will boys like me if i have big breast
More than likely they will give you all the wrong attention. Anything they do that's nice to you, will probably be because they want the chance to see your breasts. So it will always be harder to separate who's genuinely being nice to you and who's trying to cop a feel. If you want all the wrong attention and attract the jerks, then show off your breasts all you want but if you want the boys who treat you right and respect you, keep them hidden in public. I hope this helps and good luck.
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its not only sex with my bf. my spirit is low im a 19 year old wth no job and i dont go to school. i know my dad is disssapointed that i got married. my mom stresses me out. im at home all day everyday cuz i lost all my friends cuz i have 0 contact and i didnt really have any GOOD friends. i have low self esteeem. i feel that my mother in law hates me.. in my eyes shes always victimizing herself in front of my husband shes so imature. i have no control over my life sometimes i dont even know how i feel. im just so numb
I'm so sorry sweetie and I totally understand about the parents. My first husband was a total dissapointment to my parents. I would look into any local military help for spouses. The military community is very family friendly and you will probably make a few friends with husbands that are away too. They may be able to help you find a job and get your own place with their help. There's nothing more satisfying than to have your own place and being responsible. If there's no military base nearby, there's probably an amvets, vfw or american legion that can steer you in the right direction. Let me know how things are going after that.
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Hi, i saw one of your responses to another lady's questions so i think asking you would help me. So I just got married a couple weeks ago but my husband is in the army so we are hardly together now. before he left and joined the army i was more fore it like the sex and stuff, and ever since he left its kinda gone down hill, it makes me feel not good because we are both young and i feel like this stuff shouldnt happen but either and im just wondering what i can do to be more into it and be more fore to the things he wants to like it used to be back then?
It's very difficult to feel romantic when your partners so far away. Just the stress of worrying about his welfare and trying to take care of thingas on your own will lower your sex drive. Try to make time for you. Schedule a relaxing massage at least once a month. If you can't afford one, find a close girlfriend and offer to trade massages. You can have drinks and have a relaxing time away from your problems. I'm not sure if your into porn but it's very healthy to fantasize and have a good orgasm at least 3 times a week. I'm not sure what your home life is now but keeping your mind clear and keeping your spirits up is a key to being happy in bed. If you need any other help, please feel free to ask me.
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I just bought my first car, but I've never even done anything with a car before. I got my license and that's about it for my whole experience with vehicles. Anyway, I know my dad has his truck warm up before he goes anywhere in the winter. I don't know if he does this so the interior is warmer for him to sit in or if it has to do with the car needing to be warmed up so it doesn't break. So, do I need to make time to warm my car up in the morning before driving to school or can I just hop in and go? It's a 1999 model so it's kind of old and used too so I really don't want to mess it up right away. K Thanks
Keep the oil changed on a regular basis and keep the gas above half tank is always a good idea. I just read this article on yahoo that may be helpful.
http://autos.yahoo.com/articles/autos_content_landing_pages/1650/eight-facts-about-warming-up-your-car-in-winter/
I hope this helps and good luck.
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so i shave down there and it always leaves bumps and makes me feel uncomfortable around my bf. i use shaving gel and a new razor and everything... i dont wanna wax it cuz it will hurt and i cant get lazer hair removal so any advice on what might help?
I have 2 separate razors in the shower. One for my legs and another for my private area. Having a nice sharp razor will help avoid pulling the hair. I always shave in the shower as it helps soften the skin and hair. Try using soap first and then apply the shaving cream. I hope this helps and good luck.
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22/f
My boyfriend is in the military and I have not seen him in over 3 months. He is coming home soon on leave. I have always been "tight" down there and sex has always been painful for the first 5 minutes or so. Anyway this is the longest I have gone in a while so I know it will be really painful. Is there anything I can do to make this less painful? ..I do not want to masturbate. Thank you.
I'm not sure of your reasoning behind not wanting to masturbate but that would be your best bet. If you can find 2 different size dildos (1 small & 1 a little larger) it would help expand your vagina and make it easier to accept his penis. Your boyfriend would probably be turned on, knowing that you know how to please yourself. He may even want to use them on you during foreplay. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. Hope this helps and good luck,
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19/f
the other night my boyfriend and i were having sex and we did it for about an hour and towards the end i didn't feel "wet" anymore and it started to hurt. I figured that it was just like that because we had sex for a long time but i still feel abnormally dry down there. is this normal?
Some women need to be turned on more than others and usually they need more forplay to keep them motivated. Regular intercourse isn't enough to keep you wet down there for that long of a time. Try changing positions and make sure he stills kisses and caresses you to keep you pleased. Rubbing your clit during sex is a good way to keep turned on but even that gets sore if you do it to long. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. Hope this helps and good luck.
