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Is it dorky to roll up your jeans if their to long or is that in style? j/w

NOOO!! Its not dorky at all. A lot of people do it, its the style right now. Just roll it up really cute, look in magazines and stuff you see it everwhere. You usually where sandles/flipflops (whatever you want to call them lol) with them. Looks really cute!

xoxo Kourtney

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Hey! well i'm a colomnist too...VBabi13!!anywayz....well my ex, we were off N on since like 7th grade, N we freshmens now. i guess u can say we have a history...we broke up N stuff, but i guess we don't actually go out, we look like we do or we act like we do! I kno so much bout him, cuz he opens up to me, N i feel like i can do the same thing back. goin out or not we still good friends, we talk, but lately we haven't! I dunno why, i think the last time i talked to him, he wuzn't happy, his voice, juss drifted, i knew suttin wuz wrong but he kept on sayin "nothing"!!! We were pretty intimate, N we did both say to eachotha ((when we dating)) "i love you"...but all in all, u don't forget your first love,right?well i think, personally, we still have strong feelings for eachother!But right now, thangs been weird, i haven't talked to him for like a week or 2! well my question is,wut's goin on? do u think he would have a lot of interest in me like when we wuz dating, N do u think goin out again would last longer?N what we have for eachotha, is it real?i can't stop thinkin bout wut we had N did,N i miss it A LOT, i miss him a lot! does he miss me,miss anything dat concerns me?

Hey!! I added you to my favorite columnists! =D I think he may have feelings for you! I mean it has been going on since 7th grade!! But, the only way you can find out is by talking to him. Something does seem wrong with him, try asking him whats bothering him and stuff. Maybe he's just been depressed and stuff and thats why you two haven't talked in 2 weeks. Yea, first loves, you NEVER forget them. It's hard sometimes. But, if I was you I would talk to him and just basically be like "Me and you act like we go out and we basically have since 7th grade. We tell each other everything and I know so much about you. So, I know something is bothering you and you wont tell me. I mean we have't talked in like a week or two! Can you please just tell me what is wrong, because even if I can't help you, I'm here to listen atleast." Just say something like that and maybe if you want you can tell him how you feel. Hope this helps and good luck hun! If you still need help, just leave a message in my inbox I would be glad to help you out!!

xoxo Kourtney

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Okay.. I'm 13 and I asked out this guy I really liked. He said he liked me yet he didnt like me yet. I still dont know what that means, but i knew it meant know. I still have really strong feelings for him, and i know he did too, because he liked me before but didnt tell me, and i found out like the other day. I'm really sad still and don't know what to do. Please help.

Aww I'm sorry, don't be sad!! Just stay positive. I think he likes you, but he may not want a relationship yet or he may want to get to know you more. Try just hanging out with him a lot and getting to know him. Maybe give him your number or get his number so you two can talk. Just be like "hey call me sometime" and give him your number or be like "hey can I have your number so I can call you sometime?" Say something like that. Hope this helps and good luck hun. If you still need to talk about it or whatever, just leave a message in my inbox!

xoxo Kourtney

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how do you add columnist to you page??

Go to there column and under the info and stuff (like pictures or how they describe themselves or whatever) it says like "ask a question" "View feedback" and then "Add as favorite columnists" click on that and then they're added. Hope I explained that well enough =D

xoxo Kourtney

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ok well i use to have this really really good best friend..we use to do everything togther..but we get n fights soo much i just gave up after a while but i know it hurts her, but im just sick of it..ive givin her soo many chances and after a while, and she just throws them away and acts like they mean nothing..and so i found sum new really good friends that would never hurt me like she did..and so idk how she feels but she treated me soo bad!!! i need sum help..

Try talking to your best friend and telling her how you feel. Just sit your best friend down and be like "I've given you a lot of chances and you just throw them away pretty much, you really hurt me bad so I found some new friends that wouldn't hurt me, but I just want to know how you feel about that and if you still want to be friends with me or not..." Just say something like that and how you feel about the whole situation. If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox. Hope this helps and good luck hun!

xoxo Kourtney

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how can u tell if ur a good kisser or do sumin bout it if u r kuz i dont want my bf sayin stuff now or after we brake^((i kno this sounds really gay but...))

If guys ask us if they are a good kisser, then ask him too! lol. But, hey practice makes perfect ;) lol. Try new things when you two makeout, like spell his or your name or something with your tounge, or lightly nibble on his lip (dont bite though OUCH!), just try new things, experiment with makingout! Have fun with it lol. =D

xoxo Kourtney

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Hey! Do Yah Kno En Good Quote Websites Not Like Kidish 1z(I Kno A Couple But They All Got Childish Really Quick)So If Yah Kno En That Wuld Be Great*!*
-:-Me-:--

Hey!! Go to this website:
http://www.hellz-angelz.cjb.net
*They have tons of quotes and then they also have links to other websites full of quotes too!*

xoxo Kourtney

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i have a boyfriend who means the world to me. but some people are telling him that i flirt with this other boy.. but i dont!! he is like me best friend and i have never thought of him as being anything more than a friend to me. some of my friends say he likes me but i def dont like him at all. my boyfriend thinks i do .. but i dont know how to prove it to him that i dont!

