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If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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I'm a 15 year old female. I really like this one boy, but the thing is he's always teasing me or hitting me. Sometimes it's actually funny and we play around but other times it really hurts physically & emotionally. Very little of the time he'll come up to me and start a normal conversation, flirt, etc. I have a strong feeling he likes me the way I like him. I know that if he told anyone, his immature friends would start on him. He wouldn't straight out tell me either because he's shy about that kind of stuff. What could I do to make him realize that if he makes a move, I'll go along with it? (link)
Rub his dick. This will get him to make a move regardless of whether or not he likes you.


O.k so my freiend has feelings for me (love feelings). I 'm not sure what to do. When she told me I told her I was flattered and I was but its been really awkward trying to make conversation since. We used to mess around and call each other "sexy," so I assume she got the wrong idea. The other day she sarted feeling me up and iI told her it was wrong and Iw asn't into girls as much as she is. I don't know what to say or do to make her realise I don't fancy her. Any advice,I rate a five for any good advice.
p.s I'm a 16 year old girl. Don't reply to this if your going to give me shit about being shallow, cause I don't care what you think!
Thanxs. xox (link)
Have sex with her. After she sees that you suck and weren't into it, she'll leave you alone.


ok, my birthday is in 5 days and my mom usually asks all her kids what they want and where they want to go out to dinner for their birthday. well, she didn't ask me anything yet and she forgot 2 years ago and i think she forgot again =/. i feel like she doesnt even care and i've tried to hint to her that i actually have a birthday unless i'm delirious and its not april 21st today? (link)
It's prolly a surprise party. Or some bullshit.


I don't know why but I am scared of love, but I want it so bad. I am 19 and have still never had a boyfriend or even a first kiss because I want my first kiss to be special. I am considered an attractive girl and guys like me and I like them too but I won't let anything happen because I personally feel like I don't carry enough self-confidence which my friends get angry about. I think I worry about life in general and I'm scared that I'll just end up alone forever. What should I do? (link)
Love sucks. I should be asking you for advice, not vice versa.


My mom wants me to be a total conformist: make-up, trendy clothes, dumb girl for a regular guy: you know. I really don't want to because it is so not me but she doesn't care. What do I do?
15/f (link)
Well if you say "Mom, hell no. I don't need to copy some MTV bitch to look cool." she may get it. I wear what I want.


my father abuses me what should i do (link)
Call the cops.


well...tomorrow me n some of my friends might make a movie. well what are some ideas we could do for a movie? thanks ill rate 5!!! (link)
Deep Throat.


what can drugs do to u? (link)
Not much, just kill you.


What do you do if you find yourself more and more each day, liking a guy who does not believe in God? I am a christian and I have my morals, standards and beliefs and he doesn't meet my number one standard which is believeing in God and having a relationship with him but, on the other hand, I am so drawn to him I can't help it.He's a really great guy but should we just stay friends and nothing more? (link)
You should go out with him and not talk about religion.


When me and my guy do it i never orgasm in fact i have had 3 partners and never orgamsed but once..i love the guy im with now..how can i get calm and do this and do u know of any good positions..or anything that helped u ? (link)
Let him play with your clit. Watch some porn. You know you love it. I do. Fantasize about some really hott dude doing you instead of your wimpy boyfriend.


Okay.. I will admit.. i'm a stoner.. I like drugs.. I'm just starting to wonder what these drugs will actually do to me in the long run. If you can get me any sites or information on the drugs listed .. Please tell me... I rate high

1. Cigarettes
2. Marijuana
3. Crack/ coke
4. Acid
5. Meth
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You not only rate high, you ARE high. See Layne Staley, Keith Moon, Jimi Hendrix, and John Bonham. That's what it does to you. Fucking death.


Im feeling sorda guilty....


