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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

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MY UNCLE died what shuld i do? he waz the best person in the world now hes gone.


plz help me:(

IM REALLY SORRY ABOUT YOUR UNCLE! MAY HE REST IN PEACE =) HE ISNT NESSESERLY G0NE F0REVER! HE IS ALWAYS WATCHING OVER YOU NO MATTER WHAT AND YOU JUST HAVE TO REMEMBER IT WAS HIS TIME T0 GO AND YOU CANT DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT. HE LOVES YOU VERY MUCH! PRAY EVERYDAY AND EVEN THO YOU WILL MISS HIM WITHOUT A DOUGHT .. YOU WILL HAVE TO GET PAST IT. I NEVER LOST SOMEONE I WAS REALLY CLOSE TOO BUT I CAN IMAGINE THE FEELING AND THE PAIN. JUST BE THERE FOR THE REST OF YOUR FAMILY BECAUSE THEY WILL ALSO NEED YOU AND YOU HAVE TO KEEP YOUR HEAD HIGH AND BE STRONG. ITS OKAY T0 BRAKE D0WN AND CRY. AGAIN IM S0RRY ABOUT YOUR UNCLE AND I HOPE YOU ARE FEELING BETTER SO0N! [[ ♥ ]]

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theres this guy whos gonna ask me out on valentines day hes going to give me a rose and bear and a kiss. what shuld i do and what should i wear?

W0AH. U HAVE A L0T OF TIME UNTIL VALENTINES DAY! L0L I THINK ITS REALLY SWEET THAT HE IS GONNA DO THAT AND ITS SOO CUTE! IF YOU LIKE HIM GET HIM SOMETHING TOO AND SAY THANKS AND GIVE HIM A BIIIIG HUG!! WEAR SOMETHING CUTE && CLASSY. JUST LIKE A CUTE DRESSY SHIRT , JEANS 0R A SKIRT AND SOME CUTE SHOES. YOU WILL MAKE UP YOUR MIND BY THEN. [[ ♥ ]]

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I am throwing my best friend a surprise party. She's a girl, 16. I already sent out the invitatations to all of her girlfriends, but I can't decide if I should invite boys or not. She is not friends with very many guys, and the 3 or 4 she is friends with may not even all be friends with each other (I don't really know all of them well). I don't know if I should invite them or not, because they aren't even people she hangs out with outside of school, and I don't know if it would be awkward for them to be there. However, I think that the party should have boys, I mean we are 16 years old. What should I do?

INVITE EVERYONE THAT YOU BOTH KNOW! SINCE SHE DOESNT KNOW THAT MANY GUYS INVITE YOUR GUY FRIENDS AND THOSE 4 SHE KNOWS. THEY CAN HAVE THEIR FRIENDS COME. JUST HAVE A BIG PARTY WITH EVERYONE THERE. IT WOULD BE A LITTLE FUNNER WITH THE GUYS SO JUST GO FOR IT! =D SHE DEFENETLLY WONT BE ANGRY OR ANYTHING IF YOU INVITE THEM! SHE WILL BE EXITED THAT YOU THREW HER A SURPRISE PARTY!! HOW FUN! [[ ♥ ]]

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I'm in 11th grade now... well i'm going into 11th... and me and my friend have been friends since 4th... we are two completly diff people but that's what makes us good friends... she is more wild and i'm more not... she will do things without thinking and I think things through... last week she told me she liked this guy... every week it seems as though she likes someone diff... she had a 3 some with him and his friend... the two guys is her exes good friends... and the guy she doesn't like is one of her best friends ex and her other friend slept with him before she had the 3 some... she has wanted me to hang out with them but i'm not that type of person... i'm waiting till i get married to loose my virginity and i have more respect in myself than that no affense to her... i love her but i don't know what to do...she has told me if i hang out with them nothing like that will happen... but everytime she tells me a story about when they hangout something sexual like that always happens... we havent talk in almost 5 days... maybe more, maybe less... i don't know what to sday to her... she has had sex before with her ex and after she did it all changed... she kisses guys without really thinking... to her hooking up witjh a guy is no biggy... to me you should know the person and have semi feelings...

