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Q: if your bf of one year physically hurts you..like kicks you in the leg..punches you in stomcach..throws you on the ground..pins you down..grabs you by the jaw..you get the picture..well anyway if that happened to you..and you have been together for a year and nothing like that ever happened..what would you do? would you forgive him? after how long? would you make him get help? i mean..we've all done really dumb stuff before...
17/f
he= 18/m
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that is Absuloutly not okay!!!!!!!!!
you need to explain to him that if he ever hurts you, you guys are through. you need to talk to him when hes calm maybe over the phone so your at a safe distance and ask him what the deal is. tell an adult and send him to therapy. and if he does it again, do not forgive him!!!! dump him on the spot
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Q: okay me and my friend have done sum really stupid stuf to this guy and i have been talking to him and i blamed it all on her........what should i do...and i can't tell her because i alreadt told her that i said it was both of us....what do i do.
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you have basically three options:
1. fess up to your friend
2. fess up to the boy
3. fess up to both
thing about what both of their reactions would be, and the likleness that them finding out on their own would be
xo
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Q: Okay so a few days ago my boyfriend and I were lsaying on a couch watching a movie and while we were facing eachother i whispered i love you. (this was the first time either of us has said it in person) and he just kinna smiled and kissed me. now i'm not 100% sure he heard me but it seems like he did.
should i see this as a bad thing? i expected him to say i love you too. please tell me what you think. thanks.
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i think that kissing you iss how he SHOWS you that he loves you. i wouldent worry about it, boys have wierd ways of showing things. you could ask him about it tho!
xoxoo
Le
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Q: 1. what are some books you would reccomend for a 16 year old. I like teen books that consist of a person's perspective on high school, sex, life, etc. so far i have the earth my butt and other big round things
ps im not interested in the sisterhood of pants lol i forgot the name.
2. what are some books you reccomend to bring up self esteem and standing up for yourself bringing up your self confidence, etc. kind of like high school survival books (i hope this makes sense)
Thanks
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the Gossip Girl series is amazing!!
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Q: I remember hearing somewhere that there are some foods that can help you fall asleep if you eat them before bed.What are they?Besides food,what are some other methods of falling asleep quickly other than sleeping pills?
Also,it seems like no matter how early I go to bed I'm always sleepy throughout the day.How can I fix this?
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this is a tough one, because i get this to! but, this is what helped for me....
1. Try taking a hot bath before bed. it will get you all mellow
2. Try drinking hot milk
3. try excersizing during the say so that your tired by the time you get to sleep.
4. make sure that you are comftorble when your sleeping, because if your not sleeping well then you will be tired when you wake up.
5. Make sure the temperatire in your room isnt to cold because you will be un-comftorble.
6. a half hour before your ready for bed, play some soothing music and stretch out and meditate and then youll be in a good mood for sleeping.
7. wake-up 10 minutes before you need to up and take a cold shower. it will wake you up so that your not tired throughout the day.
xo
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Q: haha i didnt know where to put this topic.
http://i21.photobucket.com/albums/b268/Durene/me.jpg
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yes, i think that you are pretty
because your not like those annoying people who look all "life sucks" all the time
you look happy
and happy people are beautiful people
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Q: okay im sry but this is gonna be long... Okay 15/M Im currently in a relationship and i guess things are goin good she always goes to her friends houses though and they are boys but those boys are geeks and she says she doesnt like them, and my ex sammie whom cheated on me(well was through up against a locker and made out with some dude) is still in love with me and we had sex be4 and she wants to agin and says she is still in love with me after 6 months(we constantly talk) and i love her still to then this girl i just meet liek a week ago tiffany is soo awsome she keeps beggin to me that she wants a long relationship and wants to hang with me and chill and i guess one of my asshole friends told her i want to bang her which i wouldnt mind but never said and Tiffany goes to me tonight on aim so i hear you want me, baby i want you too how about tom night? omg everyone what do i do?