There are 14 girls trying out for cheerleading and 12 make it, i know i am going to make it because some of the girls who are doing it cant to crap, anyways i feel like its more handed to me then me working for it... Should i feel guilty? I mean i feel realy bad....
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No, if you're better than them, take advantage of this fact.


im a guy who is shy and i like this girl who is like my best friend and i want to have a bigger relationship with her, what should i do to get her attention? please help!! thanks (link)
It's too late. You've already fallen into the "friend trap". You can't escape.


I can't work. Yes, you heard me.

School work. I have a hella load of it to do, and I just can't motivate myself to do it. I get out the paper and the pens and the work and I look at it, form the answers in my head, but then just can't seem to write it down.

I want to work. I need to work. But I can't seem to do it. Also, I'm stressed to hell.

Can I have some solutions for stress? But not "listen to relaxing music" and not "take a long hot bath" because music doesn't relax me, and I don't own a bath.

Also, please if you could give me some ways to motivate myself, in general, but to do school work mostly? Drinking water seems to help a little, but I need a lot of "get up and go" attitude right now. Merci. ^_^ (link)
I stared at this screen for 5 minutes. Didn't hear anything.


After my boyfriend & I broke up, I started hanging out with my guy friend a whole lot. We got really close & end up having sex a few times. He was pretty much my rebound guy and it was a huge mistake. He thought that it really meant something & told me he loved me. Now, we are just friends. I told him I was sorry, but I didn't like him like that & liked being single. Everytime I flirt with a guy, he gets extremely mad/jealous and brings up what happened between us. I could never tell him it was a mistake because he's too sensitive & I just want to forget it ever happened. How do I tell him I want to be single & flirt without him getting all mad and saying I'm a slut? (20, F) (link)
Well put yourself in his shoes. Say you really cared about him and he used you as a rebound girl. Wouldn't this kinda piss you off honey? You deserve what you get 100%. He's saying you're a slut b/c you're acting like one. I know what this guy's goin through. It's prolly just best if you don't talk. Like ever. Can't have your cake and eat it too. It's kool, one day you'll find out this guy wasn't just using you for a piece of ass and you'll feel terrible. But I'm sure you had a good excuse to dump him. He sounded like a real asshole anyway. Must have been if he loved you.


i got my school report last week and it was okay.my maths teacher said that i should ask for help when i dont understand,so i have ever since but everytime i ask its like its too much effort for her to help me. well today i asked for help and she did a real big sigh and i just lost it and sweared at her and stuff. anyway she said she would forget about it if i said sorry but i refused cos i was still angry.well now im waiting to go into the heads office and i dont know what to do or say? anyone done this before?please reply quick xx (link)
Next time:Apologize. Your teacher is kool.


okay well i really feel like shocking everybody tomrw at school..i have friends but i wanna be the girl all the guys want ya know?..and my friends are kinda lame and boring me..so next week is spring break and i wanna go out with a band..any ideas??.. (link)
Wear a short skirt and no thong. Cross your legs in the middle of class and wear no bra. This will catch EVERY guy's attention.


I am 19 and haven't dated in a year becuase i am tired of going out with people i know will not really mean anything. I recently started hanging out with an old friend, in which we get along great. One night a group of four people were debating and me and her agreed on everything. She is a very sweet girl and we share a strong passion for God. After my last breakup i kinda started to go away from god somewhat, and recently I have been coming back to him, and she really makes me want to countinue strengthening my walk with god. The only probly is, she is 14. (link)
Jail bait.


I want to read the book THE NOTEBOOK, and I was wondering if it is the total same as the movie. DUH- It is based on the book though LOL, but is it somewhat different or drastically different-thanks! (link)
Don't ask this ever again.


This may not sound serious but it is. I was having a nervous break down during math because of this.

I can not stand the phrase "I never knew that." It just drives me insane. Whenever I hear it I either cry or scream. I just hate the phrase. So my question is how can I get over this? I am asking this in all seriousness. My friend who has a column here (she's asking this since I can't get on) has even told me do get help for this. (link)
Wow, you have this condition. I never.... well you get the picture.




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