confused and lost

WELL LIKE YOU SAID SHE IS COMPLETLY DIFFERENT FROM YOU AND THAT IS JUST THE TYPE OF PERSON SHE IS. YOU CANT JUST LET THAT GET IN THE WAY OF YOUR FRIENDSHIP. TRY HANGING OUT WITH THEM AND SEE HOW IT IS. YOU DONT HAVE TO DO ANYTHING YOU DONT WANT TO AND THEY WONT PRESSURE YOU INTO IT. YOU NEED TO HAVE A TALK WITH YOUR FRIEND THO. I BET MOST GUYS THINK SHE IS EASY AND THAT SHE IS WILLING TO DO ANYTHING WITH ANY GUY. PEOPLE MIGHT EVEN START CALLING HER A SLUT AND STUFF AND THAT IS DEFENETLLY NOT GOOD AT ALL. HM.. IF SHE HAS SEX WITH SOMEONE .. SHE COULD BECOME PREGENT OR GET SOME KIND OF DEASESSE. HOPEFULLY SHE WILL UNDERSTAND. JUST LET HER KNOW YOU ARE'NT MAD AT HER YOU JUST WANT WHATS BEST FOR HER AND THAT YOU ARE TRYING TO KEEP HER AWAY FROM THE BAD THINGS. SHE SEEMS TO BE VERY SEXUALLY ACTIVE TH0.BUT YEAH .. GOOD LUCK WITH EVERYTHING!! [[ ♥ ]]

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Ok what do i do when my Friend says her brother likes me, but i dont know if he really does??

Ps-The boy already asked me out but i think he doesnt mean it. And how should i act when im over there, i mean she is my bff.

im a 14/f

I DONT THINK SHE IS LIENG TO YOU SINCE SHE IS YOUR BFF. JUST ASK HIM AND HE WILL PROBABLLY TELL YOU. I THINK HE DOES LIKE YOU SINCE HE ASKED YOU OUT ALREADY AND YOU COULD TELL IF HE WAS SERIOUS OR NOT. BUTJUST ASK HER TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH IF YOU THINK THAT SHE IS LIENG. [[ ♥ ]]

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um...this is gonna sound weird, but i'm 14, and i'm....like, hairy, if you know what i mean, my gf doesn't like it, how do i get rid of the hair without just shaving it, i've heard that doesn't work

SHAVING DOES WORK AND YOU COULD ALSO WAX. THATS THE ONLY OTHER OPTION AND YOUR HAIR DOESNT GROW BACK FOR A WHILE! [[ ♥ ]]

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i want a new screen name and i want it to be summer-ish any ideas becuz i can't think of any??


i rate 5's :)

I`LL TRY TO HELP YOU OUT HERE.. [[ ♥ ]]

SUMMERxR0MANCE
TROPICAL SENSATION
OCEAN BREEZE 05
CRAVIN SUMMER
SUMMER 0H 5
BEACH BABE o9
SUNKISSED x3
PARADISE L0VE
TROPICAL ILLUSION

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(13/f)theres this guy who ive like since the beginning of the school year..we used to talk alot and on the computer he would tell me to call him or something and at the end he would say "love you" i really liked him but im sorta shy with guys idk if he really meant the ilu or if he was just saying it as a friend. now he has this gf who hes been going out with forever and really really likes her=( its weird why i like him because hes totally different from me..how do i move on from him?

WELL WHEN YOU LIKED HIM YOU SHOULD OF TOLD HIM AND YOU GUYS COULD OF WENT OUT! BUT NOW.. ITS JUST T00 LATE.. ANYWAYS IT WILL TAKE YOUSOME TIME TO MOVE ON BUT YOU WILL. YOU JUST HAVE TO GO OUT AND START MEETING NEW GUYS. THATS THE ONLY WAY. IF YOU DONT WANT TO MEET NEW GUYS THEN JUST WAIT. TRY TO KEEP YOURSELF BUSY AND NOT TO THINK ABOUT HIM AS MUCH. [[ ♥ ]]

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okay this may sounds dumb, but is it okay to have sex if your in the water.. like a hot tub? i wasnt sure if it was alright because of the water going into your vagina ... sorry if this sounds stupid but i really want to know! thank you. will rate!

