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Sex Doesnt Feel Good
Im 17 and have had sex since i was 14. I have had sex many times but it just does not feel good. It doesnt hurt( although sometimes it does) but i never orgasim while having sex and i hate when my boyfriend goes in deep, thats the part that hurts. i have made myself orgaism before, but during sex its impossible. why is this?
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I almost never have a good orgasm from vaginal sex, except an occasional small one. Your boyfriend needs to be very patient and listen to your needs. One thing you can try is a small vibrator on your clit while he's inside of you or if you can't get a hold of one, you can use your fingers. If you do that your b/f may feel threatened that he can't please you but he may enjoy watching you orgasm. Try to have him slow down so you can build up some pleasure. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Boys of your age are not as intent on satisfying their partner as they are in satisfying themselves. The first thing you need to do is teach your boyfriend how to make love to you so that you get enjoyment too.
Let's take one problem at a time. The average female vagina is only six inches deep. If your boyfriend's penis is over six inches in length he will constantly hit your cervix. While this is his fault he is responding to what he has learned watching porno films as no one has taught him differently. You need to slow him down; get him to shorten his stroke. You will have to trust me on this one if you both take the time to learn what is comfortable he will find he can last longer and find lovemaking more enjoyable too. What he knows right now is that love making is Ram Bam thank you mam. He has not learned that the longer you can make love together the more enjoyable it is for both partners.
The second problem is very much a part of the first problem. A guy can be ready to make love at the drop of a pair of panties. A women on the other hand needs foreplay, she needs to be stimulated. She needs to feel safe and comfortable. Remove any one of these factors and love making is not going to be what it can be for her.
Once you have found a place to make love that is safe and comfortable for you, you now have to teach your boyfriend how to please you.
NOTE: If your boyfriend takes offence at this and says he knows how to please a women and your just cold or words to that effect; pull your panties back up and dump him. He is only out for his pleasure.
To find out just what pleases you I would suggest you go in your bedroom, lock the door, take your clothes off and explore yourself while masturbating. Then you can take what you have learned about yourself and show your boyfriend.
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Hello,My advice to you is that maybe the only resson why you dont have an oraism is maybe Because maybe he dosnt make you feel the same way when you do it maybe you could begin by touching yourself gentle in fornt of himm..or try turning your self on or summthing .. Hope you take my advice ..
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