Sit him down and be all serious. Just tell him the truth and be like "You're my boyfriend and you mean the world to me, you really do, and I know people are telling you that I'm flirting with another guy, but I'm not, I don't know what you want me to say for you to believe me, but I'm not flirting with another guy, you're my boyfriend and I wouldn't do that to you. And I knew once I got into a relationship, people were going to pass around rumors, and thats what they're doing, but they're not true, and pretty soon I'm sure I'm going to hear rumors about you too, but I'll just go to you to see if they're true, and if you hear anymore rumors about me, I want you to come to me and ask me if its true or not." Just say something like that. If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox. Good luck and hope this helps!!

xoxo Kourtney

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16/f

k i have this guy friend who im really close with named "JoE".."joe" tells me ALOT of his personal shit, and if he ever cheated on a girl, id be tha only person he would tell..but im starting to like him more than a friend and his other best guy friend told my other best guy friend that he liked me too. the problem is he seriously is SUCH a HUGE FLIRT..like hes all over every girl he knows even if he doesnt like them..but hes not like that with me ofcourse cause we are 2 close for that and i dont fall for that shit..he has a reputation of being a player, etc..im scared ill be his next "victim"..what should i dO

Try talking to him and telling him how you feel. There may be a chance he wont do that to you (the flirting with every girl) because you two are so close and he wouldn't want to hurt you. But, if I was you I would talk to him and just be like "I know we're really close and everything and you tell me everything, but I'm starting to like you and I just want to know how you feel about me." say something like that and then be like "But, you flirt with a lot of girls and you do have a reputation of being a "player" and I don't want to be your next victim or whatever because I really do like you and I don't want to get hurt..." Just say something like that and how you feel about it all. If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox. Good luck hun tell me how it goes. Hope this helps.

xoxo Kourtney

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Im 16 i know its werid but what does masturbate mean...

You don't have to be shy to ask me, I wont laugh or make fun of you!! Its when you give your self pleasure. IDK if you're a guy or a girl. But if you're a guy, you usually just jack off, if you're a girl, you can do different things, like finger yourself and stuff.

xoxo Kourtney

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My boyfriend just recently broke up with me and I've been so heartbroken, but to make it all worse I find out he's hooking back up with one of his ex's.. but he said the reason he broke up with me ebcause he was sick of me being so obsessive over him! .. I think iwas kinda obsessed.. but he didnt have to break up with me.. he could o f just asked me to stop! maybe he just wants fucking katie.. ARGG! i am sick of dating.. but I met someone at six flags so I'm happyish.. he was hott.. and we had fun .. but ti was cool... well i duno wut to do I am so hurt right now I am starting to get pissed off and I have to go cu my frined is takin me to six flags yay!

- signed unhappyish

Thats good that you're going out and having fun and meeting new people. Thats the best thing to do right now. I think you need to forget your ex boyfriend, that was mean of him to just break up with you for his ex, oh no wait you're obsessive lol. Yea right, you're not, its just the things guys think of to break up lol. I know its hard and that you're hurting, because everyone will go through it sooner or later, and you're doing the right thing by having fun and meeting new poeple. Try getting that guys number that you thought was hot and get to know him. And maybe you two could hook up! If you need to talk about this or anything, just leave a message in my inbox.

xoxo Kourtney

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Mi B/f is So0 hoTt n a ToN oF gUrLz lyKe Him..
iM sCaReD heZ gOnnA dUmP mE
HoW cAn I mAkE sUre ThaT He Is/IsNt!?!

I've had a boyfriend like that before. You just have to trust him. Which can be hard, because I know how that feels, I have trouble trusting people. But see how he acts around you when he's with people (does he kiss you, hug you, hold you, etc). But, if you want to talk to him, you can just be like "You know a lot of girls like you and I'm just scared that you'll dump me for one of them or something....." Just say something like that and how you feel. If you still need help or whatever, just leave a message in my inbox!

xoxo Kourtney

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SORRY IT'S SO LONG, BUT I HAD TO SAY IT!!!!

STUFF SOME OF THE MODERATORS ARE SICK OF DEALING WITH (actually im speaking for myself, and i'm not sure but maybe a few others)

the people that ask to be rated, I usually rate them LOW, just because it seems like all they care about are ratings, and they aren't in it for the advice

the people who say I Rate, it's like they're so desperate, that they tell people that they rate, just so they can get better answers, WTF¿?

