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If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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So this one boy tells me that he loves me. And I don't love him. But he really seems to mean it. How do I respond to that statement if I don't love him back and I don't wanna lie? (link)
Say that shit I hear. "You're a really great guy, but I just don't think of you like that."


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I'm extremely shy, and I've never had a boyfriend, or a kiss. I want a boyfriend.. should I continue to be shy, do guys think it's cute? Or should I push myself to be more outgoing.. but idk how? I try to be myself, but I get so insecure, I always think people are judging me. I've had a few boys ask me out and everything.. but they were all losers, not to be mean or anything. So it's not like i've never had a chance of having a boyfriend. How do I get a decent guy to notice me? (link)
Talk to a guy and find out what he likes and flirt a little bit. Some guy'll ask for your number. Don't worry;you'll be getting used for sex in no time kiddo.


Does anyone know a good website where I can find key people in ROE VS WADE? (link)
Well Roe and Wade seem to be two pretty important people. It was a 1973 Texas Supreme Court that regulated how much say the state had in regulating abortions. It introduced the trimester system that is no longer used. In the first three months a woman could get an abortion anywhere with anybody. The second trimester the state could regulate where it was. The third trimester the state could prevent it.


is it wrong to love a baseball player thats a year younger than me?
*honest oppinion needed*
i rate high (link)
No.


My shit is whack
-shake (link)
Well I'm glad it's not out of whack.


Ok one day. . i had a head ache so i asked my friends if they had any asprin and one of my friends gave me a pill but i didnt know what it was but she just said that it worked just like it well about an hour after i took that pill i became very horny all through school ....when i got home i was sooo horny and i couldnt find my vibrator and my fingers were sore from fingering myself in the girls bathroom at school sooo the only thing to go to was my baby brother who is five. . . is that wrong?? I feel so weird and i dont know if i should tell anyone?? (link)
No, I do that all the time. It's actually the best way to go.


I'm just really depressed and need someone to talk to. :/ (link)
Ok so im me.


if you have fake boobs,fake nose,died hair does that mean your fake??? because people have been saying i look fake??????? but you have to be that way whn your a porn star right?!??! help! (link)
You're not a porn star.


I got my prom dress todaii and its strapless...do you think it would look better to have my hair in an updo or styled down? (link)
As long as you have sex with him, he doesnt care.


we were having foreplay..n wen i blowjobin he suddenly couldn resist it n he splashed around..n while he was cleaning up his sperm he got it some to his hands n soon he wiped off wit his handkerchief..then after a while he finger penetrated my vagina..will tis cause pregnancy..im 20 n his 19.. (link)
Not likely id he wiped his hand.


Does anyone know where I can listen to songs from the movie "Chicago" without buying the actual movie? (link)
The soundtrack would be a good place to start.


How old do you think you should be when you lose your virginity? (link)
I love these questions. However old you get the chance.


Me and this guy were fuxkin and he put "it" in me and it hurt too bad so he took "it" out .. am i a virgin or not? (link)
Not anymore.


ok, i went out with this one girl for about 3 weeks, no longer. But i didnt really really like her. Then i started liking this amanda girl, shes like exacly my type, and we were so happy together and then rachel my ex girlfriend thought it would be a great idea to start telling my girlfriend all this shit about me and lying to her about half of it n stuff. i started talking to amanda on the phone on thursday, for like 4 hours at night, and then on friday we hung out at my house and she slept over, we had a really fun time, she is the sweetest girl. butttt i was still "techincally, not emotionally" going out with rachel at that time, well needless to say i broke up with rachel on saturday, and then asked amanda out. well she found out about that and wassnt happy, which it wassnt my intention to piss her off at all, i didnt want her to not consider me as a bf cuz i had a gf, cuz i really liked amanda... well now shes skeptical about me because of lying to her about rachel, and now rachel is telling her stuff and she dossnt know who to believe... yea so what do i tell amanda, like ive already apoligized, and told her i care about her n stuff, and bought her flowers, perfume, and chocolates... so before you suggest those thing, already done... words dont really help because she still dossnt know who to believe, i know in the end rachel will be wrong, i just dont want amanda to do nething dumb and find out later that i was right, so what should i do... thanks warren :)

btw... im 17, and rachel is 16 and amanda is 16, 17 in june... all juniors in high school, rachel lives 30 minutes away from both of us, and me n amanda live about a stones throw away from each other... thanks again (link)
Warren, you have learned the definition of technicality among girls. When they have dirt on you, it will be flung. You hadn't officially broken up with the other bitch yet, but you were going to. In a man's mind, this counts and you are allowed to try to get some from another girl. But to a woman, it doesn't count and she does have some dirt to throw at you. "He's tryin to get you and he's still goin out with me." That bitch. Cock blocked you. Key here is you can't let it affect you. Don't kiss Amanda's ass quite so bad with the chocolates and flowers. Just say something like "I was wrong in this situation. I shouldn't have done that. I really care about YOU, Amanda, a lot. I wasn't trying to hurt the other bitch(put her name here). You're more my type and if you can forgive my mistake, I think we could make a nice couple." Good luck, Warren.


this girl named bethany has asked me to borrow my clothes, come over to my house, go to the movies, the mall and suddenly im her friend. i dont have a problem with it but i was on a 3 way call with my friend monique and bethany was on to only she didnt kno i was on. I had to get off the phone because my brother had to use it. I called monique back and asked her what bethany said. Monique said that everything she said about me in the conversation was a lie. ( the things were all good things about me) and now i just hate her im going to talk to her tomorrow i dont kno if i should trust her or when i confront her shes just going to lie. PLEESE HELP!! (link)
Don't let the vindictive cunt borrow anything, see nothing with the slutty bitch, and her skank ass is not welcome in your home. That's just as a warm up.


