesn't necessarily mean anything. Anthony smiles at me in the hall, waves to me in the lunch room, and says hi whenever I pass him. I really want to ask him to prom but he is really shy and I have no clue about if this rumor is true. I'm usually not one to even think that rumors might be true but this one does affect me some. Should I ask him anyways? If so then how? I'm not good at verbally asking things like this and I know that guys hate receiving notes.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? operation_waffle answered Monday March 27 2006, 10:44 am: Well if you wanna ask him if he's gay just start saying that you have a friend who is gay and is looking for someone to take to the prom and if he knows anybody he could take. If he offers himself say that you'll ask him and keep avoiding him so you don't have to tell him that you just made him up. If he kinda looks a little wierded out that prob. means he's not gay and then you should definetly ask him!
RibbonsAndPearls answered Sunday March 26 2006, 7:32 pm: I think you should ask him. Just casually talk to him about prom and ask him if he has a date yet? And if not just be like well why not? and if he says he doesnt know then just be like well why dont you go with me? [ RibbonsAndPearls's advice column | Ask RibbonsAndPearls A Question ]
XoJuStKiSsMeXo360 answered Sunday March 26 2006, 5:11 pm: Ok just talk to him right and then lead ur convo into the prom and ask him if he going with anyone and if he isn't kind of ask him i've asked boys out all the time i mean they don't last but they do say yea sometimes you just kinda lead ur convo into the prom that the best i can give you on how to ask him to the prom.
*good luck hope he says yes* [ XoJuStKiSsMeXo360's advice column | Ask XoJuStKiSsMeXo360 A Question ]
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