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keep making same slutty mistake
Everytime I get drunk I do outargeously stupid sexual thongs with people I know and each time I regret and am ashemed but then I still do It the next time and bi never learn but I always regreat!!
What is wrong with me? Why do I always have to do sexual things with guys evthat I know! Even tho I always regreat and feel ashemd the next day
Why don't I learn?
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the answer is really simple "STOP DRINKING" and then you wont have to do "any outrageously stupid sexual things".
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The answer is in the question. If you only do this whenever you drink, then stop drinking. To answer your question, you do this stuff when you drink because alcohol impairs your judgement. You do stuff that sober you would know is a bad idea. If you care enough to try to stop yourself from doing these things, then you'll have to stop drinking. Best of luck, Jess.
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Maybe you should cut back on drinking if that is what happens when you drink? Or have someone with you when you drink who wont allow you to do that. You will learn. I've been there.
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I would lay off the drinks for a little bit. Figure out who you really are and if you wanna go on to keep regretting things like this. If you really don't want to stop drinking let your friends know that you don't want to be left alone with a guy at parties or whenever you do these crazy things.
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I think there's 2 things going on. I think you're unhappy at home or with some other aspect of your life. You need to find out what's making you sad and try fix it. The other thing is there's a part of you that likes acting slutty and the alcohol gives you the perfect way to act out your fantasies. I went though a period when I was pretty slutty but I didn't care what people thought and I didn't drink so much I would loose control. If you want to act that way but do care what other people think, try not doing it a party and do it away from where people know you. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Every time you get drunk it's like an excuse. When you drink, you know that you can do outrageous things and you can blame it on the booze. It's like a way to say you couldn't control yourself, even though in reality you can to an extent.
For one, stop drinking so much. If it only happens when you're drunk, then you shouldn't be drinking.
And two, have some will power. There are a lot of times I could have done silly or stupid things when I was drunk, but even in my drunken state I thought about the consequences and realized it wasn't worth it.
When you get drunk, your brain works slower. It takes longer to process things. If you're getting so unbelievably drunk that you can't even consider saying no, then I don't think you should be drinking at all.
The reason why I think you don't learn is because you do want to do outrageous things with guys and act like it's none of your fault because you were drinking. If guys you know are letting you do this too then you might want to reconsider your friendships with them. What kind of guy friend takes advantage of their drunk female friend?
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