(I'm going to try to make this as short as I can)

I met this guy this year. I have liked him all year, and I could be hurt by him really easy. If he went out with a girl I would get all sad, and couldn't look at myself in the mirror for days. Anyways, he went out with this Tiffany girl that was a lot bigger than I and kind of ugly..(not to be mean) and every day I got it rubbed in my face by her. Well, the guy broke up with her (lets call the guy Bob)and asked me out a few weeks later. I told him no because at the time I was going through quite a few family troubles (me and my mom were not getting along at ALL) and so on. So we didn't talk for about two months, I was extremely hurt badly but I also knew that his relationships only lasted about a week. Well, anyway. Later on we were talking and we both admitted we liked each other and so on. He asked me out and since I liked him a lot I told him yes. He told me that I was all he wanted, dreamed of and so on.I was so happy with him, I found my depression going away and I just was...well happy. His family life isn't good however, and one night about a month later he was with his dad and got in this huge fist fight. He signed online and we talked about it for a bit, then he signed off. I was really worried about him. Three hours later he signs back on and tells me he is going under too much stress to date me...so I flip out and so on. He wants to be friends still, and of course I agree because I like him alot and just wants what he wants. So...the next day I was really hurt and he tried to talk to me and I kind of left him hanging by walking off on him. I told my friend what happened, and Bob wanted to skip so he skipped with her and this other guy. My friend asked him why he did it and he told her it was because he didnt want to put any stress on me or put me what he was going though. That he cared about me a lot and he just didn't have time to be with anyone at the moment, and he wanted to spend all of his time with me but he couldnt so it was not fair to me. (hes planning on getting his own place soon.) ...He also said he loved me. He said that he needed to get everything straightened out so he could spend full time with me... Now this sounds stupid, but love to him means a lot and he does not just say it to anyone. Hes only loved one girl (not being me) and that was a while before. Anyways. He said he wanted to get with me later if I would take him back. Okay, well since we broke up hes been skipping which so far has been three days. I have a feeling as if he is avoiding me but I don't know. He use to always IM me (not the two months we stopped talking) but now he does not anymore. I IMed him and he kept the conversation short and signed off without saying bye. I don't know what to do or who to believe. I know hes going through a lot of family problems, but still. I just don't understand. He said he wanted to be here for me and I told him I wanted to be there for him. He told me he cared a lot about me still. He does not know what my friend told me the about him saying he loved me and such. Am I just paranoid? What should I do? I have cried since the night he broke up with me and I just.... I don't know.I know this is long, I'm sorry. I just really need help. (link)
Well you failed in trying to make it short. Let's break down your question piece by piece. The fat ugly bitch has nothing to do with it. Two, you both have problems at home. You having them is irrevalent, him having them is. He claims to not wanna put stress on you. I call bullshit here b/c when I like a girl, I make time for her. And she'd be a good way to get away from the stress. He's avoiding you b/c he doesn't really love you, he cares about you, but he doesn't know how to say b/c he knows you'll cry. This is not unusual, girls cry a lot.When you're 16 or 17, saying I love you fucks things up. Dump the loser, start over, and enjoy yourself kiddo.


I am a 14 y/o guy who is about 115 lbs and 5'6". By far I am one of the smaller guys in our class. I have been working out for a month or so. However just like everyone else knows, working out isn't the only thing that's gunna get you in shape. What other things (food,activities, etc)can I do to help my body a little bit.

I REFUSE TO USE STEROIDS OR ANY OTHER MEDICAL WAY, I AM GOING TO DO THIS NATURALLY. (link)
Steriods aren't the answer. You're smarter than Big Mac. You're only 14. I didn't start putting on size until I was about 17. Running gets your legs in shape. So does biking. Swimming works out your chest and legs. But give lifting more than just a month before you give up on it. Especially considering you're still young.


i think i might have genital herpes... i have never had sex so how could i get it!? its like a ton of little bumps on my penis and i want to know how to get rid of it. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE tell me! i need to know, im so embarassed! ill rate 5's! and i also want to know if girls will still like me if they know i have it.. im guessing no. this sucks so bad so please help me out. and if it isnt herpes then please tell me what it is.. im too embarassed to tell my parents or a doctor. if you have ANY information at all, please tell me (link)
Dude, have you received a blow job recently? Don't be embarrassed, well be extremely embarrassed, but say something before your dick rots off. Doctors do this shit for a living. If it does clear up, I bet you've learned YOUR lesson. Email me and tell me how it goes. Men love their cocks and I'm sure you're no different.


if your are really athletic, are you less likely to get you period? or is it the exact opposite? (link)
The thinner and more athletic you are, the later and less often you'll get your period.


i went out wit this kid a while ago and we really liked eachother , cept he went to a different school so we didnt see eachother that much or talk in that case, and after a couple months we just decided to wait till the summer to go out so we can do stuff with eachother. then a couple months later he started liking my best friend and the two of them hit it off behind my back. but ya now i dont kno if he likes her anymore and i take it the summer plans are off, but i still like him alot and miss him, should i give it up or wat? help! (link)
Rub his cock suggestively and ask him "Hey do you wanna catch up this summer?" This NEVER fails.




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