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I've been making clothes for myself for a while and Its so much fun...but I can't think of anything to make. So I was wondering, does anyone have any good do it yourself clothes ideas?
domo arigato to all!

i like how you said domo arigato. that was awsome.

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OK so my BFF's little brother is completely discusting!!! He acts very preverted even to me! It's sooo gross. He does things that are well REALLY inapropriate! Oh man when ever my friend and I try to tell him to stop, he will just ignore us and tell me I am sexy. Ya it's that weird for peet sakes hes only nine! How do I get him to stop?!

hit him in the face. its harsh, but itll work.

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okay my guy friend and i were suppose to spend yesterday together but we didn't cuz he didn't call me. he is not a dependable person. so today in the hall he said hi and i ignored him. was that the right thing to do? and does anyone have any ideas on what i should say to him or what should i do?

yea that was pretty childish. why dont you just ask him why he didnt call. if you knew he wasnt dependable, maybe you should have taken the responsibility and called him. istead of knowing he might do it (unaware) and then ignore him for it. if he has a problem, help him with it, dont ignore it.

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lo siento, tengo ir a mirar una pelicula con mi hermana muy hermosa y simpatica

im sorry i have to go watch a movie with my very beautiful and nice sister

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okay i have a b/f now well call him "K" okay well we've been goin out for a lil while but i wanna call him but im afraid his mom or something is gonna answer what do i do/?

i dont know how to answer this question. its the dumbest thing ive ever heard. i dont think you should have a bf, because your so dumb. if you really love him, youll break up with him, to save his sanity.

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is it possible for a guy to like a girl that is shy..? I'm always sort of quiet.. and it's not like I'm not outgoing sometimes but I'm not loud and I usually keep to myself because everyone in my school is against my opinions and I get shot down anyway.. and there's a guy I like and I'm not sure if he feels the same because.. he's always hanging around me, sometimes I'll look up and see him glance at me.. *sigh* just need some direction..

did you really just ask that? to answer your question, no. guys dont like shy girls. there isnt one single guy in the whole entire universe who like shy girls, so you might as well just go die cause youll never find anyone.

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Hi, im starting to like this kid in my class. Theo only problem is i know this other "almost popular" girl who likes him and is having her friends try to get him to go out with her. Whenever they try to ask him he leaves. Hes not really the popular type in all but im starting to like him. The other girl is really nice and funny, but i dont want to let a lot of people know incase she gets mad. Its just that sometimes he talks to me and like asks me the same questions and it feels like he likes me. But even if he asked me out i couldnt go out with him cuz i know about the other girls plan. Should i continue liking him, or just forget it?
* Screwed up lover *

is this about popularity to you? because thats not what life is about. also, why should you stop likeing someone because someone you arent even friends with likes him too. how rediculous is that? besides you cant just stop liking him, im sorry but life doesnt work like that. screw that other girl, dont build your life around hers shes not the center of the universe, you are remember that.

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is there anyway to keep your nails clean, my seem to get dirty all the time?

wash your hands, maybe shower. just a suggestion, or maybe just keep them cut or painted, or both.

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I know having bulimia,anorixia or anything like that isnt pleasing to God...but is it considered a sin?

your afraid of not pleasing god hahahaha and then you asked if its considered a sin!! AHAHAHAHA! im sorry..im just an asshole. i hope god forgives me

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Ever since my best friend started going out with this one guy, she has been starting to be mean to me like not talking to me durring school and stuff like that. She has also gone a lot of places with her boyfriend's friends (her new friends) and haven't even asked me to go.. I'm worried about loosing her as my friend becuase.. well.. we only have 6 girls in our class and to tell you the truth I don't like the other 4 girls in my class. Oh, and she has turned into a MAJOR slut! What do I do? What should I say when I talk to her??

