about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

Hey! you give great advice.. i saw someone with the same question ++ you said to leave it in your inbox so im askin too ! =p... how do you get custom colors on aim? thanks!

You could download a program called applesauce. If not Im just gonna tell you step by step.

1.Go to Start ... click Run... & type regedit in the box (press ok)
2.Find the folder that says HKEY_CURRENT_USER & open it.
3.Go to Software - open America Online.
4.Find AOL Instant Messenger and open that.
5.Open Current Version - then go down to Users & open that.
6.Find your SN - and open the folder that says IM
7.then you will see a bunch of things on the right, you will either be choosing FontColor or WindowColor for the color codes
8.double click one of them and you will see a box that says Value Data, and that is where you put the color code!

You can try these color codes!

D15FEE -pink
CC66FF - pink 2
CC33FF - pink 3
912CEE - dark pink
7931df - cranberry
1535ff - red orange
6666FF- dark peach
9F79EE - light pink/ salmon
3399FF - light orange
0099FF - orange
CD00CD - dark magenta
B03060 - dark purple
EE6AA7 - light purple
DA70D6 - light purple 2
EE1289 - purple
FF34B3 - purple 2
CC3299 - purple 3
CD3700 - blue
EE5C42 - light blue
FF9966 -light blue
E18b6b -baby blue 2
DB9370 - light blue 3
C7af92 - light gray
CD950C -blue/green (dark turquoise)
CDBE70 - lighter turquoise
CDCD00 - bright turquoise
6cc417 - green
00CD66 - lime green
FBEC5D - dark green
FFFF66 - pine green

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how do i get a girl to blow me

Ask her.

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Does anyone know any stores or places online where I can buy a giant tea cup. (Like the big tea cups they have at coffee houses) Thanks.

LOOK IT UP 0N EBAY. ALL STORED HAVE IT. LIKE WALMART && KMART && WALGREENS! ll ♥ ll

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Okay, here's the deal. My one guy-friend told me he liked me and that he wanted to go to the movies with me.. and I said yes ; because I did/didn't like him ( cause I haven't seen him in for like ever ) but I didn't want there being awkwardness so I had my one friend kinda invite herself ( lol yeah I know.. ). So she was coming to the movies. But then he didn't have money for it, so he couldn't go, so he suggested just hanging at his house. Well all day nothing happened, and it was getting latish kinda around 7 or something so I didn't even think I was going...but then he suddenly said he could come and get me. So I was allowed and stuff which was awseome! But then we stopped to rent movies, and his mom went shopping and stuff, so we didn't get to his house till like 7:30 and I had to go by 9 ( so we had to leave before then ) so then we were holding hands and enjoying ourselves and stuff and then I went home. And then my mom tells me she got a call from my friend who said she was upset because we ditched her or something ( and I didn't mean to like intentionally, I just thought that I was only there for like.. an hour or so, so I thought by the time she got there, we'd all have to leave anyway so I thought next time.. ) but she's not talking to me now and stuff and it's become this huge thing and stuff... and I don't know what to do, I mean I feel really really bad and stuff...
=( PLEASE HELP ME!

Exaplin to her your hole situation and maybe she would understand. Tell her that you are really sorry and that you defenetlly did not mean to leave her and that you would never do it again!! She will get over it soon so dont worry about it too much. She wont stay mad for a long time. ll ♥ ll

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ok i love giving advice and i was wondering if anyone knew another website like this where i can sign up to be a columnist and give advice on both websites?
thanks

I tryed searching for some and there isnt anything good like this. this is pretty much the only one. Thats why the admin made it. Because there was no other ones. But advicenators is great! =D ll ♥ ll

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my family is not rich but not poor and i want alot of things but they wont get then for me

There is a lot of things a lot of people want but cant get. You should appriciate the things you have. Most people barely have any money and have to work really hard for anything. When you get yourself a job and live on your own you will relize its not that easy. Work hard and when you get a good correar then you might earn a lot of money and buy yourself a lot of nice things. But for now, be happy on what you have. ll ♥ ll

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I'm trying to figure out how to get CUSTOM colors on AIM. I know how to get to the color chart with all of the squares and you just pick a color, but on the very bottom there's a button that says DEFINE CUSTOM COLORS. But it won't let me click on it. How do I get that to work? Thanks!