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wow you must be gorgeous lol. can i explain somthing to you? girls dont like it when their boyfriends are still on love with other girls! you say that your girlfriend goes over other boys houses and it sort of bothers you how do you think she feels that your talking about "banging" other girls??
either explain to your girlfriend that you like other people or break it off and hang out with all of theme.
Tiffany wants along relationship which you apearantly cannot give her because you cannot help to like three girls. your a boy, its normal but i dont think its so nice to lead her on that you want a comitted relationship. just be honest to everyone and you wont be stuck in akward scenerios.
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Q: i'm pretty tall & i have a hard time findingg good jeans.
all my jeans end up getting pretty baggy & stretch out. i want them to be tight & long & sorta flare [ but not be like totally hippy bellbottoms haha ]. but i really cant find any jeans that are like.. under 40$ maybe? that fit this description.
i'm 14/f, 5'6'' inches tall, jean size: [ i think ] juniors 3Long
where can i find good jeanss? =/
thanks!
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True Religion
if you go online you can get them 4 reeely cheap
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Q: i just bought this really cute pair of cheetah pumps, and i need help on what i can waeat with them. i know they will match brown tones and stuff but can i wear them with bright colors too? any help or pictures of outfits would be great
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i would stick with browns, and like maybe jeans with orangish, or brownish shirts.
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Q: This is probably a really dumb question, but I've always wondered.....
The body splashes from Bath and Body Works; do you actually spray them on your bare skin? Or on your clothes? All of my friends spray it on their clothes, but I wanted to see if you can also spray them on skin.
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from the word "body" you know its for your body lol
theyre meant to be sprayed on your body
but you can use it on your clothes to
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Q: okay well my science teacher absolutely hates me and i have no idea why. she picks on me in front of my whole class and is always like well unless you get a's in my class you shouldn't be talking. she gives me 0's on homework just cause i missed half of a question. whenever she says shit to me i usually take my phone out and text my mom. but she only picks on me. i work my ass off in that class. like no joke. i answer all the questions and i pay attention. she e-mails my mom and says i don't do anything and i talk all class. im so sick of it i swear. i went to the counselor with my friend and he said to talk to her. well we didnt want to because shes a bitch. sorry but she is. my mom called he conselor and she said he was going to talk to her but i think shell b even more of a bitch. she always yells at me and everything. i got my grade of 27 points but she doesnt think i try. well whatever what should i do
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this teacher sounds like an itchbay anyways....
i would bring a video camera to school. hide it somwhere and video the class. tape yourself participating and her being mean. then, hold a oncfrence with her and your mom and principal. then, when she says you dont try, play the video and show that you are working hard and that shes being annoying. expose her for what she really is! the principal will take care of her
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Q: i am looking into buying some perfume. but it cant be too strong, i dont want people to smell it miles away, but if i hug someone than i want them to smell it. what is some nice smelling perfume that is not too strong?
ps i dont really care how long it lasts. btw im 16 if that helps
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Pink Sugar is one of the yummiest!
also, Victoria's Secret has some really good ones
and believe it or not, Secret body spray smells amazing. you can get it basicalyy anywhere at right-aid or Walgreens or sumthing.
EDITED;;;;;
Paco Rabanne's Black XS is amazing! idk if ur still looking for a yummy one but its amazing!
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Q: Hello my name is Natalie, I am 15 years old and I have a boyfriend named Don and I am really confused about him right now. He always says he loves me but he doesn't show it. I know most people would say that this is stupid but he hasn't even changed his status on myspace yet it still says single. It means alot to me because when we first went out he was so happy to say that I was his girlfriend but now it's like he just don't care. I try to talk to him but he wouldn't listen and I just have a feeling that he's just using me till he can find the next best thing.Sorry that this is long I have alot to say but what should I do.