Sorry It's so long

who has the problem with sluts here? seems like your the only one. why dont you quit telling us how you feel about her..and tell her. duh

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Ok, im fat and i need to lose alot of weight im in 7th grade and i weigh 205 lbs. how do i

liposuction fat ass..or heres an idea quit stuffin your damn face all the time and maybe jog a little. haha fat

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Okay so I went to this party last night and this guy that was there was like "why the hell are YOU here?" because I'm straight edge and I don't do drugs and stuff.. And he kept insulting me and saying crap and it really pissed me off because we have mutual friends and he thinks I'm a "loser" because I don't do drugs and drink and have sex and stuff.. So what should I do to keep myself from kicking his ass? because he's really really starting to piss me off.. And I'm going to have to deal with him for a really long time.. So yeah.. Sorry if this is long.

why would you want to restrain from kicking his ass? just do it or get over it.

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i have tried all kinds of ways to get my self esteem up. but i just cant figure it out. i like myself a little bit more then i used to but not much. i want to love myself so that people can see the confidence in me because they like that. but i dont know how to raise my self esteem. any ideas, advice, whatever? lol

~♥~ Carrie ~♥~

always remember that nothing else anyone else thinks about you or says about you matters. because it truly doesnt. and always know that you look beautiful even if you dont think so. i bet you always find something wrong with your outfit or your hair. just think that, maybe your hair doesnt look as good as *hers* but it looks way better than :hers:. also people in the world who matter wont judge you on how you look, or how you act the second they meet you or see you. the type of person that matters will want and try to get to know you and figure you out without judging you till after this. i could really go on for too long about this, you need to be more specific on what your self esteem is low abuot or because of.

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my dog is huge and my parents want me to walk him(he is a great dane!!! the are huuuuge) what should i do?

tell your parents no if the dog wont mind when you say heel. its not your fault that you cant handle him..if its so important then theyll walk him. just never get a shock collar or a german pinch collar. EVER

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I’m 14/f and no one have ever asked me out on a date. I am not ugly in fact I recently learned that the boys from my old school which I left 1 ½ years ago thought I was the prettiest girl in the class. I am extremely shy and I really can’t flirt. Also usually even if I like someone I am very cold to them for a long time, it’s like a protective action. But now I just feel so lonely!

YOU ARE FOURTEEN YEARS OLD. let me repeat that..FOURTEEN. your not allowed to feel lonely yet your still supposed to be climbing trees and playing dress up. you have sooo much time to find someone and you still have VERY VERY much growing and maturing to do.

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lately i feel really distant from my friends ..like they dont care about me or want to sit with me at lunch and stuff. I dont know how to talk to them about this, because when i do they roll their eyes and call me sensitive. I could never tell them that i cry alot becasuse of this ..please help

find new friends. the old ones arent good enough for you.

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well as you know.... iam asking you about friends. iam in grade 8 and i have lots of friends and i think demi linzey jennifer lily kim kelsi sammi and jordana are my best friends..but lately demi, linzey and jennifer have been kinda zoneing(i think thats how u spell it) me out. whats up with them??

well, since every person on the face of the planet is exactly alike, its going to be very easy to tell why they are acting wierd.

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(15/f) My neighbors music is so loud I hear it on the opposite side of my house from the side that he lives on. I don't want to go to his house, and my parents are home so I can't blast ours that would def. be louder. He is around 40 something? Any ideas?

call the police duh. havent you ever heard of disturbing the peace ..NOISE ORDINANCE? corse going over there would be much easier and better. so you should really do that. then the next time he does it, then call the police.

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hey im 13/f and i have been shaving since i was 11 but my mom doesnt know cuz i never asked her im way to scared to talk to her about anything
what do i do?
real question:how do i ask my mom that i want to shave?
boy im inbaressed

yea that and you cant spell. why dont you just say "mom im hairy and people make fun of me" then tell her your nick name at school is gorilla or somethign like that.

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A girl in my group of friends who i HATE is moving ..all my friends are like crying but i cant wait till she moves -is this wrong of me? Im kind of confused and its hard to keep it from my friend but i know if i told them i was happy theyd think i was a bitch ..what do i do??

fuck what they think.

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