yes i have during masterbation, but thats only cause I rub my clit to masterbate, and not finger myself.
I tried to rub my clit during sex with my bf, but it doesnt work. It only feels like its working when he stops moving it, or he's going super super slow.
I dont know whats wrong with me. :/
Nothings wrong with you sweetie. I think part of the problem is that's he's not turing you on enough. He needs to spend a little more time with foreplay. Like some slow kissing, light touches across your body. kissing your neck, breasts, tummy and other parts of the body. Guys get hard and are ready to go at the drop of a hat. Us girls need a little more nurturing and attention. Don't be afraid to talk to your boyfriend about things that turn you on. I'm sure he'll appreciate a little guidance into what turns a woman on. Please ask me anything else you need help with and let me know how things turn out.
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Im 18/f and I've had sex with three guys; each of them different in their own ways; and the thing is, I have NEVER orgasmed during sex, or even nutted; Is something wrong with me? Me and my boyfriend had sex for 5 hours on and off; 2 hours without stopping, and I didn't finish once.
Why is that? All my friends talk about how they orgasm all the time, and how amazing it feels. I wanna know. I feel like a failure, because I have never finished during intercourse. Help.
*I've only cum'd once, and that was while I was getting fingerd, but never sex.
Have you had an orgam when masturbate? If not, then you need to explore your body and find out what feels right. A lot of women don't have orgasms during regular sex. I only have very small o's and usually need a vibrator or my fingers stimulating my clit during sex to orgaasm. If you're embarrased to do this in front of your b/f, then try doggie style. You can rub your clit without him watching you. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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17/F , sorry if this is so long. Well my boyfriend who is 20 have been dating for 3 months now, and I met him because his sister was one of my really good friends from dance in school. I ended up meeting him, and immediately we fell for each other. He treats me like a princess, tells me I'm beautiful at least 10 times a day, tells me I'm amazing in bed,
Has gone on family trips with me, and has introduced me to his WHOLE family. We rarely talk about his past but what I do know is he dated this girl Ashley for 4 years and they broke up because she cheated, and I know he loved her.. Obviously. They broke up during the summer, and me and him met in october. So it wasn't that long ago. The other day I was at his house and decided to be nosey and look through his history. I had found he was going on her facebook page almost everyday and looking at her pictures and seeing her statuses, when all he does is claim to me how much he hates her guts and how he could care less about the bitch. I confronted him about it and he said he was " just curious " I was heartbroken. I don't know what to do, I love him and care about him so much but I don't want to get my heart broken if he still cares about her. What should I do?
After spending 4 years with her and it was her fault the relationship ended, i'm sure she still holds a small place in his heart that he won't be able to let go of for a long time. I believe that if she we're to ask him to get back together he would go. That being said, it doesn't mean he doesn't care for you any less. Give him the time and space he needs to fully get over this relationship. Let him know that you are concerned he may be tempted to contact his ex but that would be a bad idea because of how she hurt him. I hope this helps and good luck.
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im 14 and a couple days ago i lost my virginity. i told a couple people, knowing it wasnt a good idea. i told some people i was a virgin and others i wasnt. but everyone knows i spent the night at the guys house. the guy is my ex and everyone thinks that he wanted to get in my pants. we are gonna date again but my two friends said if i did theyd hate me and they would loose all respect for me if i wasnt a virgin. which i have done both. do i tell them im not? along with everyone else? or do i change my story and say i am a virgin. plus the guy who i had sex with told me not to tell and i did, so now i feel like a total bitch.
It is really hard to go back and change your story when part of it is already out there. You can tell your close friends the truth but if anyone else asks, tell them it's none of their business. If you do break up with this guy in the near future( which you might because I think he's only using you for sex) and you have sex with another guy, keep it a secret and ask the guy to the same. I know sleeping with 2 guys doesn't sound like a big deal but when your younger, you can easily become the slutty girl. If you need any other help. please ask me.
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well i masterbate and im a woman, how many times would you say a woman shall masterbate? and whats the best thing to use if you dnt have a dildo ??
Masturbation is a personal preference. I was pretty horny when I was younger but didn't want to sleep around a lot, so I played with myself 1 or 2 times a day. Before I started borrowing my sisters dildo, I would use long smooth candles and even the plastic handle from the toilet plunger. If you decide to use vegetables, please make sure all of the edges are completely smooth. Even the slightest rough spot can cause a tear on your inside. If there's anything else you need, please ask.