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To begin with, I love my boyfriend...we always have a great time together and he is my best friend. He's the only guy I've ever done stuff more then kissing with and I've lost my virginity to him (and he lost his to me). This morning I woke up really happy because we had a date last night and it was really fun. But then I checked my facebook, and everyone else updated their status about them hanging out with friends and my best friend sent me a text and said she missed hanging out with me...I'm so confused, because I LOVE hanging out with my boyfriend, I'd rather hang out with him then anyone else, but at the same time I miss hanging out with my friends. I feel like my friends are just like "oh, she's always with her boyfriend now, she probably won't want to hang out with us anyway" and they never invite me to stuff like they used to :( I guess I have been more distant since I've been with this guy, and I miss my friends but I'd still choose to hang out with my boyfriend over hanging out with them...I don't know why but I've been craving the 'single life' lately, even though I'd never break up with my boyfriend, at least not right now. And I don't believe in 'taking a break'...if I ever broke up with him (or him with me), I couldn't ever allow us to get back together because if we can't work out the first time, then we probably can't work out the second time. So what do I do? I feel like I'm torn between my friends and my boyfriend, but I'm not...I'd rather hang out with my boyfriend. Maybe I just like the idea of being more social rather then actually doing it? A lot of times when I used to hang out with a friend, I'd get really bored and just want them to leave so I could be alone...I just don't know what's up with me! I'm so confused :( please help, any advice is appreciated!
Also, if it helps, I'm 17 and he's 18...we've been together for a little bit over a year.
Your friends are in the mindset that you're busy all the time. So to break that cycle, you need to start asking them to hang out with you at least twice a month or even every Sunday. But make sure you let your boyfriend know that you love being with him but you still really like being with your friends. He may have the same feelings but was afraid to tell you. Hope this helps and good luck.
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Everytime I get drunk I do outargeously stupid sexual thongs with people I know and each time I regret and am ashemed but then I still do It the next time and bi never learn but I always regreat!!
What is wrong with me? Why do I always have to do sexual things with guys evthat I know! Even tho I always regreat and feel ashemd the next day
Why don't I learn?
I think there's 2 things going on. I think you're unhappy at home or with some other aspect of your life. You need to find out what's making you sad and try fix it. The other thing is there's a part of you that likes acting slutty and the alcohol gives you the perfect way to act out your fantasies. I went though a period when I was pretty slutty but I didn't care what people thought and I didn't drink so much I would loose control. If you want to act that way but do care what other people think, try not doing it a party and do it away from where people know you. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Ok so I am looking for some ways to be flirty, like some good tips!! Because for some reason this year after I lost my best friend because she turned let's say bad no guys talk to me anymore just because I've lost my flirtyness. Guess you could say because I don't hang out with her anymore. Thanks(:
Build up your self confidence and try to be more outgoing. Try hanging out with large groups of people and have a broad array of subjects you're knowledgeable in. That way you can always have something to join in the conversation with. Guys notice the girl that speaks up and joins in, not the one who hids in the corner and stays home. Hope this helps and good luck.
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I'm 14/f and I masturbate a few times every week (like IDK 3 or 4 times). Well, I noticed a weird smell from my vagina and told my mom and so she made me an appointment with a doctor to get things looked at. My mom doesn't know I finger myself. Will the doctor be able to tell that I do that? I won't give you TMI but I will say that I know I made myself bigger down there from doing it. So, will the doctor say something to my mom IF he can find out I masturbate? And what do I say to my mom if he tells on me?
Whatever you say is between you and the doc. The only thing he will ask. is if you're sexually active and you can just say no. Even if he happens to ask if you've masturbated, you can fib a little and say only a few times. I've never had my gyno ask me about masturbation before so I don't think you have anything to worry about. If you have any other questions, feel free to ask me. Hope this helps and food luck.
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my brother saw me and mary kissing in a store and came up and said "i know what you did" and put the message on my facebook page and i locked my page but im afraid my mom might find me what should 'cause im freaking out and mary is trying to keep me calm me down.HELP
Delete your facebook for a while and tell your brother to butt out. If he tells your mom, say he's just lying to get attention.
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I went to this past on New Years and was having a good time. This cute guy was talking to me and we were flirting. At one point we were making out and he kept pushing me for more. I kept telling him no and that I just wanted to have a good time, no sex involved. I don't know where things went wrong. All of a sudden I found myself agreeing to give him a blow job. Everything was moving so fast and by the end of it, I felt horrible. It's not what I really wanted to happen. I mean, he was nice and everything but that wasn't me, who I am as a person.
Now I feel really guilty and depressed over it. I don't even know the guy's last name. He was practically just a stranger who was being nice to me at a party. I can't believe I did that with him. How do I get over this and feel not so bad about myself? It was a mistake.
Unfortunately this is this the first of many mistakes that you will regret in your life. The key is to learn from them and not repet them. I'm sure you were looking for approval from this guy and you let him smooth talk you into doing things you normally wouldn't. Don't beat yourself up over a simple mistake. Your human, it's ok to mess up. Hope this helps and good luck.
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so ive been dating this guy for about two weeks now but weve been talking for a month or two before we got together. I dont trust him at all and i dont know if im just paranoid or i should follow my gut.he wont check his phone when im around even when someone is blowing it up. and sometimes it will take him a few hours to text me back. the other day i looked at his phone while he was sleeping, now i didnt go through the messages i just wanted to see who had been texting him and three or four of them were girls none of which i knew..he says he wouldnt cheat on me cuz hes been cheated on but ive heard from peoplee that hes a man whore. should i trust him? orr what?
