What is a lap dance? And what is oral sex? My friend talk about that and i just sit and listen.. but nothing i understand.
think about the words in that question. it isnt hard to figure out.
but a lap dance is when you dance and grind on a guy while he is seating down and shaking you ass in his face and all that kinda shit. nothing hard about it, its easy to do.
and oral sex is when you use your mouth.
Example: *giving a guy head, and eating a girl out.*
once again, nothing to it.
so if you just sit there and think about the words you will have figured it out. doesnt take a rocket scientist to figure shit out hunnie.
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i like this guy and i have for awhile. and then someone finally told him that i liked him and he said that he liked me a little. and then it became vacation and i havent talked to him in a awhile but i still like him and i don't think that he will like me @ all nemore. how do i make him like me? should i still like even if he doesnt like me?
you cant make him like you. you cant make anyone like anyone. but when you go back just talk to him and hang out and if yins hit it off then there is a possibility that he still likes you. and you cant change the way you feel about someone. so if he doesn like you anymore then just try and move on. do things to take your mind off of him and eventually you will get over him and find someone new.
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ok... i have a wonderful b/f and we don't fool around or nethang which im not that kinda person to fool around like that lets say his name is "todd". Todd is a very funny person and like the attention but then sometimes he can be the sweetest guy ever. the thing is i don;t like how he flirts with all of my best friends which thats jus the way he is but i wish he didn't do that cuz when he talks to them he's like "Hey sexy" and stuff and he doesn't really say jus kiddin, ya know? what should i do?
my brutal honest answer would be for you to get over yourself. if he wanted to be with one of them dont you think he would break up with you and go to them. there is something in you that he drawn to if he chose you over your friends. quit worrying about it so damn much. there is nothing going on between him and any of them excpet for maybe friends. if there was something going on with them, you would know. ust because he will say hey sexy or soemthing corny like that to them, doesnt mean shit.
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Me and my mom made a dealy bribe about the PSAT; I read a big book on it and take a practice test, and I could get somethin special. She had been really adamant about not getting a second hole before (I'm 13), and this is the first time shes actually said that I could (I've done a bunch of bribes before that she held out on.) But also, she said, instead that I could get a new, fancy schmancy cell phone instead of a second hole, maybe even she would split the price on a laptop! (But that would be all my $$.) What should I do? lol
-Bribe schmibe
that decision is totally up to you and what you want more. personally i would go with the new phone becuase mine is a peice of shit but hey. thats me. pick what you like/want more.
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ok so i always like a guy and i always want a bf and then i flirt to make them like me. then i go out with them and like 2 weeks into it or so i stop liking them and want 2 break up with them and after like a month+ i finally break up with them and then i realize taht i still like themand sometimes i go back out with them and sometimes i don't. but then as soon as i don;t have a bf i want 1 again. why do i do this? and how do i stop?
you just get bored with relationships. it shows that you arent ready for a committment yet. it wont stop until you are ready to settle down with someone in your life. when a person you really really like and one that you are reaaly really into comes along, you will be ready to settle down with him for a while and your problem will go away. you will want to have a somewhat committed relationship with him.
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when you tell somebody that you "like them like them" , would (and or should)timeing be everything? because i feel thats how it's going with this one guy..
it isnt everything but it helps alot.
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Hey sorry its kinda long guys if you can help go for it den and please dont judge me by this question and say something mean.. well okay um i'm wit this guy.. i've been wit him a while and have had sex wit him i love him wit all my heart and he means everything to me.. abd i enjoy bein wit him.. but when i have sex wit him its like i dont enjoy it or something.. but i love bein wit him.. and i don't wanna tell him like i don't like having sex wit you.. cause its not like that.. and he's not small or anything.. and he's the first guy i've had sex wit.. i dont know whats wrong wit me or if he's not doin it right or what which really i dont think its that.. i think its me.. so if you have any advice on like how i can enjoy it as much as he does let me know please.. and oh yea well he gives me oral i like that and thats like about it... so please help thanks BUNCHES!
it may be just because it is your first couple of times that it is a little uncomfortable or that you are just feel a little weird about it yet. it will prolly get better the more you do it. if not then you have to tell him. dont just be like i dont like having sex with you becuase i dont get any thing outta it, but tell him to do something different to try and spice it up a bit. and if that works then tell him you like that much better and weould prefer it. that way it doesnt sound so bad to him. and just have him continue to eat you out.
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ok lately my boyfriend has been telling me hell call me back in 10 minutes...and he wont for like 3 hours...i know things come up and ive talked to him but he still does it...we were on the phone pretty late last night an d he was like hey can i call u right back?? and i was like ok and we hung up...and he never called back...he still hasnt called...im supposed to call him @ 12:30 and we were goning to make plans..but i dont know if i should just call ..or if i should just do what he does to me and not call him....but the thing is i dont know if his dad said he couldnt call me back last night...because it was pretty late...what do i do??
he prolly just forgets to call you back sometimes. but about last night i wouldnt take that one personally bc you said it was late. so i think you should call him and make plans and hang out, discuss this situation, and have fun. then if the problem persists afterward then do the same to him.
