about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

I have a friend named Bailey. One day she did a prank phone call to me with a bunch of her friends. And it got me real upset because I thought she was my friend. So the next day she called me and asked if she wanted to hang out with me. And she sounded like nothing happend with the prank phone call. And I said, I thought you were mad at me, and she said never! And I asked her why did you prank me? And she said.. it's only a prank, and she hung up. What should I do?


-x Lauren x-

Did she leave a rude message to you or about someone? Prank calls are nothing to get upset about. I mean I think that they just thought it was something funny and fun to do. Dont get upset over it. Just laugh at it. Im sure she didnt mean to make you angry. But if you dont want her to do prank calls anymore or at least prank call you just tell her! Go hang out with her! Im sure it was just for the heck of it. ♥//

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what are some good hair straighteners that won't really damage your hair alot

All straightener will damage your hair at least just a little since its heat. I have a Curlmaster Ceramic. Its the best. It doesnt really curl the hair but thats what its called. Its about 34-40 and it works really good! ♥//

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how can i lose the fat in my thighs? please dont say oh as long as your healthy then you dont need to lose the weight or get lipo suchtion

ps im 14/f

Do leg exersises. Here is a site what kind of exersises you can do. http://www.toneteen.com/exercises/legs.htm Running, walking helps also. If you run up the stairs 10 times in a row everyday it burns calories and fat. ♥//

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My boyfriend fingered me three days ago, and I guess he must have done it harder than usual, because when he pulled his finger out, it was covered in blood, and *down there* was a little bit bloody. I have been bleeding a little bit since then, but not that much. I don`t think that it wasn`t my period, because I just had it like a week ago. Could it have been my cherry that was popped, or what?!?!

Yea I think he popped your cherry unless you were supposed to have your perioud. But I dont think. ♥ `* //

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ok hi my friend said that if u were a member of advicenators for over 30 days you could me a i think she said like monitor or sumthin she said its wen u check for quesions to see if they are stupoid or not...my question is how do you become one??

aLeX

Go here and it will answer all of your questions. http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?t=13 You have to have good rating and everything. So far Im just level 1. =) ♥ //

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I have a boyfriend named Banard. He farts.. IN PUBLIC! I love him and his farts, but not in public! I mean, I don't wanna be called names, because of him. And, my parents thinks it's soo unexceptable that he farts in public. How should I talk to him about this? What do I do?!?!? HELLPP MEE! PLEASE!



Signed,
Fartness Confused

Yes talk to him and tell him not to. Thats jsut gross and embarassing. If he cants stop maybe he should go to the doctor or something. ♥//

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Saturday, I am going to the beach with my mother, father, brother, and dog. I bought extra towels, extra food, and extra toliet paper. I know that sounds weird but hey, you never know!. Anyways my problem is that I cannot find a cute bathing suit. I was hoping for a one peice with the lion king on it! Sounds cute to me!! Well My mother said that I have "outgrown" the lion king! Give me ideas for a type of bathing suit to wear!


Thanks Much!!!!!!
DORIS

If you cant find one in your size or something just make one. Its easy! Of course you have'nt outgrown Lion King!! Everyone loves it!! Haha! Have fun at the beach, Doris.... ♥ //

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How do I eat the carrots out of my garden. Somtimes I think they get lonley so I would try to eat them so they can hang out with my tummy and my insides. But I also dont want the poor carrot to get hurt! What should I do??!! Hellpp!! My carrotts need somebodyy!!!!!!



HELPPPPP

Eat all of them so none of the poor lonely carrots are left behind. Or just plant some more buddies! Hmm.. or buy a bunny. ♥//

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Gosh.. I'm 600 pounds! I can't even sit in a chair, or walk in my room without getting bruces on my waste! Since I was a young lady I became like this. Once, I broke a ride at Coney Island, it was a Kiddy Ride and I wanted ever so much to go on with my dearest cuz! Tell me how I can.. sit on chairs, ride the rides, and walk through doors! My nurtricious is going DOOWWWWNN! HELPP!.. OH HELP!!


Much Loveness- Doris

Loose some weight && go on a diet. Trust me they work =D

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Heyy. On my page, my profile doesn't show up! If anyone could help, I realy appericate it! I'll rate high to any advice! Thanks!!

No ones bio is showing up right now! Already 4 people askes that. But dont delete it, it should be fixed soon. ll ♥ ll

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This is a long story, theres a shorter question if you want on my next post this is all the details thou ....I'm 14 F, and I really like this guy and we were talking on IM yesterday and I had already told him that I liked him and he said he liked me but that was a long time ago and we kept saying that we'd do something like go to the mall or movies but we never did. So yesterday we were talking and I was like who do you like at the moment, and he's like well theres alot more people flirtin around with me than I am with them. Then I asked like who, and he wouldn't tell me (I knew I was one of them) so anyways I begged and pleaded with him to tell me who else, and he never did, but then he said i wont go out with anyone who likes me right now (meaning me) so then i changed the subject and asked him why he went out with his ex girlfriend and he said it was a long story, then i asked why he liked his ex (its a diffrent question) and he (suprisingly) answered me he said because she was "fun" and he was bored and i was like 'fun meaning..?' and he said like she was just flirty, and i was like oh.. like talking flirty or something else? and he said like something else, and i was like 'what?', and he said like 'touchy' flirty, and i asked would you ever go out with some one like that again? and he said yeah if i could find someone then i said "this is soooo uuuunnnnnfffaiiirrr, yyoooouuu doooonnnttt knnnooowww what i would do if i actually saw youuuu i feell likkke a sssllluuut for saying this but its true!" then he asked what would i'd do if we were alone, then i said id do anything except for sex or stuff with sex in its name (i thought about it like 4 days before and i was going to tell him that i wanted to do stuff but i didnt know how to tell him, got that out of the way) (then i asked him what he thought of me saying that and he said he was intrested, which im glad because i want him) but ive never done any thing before and i dont really know what to do, or what there is to do....