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DOes it hurt to have sex for the first time?
I think it all depends on the guy. If he's slow and gentle and spends a lot of time kissing and getting you worked up (foreplay), thrn it may not hurt as much. Or if he has a smaller penis it may ne less painful. But, if he's rough and fast or has a larger penis, it will probably be a little painful. One thing my sister told me to do before I was ready, was to put a dildo or vibrator inside me when I masturbated. I did that and it seemed to help with the pain. My first guy didn't last long either, so that may have helped. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. Hope this helps and good luck.
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Well I'm seventeen, my guy, 18 well. I met him when I was thirteen and he was fourteen, we became best friends and this last April he started dating. It seemed so perfect, we were so happy and I had never had such a perfect boyfriend. We had rough patches like every couple however, he drank and smoked and did some drugs. I didn't like it but I grew to be fine with it after a while. I took his virginity and my best friend was dating his best friend. Well, he had this friend called "M" who was moved to foster care in California two and a half years ago. (she was all of our friends but they were best friends) Well we planned a trip out to California to go see her. I thought about how romantic it would be to go on a road trip with my amazing guy to California and spend new years eve which is also our anniversary together. Well, when we got there we spent the night together then he got up and drove out to Lancaster to get her. I didn't see him til later that night. He wouldn't talk to me, he sat in his car high, I got really drunk and yelled at him. He forgave me and we made up. Then "M" foster mom called and said she was going to lose her license if we didn't bring her back. He left to her back and I waited all night for him. The next morning I went out to his car. And he told me this... "Grace, I love you, but I don't want to fuck up anymore, I don't want to hurt you. You know I'm not ready for a serious relationship and if I stay with you I'm just going to hurt you." It crushed me so much. After I cried for two hours and he cried too, he said we should try to be best friends like we used to, I've been trying since he dumped me a week ago, but it's hard, it was hard being on a road trip with a guy that promised he loved me then dumped me so easy. What to I say to him to make him realize that he's not thinking straight, how can I get him back. I wanna be his friend, but I'd rather keep being his girlfriend.
More than likely he has cheated on you already. He may not have been man enough to admit it but he was man enough to end a relationship with you that he knew he couldn't be faithful to. You may still have all of these strong feelings for him but since he was able to dump you so easily, the feelings are definitely not the same on his end. You may be able to be friends with him some day in the future but since you've been together romantically, it will never be the same. It is going to be hard and a long road to move on from him but that's exactly what you need to do. I hope this helps and good luck.
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ok so the title says it all. is it normal for a teenage girl to look at porn. it's embarrassing :/ but, is it normal? and i heard you can become addicted to it? how do you know if your addicted? i dont think i am because i only do it so i can get arroused when i masturbate and its not like everyday. it just makes it easier and stuff.
- just so you know, im 14 and i know its kind of wrong i guess? but i dont want comments on it, just answers to my questions. thank you so much for the answers(:
When I was a teenager, I didn't have access to porn like you do today. When my parents would be away, I would find my dad's porn magazines, go into my room and masturbate like crazy. So to answer your question, you are quite normal. But don't let internet porn lead you to believe what is real in a relationship. 99% of the stuff you find is all fantasy and not what really happens. I hope you wait till your older before you have real sex and masturbating is a great way to wait. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. Hope this helps and good luck.
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Hi I'm 15 and I wiegh 180 I feel very uncomfortable when people talk bought their wieght bc I feel like I'm way over I'm "5,7" so that makes it a little better that I'm taller right? Well anyways I want to lose 20 pounds kinda quick but not so quick that it can harm me I just want to be on a healthy diet but it's kinda hard for me but I do sometimes workout but I don't think I do enough please give me specifics on what I could an should eat and what types of workouts I could do ps. It's kinda cold here I live so it's hard to workout outside and idk what to do I've tried playing wii just dance for some time any suggestions on anything so it could help me( as long as it's healthy)
If you have stairs at home try climbing up & down for an hour a day. It doesn't have to be all at once at first, so try 2 half hours or 3 twenty minute walks. Use two empty milk jugs and fill them with water and use them as dumbells. Ask your parents not to buy any junk food. That is one of the hardest things to resist but if there isn't any in the house, then you won't be tempted. Try eating 5 or 6 smaller meals, so your body has a chance to burn it off easier than 3 large meals. If you can get a friend or relative to help, that would be great because it's always nice to have moral support to motivate you. I hope this helps and good luck.