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You cant do that. You can get different colors on AIM tho by doing different things. If you want to know how just leave one in my inbox. ll ♥ ll

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if one of yur good friend liked one of yur exs who yu really liked would yu get mad at the friend? for liking him

No I wouldnt get mad but its just a little bit akward. Its up to you I guess. ll ♥ ll

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0K I WANNA L0SE 6 P0UNDS BY THE TIME SCHO0L STARTS I KN0W EATING HEALTHY F00DS IS 0N YEA I KN0W IM A DIABETIC S0 I ALREADY EAT HEATHLY F00DS I WEIGHT 104 RIGHT N0W [ YEA I KN0W YO0 WILL PR0BABLY SAY I D0NT NEED T0 L0SE WEIGHT CAUSE IM SKINNY WELL I D0 .. I JUST D0 L0L BUT YEA I WANNA L0SE AT LEAST 6 P0UNDS! CAN YO0 GIVE ME S0ME SUGGESTI0NS! THANKS BABE! ♥

Lol .. you dont need to but if you do about 30 crunches twice a day you will loose some weight. Walking around the neighborhood will also help you tone up. ll ♥ ll

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ok... well im trying to lose weight... by doing crucnches... and running and working out and stuff. i heard my boobs will get smaller. so is there any foods that makes your boobs big?
signed,
dontwannabeflat

No there isnt. Just eat healthy and they will grow. ll ♥ ll

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Hey its me again.... I have a crush on my best friend (opposite sex) i mean hes not my omg best best friend but hes my best guy friend and i like him. I really want him to know how i feel but im don't wanna lose the relationship i already have with him because the last guy i liked wouldnt talk to me at all so i feel really lucky to likesomeone who will talk to me and all. i know that if i tell him im shy so i will start acting weird around him then he probably will too


OK... if i do decide to tell him how i feel i have an idea and im wondering if its a good idea or not....
i wont be seeing him for two weeks coming up should i have my friend on the last day before the 2 weeks go up to him and be like i think *my name* likes you but i dont know.... then he can think about it or w/e??

If you tell him how you feel about him nothing will change && you wont loose your friendship. you never know if he feels the same way about you. If you dont want to tell him then have one of your close friends tell him. Just flirt with him and then if he flirts back with you he might have a crush on you. Just see how things go && I'm ure he would like you too. ll ♥ ll

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All my friends masturbate and stuff, but not me. I'm sort of scared because i dont really no about it. I have a few questions.
1-Is it bad for your health
2-will it effect your period
3-will it make sex worse in the long run
4- how do u really masturbate

so confused and so left out. please answer all questions fully and i'll rate high, much love(and confusion) PLEASE HELP!

1. No, its acaully healthy for you.
2. No, it will not affect your period.
3. No, it will not make sex worse.
4. There are some ways to masturbate. You can finger yourself, you could use a vibrator or whatever you want to.

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My sister and I planned a one week vacation in Paris. She lives in Colorado and I live in California so we do not get to see each other often. I made all the arrangements and was very much looking forward to going. Recently, she got back together with her boyfriend and has canceled her trip with me because she would rather do something with her boyfriend. I feel hurt about my sister's choice and resentful towards her boyfriend (although my sister says it was solely her decision). I say she can see her boyfriend every weekend and during the week too and that she can go on vacation with him next year. She says this is her only opportunity to go on a vacation this year with him and she doesn't want to miss it. I know my relationship with my sister is more important than any vacation, but I'm having trouble feeling ok about this. Should my sister have honored her commitment to me? Should I just get over it and wish them well on their vacation?

