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okay well my science teacher absolutely hates me and i have no idea why. she picks on me in front of my whole class and is always like well unless you get a's in my class you shouldn't be talking. she gives me 0's on homework just cause i missed half of a question. whenever she says shit to me i usually take my phone out and text my mom. but she only picks on me. i work my ass off in that class. like no joke. i answer all the questions and i pay attention. she e-mails my mom and says i don't do anything and i talk all class. im so sick of it i swear. i went to the counselor with my friend and he said to talk to her. well we didnt want to because shes a bitch. sorry but she is. my mom called he conselor and she said he was going to talk to her but i think shell b even more of a bitch. she always yells at me and everything. i got my grade of 27 points but she doesnt think i try. well whatever what should i do
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OMG! You arent gonna belive this but i have the SAME problem, well had. Ok so i have this teacher, her name is miss micciche, but everyone calls her miss bichiky. She hated me more than anything in the world. i would get the same answer as someone else, and she imedialtle would accuse me of cheating. and pretty much the same thing thats going on with you. So heres what u do. dont give her anyreason to pick on you. come into her class early everyday. get a's on everything and when she tells you you got a 0, ask her why, put her ont he spot, if she gives you an answer and someelse has the same thing as you, ask her why they got better grades than you. make sure she cant get out of it and if this keeps going on, the best thing you can do, even if you dont want to, is talk to her. ask her why you are getting bad marks even with the right answe, and especially ask her what you can do to improve, cause there is not way she can get out of that. i hope everything works out for you.
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this teacher sounds like an itchbay anyways....
i would bring a video camera to school. hide it somwhere and video the class. tape yourself participating and her being mean. then, hold a oncfrence with her and your mom and principal. then, when she says you dont try, play the video and show that you are working hard and that shes being annoying. expose her for what she really is! the principal will take care of her
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You should approach her after class one day alone. Ask her why she thinks you aren't trying hard and ask straight out "why do you hate me so much?" That question will hit her in the gut hard and make her think. You may also find out then and there that she doesn't hate you at all.
This teacher might have seen glimpses of something good such as a gift you have or knowledge etc. that isn't coming through enough in your work, in tests or when you participate in class. She may have a high standard she wants you to strive for. she may not be the bitch you think she is but then again she might.
You need to go to the source herself rather than the principal or guidance teacher and try to speak to her with maturity and handle this yourself. If you are not satisfied by her statements than approach the principal again or guidance counsellor and ask to tranfer into a science class with a different teacher or if you cannot do so drop her course.
I was in a similar situation and I must tell you that the principals, counsellors and school board are only concerned with what it will cost to bus a student or transfer them to a new school or out of a class. They will always take the side of the teacher and not you.
They're useless as are all guidance counsellors in high school period unless they're asked to photocopy a schedule or provide a transcript ;) Continue to document in a diary exactly what the teacher is saying or doing with you and present irrefutable evidence to your parents and let them go from there.
My advice to you is if your teacher is truly the bitch you desrcibe her as is to drop the course now and have no contact with her in your academic career at high school ever again. Don't stress yourself out when you don't have to.
Get your science credits through correspondence courses, night school or summer school at the end of the year. You don't need someone bashing you and ruining your self-esteem if that is indeed what is happening.
Approach your teacher when nobody else is around and ask these questions and don't hestiate or blink 1) Why do you feel I'm not trying? 2) Why do you hate me so much? 3) Why do you tell people they cannot ask questions unless they earn A's on everything.
You'll have her in a corner she cannot back out of. Listen to her explanations and judge from there whether to drop the course or not or have your parents meet with school officials again. If her reaction is a negative one tell her "It's no wonder half your students are completely turned off by science period"' and leave.
Tell your parents not to e-mail her ever again on your behalf or answer the e-mails she sends. Instead document every one of them by printing them out. This will work as having evidence of her behavior and whether she is ganging up on you.
Like I said, summer school isn't that bad but being exposed to someone who is as you describe her and not someone doing this to just motivate you to excel is not a good situation to be in for your self-image and stress.
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hey
dont dont get your mom involved to call and "complain" remember, you can't win a fight with your teacher. she controls your grades, not you! so if your mom goes and complains, she'll only hate you more.
that's life, i mean seriously. it's good that you told your mom, but just make sure that they dont get in a fight of some sort. is her birthday coming up? buy her a nice present. like a candle or something. do as MUCH extra credit you can.
don't sit near your friends. you WILL get distracted, and you will talk, no matter how hard you try. go up to your teacher and be like, "hey i noticed i have a __ in this class. is there anything else i can do to bring my grade up?"
and if she doesn't do anything, just don't worry about it. it's just science. it could have been worse, like math (a major subject.)
good luck, and i hope i gave you some useful advice :]
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talk to your counselor about switching out of that class. ask for a different teacher. if your mom tells the counselor that she wants you to switch out, then they HAVE to switch you out.
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