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so lately im not sure why but ive been sexually frustrated like crazy! every night i get the feeling that i need to masturbate. but it doesnt feel as good as sex. im not willing to have sex with just anyone. and im too embarassed to go buy some sex toys. so i dont know what to do. please help! thanks!
I remember when I was younger and went trough spells of being very horny. It usually lasted 2 or 3 months at a time but eventually would subside. I would try to hang out with my friends more, help out around the house or read a scary book to get my mind off of sex. That seemed to help a lot but would still get those urges. I would find long candles or even the plastic toilet plunger handle if I was really desperate. Of course nothing will feel as good as regular sex but you don't want to become a slut that will sleep with anyone. Wait until you find someone you truly care for and know that will be there for you in the long run, then you won't have to worry abbout being frustrated anymore. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. Hope this helps and good luck.
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so i'm 18 and a girl. I'm not really a "party thrower".. i mean i have thrown parties before like birthday parties and such but none of them have been amazing or memorable. they've all been "blah" i guess you could say.
after my 16th birthday, i decided never to throw a party again because i tried to plan a great sweet 16 party but it turned out in a disaster, only 4 people showed up and my mom was chaperone and was very controlling about how loud the music was and what we were doing etc.
but my best friend convinced me to throw a new years eve party coming up soon. So my question is, how do i throw an unforgettable party? i already invited about 10-13 people and majority of people said yes. so that's around 9 people. what should i do to make it a blast? parents will be here with their friends too. so no alcohol or smoking. i'm not into that. my best friend and i are getting together soon to make a party music playlist. what else should i do? i don't really have anything in mind..
if you've thrown a successful party and it was really fun and people loved it, what did you do? please give me some tips and ideas :)
PS: I live up north so there's a lot of snow here and its very cold. and we wouldn't be allowed to leave my house either. majority of people are 17-18 years old, boys and girls.
thank you!
Definitely concentrate on the music and the food. Find out what your friends favorite music is and put that on your computer and let it play on a loop so you can concentrate on them. Find out what kind of games they like to play. Cards or trivia games are good for all ages. Let people mingle and have a couple areas to hang out so they don't feel so constricted. Hope this helps and good luck.
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is it wrong to be fingered at age thirteen?
Fingering yourself at that age is fine but be very careful when you let a boy do that. You won't be with the first boy to do that to you for very long and when he tells his friends, then typically you become the slutty girl. Those boys will definitely try to talk you into doing that but do your best to fend them off. If they really want to be with you, they will respect your wishes. I hope this helps and good luck.
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I really need advice on what to do about this situation. My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year..new years is one year. We are both 21, and go to the same college, and when we're at school we pretty much live together. However, for break we are like 4 hours apart. I thought I trusted him completely..until recently. I got on my computer and got on facebook, and because he uses my computer sometimes it was automatically signed into his name. I didn't realize this until I clickd on the messages and saw messages from a few girls. The one that really caught my eye was one asking a girl to come over at 3am. He said soemthing along the lines of being able to keep her up even though she was tired. So i don't know what happened after that...my problem is that I don't want to tell my boyfriend I was on his facebook because he will think I was snooping on him. But i would like to confront him about it because I want to know what is up with this. I just don't know what to do!! we just had our christmas together and it was great..he wrote me a really nice card that was very loving, and he spent quite a bit of money on my presents...I just don't understand!
This girl may not know you're dating, so you can friend her and ask a few questions. like how do you know him or if she's been out with him etc. He may seem like a great guy but great guys don't try to hook up with other girls. There's a small chance it was a joke but it doesn't appear that way. It may be time to find the truth and move on to a guy that treats you good in front of you and behind your back. Hope this helps and good luck.
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Do guys like girls with pierced nipples?
If you're over 18 you shouldn't care what other people think. Do what makes you happy. But, if you're under 18 and still in high school, guys may think your slutty. I don't have any but I think they're kinda cool on the right girl. Hope this helps and good luck.
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names kayla, well long story short i have been with my husband for 8 years and hes deployed right now. he will be home in 2 months though. my mama who was a best friend to me passed away this year on mothers day. well i have never been on my own i have always had my husband or a family members living with me. with that said i have recently cheated on my husband for the first time ever.i really dont have the answers to why i did what i did but i feel ugly for doing so. i share everything with this man but i dont know if i should wait to tell him when he comes home from iraq or should i tell him now?