She shouldnt of done that to you. You are her sister and she shouldnt of left you for her boyfriend. But then again its her decision. Its not your fault and she should of went with you. You dont have to get over it completly tho. Its okay to feel hurt. You should tell her how you feel and that it really hurt you when she decided to go with her boyfriend instead of you. But you should still wish her well on the trip. Good luck with everything. ll ♥ ll

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On Saturday night I went to my best friend, Sidonie's party. A guy that she broke up with a month or so ago was there and I really liked him. We ended up kissing and the next day he asked me out, I said yes. Now I'm not so sure if I made the right decision by saying yes to him. For a start, I just feel like his rebound girl. When my best friend broke up with him he was very upset and I don't think he's fully over her. He keeps saying things like "You're so much like Sidonie." Which is kind of irritating and off putting. Secondly, I hardly know him and I wont be able to see him much as he lives on the other side of my city. I do like him but I'm not so sure if I want to just be his rebound girl, should I break up with him or see how it goes?

Hmm.. you shouldnt of said yes to him so soon. I mean do you know how your friend feels about this? I mean he is her ex and going out with him might of not been a good idea but then again its fine. If he keeps saying you're so much like Sidonie then I dont think he is completly over her. I also dont think that you are his rebound girl. He might be trying to get over her and start dating new girls. Dont break up with him right away. I mean just see how it goes, and if it goes well then you both can figure out when you could see each other and stuff. ll ♥ ll

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Where can i get chanel sunglasses?? thanks so much!

You can't get them at a regular mall. You would have to order them from online. www.Chanel.com They are about $200-300. Some places you could get them at is France && mostly in Europe! If you have a hugee mall.. like here we have the galleria they might sell it there. But sometimes they have a lot of fake ones. ll ♥ ll

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I have been dating this girl for almost a year. Our relationship had been going great, accually it was amazing and I fell in love with her, and she says she fell in love with me. Then she took a trip for about a month and became close with a whole group of people that I dont really know, we talked a lot during the begining of the trip but kind of faded during the last half. She denys cheating on me while there, even though I kind of think she did. Now that shes back, she barely touches me. We have had sex 3 times in the past 5 weeks (we see each other maybe 2-3 times a week). She says when we get back to school things will be back to normal, and that us dating is the first time she has brought her school life home, because it is different for her. I just dont know what to do, she barely touches me anymore and is becoming harder and harder to get her to hang out with me. We used to do everything together, now it seems like we only hang out if I bring it up. Whats going on with her?

Maybe she didnt cheat on you on that trip but maybe something else did happen that made her act different around you. You need to comfort her and ask her why she is acting so different. If she wont tell you then get one of her freinds to ask her and find out. Just let her settle down for a while. Just leave her alone for a day or two and see if she will call you and maybe want to talk about it. But still you have to let her know you still care about her no matter what. ll ♥ ll

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dose anyone know any cool html code websites?

http://www.buddy4u.com/view/?u=HtmL+fOr+YoU

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how do u make those hearts on myspace and stuff..??

& hearts ; < put it all together!! ll ♥ ll

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im sixteen and me and this kid have been gettin wit eachother for a little bit he tells me he likes me and wants to be with me but doesnt want drama..and he always makes plans wit me and they never happen and tells me he is gonna call me back and doesnt and when i say something to him about it he always has an excuse...what do you think i should do? im trying to make this short there is a lot more. i jus wanna know what you think i should do?

Hm.. something is up with him. He shouldnt just blow you off like that. Well.. tell him to stop with the exuses && that it's really starting to bother you. If he isnt going to call you back then he shouldnt say he will. Most guys dont call back. Sometimes its just their way of getting off the phone. But I still think that he likes you and everything but just see how it goes. Make sure you ask him whats going on between you and stuff. ll &heats; ll

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Hey! Right now I have a Revlon hair straightener but it doesn't work that well. I want to get a new one that works really good but I have no clue what I should look for. Can you please tell me what kind of straighteners works good, the price range of these straighteners, and where I can buy them. Thanks in advance. I will rate you.

xoxoxo

I have a Curlmaster Ceramic and it can straighten and curl hair and it works really good! It is about $35 and you can get it at any Sally Beauty store. ll ♥ ll

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