|
do i tell people im not a virgin?
im 14 and a couple days ago i lost my virginity. i told a couple people, knowing it wasnt a good idea. i told some people i was a virgin and others i wasnt. but everyone knows i spent the night at the guys house. the guy is my ex and everyone thinks that he wanted to get in my pants. we are gonna date again but my two friends said if i did theyd hate me and they would loose all respect for me if i wasnt a virgin. which i have done both. do i tell them im not? along with everyone else? or do i change my story and say i am a virgin. plus the guy who i had sex with told me not to tell and i did, so now i feel like a total bitch.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
It is really hard to go back and change your story when part of it is already out there. You can tell your close friends the truth but if anyone else asks, tell them it's none of their business. If you do break up with this guy in the near future( which you might because I think he's only using you for sex) and you have sex with another guy, keep it a secret and ask the guy to the same. I know sleeping with 2 guys doesn't sound like a big deal but when your younger, you can easily become the slutty girl. If you need any other help. please ask me.
]
More Questions: |