You're human and you made a human mistake. If you're sure you won't do it again , I wouldn't tell him anything. The only thing that will happen is you'll have a clear concious but nothing else. I hope the best for you and good luck.
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I know this sounds odd but i'm curious. (this is mostly for girls but guys can answer to if they want).
Would you feel comforable watching porn (or a sex scene in a movie) with your bf/husband?
My husband would go buy porn if it was on sale and we would watch a little bit to get things going. Now we go to redtube.com or xhamster.com because it just shows the good stuff. There's some dirty stuff I watch that he doesn't know I like, so you may want to check it out on your own first and decide what you can watch together. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. Hope this helps and good luck.
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Ok, so I like this guy, I'll refer to him as Bob. I'm 17 and he's about to be 22, but the age isn't the problem because I turn 18 in two weeks and we agreed that our relationship wouldn't go past friends until then. So that is not the problem. What I wanna know is how can I tell if he's in it for me or because he wants to get laid. Is there any warning signs? If so, please let me know, because I really like Bob, and I'd rather not be fooled because of that. Please and thank-you!
It really depends on how he treats you when other people are around. Does he brag about you to his friends, is he proud to call you his girlfriend, does he talk about everything but sex. These are some things you need to consider before you give in to his needs and get left behind. I'm thinking you already have second thoughts about him if you're writing on here. Just be patient and if he's not the right one, you should move on and find the guy that fits your needs. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Okay so I have this friend and she has told only me and my other close friend that she is bi-sexual. And well...I am kinda bi-sexual (I know you cant really be kinda bi-sexual but sometimes I dont like girls and alot of the time I do but anyway...) and me and the friend that is bi-sexual talked and she said she really liked me and I kinda liker her to. She is coming over either today or tomorrow and I know she wants to kiss me cause she has said it before and I wanted to know like how to flirt and how just to get into the kiss. Like do I just go for it do I give signals till she does it orr....how? Advice would be wonderful,
Thanks :)
Alcohol was a good ice breaker for my first time. It loosens the inhibitions and breaks down the walls. If she's not into alcohol then sit together on the couch and chat for a while and then suggest a romantic type movie to watch. If it comes to a romantic part of the movie, you may want to move closer to her and see what her reaction is. If she gets up, she may not be interested but if she stays still, you can go in for the kiss. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. I hope you let me know how things turn out and good luck.
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Im 17 and have had sex since i was 14. I have had sex many times but it just does not feel good. It doesnt hurt( although sometimes it does) but i never orgasim while having sex and i hate when my boyfriend goes in deep, thats the part that hurts. i have made myself orgaism before, but during sex its impossible. why is this?
I almost never have a good orgasm from vaginal sex, except an occasional small one. Your boyfriend needs to be very patient and listen to your needs. One thing you can try is a small vibrator on your clit while he's inside of you or if you can't get a hold of one, you can use your fingers. If you do that your b/f may feel threatened that he can't please you but he may enjoy watching you orgasm. Try to have him slow down so you can build up some pleasure. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Ok, so theres this one girl i like ( im a girl as well) and i can't tell if shes gay or straight. I just know she acts different around me. Today me, her and another friend of mine went out to coffee. We also went to high school together. She always laughs at things i say, regardless if they're funny or not. She told me i looked cute today, and that my eyes looked good. and i can't explain it. I know shes not laughing AT me. It's just kind of akward, because like i feel something towards her, and i kind of think she might feel it back. my stomach flips every time i see/ think of her. I happened to look away at one point, staring out the window, and staring at her at the same time will still looking out the window, and i noticed she also faced out the window, and i saw it, so then i faced my other friend, she lingered at the window for like 2 seconds, and then cautiously faced back. Is there any chance that she could like me too? sorry for draggint this out. when she talks to me online she uses hehe like every other word and Lots of smileys, more than ive seen her use on anyone else in like facebook and stuff. Thanks for your help, and reply quickly please!
When I was younger and into my curious stage, I had a casual friend that I had similar feelings for. I made up a story about having a problem at work and needed her to come over to talk. So I made up some margaritas and just started talking. After we got a little tipsy we were closer on the couch and touching each other a little more. I told her she shouldn't drive home drunk and offered to let her stay the night. After she agreed I was pretty sure I could make a little move and I did after we got our jammies on. If you do make a move and she turns you away, don't be upset, just appologize and try to laugh it off. If you have any other questions please feel free to ask me. Hope this helps and good luck.
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