Okay so a few days ago my boyfriend and I were lsaying on a couch watching a movie and while we were facing eachother i whispered i love you. (this was the first time either of us has said it in person) and he just kinna smiled and kissed me. now i'm not 100% sure he heard me but it seems like he did.
should i see this as a bad thing? i expected him to say i love you too. please tell me what you think. thanks.
luvin_chick<3 answered Monday March 19 2007, 6:35 pm: i guess you shouldn't really expect anything as big as that. but then again, it kinda depends on how long yall have been together. it's not really a bad thing; don't worry about it. my first boyfriend that told me i love you was when we were dating for a little more than a month. i didn't say it back to him until a month later. i guess he was expecting an i love you back, but i didn't say it to him cuz i didn't know if i felt the same way for him. but throughout our relationship, i realized that i did feel the same way, and started saying i love you back. just be patient. he'll say it. it's better to wait for it, than have him say it without meaning it. hope i helped!
lizzielovesyou answered Monday March 19 2007, 8:31 am: i dont think this is a bdad thing,becuse this means that he is really gonna take it seriously when he tells you.Also when he does eventually tell you it will be even more special.let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie [ lizzielovesyou's advice column | Ask lizzielovesyou A Question ]
darkside89 answered Monday March 19 2007, 5:07 am: Ok... why dont you say it again... clearly... and then see his reaction...? I know it sometimes gets confusing for us girls to decipher our bf's actions.. but if you're not sure of what exactly happened, do it again... I think he loves you too because he kissed you when you said "I Love You"...
Best of Luck sweetie...xxxxx DaRkSiDe89 xxxxx [ darkside89's advice column | Ask darkside89 A Question ]
chuckweed007 answered Monday March 19 2007, 3:44 am: Definitely dont worry about it. Saying I love you in a relationship seems to be a pretty big step. He obviously likes you a lot, but just may not be ready yet to make that step. I'm sure he feels the same way though due to his reaction, he didn't get up and walk away, or frown, or get a goofy look on his face. He smiled, and kissed you. Besides, I think him saying "i love you" on his own means more than him just saying "i love you too" because that is more of a reaction, and he may not really feel it. So I think you are sitting in pretty good shape. [ chuckweed007's advice column | Ask chuckweed007 A Question ]
luvbug555 answered Monday March 19 2007, 12:24 am: i think that kissing you iss how he SHOWS you that he loves you. i wouldent worry about it, boys have wierd ways of showing things. you could ask him about it tho!
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Annerszz_101 answered Monday March 19 2007, 12:00 am: Maybe he's shy to say it back or maybe he's not totally in love with you? Wait a few days and then hug him and say it a little louder and then see his reaction. If he doesn't say it back, ask him, and see what happens. Good luck and i hope i helped =] [ Annerszz_101's advice column | Ask Annerszz_101 A Question ]
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