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Q: My dad is an alcoholic and hits my mom all the time. Can I do anything about it even though he doesnt hit me? He calls me bad names a lot though. Oh and Im 16.
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There is something you can do.
You can call the cops, and just as JesusFreak said, if she has proof, they can do something about it. If she doesn't at the current time, don't just wait it out and wait for something to escalade. Tell your mother how you feel, be supportive, and still, tell the cops and let them know what's going on. And, if he does yell at you and calls you names, that's emotional/mental abuse.
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Q: so i recently lost my virginity, likke 2 months ago, and we used a condom. I'm pretty sure i have a bladder infection so i asked my mom to take me to the doctor, will they do any type of tests that can also answer whether im a virgin or not? and will they tell my mom? is there any excuses i can make if they do say im not a virgin? or will they just make me pee in a cup and we're on our way? please help.
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I really don't think they could, because that's a patient confidentiality.
But, yes, they will make you pee in a cup.
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Q: how do you stop loving someone?
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There's really no real answer for that. I mean, it depends on who you're loving, and why you want to stop. It mainly just comes naturally,I mean really, there's no stopping it.
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Q: right now i really dont like the way i look...
i was wondering if you guys could tell me what you think of me HONESTLY!! i dont want to hear like pity answers (ill rate well even if you say im hideous!!)
heres some random pics of me from facebook:
http://photos-048.ak.facebook.com/ip002/v60/162/44/1223791587/n1223791587_30189048_5121.jpg
http://photos-101.ak.facebook.com/ip002/v54/74/80/1223791338/n1223791338_30173101_3546.jpg
so can anybody tell me what they seriously think of me?
and make up hints?? or tips??
THANKS FOR THE ADVICE!!
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Are you seriously serious?!
You are extremely pretty.
Prettier than me.
You are honestly gorgeous,
I don't see how you could ever see yourself as not. Although, I do understand that there are times that we as humans really do not like the way our physical appreance is.
You have beautiful eyes, by the way.
:]]
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Q: Are brown eyes even pretty anymore?
It just seems like all these beautiful people have blue or green eyes.
And all the people with light colored eyes are noticed more.
My eyes are very dark brown.
I want to make them look pretty.. :\
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I wish I had brown eyes. Ugh. I have blue/green eyes, and sometimes they can get annoying. And I know, that sounds kind of wierd. But, I think people with brown eyes are really pretty. And if you think that all these "beautiful people" have light eyes, then you're seeing it from a totally difeerent perspective.
P.S.
If you want to make them stick out more,
1)try playing up your make-up a little bit.
2)get colored contacts. But make sure if you do it matches your skin tone and it looks normal.
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Q: Is 5'0" average height for a 16 year (almost 17) old girl? I was 4'10" when I was 11 years old. I'm now taller than my mom by about an inch.
I'm just so tired of getting practically tackled in the hallways at school because literally, no one sees me.
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I think it's a little under average. But it's okay. I really don't think there's anything wrong with a girl being short.
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Q: I really need a hobby.What hobbies could I take up?
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Oh jeez. I can't even begin the list without a million thoughts coming to mind. Honestly, before I give you any ideas, think of what you like to do. Hobbies aren't just random tasks, they're things that you like to do. You could try:
-Volunteering
-Sports (if you like them)
-Collecting things
Expose yourself to something new. Take new opportunities to create feedback on exposing yourself. Encourage yourself. And most of all, HAVE FUN.
Good Luck!
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Q: you know how sometimes people look better on some days than others?
Why is that?
Like ill have a day where I look prettier than another day
and i used to think it was the clothes but then i would wear the clothes again
and it wouldnt look the same.
Same goes for guys,
why is this?
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I have those days all the fucking time. It kind of sucks, but anyways. I don't think anybody really knows, I mean, it's just the way you make it, I guess. I don't really mean that literally, because I think it really depends on your mood.
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Q: I purchased a ticket to My Chemical Romance's show on February 24th. It takes place at the Dodge Music Center in Connecticut. I was wondering if the pit/general admission tickets I got were the best choice because I'm not sure of how it looks and whatnot. Has anyone had tickets for the pit at this venue? thanks =]
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You have a good seat, don't worry. Although I'm just warning you it might get a little crazy.
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Q: 15/f
Okay, about a year and a bit ago, (with my boyfriend of 10months), I had sex. But my cherry didn't pop. So my question is.. Am I still a virgin or no?
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No, you are not a virgin. You had intercourse. Just because your cherry didn't pop doesn't mean you aren't. Not every girl's cherry "pops".
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Q: weird question lol again..
but for a girl, whats a cherry, like i know what it is but what does it do?
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A girl's "cherry" is simply a girl's hymen in the vagina. When she has sexual intercourse, it ususally stretches or it tears.