what is there to do like between making out and sex(anykind)???
and if you want to tell me how, that would be more than helpful if you explain what it is

If you give an answer ill give you a 5, no dumb crap thou please!

The things that you can do without having sex is oral sex. Which isnt like sex acually. Oral sex is blowjob.head,handjob. Things like that. But it kind of seems like he only wants a girlfriend who is willing to do that. Since you are really into him you can go for it. But make sure that you use a condom before doing anything. So you dont get STD or Herpeas. ll ♥ ll

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Okay I'm 14 and My fiance is 16. We are madly in love with each other it's known, we both know it. But the thing is right now he is in houston and im in vegas we havent seen each other in over 4 months.. okay anyways im question is we fight alot what can i do to make all the fighting stop? or for it to at least calm down some. I mean we talk every day and all sorts of things but we always seem to fight about something whether it be big or small

Sometimes its normal for couples to fight but its not good that you 2 are constantlly fighting. I mean theres nothing that we can say that would make you not fight anymore. So when you are arguing just stop first. I mean just dont argue anymore. Say you know what this is ridicoulous so I'm done here! Good luck with your marrige.. even tho you both are too young. ll ♥ ll

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im 14/f...i feel like i sleep a LOT! like here's an average day: wake up around 10...take a nap from like 1 to 3 30...then get up and do whatever...then take another nap from like 5 to 6 30...then stay up until like 1 in the morning and go to bed and do it all over again the next day...is this normal or is there something wrong???

Nothing is wrong with you its just you get bored and then you have nothing to do and then you sleep. Try keeping yourself busy. Go out to the mall or something with your friends or just clean around the house so you're not as lazy. Lazyness is a sin. Lol. So get out there and start doing some activities. ll ♥ ll

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i looked at my column after i changed my picture. my bio didn't show up i re-typed my whole bio and clicked submit. It still didn't show up when i looked at it. Can someone look at it and tell me if my bio shows up.

my bio:
i am a teen who loves
my friends - they also have columns on this site
music - JESSE MC CARTNEY!!!!!!!!!
dancing - KiCk LiNe, hip hop, IrIsH StEp DaNcInG!
sports - Soccer, Vball, kiaking
hot guyss - lve my b/f!
and of course talking - i think my friends get sick of my voice sometimes lol

I am smart, friendly, outgoing and understanding.
You can ask me anything!


my sn is esoccer1717
thanks i rate high!

For now no ones bio is working so dont delete it. It will show up pretty soon. ll ♥ ll

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what is orgasm...like people are talkin about it and stuff and i dont get it...plz help...thx in advance....

*/Confused/*

Its physical pleasure that last for a few seconds. ll ♥ ll

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ok well what is the urethra? i kno its on a guy i think, but where and what is it exactly?

I dont know how to explain but here is the defeniton && picture. http://www.phoenix5.org/glossary/urethra.html

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How is it that somedays I think I'm fat and then other days I look skinny?

I rate HIGH!

A lot of people acually feel that way. It does depend on what you eat and wear tho. I mean if you are eating a lot of junk food and you will feel bloated and then you will start thinking that you are fat. And sometimes if you wear some tight shirts and you dont like how it looks on you you will feel fat. ll ♥ ll

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Okay I’m 15 and I weigh 110 and I’m 5’6 is that to skinny? I don’t think it is but some people say that is and I wanna gain some pounds. And I want it to show I just maybe wanna get to like 120 at least. If anyone knows any good ways of gaining some pounds please let me know what they are. Also will you tell me from the information I gave you up top does that sound like I’m skinny or is it fine? Thank you so much!!

*K

Yea it does seem a bit too skinny. Are you at least eating healthy? Dont full up on junk food now to gain weight, I mean you still have to eat healthy. Eat more meats, the amount of servings you are supposed to a day. It will take some time but its better to gain weight the healthy way. ll ♥ ll

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okay, personally i think it smells like $h!t down there, do guys like the smell,and taste or whatever? and when they finger you wouldnt there finger smell like it too after? lol. thanks soo much |[|♥|]|

Guys dont really enjoy that smell. After they finger you and if it stinks he might call you fish stick! Yeah.. lol kinda gross but true. Shower daily and if you still think you smell down there wear those really light pads. Its probablly just discharge so wear them so it doesnt get on your undies. You could also spray a little parfume so it smells better. ll ♥ ll

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I can't get my profile to show up on my column
:-/ what should i do!!!!!!! I tried erasing it a few times and then retyping the whole thing!It happened when i changed the colors of my background... Thanks...
XSugarpieX77

Thats an issue for everyone right now. It should be fixed soon. ll ♥ ll

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