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Am I doing the right thing?
I am completely in love with this guy, he is like my best guy friend. Yet we petty fight, argue over stupid stuff(old married couple kinda stuff), but not always to the point of not talking. But there are times when it gets so far that we say harsh things to one another and break up with the other or don't talk for a day. He has been my backbone through a lot of changes in my life recently and one of the major reasons why I didn't take my life. Lately, its been nothing but fighting over stupid crap and I can't stand it. I am like an open book with him, I tell him everything that happens in my life and how I'm feeling; he on the other hand only tells what needs to be told and answers what I ask him. He doesn't like this guy I hang out with so I stopped hanging out with him just for him, but one night I ended up at a place where the kid was and we hung out. The next night, my boyfriend went out with a girl he has feelings for to get back at me. I really am fed up with this and my friends say to just walk away from him, but my heart won't let me. Should I just walk away b/c he is such a jerk or what?? If so, how? He is truly the only guy I want to be with and even with treating me like crap and me not trusting him around girls, I am still in love with him. :( Please, please help me!!!
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Well if he is hurting your feelings already, what can you expect of your relationship, just because you guys are going to be dating doesn't mean it's going to solve all of your problems. I mean maybe you could try talking to him before, like amking sure you like him, and remember that you are risking your friendship but i guess you thought through that, i mean if you decide that you wanted to be with him then you defiinitely should tlak to him and tell him how you feel, be real and hoenst and open, don't expect him to be honest right then, it might take a while but ocne he notices what a differnce your rreltaionship is with him then he might understand and back off. He'll lobe you so much he'll just let you tkae control of him, you know waht i mean. Don't jump into a already troubled relationship and don't let the problems go further than they already have because you never know waht could happen, so tlak to him first. GOOD LUCK!
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