YES THATS PERFECTLLY FINE! I WOULD RATHER DO IT IN A MORE DRY PLACE. I MEAN IF YOU ARE HAVING SEX IN A HOT TUB AND YOU DEFENETLLY WILL NEED TO USE A CONDOM AND IF YOU ARE DOING IT IN THE WATER IT MIGHT SLIP OFF AND THATS NOT GOOD!! BUT JUST BE SAFE [[ ♥ ]]

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how do you do the heart thingy on like myspace??
thanks dawg

JUST D0 & hearts ; WITHOUT THE SPACES AND IT WORKS ON ANYTHING REALLY!! [[ ♥ ]]

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what are some ways do you guys think could help me with this broken heart problem :(

signed : if only i knew

THERE IS NO EASY WAY TO GET OVER A BROKEN HEART =( IT JUST TAKES TIME!! THERE ARE ACUALLY ONLY 3 IMPORANT THINGS YOU NEED. YOUR FRIENDS`SOME ICE CREAM`AND TISSUES! ITS NOT YOUR FAULT THO!! THAT GUY .. WHAT WAS HE THINKING!! HE ISNT WORTH YOUR TEARS BABE.. YOU DEFENETLLY DESERVE BETTER THAN THAT!! GO0D LUCK! [[ ♥ ]]

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You know those spongey things that you use in the shower? I forget what they're called..neways! How long should you use the same one?

DONT KEEP THEM ANY LONGER THEN 3 MONTHS. I MEAN THEY START TO FALL APART AND ITS ALWAYS BETTER TO GET A NEW ONE. THEY ARE PRETTY CHEAP SO IT SHOULDNT BE A BIGGY =) [[ ♥ ]]

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ok...about how old do girls normally stop growing....im 13 and im 5 feet 1 inch and my boobs are really small!

UNTIL YOU ARE 18 YOUR BOOBS SHOULD BE FULLY GROWN! [[ ♥ ]]

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Ok so I am slim 13/f. And a pool party is coming up, i mostly shop at Abercromei Kids. I never really looked at it but I swa that they had a white and dark blue bathing suit. Does anyone have one and ould you tell me the cost, and if its a good batihng suit, also does it have padding



Thanks!!
5 4 everyone

RIGHT NOW THEY ARE GETTING NEW BATHING SUITS AND THEY ARE USUALLY ABOUT 40-60. ABERCRIMBIE KIDS DONT HAVE PADDING BUT ABERCROMBIE & FITCH DOES. [[ ♥ ]]

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I just got a really nasty prank phone call. I never give out my number to anyone that I don't know and I couldn't recognize the voice. They were asking me if I'd like to participate in a lesbian teen porn video so I played along and said yes. When they called, it was a restricted number. I was wondering if there was any way I could figure out the number without having to get the police involved. Just so I can figure out who it was that called. They called my cell phone by the way. So, is there a way I can trace the number?

WHEN THEY WERE PRANK CALLING THEY PROBABLLY JUST DIALED A RANDOM NUMBER OUT OF NO WHERE. YOU CAN DO *69 AND IT WILL CALL THE PERSON BACK. [[ ♥ ]]

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ok i met this guy on the internet im 13 he is 17 and i like him and i think maybe he likes me too much. we made plans to meet in the future but i was just havin fun i was kidding about it. i didnt kno he really wanted to do it and now im scared something might happend can someone help?

W0AH.. DONT MEET HIM. SERIOUSLY YOU SHOULD WATCH SOME LIFETIME MOVIES. THOSE THINGS ACUALLY HAPPEN. JUST PROTECT YOURSELF AND DONT MEET HIM, DONT GIVE HIM ANY PERSONAL INFORMATION AT ALL AND JUST TELL HIM YOU DONT WANT TO MEET HIM. [[ ♥ ]]

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I think I love this boy named Mat. I'm not sure. Every time I think about him I feel sick and I cry. Everytime I hear the song We Belong Together by Maria Carrie I think about him and I cry. He was the first boy I ever held hands with on the bus, and he broke up with me that night. I cried myself to sleep every night. Please tell me what is wrong with me. I am 12, and I am a girl.
- Chelsea Leigh