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Q: im so confused. i want to be a pediatrician and my dad said it would take like 10 years. he says i would have like 4 years in college, then 4 years in med school, and then 2 years on the job or whatever. is that right? how do i know what classes i need to take in college and what im mostly worried about is what classes i need to take in highschool to have that job.
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I'm not exactly sure how long your college years would be, but I know it takes an estimated 8 years. Like the person before me said, you should talk to your guidance counselor, and also, I'm pretty sure that if you research that background information, you'll find it pretty easily.
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Q: Is there a site that would provide html codes for me to change the font in things such a bullitens on Myspace? I don't want the basic fonts. I was looking for things like cursive..Thank you.
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Of course I can help
:]]
http://www.123mycodes.com/myspace-html-codes.php
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Q: This is pretty random...but why are most guys such assholes? Its like they do not care about hurting girls' feelings, they act with out thinking...I would really like a guys opinion on this!!! thx!
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I am a girl, thank you very much. But, from experience, I agree, most guys are assholes. But not all guys are. I think guys have different ways of expressing their emotions, and they don't show it as much as girls do. But I stand with you because it seems like most guys have no respect for any of us these days. But you do have to realize that there is someone out there that will care. It just might take some time.
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Q: When I get home from school, all I do is eat. But I want to stop doing that because I want to lose 10 pounds. So what are some HEALTHY snacks that are still good to eat? Thanks. :]
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Fruits. Vegatables. Anything with small amounts of calories/fat. Read the nutrition tables. Basically, you can stick to the foods you already may be eating, but do it in moderation.
Your welcome.
And good luck.
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Q: Is it possible to get a pimple if your lower area?
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Q: I have to write a paper comparing and
contrasting my best friends. I thought it
would be a great oppurtunity to start with
a friendship quote. My problem is that one
of my best friends is a guy, and the other is
a girl. Most quotes are too girly to work
for both. Does anyone have any sites or
specific quotes that would be appropriate for
school and for my paper? Thanks!
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"In a friend, you find your second-self."
-Isabelle Norton
Dory: Come on, trust me on this one.
Marlin: Trust you?
Dory: Yes, trust, it's what friends do. -- Finding Nemo
:]]
"A friend is someone who can see the truth and the pain in you, even when you're fooling everyone else." -- Anonymous
"A true friend walks in when the rest of the world walks out." --
Friends are like stars they come and go
but the ones that shine are the ones that glow.
For all the tears that we both cried
For all the crazy stuff that we've tried
This friendship doesn't have an end.
You'll always remain my best friend.
I won't die for you simply because i couldn't live without you.
If you need anymore, send it to my inbox!!
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Q: there is a guy that i really like. we met on facebook and he is friends w/ some of my friends. he and i started talking a lot online and on the phone and really really connected. we liked eachother a lot but still hadn't met. well we finally did and he tried to make out with me the first time. i told him that i am not a hookup person and that i dont want that but he still did it anyway. i know hes more experienced than i am and i don't want to be pressured if i do go out w/ him later on (which we've talked about). do you think this would happen? i tried to tell him afterwards that it upset me but i dont really know if he understood. hes not used to girls like me i dont think. what should i do?
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If he's pressuring you now, there's a good chance it'll happen in the future. It's really up to you if you want to keep the friendship/relationship, but if you don't do well under pressure, I suggest staying away from him.
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Q: I need help losing some unwanted weight before my school's spring formal. I need suggestions as to excercises i could do that focus on weight loss in my stomach and thighs... thanks.
this feels really awkward.
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You could try jogging about a mile to a mile and a half a day, and try leg lifts. (They'll help your abs and thighs.)
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Q: okay so im blonde. and people sometimes serouisly think that im dumb - just because im blonde. and it kinda pisses me off at times cuz they treat me like im just stupid. and im not. i get A's and B's on like everything and get pretty upset if i get like a ac or lower. and still even if i tell people that im smart, they just think im stupid. what should i do?
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You have to understand people have opinions, people label other people, and have stereotypes. And you can't worry about that. Just keep proving them wrong. But yes, I know how you feel, though. Nobody needs to know anything about you, it's your business.
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bio
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Heyyyy, I'm jess. I love to help other people, no matter what. I've been through enough bs to know when to just stop and walk away. I don't judge; feel free to ask me anything. I have quite the temper. But, what makes me a good advice-giver is that for the most part, I'm genuinely empathetic and willing to help.
(:
I've had a lot of experiences with piercings, bullying, family problems, and even sexual issues (no std's)- but with the emotional part of it. I love music, so I give good, basic advice about that, too. Also, I deal with severe anxiety and depression, and have been in treatment numerous times. On top of that, I have OCD (Obsessive Complulsive Disorder), and because I've been around people addicted to drugs, or cutting, I can help! Just give me the chance.
add me on myspace!
www.myspace.com/itskittybitchx
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Info
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Gender: Female AIM: Member Since: August 1, 2005 Answers: 750 Last Update: January 1, 2009 Visitors: 45718
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