Thanks xoxo,
Natalie F
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uch he sounds like a real jerk. i think that you guys kinda lost the excitement of having a relationship and now you realize you dont like eachother all that much. id end it
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Q: Ok so on Monday, i`m going to camp. I don`t mean to brage, but I go to a really exclusiv Private school in Los Angeles, so me and my friends are going to get our nails done tomorrow. Have any idea what color i should do mine? I made out Master Packing list and I made up a rule about earth tones ONLY for clothes, so somehing that would go with that...
Please help!
Thanks, loves!
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lol you sound like such a princess like me!! i would do green on your nails with brown flowers on the middle fingers and then brown on the toes with green flowers
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Q: well, to start with, my boyfriend and i were together for 7 months and i'm pretty sure i loved him. i broke up with him because we fought way too much. for about a week we didnt talk and he literally went crazy..he was extremely heartbroken and he got very depressed and did drugs etc..after a few weeks we became close again..TOO close.. we still hung out and i began telling him i loved him again and it even got to the point where we were kissing and cuddling when we hung out. well, a couple months ago i had told him i hadnt kissed any other guys when i had actually kissed two and he found out and got mad and it started a big ordeal because we were single and i didnt see the big deal. i knew it was wrong that i lied though. anyways, about a month ago i hung out with this guy and started to like him, and my ex boyfriend got extremely mad and called me a liar and said i played him for kissing him and then starting to like another guy..but i couldnt control it..well anyways my ex boyfriend and i decided to stop talking, and about 2 weeks ago he left me EXTREMELY MEAN voicemails calling me a worthless slut, saying he hated me and to burn in hell and im a bitch, etc. i called him back and told him i didnt want us to be hostile (i was crying while talking to him) and he had no right to say that and he told me to stop crying and then he ended up being mean again so i hung up. shortly after, he left me MORE voicemails, not to mention got on aim and called me a whore, etc. needless to say, i completely stopped talking to him. about a week and a half later he called and apologized and i told him i'm glad he apoligized but i cant forgive him right off the bat and were better off not talking because that was just unneccessary and he really hurt me and he said that was fine because he had loved me way too much to be only friends with me. so we havent been talking for about a week and a half and the thing is..I MISS HIM LIKE CRAZY. im trying to move on and i didnt let any of it bring me down..but heres my question..should i begin talking to him..only as friends..and tell him i forgive him..or just let it be and let myself move on? i really do like talking to him and he was always here for me..but yeah..any opinions on what would be best will help! thank you and ahh im so sorry this is so long
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when you talk to him, you get those feeling back. i think you need to remove him from your life completely. move on. there are so many amazing people in the world, that you cant get stuck on one boy
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Q: How do i add my advice column on google???? I want my column to be popular fast. I tried to do it but it wouldnt work. So how do I do put it on google.com like some people do on here???
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if you type in your column name on google it should pop up on its own you dont need to add it
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Q: Latly my bf has been driving me nuts with anything he does. It could be as simple as him rubbing my arm or my leg. I'm at the verge of wanting to break up with him because it's making me crazy. I'm thinking the problem is that we spend way too much time together and that I need a break from him. (Not an actual break, just spend less time together) Or it could be something else. I'm pretty sure that's what's wrong though. I don't know how to explain to him that we need to have space from each other because he'll never understand. I already tried telling him that he should hangout with other people when he can't see me and he took that the wrong way. I don't want to hurt his feelings but I can't take it any longer. Btw, he's 17 and I'm 15.
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i think he loves you and hes suffocating you. ithink you need to end this relationship. you dont want the same things out of this. you want (i think, but who am i to know?) fun, like a sweet guy or sumthing and he wants a soul-mate. and maybe u do want a soul-mate, but he is definately not yours! break up with him, and find somone that you truely care about.
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Q: So okay. I'm 15/f and the guy is 18...and he talks to me every day...and when I come home and go on MSN...he starts flirting with me.
Some examples of things he says (exact) : baby, boo, baby-blue, love, darling, i love you, do you love me?, I'm gonna wait for you, call me when you're 18 ;)...and like a whole bunch of MSN emoticons...(love emoticons)
he's also very personal with me. Lately, i've been finding all of this flirting around strange. And I confronted him. Whether he likes me or not....he told me he was being JUST friendly...and that I mistook everything for love.