AWW.. IM SORRY ITS SO HARD ON YOU! ALL BREAK UPS ARE REALLY TOUGH AND I UNDERSTAND HOW YOU FEEL IN A WAY. IVE CRIED OVER A BOY BEFORE AND TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH IT WASNT WORTH IT. YOU DONT LOVE THIS GUY. IM NOT TRYING TO BE BITCHY OR ANYTHING BUT.. NONE OF US KIDS KNOW WHAT LOVE IS. YOU JUST REALLY REALLY LIKE THIS GUY AND YOU CARE FOR HIM A LOT. YOU HAVE TO LEARN HOW TO DEAL WITH BRAKE UPS. THIS MIGHT NOT BE YOUR FIRST THO. I KNOW ITS HARD BUT HES NOT WORTH YOUR TEARS. =( JUST TRY TO GET OVER HIM. ALL YOU NEED IS 4 MAIN THINGS!! YOUR FRIENDS`TISSUES`ICE CREAM`AND SOME NEW GUYS!! YOU WILL GET OVER HIM SOON. BUT NOTHING IS WRONG WITH YOU BABE!! YOU'LL BE FINE! [[ ♥ ]]

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Your 13? You look like ur 17

L0L IM 13.. =D [[ ♥ ]]

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Im 13 and ve been going out with my boyfriend for 8 months now and i love him alot.When we first went out he told me he stopped smoking the first day we went out.The first 5 month of our relationship he lied to me and told me he didnt smoke.I finally found out by his 7 year old sister.And i was heart broken but i didnt break up with him beucase he promised me he wouldnt ever lie to me or hurt me or smoke again. But then in like 2 weeks we lied to me 3 more times about smoking.And i still didnt break up with him.Then on New Years he lied to me and told me he didnt drink when I found out by his mom and friends that he got drunk. After that everything was ok. But about a week ago he started lying to me again and smoked and lied to me about it.Ive tried EVERYTHING to get him to stop lying to me. I even promised him that i wouldnt break up with him if he did something but told me the truth about it. Please tell me what i can do to get him to stop lying to me...

Signed... Heart Broken

WELL ALL THOSE TIMES HE LIED TO YOU AND TOLD YOU HE WOULD STOP SMOKING WAS BECAUSE HE DIDNT WANT YOU TO BREAK UP WITH HIM. YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT IT ISNT SO EASY TO STOP SMOKING. I MEAN HE MUST OF BEEN DOING IT FOR A WHILE AND NOW HE IS ADDICTED AND CANT REALLY STOP THAT EASY. BUT HE DOES NEED TO. I MEAN SMOKING IS TERRIBLE AND YOU HAVE TO TELL HIM THE CONSIQUNCES. I UNDERSTAND IF HE GOT DRUNK ON NEW YEARS THO. SOO MANY PEOPLE WERE AND THATS JUST THAT ONE NIGHT WHERE YOU CAN HAVE A BIT OF ALCHOCOL. I KNOW YOU WANT HIM TO STOP LIEING TO YOU BUT I BET HE IS JUST SCARED. NO MATTER HOW MANY TIMES YOU SAY YOU WONT BREAK UP WITH HIM HE STILL THINKS YOU MIGHT. YOU JUST NEVER KNOW. JUST TALK TO HIM AGAIN AND OFFER TO HELP HIM STOP. HE MUST SMOKE A LOT AND JUST TELL HIM THAT YOU WILL TRY TO HELP HIM. EVEN THO IF HE SAYS HE WONT NEED HELP QUITING HE DOES. SMOKING IS BAD AND EVERYTHING BUT YOU CANT JUST LET THAT GET IN THE WAY OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP. THE BAD PART IS HE IS LIENG T0 YOU. YOU ALSO HAVE TO TELL HIM TO STOP LIENG TO YOU!! I MEAN IF HE ISNT GOING TO STOP THEN HE NEEDS TO STOP LIENG AT LEAST. YOU ALREADY KNOW HE DOES AND PLUS EVERYTIME HE LIES TO YOU YOU ALWAYS FIND OUT THE TRUTH. WHEN HE LIES MAKE SURE YOU THREATEN HIM A LITTLE BIT. BY THAT I MEAN JUST SAY YOU'LL BE MAD AT HIM AND IF HE DOESNT STOP WITH THAT YOU MIGHT BRAKE UP WITH HIM. IF HE TRUELY LOVES YOU.. YES HE WILL TRY TO STOP. [[ ♥ ]]

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im 13 and me and my boyfriend have sex all the time but we dont use a condom. can i get pregnet if he takes it out like 1 minunet before he cums?

THERE IS ALWAYS A POSIBILITY! DONT TAKE THE RISK THO. YOU NEED TO USE A CONDOM BEFORE ITS TOO LATE TH0! BE SAFE. [[ ♥ ]]

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