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Stuff going on with this guy.
hey.
my guy friend who i really really like asked me if i would be his girlfriend earlier in the week and i was really happy and everything<33. cause i am crazy about him. but i had to tell him no because my friend likes him too.
my friend found out that he liked me that day and started being mean to me about it, and we got in a fight. i didn't want to fight with her, but she started it and i tried to stop it the whole time telling her i said no and stuff and i was still her friend, but she was just being a jerk.
well the guy understands. and him + i (kinda) decided that we would figure this whole thing out when she [ my friend ] gets over it. and he knows i like & like(d) him but now i don't know how he feels about me or what he thinks about the whole situation.
my friend says she's over it but i know it would probably still hurt her . she says she was sorry for acting so dumb & she wants me to be happy. & i want to be happy &i want him so bad. but idk how he feels now about me or the whole thingg.
i mean i guess he probably feels the same way as he did earlier in the week, but now my friend's ''over'' it. so why cant we go out? if i tell him ''i wanna go out with u'' or something he's like "i know i want to go out with you too"
but then he acts like we're friends again and says we arent going out or w/e. so i mean i want to be his girlfriend but since my friend was acting so weird idk if he wants to go out with me anymore...
umm i guess this is a lack-of-communcation problem but how do i get him to be my boyfriend haha? i mean i dont want him to think im being all desparate for him or obsessed w/ him (even though i really am haha<3) but yeah..what can i do or say to get my way haha? and what do i do about the friend thing?
thanks=]
oh&sorry so long! once i get going i just cant stop=]
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hey, well your friend acted very immature. she couldnt and still cant force him to like her or choose who he likes. if she is a good friend, she should be happy for you finding someone that likes you [even if its the guy that she likes]. i mean if that guy seriosuly liked you, than he should feel the same way. the only way to find out is by asking him. your right; its a lack of communication. but just think, you were planning on going out with this guy and being with him, if you cant even communicate with him now as just friends, theres no way that you`ll be able to communicate with him as a couple.
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Well i'm sure the guy still likes you, if you both decided taht you would just figure things out after your friend out over it. But maybe he dosn't konw that shes completly over it and that now you can go out! But maybe just ask to hang out and see if he tries to "make a move" on you. and if he does then i'd say hes ALL YOURS :)
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okay well first off, i think you should forget about your "friend" in a way cause like obviously she's not really your friend if she got mad at you over a guy; get what i'm sayingg.
right well, about the guy, he seems pretty cool cause he wasn't getting all mean about how your friend is "interfering". personally, i think you should just follow your heart.
ask him if he still has feelings for you, and make sure he knows your point of view about the whole "friend getting involved" thing. she's obviously just jealous.
if you go out with him and your friend gets mad, let her. it's not like you were gonna end up marrying her or something cause it was YOUR choice. i mean we all have to deal with problems like this.
then again, think about if you were her. why would you be mad at yourself? (uh.. that sounded weird, but you know what im saying) and just think up questions. then, think about the guy (if you were him). that's the best way to look at any situation.
then, decide what you want to do. i think you should talk to your guy and make sure he still has feelings for you. cause if he doesn't, then you should still say friends with your friend.
i hope i helped you :] <3 good luck girl
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