"I love you...more in a friendly kind of way. You mistook friendly for love".
But i know that's BS because when he said it...that he was just being friendly...he was in front of other people.
Is he denying that he has anything to do with me just because of what his friends will think? Cos it sure seems like it...and he was leading me on....and he keeps on doing it! It all seems to lovey to be JUST "friendly" Is this a common thing to happen?
=/ Thanks in advance.
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he is definately 100% flirting with you. not a doubt.
boys talk different in front of their friends. its just the way it works
i dont think a relationship between you guys would work, because of the way he acts around his friends
harmless flirting between you cant hurt
but i dont think he means it in a relationship way, he is just being flirtatious
still hes flirting with you, not sum1 else
he must like u @ least a little bit
but i dont think hes relationship material
who am i to judge though? ive never met the boy
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Q: Ok, I'll start off by saying I'm in college and I've only really had one real relationship in college that lasted about 6 months. There's this girl across the room in class that I think keeps looking at me and I think is really cute and nice, but we never seem to make eye contact (we have a couple times though). She doesn't have facebook or myspace, so I cant tell if she has a boyfriend or not and I'm too shy to just go up and talk to her. I found out though that she's graduating in May (I'm here for another year), so I have 2 problems; I dont really know what to say to her or how to approach her. And time is of the essence, because I really want to talk to her before she leaves to see if something comes of it. How can I just go up and approach her? What would you want for me to do as a girl? Thanks
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me personally as a girl, id love for you to come knock on my door looking adorable and say hi, i just happened to be looking at you through the window and i just want you to knowthat your beautiful.
but that might be pushing it especially if she has a boyfriend. maybe try writing her a note that just says "hi" and slipping it under her door when you know shes watching, but she dosent know that you know that shes watching. if that makes any sense at all. make eye contact with her snd smile and wave. if that dosent work or you dont like that lemme know!
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Q: Ok is there a way I can NOT have bad breath in the morning other then like brushing every three hours? My class is going camping and I just have TERRIBLE breath in the morning. Not like normal which is just pretty bad but ok, just so bad. It's worse then a skunk! (seriously I smelled a skunk b4 and it didn't even smell that bad for me)
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just drink a lot of water or else the bactiria will multiply
and chew EXTRA gim because it has yummy flavors
like watermelon
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bio
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FRIENDS ARE LIKE ELEVATOR BUTTONS. THEY CAN EITHER BRING YOU UP OR TAKE YOU DOWN. CHOOSE WISELY
A friend will let you borrow their umbrella but a best friend will take yours and scream "Run Loser Run!!!"
we are all angels
with one wing
and we can wonly fly
with the help of somone else
my friends are my wings
TRUE FRIENDS
THEY ARE HARD TO FIND
DIFFICULT TO LEAVE
AND IMPOSSIBLE TO FORGET!
you can pick your friends, and you can pick your nose! but you cant pick your friends nose
killers stab you in the head
Frenemies stab you in the back
boys stab you in the heart
but best friends dont carry knives
a best friend will never ever come to bail you out of jail so never use your one phone call on them
i tried that, but she wouldent pick up. when i got back to our jail cell, i asked her why she wouldent pick up her phone.
theres no thing as strangers. there are only friends we havent met yet
ill give you advice the best that i can
im only 13 so the advice i give you may not be the best
but ive made tons of mistakes so i can relate
and im obsessed with shopping so anything with clothes i can help
and im always here if you want to talk or hang out or anything
im giving you the truth straight up
i am a brutally honest person
Im also fun-loving and adorable
I consider myseld a happy person
I just happen to love black
Do not call me gothic or ill kill you
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Info
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Planet Mars Occupation: Being a Princess Age: 13 Yahoo: Member Since: December 26, 2006 Answers: 588 Last Update: July 1, 2010 Visitors: 27005
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