And what bugs me, are either the non-advice questions, like asking for a screen name(thats what you have friends for)

And, the people who ask the following, I like a guy, I'm Not sure if he likes me, What Should I Do? Uh Hello obvious, TELL HIM!!!

And people who say, My boy Friend wants to have sex, I'm not sure, I almost feel like I'm to young, what should I do? well thats easy, if u have to ask, then the answer's NO

The one thing that gets me is people who say admin please don't delete, HELLO that just makes the admin know that it's a Dumb question

All these repeats, and stupid I Rate, Rate me questions are SO ANNOYING, i just wanted to state that

sorry i know that it wasn't asking for advice, but i just felt like posting that, it just really gets on my nerves, i mean i have done that before, but i've realized how stupid it was!

by the way, if u wanna leave something in my inbox, like a rude reply to this, or just any question, then my name is SoUtHeRn_ChIcKeTy

i don't care if this gets deleted, i just HAD to post it!!

LOL! That was pretty good, I mean I don't mind if people ask me or any body else "what should I do", I mean I can help them on what to say, but IDK people are crazy these days. lol. I also do hate when people are like PLEASE RATE ME! lol. I could really care less if people rate me, I'm just here to help people. =P

xoxo Kourtney

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So i've been going out with this girl for almost 8 months now, right? Anyways, I love her a lot, I really do, I just dont know if I am really what she wants anymore. She teases me about other guys and stuff constantly, and she really gives me the impression that she doesnt love me as much as she used to. Can someone help me on what I should do?

Thats cute you love her! She may be trying to make you jealous and see how you react when she mentions another guy in front of you. But, I think you should try talking to her and telling her how you feel and just be like "You know I love you alot, but sometimes I feel like I'm not what you want anymore, that you dont love me anymore either, and I just want to know if you still do love me..." Just say something like that and how you feel. Hope this helps and good luck hun! If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox!

xoxo Kourtney

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Hey evrybody, im kinda new, but i jsut wanted to know how most of you people are so popular on this site, like, what do you do to introduce yourself evrywhere. thaaanks - my sn is sshelbyy
:-)

Hey!! I added you to my favorite columnists. All you really have to do is just answer questions and people will soon notice you and they'll like your advice and they'll go to you for advice, but try posting your advice column link to everyone so then people will ask you! Hope this helps!! =D

xoxo Kourtney

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Is there something wrong with thinking Ariel from the little mermaid is soooo hot?

lol, if thats what you want to think, then go right ahead.. no one is stopping you. And if people make fun of you, just don't listen to them, its your opinion!

xoxo Kourtney

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I'm worried about my friend- she isn't saying much anymore- like usually she'll talk all the time, but now she'll occasionally say "yeah" "okay" "maybe" "i dunno" she like doesn't say anything else besides that. I asked her if sumthin was botherin' her but she said no. I hope she isn't hiding something from me. What do u think is up?

-signed- a worried friend

Something must of happened to her that is making her hurt, or atleast thats what it sounds like. I think you should talk to her and just be like "Please just tell me if something is bothering you, because it sure sounds like it, and I dont want you to be upset, you're my friend and if something is wrong I can help you through it, so will you please just tell me what is wrong?" Just say something like that and try to get it out of her and then if she does tell you, talk to her about it. Hope this helps and good luck!

xoxo Kourtney

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ok my boyfriend is 14 and we have been going out for 11 and a half months. what do i get him for our 1 year anniversary?? anyone got any ideas? xoxo please help! im desperate!! loves ya!!!

Hmm, this is a tough one since guys are so hard to shop for lol. Try making him a photo album of you two, or memories that you two have shared. And give him a really sweet card, that expresses how you feel about him. And what does he like, like sports or what? Just give him something he would like and you know what he would like. If you still need help, just leave a message in my inbox, and just explain what he likes and stuff. I'll try to help you out.

xoxo Kourtney

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Hi my name is Casey(girl) and im 14 years old.I try really hard for guys to like me but i never seem to attract that many. How do i get guys to like me??

Hi Casey!! Well, you can't just make a guy like you. But, you know how guys now-a-days are so stubborn, you pretty much have to be like "hey buddy I like you" lol. But, the number one rule is, is to ALWAYS be yourself. And which ever guy catches your eye, flirt with him, and laugh, and smile, and touch him, and give him that flirty look (the one where you're trying to give them the hint that you like him). Hope those help. Good luck hun!!

xoxo Kourtney

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What are good stores to shop at for back to school shopping?

Depends on how you dress. Try these stores, Abercrombie and Fitch, American Eagle, Hollister, Aeropostale, Forever 21, Gap, Express, Charlotte Russe, Hot Topic (they have cute belts and stuff), Godzooks, 579 (I think thats what its called), umm thats all I can think of right now. Hope this helps, have fun shopping =P

xoxo Kourtney

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