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How old do you think a girl has to be to sleep over at their boyfriends house, say if their boyfriend was the same age or 1 year older?
15 or 16 and up. but that is totally up to your parents though. if they trust you enough then that is a good age.
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are there any ways to enjoy making out with braces? or is it too difficult and bloody?
dont know. never tried it becuase i never had em
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Is there anything i can do for a sore tailbone? Plz Help!
put some ice on it for the first 24 hours of the injury. on-off for 10 minute inervals. and after the first 24 hrs apply heat. again in 10 minute intervals. (10 mins on, ten mins off)
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What is the point in people fingering? I mean is it just for sexy feelings or what?
fingering is a way to arouse a girl without going all the way and having sex. it is for pleasure. sometimes a guy will finger a girl before having sex to loosen her up so it will be easier for him to go in.
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im not trying to be so nosey or anythang, but im just wondering if anyone can go into detail of their 1st time. im just really curious on what to do, and how to get prepared!..THANX!
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as much as you think you can plan your first time, you cant. it will never turn out the way you hope and plan for. but im me and we can talk.
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ok well i like this guy and he likes me he said. but i want to ghet him to focus totally on me because we arnt going out so he like flirts with other girls you know a typical guy. well hes punk and stuff and really funny. hes a really good kisser to but how do i keep him wishing he had me. i also need makeout tips. i know everyone says go with the flow but i need more please help!!!!
ill rate high!!!
it is sorta hard to explain exactly what to do when you make out. it is just sort of a go with the flow thing. i know you dont want to hear that but that is really all you can say about it. it just happens. it comes naturally. its not hard at all. to make him want you, tease him a lil. dont lead him on and then not do anything about it, just enough to know that if he was with you he would have a great time with you. dont be a slut about it though. but if he isnt interested he will let you know in some way or another. and if he isnt interested dont get all pissy and upset about it. if it doesnt work out there is nothing more you can do to make him fall for you. it just wasnt meant to be. but have fun and hope this helped. if ya have anymore questions drop one in the inbox.
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well im really good friends with this guy and i like him a lot because were so close and similar and i think we both like eachother and we talk about everything but he always asks out other girl who turn him down, doesnt he know that im righ tin front of him and were perfect for eachother how can i help him see that?
make a move toward him. if you are so certain about the two of you dont wait around for him. make you own move.
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i like my bf so much im 14 nd we've done everything except sex and anal i love him so much but lately i havent been hanging out with my friends as much and he gets mad wen i do i noe he dont trust me but idc but i wanna hang out with friends!! i miss them and like wen i do he gets mad and we hardly talk and my dad sed if i dnt start hanging out with my friends then hes guna end me nd my bf nd like i told my bf that nd we started crying nd stuff nd he sed he didnt wanna loose me but he cant get over the fact that were guna have to break up if i dont start hanging out with my friends ...either way he gets mad at me ..what should i do
x3 confused
fuck him. thats just fucked up. you should be able to have friends and a boy friend. if he cant accept the fact you have more to your life then just him then he isnt worth your time.and turst me it isnt turue love.
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is any way to find out who has veiwed ur advice column? like an html code that tracks whose been there? and if i or any noe else were to click on it it wud give a list of people who have been there? love alwaiiz, aLi
no. we dont have one yet. maybe we will get that feature in the future sometime. i will be happy to inform of that if and when it occurs.
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ok my boyfriend and i had oral sex. i fell like i have betrayed everyone and now i dont know if i was ready. is this normal?
Thanks
Lauren
well if it was something you wanted to do you wouldnt feel like you have betrayed anyone. you obviously werent up for it and just did it for something to do and because of pressure. but it is a little late for that now. you cant go back and change what you did.
also if it were good then you wouldnt be complaining so it obviously wasnt worth the hassle. maybe if it were better you wouldnt see it this way anymore.
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i wanted to know if i should switch schools...cuz i have like 4 friends in my school now...n i dont wanna leave em...but i reli hate this school soo much..n its not like i am moving further away...id juss b switching schools...but idk what to do...cuz i love my 4 friends but lifes hectic in that skool n makes me wanna do serious stuff to myself...plz help me
-Jenn-
if you think it would be better for you to switch school then do whatever it is that will be best for you. i am sure your friends will understand.
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My parents are always smoking and i hate the small of smoke!! They are always smoking and I don't know how to stop them!! I have tryed talking to them and it doesn't help!!! Please help me!!!
trust me. there is no way to stop them. just when they are smoking around you walk away from them to another room of the house or soemthing. wish i could help you but i cant.
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