Sorry sweetie but it's time to cut your losses and let this guy go. He's been at this game for a while and knows how to play you. Find someone that you can trust. Hope thiss helps and good luck,
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You said that if I had questions on how to approach my friend then I should ask you. Well I'm completely lost and need your help
I wiah I knew hold you are but I'll give it my best shot. Start by being a good friend and try to get to know her close friends. You can get a lot of information from her friends sometimes but if she's hiding her lesbian side it may take more time. Ask her to lunch or to a movie or the mall to hang out. You can find out how someone feels about you by the way they respond to you. If she touches your arm or compliments you often. then she's interested. Then you can move on to inviting her over for a sleep over. You may not want to make a move on the first night until you're sure of how she feels. If she does happen to reject your advances, don't get discouraged, just tell her you found her attractive and interesting and thought you would like to be more than friends. I know you would like things to hurry but it's going to be a slow process. I hope you let me know how things go and you can ask me anything.
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I'm only a 14yo girl and I have started mastorbating more and more latly. It feels so good but for some reson I feel really bad when it's over. Even though I feel bad about it I can't stop. Is this normal? Should I stop?
When I was younger I would masturbate twice a day but rarely have guilty feelings. Playing with yourself is a great way to abstain from sex and a good stress reliever. Do what makes you feel good and try to let your mind relax. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. Hope this helps nd good luck.
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I'm a baby and can't tell the girl that I like, that I like her. That's because I'm a girl, and have never been with a girl or liked a girl in this way. Nobody knows, so I'm so scared of somebody finding out. So, I wrote her a message on Facebook explaining my situation. I made a fake account and told her that I didn't want to tell her who I was yet, because I needed to know how she felt about the whole situation. My question is though, is there any way she could find out it's me. I mean, I know she couldn't just because we never talk at school- she knows who I am but our school is HUGE. I'm just wondering if there's any way on Facebook she could find out who I am?
Unless she has a friend that's a computer hacker, then no she won't find out. If you want some advice on how to approach her please feel free to ask me. Hope this helps and good luck.
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So since i'm in Middle School , my friends talk about sex and i am so fed up with it , so one day my friend mary came over and since my mom and dad were gone i thought i would watch a scary movie with her , so after the movie ended we were bored so she said do i want to try something and i said yes . In a couple of minutes i had her on my stomach and she was going up and down until i just came and next thing we were doing anal sex but out of nowhere she started crying and said she loved me but im not ready
She probably doesn't show much emotion because her life outside of school is probably a mess. She sounds like she needs some stability in your life and she thought if she gave you sex you would be able to give that to her. The best thing you can do is be her friend and hang out with her but avoid any times when there's no parents around. If she brings up the sex subject again let her know you respect her more than just to use her for sex and even though you enjoyed the first time, you want to wait. Hope this helps and good luck.
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Okay, new years me and my boyfriend had sex for 6 hours on and off; we used a condom the whole time; he was a virgin, and I have had sex with two guys before him. Neither one of us got a "nut".
Well Sunday I've been really really wet. I can feel it come out of me and when I felt it, I look at my underwear and it had a big wet spot; I smelled my vagina/discharge, and it smelled like fish. Its the first time it has ever smelled like that. I took a shower, and I washed down there, I just don't understand why its smelling like that. I've been having a lot of discharge come out of me since then; its an on and off process. What is it? Why does it smell like that?
*Today I noticed that Im ovulating; could that be it?
More than likely it's part of an early menstrual cycle. I've had it happen a few times in the past and thought it was odd at first because I knew I wasn't wet from being turned on. But I've had a few experiences where I was very turned on and my vagina became extremely wet but no fish smell. If the odor continues after your period, i would try using some type of douche. I hope this helps and good luck.
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I know that prenut can make a girl pregnant, but my question is-
My boyfriend is 17, and he is still a virgin. Im 18, and I've had sex with two guys. Well tonight, things got a little hot and heavy, and he asked if he could just stick it in, just so he could see what it feels like. So I let him. He didn't have a condom on, but he moved it in and out three times, and than pulled out because he thought he was starting to build up cum. He really only had it in for two minutes top. It was very quick. Im a little nervous he might have pre-nutted in me; but my friends are saying I have nothing to worry about because it wasn't long enough? I know it doens't take long to get pregnant, and I know I can off of pre-nut; I always use a condom, but this time I didn't because he just wanted to stick it in for a second.
Do you think Im pregnant?
*He said before he stuck it back in, he felt the top of it to make sure no pre-nut was there, and he said he didn't feel anything, and he knows 100% he didn't cum in me.
Please give me your opinions on if I could possibly be pregnant, and what the chances of me being pregnant are. Thanks!
I'm not sure what's in pre-cum but I know it's purpose is to clear the passage for sperm to come out clean. Even though he may have thought he didn't cum, all it takes is a little bit and for him to go all the way in for semen to enter your body. Chances are though from what you've told me is your safe for now. Just be really careful in the future though
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