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fast guy/slow girl
there is a guy that i really like. we met on facebook and he is friends w/ some of my friends. he and i started talking a lot online and on the phone and really really connected. we liked eachother a lot but still hadn't met. well we finally did and he tried to make out with me the first time. i told him that i am not a hookup person and that i dont want that but he still did it anyway. i know hes more experienced than i am and i don't want to be pressured if i do go out w/ him later on (which we've talked about). do you think this would happen? i tried to tell him afterwards that it upset me but i dont really know if he understood. hes not used to girls like me i dont think. what should i do?
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If he's pressuring you now, there's a good chance it'll happen in the future. It's really up to you if you want to keep the friendship/relationship, but if you don't do well under pressure, I suggest staying away from him.
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Him pressuring you in the future could very well happen. Just to be safe, I would hang out with him AND a group of friends at the same time. This way you can continute getting to know him, but still have the support of your friends in the backround. Sense your friends are there he probably won't be as touchy. Once you think you know him well enough and vise versa, I'd say it's safe to hang out one on one. Make sure to remind him once more how you feel about hook ups and how long you like to wait before doing "stuff." Good luck!
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